yona

@yichuhehua (160)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Your boyfriend /girlfriend left you..Life Goes on

adhyz82 @adhyz82 (36248) • Indonesia 9 Nov 11

I dedicated this discussion for some people especially around me who feel their world is ended when their lover had left them... C`mon my friend..the world will continue even your boyfriend or girlfriend had left you..you still...

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yona i think pepole who do such thing is stupid, there are so many friends around you, including your parents, nobody must be your moon or sun, and no one will be suffocated by leaving others, we should make happiness for ourselves

9 Nov 11

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With love our life is so complete, but without love, we can still live

adhyz82 @adhyz82 (36248) • Indonesia 9 Nov 11

someday some "stupid people" are really losing their motivation for living because they lost their lover..yeah, i agree that it`s hurt when we see our lover did not love you..but why you must think stupid things because...

life

love

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yona yeah,everyone has the ability to make oneself happy,and the biggest happiness should be given by yourself,especially for women. The life is always full of colourful,so we should make joy and happiness by ourselves.

9 Nov 11

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How would you prefer to die - being sick for long time or sudden death ?

tigerlily1972 @tigerlily1972 (502) • Germany 4 Mar 10

This has been the question i have often asked myself during those years while tending to my bedridden mother-in-law. She had a Stroke which slowly took all her strength and she slowly went into Parkinsons disease. I took care of...

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yona Maybe i like suddern death, that will give me less pain and less pressure for my family.

4 Mar 10

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When was the last time you got sick?

p3ks626 @p3ks626 (6538) • Philippines 4 Mar 10

I have a friend who always catch a cold. Every time the weather changes, she also catch a cold. What's even worst is when she catches a cold, she gets the flu and she's really very sick. Last year, she got sick like many times....

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yona Let me see, ohh,i have not been sick for more than a year. The last time is in the last year,i have catch a cold. My body is very healthy, susally i have catch a cold one time every one year. i figure it is better for people to find the regular pattern of the...

4 Mar 10

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if you had committed a crime..will surrender yourself directly to the police??

acie_21 @acie_21 (5633) • Philippines 3 Mar 10

hi mylotters! hmmmm....honestly speaking with out second thoughts will you surrender yourself to the police?? like for example...you didnt notice an old woman crossing the street..and accidentally bumped her... what will you...

crime

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yona Yeah, i will take my responsbilty of what i have done, even been arrested. If i donot tell the ture, my heart will be worried. That is more painful than in the jail.

4 Mar 10

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The Balance of life

SAMoralee @SAMoralee (95) 15 Jan 10

What do you all do to keep a balance between, family, work and fun do you feel pressured by this subject...please be open

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yona I think i ocan keep the balance between the family and the work. i am not that person who can work without family. No matter how heavythe work, i will consider the family, if i feel i am not balance them, i will change my work.

15 Jan 10

What jewelry are you wearing?

DenverLC @DenverLC (1143) • Philippines 15 Jan 10

Are you using any jewelry? and how precious is it to you? For me I have and sometimes using a gold plated watch with diamond stones a little. It is precious to me because it came from my late grandpa. He gave me this jewelry when...

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yona I have a necklace of silver.Maybe it is not worth, i like it because it is my boyfriend giving me. Almost everyday i wear it, and many years past, it is beautifull as before.

15 Jan 10

What should you be doing, rather than being online?

Romaniac @Romaniac (53) • United States 14 Jan 10

Instead of being online, while my fiance is at work. I should be cleaning the house. I should be cleaning the kitchen, and the bedroom, and the living room, and I should probably also take the dogs out. I need to call comcast,...

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yona Instead of being online, i should be studying, i should writie my papers, i should clean my house, i should make a telephone call to my parents, i should make a aboundance meal for my boyfriend and so on.

15 Jan 10

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After breaking up with your BF /GF,whether you were still contact them?

samire @samire (54) • China 14 Jan 10

Some time ago,with my former boyfriend broke up,but the phone is still left his phone number,each time I open my phone,there is always the urge to call him,but I know this is no longer possible and good,but I could not bear to...

phone

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yona Hi,i can see you are care much of your BF,i think you should not delete his number,broke up with him is an usual thing, the important thing is to clear up the misunderstanding.So you sould have a heart-to-heart talk with him. wish you good luck!

15 Jan 10

Do You Think We Should Say Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays?

ladym33 @ladym33 (10979) • United States 24 Dec 09

Some people get highly offended by the words Merry Christmas because not everyone is Christian. Usually I will say Happy Holidays just in case, but if I know the people I am talking to are Christians I will say Merry Christmas....

holidays

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yona I figure, say merry chrismas on the chrismas day is just a symbol of greeting. people around me will not care if one is christian or not. So, i can say merry chrismas to everyone without considering who he is.

25 Dec 09

Do you believe asking questions in schools should be encouraged?

hireshd @hireshd (490) • India 12 Dec 09

Hi friends, I remember when I was in school many a times the teacher used to get angry if some question was asked by the student, which really had created a impression in my mind that asking questions is not right but this...

childhood

question and answer

student

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yona Sure, asking queasions should be encouraged! students who aks questions means he understood the meaning of what the teacher said. This doing should be credit. and as you say, if they were encourage from childhood, they will develop a logical thinking and maybe...

13 Dec 09

Welcome 2010 ,

bhav27 @bhav27 (442) • India 13 Dec 09

Wow just wow as new year is coming up , i wonder if it happen with me or with everyone else also at every year's end i am with a feeling it passed so fast , damn why this is feeling is not with my exams :( lolz but whatever i am...

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yona Yeah, in the past year, we learnt a lot and maybe went though some troubles, any way , we past. Now before us is the new year, and in the coming year, i hope everyone can do the things they want to do, and everyone can realise their dream!

13 Dec 09

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how many of u believe in god

bharadwaz @bharadwaz (112) • India 13 Dec 09

Hi.. i believe in god.....many people doen't believe in god this was for those people....in my life many incidents happend with god's grace and my sugession to those who not believe in god.....trust god and u get the things...

trust the god

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yona Yeah ,i believe in god. i believe my life is arranged by the god. When i do fail the things, i think this is the god's meaning, maybe i should not do it. so i trast god and hope god can give me a happy life.

13 Dec 09

Have you ever felt alienated by your friends?

anaaibachan @lizbenetua (637) • Philippines 12 Dec 09

Friends are suppose to be there to help you, and to encourage. However, sometimes, there will be times when a friend is not there for you. For example, when they decide to go abroad. At first the communication is constant, then...

alientated by friends

friends

friends who forget you

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yona Yeah, i have the same feeling as you. A friend of mine in the middle school, we do everything together then, go on study, have meals, go shopping, but when she has a boyfriend, she does not do things with me, although i know it is not her foult, i still feel i...

13 Dec 09

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Moms can't cook. What's your opinion?

kevchua @kevchua (1004) • Malaysia 3 Sep 09

In the olden days, if a woman doesn't know how to cook, it's not easy to get a husband. That's what happened in my country. Don't know if it happens in yours too. Over the past decade, I've noticed a new "trend" - some moms do not...

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yona Yean, this phonemena is really exist. at the age of my mom', nearly all the woman can do cook. but at our generation, there is few famal can do. because we are singlton, parents always spoil us, they may not concern about love. so as we grow up, we can not do...

4 Sep 09

Do you bargain to shop?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 26 Jun 09

It makes me imensely happy to bargain and for this I often make the salesman cry and run for his job. Bargain is a must if you want to purchase a product at reasonable prices and that too at some good store and shop to the...

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yona Yeah, i have bargain when i go shopping. this makes me happy. and always, the price marked do not match with the product, it is too high, so this time i can bargain too much money, even a half of the peice.

26 Jun 09

Do you like sea food?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 26 Jun 09

Sea food Oh for those prawns and shrimps, the lobsters and the yummy snakes! I just love them all, but regret that none of them is availabe in my city. Its only one chinese resturant which is going to serve it but that too in...

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yona Yeah,i like sea food very much! My home town is not far away from the sea, so from the childhood i have eat too many sea food.

26 Jun 09

Saving Money For Vacation...

Shar19 @Shar19 (8231) • United States 26 Jun 09

Whenever we plan a vacation I try to set a certain amount of money aside. I usually just get an envelope and mark it "vacation". Then I put a little money in it throughout the year. Well this year I didn't do that so I'm saving...

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yona Hi, shar19, you have a good idear to save money, hehe, i want to have a vocation ,so i will save money from now on, and i can take your methord.

26 Jun 09

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Is so easy for people who mother tongue is English to be more popular here...

marianna45 @marianna45 (1399) • Romania 26 Jun 09

I can say that i am really jealouse , people who speak English very good can answer and start discussions so easy. If i can answer to one question, they will answer in same time to 5 questions. Ihn same time they can exprim...

mylot

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yona Yeah, you are right. i am not good at english too. So everyday i can just reply about 10 topics. maybe it is not easy for us to earn money quickly through mylot, but we can practise our poor english here,right?

26 Jun 09

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