AyaMiami

@AyaMiami (95)

United States • Age 52

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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AyaMiami's Comments

I'm just confussed

MommieMoney @MommieMoney (102) • United States 6 Feb 07

So, I've been posting here for a few days. I know I haven't done much but I posted a bit last night and yesterday but I didn't earn anything from any of it. Can someone please explain how everything works here? Do you get a...

make extra money

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AyaMiami Stars are given after you reach 100 posts. I too wish the equation were public knowledge, just so I would have a clue. lol I don't want to waste anyone's time if my posts aren't what they consider "quality".

7 Feb 07

Why can't we get enough of watching "predators" being caught?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 6 Feb 07

We've all seen it millions of times. Dateline series where they catch online predators. Something about it draws us to it each time and once again, this evening they're airing another online predator one but this time with the...

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AyaMiami Go and check out the perverted-justice.com website. I know alot of the shows on TV have worked with them. It honestly doesn't take long to get these guys to agree to meet some place. Perverted Justice shows the chats that take place. Just be prepared, some...

7 Feb 07

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Tell me about your job?

faerieingrey @faerieingrey (323) • United States 3 Feb 07

I'm just curious what most people here do to earn money besides being on Mylot. Myself, I am mostly a waitress in a breakfast restaurant. I also do the dishes and occasionally do some small cooking tasks. Aside from that, I do...

life

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AyaMiami You shouldn't say you're a "simple" house wife. There's nothing simple about cleaning, cooking, helping the kids with homework. Be proud of what you do for your family! There's lots of kids out there that just wish their mom and dad could be home to help...

6 Feb 07

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define responsibility..?

jolope @jolope (987) • Philippines 6 Feb 07

i am 19..and no, i'm not yet a mother.. i just to know about your opinion on my burden.. when i was 18, my mother told me to have a job..by the way, im not living with her..im with my grandmother and my aunt.. i didn't want to...

hurt

love

responsibility

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AyaMiami If living at home until you're 26 is customary for you, then I understand your resentment. I hope you can get past it and continue to do well in school. Do you think speaking out to your mom will solve anything though? Do you think it will change her mind?

6 Feb 07

Do you give into the hype of limited edition products?

AyaMiami @AyaMiami (95) • United States 5 Feb 07

I have to admit, I often buy things just because they are "limited edition". Mac cosmetics seems to have this type of sales scheme down. If something is listed as limited edition I am more likely to want to make a purchase.

cosmetics

limited edition

mac cosmetics

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AyaMiami I'm a sucker for packaging as well. I can't wait to see the new Mac for Barbie packaging. I actually didn't buy any of the products from Lure, surprisingly.

5 Feb 07

Could you live without a computer?

AyaMiami @AyaMiami (95) • United States 5 Feb 07

I am extremely attached to my computer. I can go without it for a week for vacation but otherwise, I gotta have it. Could you do without a computer? What would you miss most if you had to do without?

computers

living without

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AyaMiami haha! Too funny! We gotta remember the family. I admit sometimes I take my laptop on trips too.

5 Feb 07

Could you live without a computer?

AyaMiami @AyaMiami (95) • United States 5 Feb 07

I am extremely attached to my computer. I can go without it for a week for vacation but otherwise, I gotta have it. Could you do without a computer? What would you miss most if you had to do without?

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AyaMiami I met my husband in Yahoo chat as well! He's going to school right now for computer forensics so our house is filled with computers.

5 Feb 07

Could you live without a computer?

AyaMiami @AyaMiami (95) • United States 5 Feb 07

I am extremely attached to my computer. I can go without it for a week for vacation but otherwise, I gotta have it. Could you do without a computer? What would you miss most if you had to do without?

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AyaMiami I'm not sure it's unhealthy. I just do alot of communicating through my computer. I met my husband online. I use the computer to pay most of my bills. Shopping is often done online as well as research. It's aided me in many ways.

5 Feb 07

Do you use MAC Cosmetics?

ma_belle @ma_belle (1357) • United States 2 Feb 07

How long have you used MAC? Do you have any staples? Do you like the limited edition releases? What are your favorites, limited editions or regular line?I have been using MAC for a few years now. My staples include shroom...

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AyaMiami You really should get go get your makeup done. It's fun. I too was intimidated but I ended up being friends with the artist. I hope you'll try it out soon.

5 Feb 07

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Shower gel vs Soap

AyaMiami @AyaMiami (95) • United States 4 Feb 07

Do you have a preference for bathing? Do you use shower gel or bar soap? I've been using shower gel for years. Sometimes I've used bar soap but not often. Shower gel just seems more convenient to me.

bath

shower gel

soap

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AyaMiami There's nothing worse than mushy soap! I hate when it leaves that scum behind wherever it's been left sitting. Bleah! I think I need to buy some pretty dispensers for my bathroom.

5 Feb 07

Shower gel vs Soap

AyaMiami @AyaMiami (95) • United States 4 Feb 07

Do you have a preference for bathing? Do you use shower gel or bar soap? I've been using shower gel for years. Sometimes I've used bar soap but not often. Shower gel just seems more convenient to me.

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AyaMiami Thanks bunches for the advice on ratings. I'm enjoying the conversations on MyLot. Blessings and MM to you too.

5 Feb 07

congestive heart failure

getnbuy @getnbuy (1312) • United States 11 Nov 06

Does anybody else have this? I am only 64, too young to have it, they tell me. But I do. I can't walk without getting all out of breath. I would like to correspond with someone that has this.

congestive heart failure

only 64

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AyaMiami Controlling fluid is definitely the key. For quite awhile I had to limit my fluid intake. I was allowed 2 liters a day, and that included any fluid in soups, fruits, etc. Controlling sodium has been so helpful as well. It's amazing the amount of sodium you...

5 Feb 07

congestive heart failure

getnbuy @getnbuy (1312) • United States 11 Nov 06

Does anybody else have this? I am only 64, too young to have it, they tell me. But I do. I can't walk without getting all out of breath. I would like to correspond with someone that has this.

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AyaMiami I wasn't supposed to have any more children after my son (who's 14). When my cardiologist found out I was pregnant he wasn't too happy. I had a cardiologist visiting me every day, a couple of times a day, while in the hospital for my c-section.

5 Feb 07

Feel like I am dipping into depression mode. Read and Help?

michele609 @michele609 (1687) • United States 4 Feb 07

I am a 23 year old female that has many goals that i was to achieve in life. Thats the good part. Well anyway I have 2 wonderful children which are 6 years old. As you may figure once you seen my age and their age that I was a...

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AyaMiami I agree with Willowlady's suggestion. Definitely check with the college for child care. Sometimes they have a daycare on campus because it helps students persue their child development degrees. Also, perhaps you could move into college housing? I lived in...

4 Feb 07

Shower gel vs Soap

AyaMiami @AyaMiami (95) • United States 4 Feb 07

Do you have a preference for bathing? Do you use shower gel or bar soap? I've been using shower gel for years. Sometimes I've used bar soap but not often. Shower gel just seems more convenient to me.

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AyaMiami I have a foamer. Have you seen these? I mix my shower gel with water and put it into this dispenser and it comes out as a foam. It takes about 1 part shower gel to 3 parts water. It really helps stretch the gel and makes it more economical.

4 Feb 07

Domestic Violence-Why do so many women continue to put up with it?

micheleg4153 @micheleg4153 (31) • United States 4 Feb 07

I just can't understand it. A man you think you love and think loves you gets increasingly controlling long before he first hits you. The need for him to control you is the first sign. Why let it get beyond that? But women do....

abuse

crime

domestic violence

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AyaMiami I don't think telling someone who's already in an abusive realationship that they are stupid brings about anger in them. They don't think normally because their self esteem has been knocked into the dirt. They feel like they've made some mistakes and now...

4 Feb 07