Cathy1263

@Cathy1263 (32)

United States • Age 61

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Cute or not so cute kitty names...What is the name of your cat?

tjades @tjades (3591) • Jamaica 28 May 09

The first cat I can remember us owning was called Marley. It was a female cat. We were kids and I do not know how we came up with that name. There was a gold cat called Goldie. It was a gold colored...

cats

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Cathy1263 As a child I had a tiger cat with white paws and we called her Sneakers. We found a female kitten only a few weeks old abandoned in our yard 2 years ago. We bottle fed her and she is healthy and strong, we named her Muffin, my 3 year old daughter calls her...

29 May 09

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How serious can internet love be?

laine17 @laine17 (17) • United States 27 May 09

So I've been talking to a guy online for a year now, and i guess it's serious - we say we are in love, we spend every minute we can talking to each other. We've seen each other in pics and on cam but he's in another country, so we...

dating

long distance relationships

online dating

relationships

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Cathy1263 I too had spend a few years online talking and chatting with people from personal ads and dating sites. I met alot of people too. Please beware!! ALot of people you only talk to and never meet may not be who they say they are. Pictures can also be deceiving...

28 May 09

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Are you a working mum or stay at home mum?

lindsey3uk @lindsey3uk (3) 22 May 09

All my mummy friends are starting to go back to work. Our children are about 9 months old and everyone is having to start missing out on our days out due to work commitments. Whilst I know it is important to earn money I have...

parents

working

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Cathy1263 I went from single working, financially secure woman to stay-at-home Mom after working for 25 years. I would never trade raising my child for anything but I did pay a big price when it came to my financial status. I am dependant on my childs father for...

22 May 09

tattoos

katiespurlock @katiespurlock (6) • United States 22 May 09

what does everybody think about tattoos on women i am 25 and i have 12.

tattoos

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Cathy1263 Wow, 25 tatoos, I can't even imagine where you put all those on your body!!! I did not get my first tatoo till I was 38 and I got my second after my daughter was born so only 2 for me. I love them, they are a symbal of the love I have for my daughter and my...

22 May 09

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Could use some help with this

karpatzio @karpatzio (106) • Israel 21 May 09

Alright, there's this girl that i like. I used to be one of her highschool crushes (she seemed to have had a lot), I should have gone out with her 2 years ago but it didn't happen and she went abroad. One month before coming...

love

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Cathy1263 I would try to get her alone away from her friends and your friends and ask her what kind of relationship is she wanting from you and if you get a straight answer then you should know what to do from there. If she only wants friends and you can deal with that...

21 May 09

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Do you believe in love through internet?

YazEid @YazEid (1139) • Philippines 20 May 09

The communication revolution changed the way through which people meet, in old ages love and wedding were limited to family and relatives. after that dating started to be a pre-love or pre- marriage condition.. All the old...

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Cathy1263 Well, I met a wonderful man online. We dated for about a year, split up for about a year (he had some commitment issues) but we remained friends, then we got back together and have been together ever since. We are the proud parents of a 3 year old daughter and...

21 May 09

66 yr old mom criticized. is she realy selfish?

cainam @cainam (493) • Philippines 18 May 09

i've read in the internet about a 66 yr old woman who is now 8 month pregnant. some are saying her to be selfish because she is too old to be a mom that she may not be able to take care of her child because of her old age.. i...

old mom

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Cathy1263 I personally think this woman is not really thinking about the future of her unborn child. The average person lives to be 75-80. How is she going to be able to chase around a toddler or a teenager for that matter. I am in my forties with a 3 year old and I...

21 May 09

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What is your pet's name?

Phyrre @phyrre (2317) • United States 21 May 09

I'm always very curious about this one. Right now we have a bunny named Mephistopheles (Staphi for short), named that way because he's evil and has the blackest eyes ever (even though he's absolutely adorable). But I always get...

animal

name

pet

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Cathy1263 I have a pure-breed AKC registered Long Haired Chihuahua. His parents were show dogs, his fathers name is Stonewall Jackson ( they called him Stoney), his mother Golden Nugget ( they called her Goldie) so I named him Mica, trying to stay in the mineral/rock...

21 May 09

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***Who believes in Big Foot??***

tabsnlos @tabsnlos (587) • United States 21 May 09

I was watching something the other day on "BigFoot" and there are a bunch of people who truely believe in this creature. They say they have all this evidence, photos and so on...but still nothing to truely "Prove" it really exist....

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Cathy1263 The Bigfoot/Sasquatch sightings have been going on for a long time, and there are alot of believers and skeptics. I have watched quite a few programs and specials on this subject also. Seeing is believing, but some of the photos out there are hard to prove it...

21 May 09

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good bye friend

mkchaves @mkchaves (530) • Canada 21 May 09

good bye friend. that's what i had yesterday. after hours of talking over the phone, in the end he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. i met a good person, someone who made my lonely heart smile. we always talk over the...

bye

friends

good bye

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Cathy1263 It sounds kinda strange that saying you like him, caused him to want to stop talking to you. You never even met him. I don't think I would lose too much sleep over this one. I think he might have some issues that you or your friend will never know. Maybe he...

21 May 09

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How do you recreate trust ?

MehaDawn @MehaDawn (13) • United States 21 May 09

Recently my husband and I have been fighting a lot. We fight about bills, the children, our friends, even our 9-Ball Pool team. I think we fight because there is no trust in each other. We trusted each other in the beginnign of...

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Cathy1263 I will not say it is impossible to regain trust, but it is a hard thing to accomplish. I tell my stepdaughter all the time, once you lose trust is is very hard to get back, if at all. It takes alot of time, patience, and alot of baby steps to gain the trust...

21 May 09

Cutting your hair after a break-up

beamsey @beamsey (425) • Philippines 15 May 09

Why is it that people cut their hair when they go through a break-up? Some of my friends have cut their hair and they emerge out of the parlor looking very pleased and happy with themselves. I've never done this but I know a lot...

breakups

hair

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Cathy1263 I believe this hair cut is a way of saying "I need a change, a fresh start". Alot of times when a relationship ends the parties involved try something new, different, in hopes to clear the air and start in a new direction.

21 May 09

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The Mom Wars who is to blame and your thoughts

meandmy3 @meandmy3 (2227) • United States 12 May 09

So I have been giving a lot of thought lately to the so called mom wars. You know working moms against stay at home moms, attachment parenting vs CIO, vaccination, circumcision, etc, you get the point. It seems that their are...

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Cathy1263 I personally don't worry about what other people think or say when it comes to raising my child. Each family situation is different and each child is different. Each mother should do what is best for her child. Don't worry about what age to take the bottle...

14 May 09

Honey ,please tell me the truth...

jia521tao @jia521tao (50) • China 12 May 09

Honey,please tell me the truth Do you really love me? If you really love me Why do you always complian of my dressing? If you really love me Why do you always ask me to have a good figure? I konw you want me to be more...

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Cathy1263 If someone truly loves you, they love you for you. You should not have to change anything about yourself. In a relationship, it does take work from both sides but true love is unconditional. Accept me as I am, or move on.

14 May 09

What can you say to the person who tell you this?

AltheGreat2430 @AltheGreat2430 (2716) • Philippines 13 May 09

I started a discussion about withdrawing my PayPal money when I person offered his "so called" help. This is what he told me through PM: [b]"The amount was so small pre.. What I'm planning is I gonna withdraw your funds using...

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Cathy1263 Althegreat, your money is " Your Money". Do not let anyone else handle that for you unless that person is a trusted family member or friend. Even then be cautious. Money does funny things to people and I would no trust very many people with my funds. So...

14 May 09

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Anyone else here that is an "older" mom of a young daughter?

kelbel39 @kelbel39 (60) • United States 13 May 09

I am a 40 year old mother of a sixteen month old daughter, my first daughter. I also have one son, age sixteen years. Are any of you also the older mother of a very young daughter? If so, do you also occasionally get comments at...

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Cathy1263 I had my first and only daugher at age 42. I tried previously for several years and my little angel finally arrived in 2006. I have been told I look young for my age. I did have one experience in a Walmart, the cashier asked if she was mine, I was like yes,...

14 May 09

What is a friend for you?

France7 @France7 (385) • Philippines 13 May 09

"Real friends came down from heaven, sent down to lead our way and light our path." What do you think about this definition of a friend? How do you define a friend? Your comments are gladly welcomed friends:)

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Cathy1263 For me, a real friend is someone you can tell anything to, say anything to, and be there for each other whatever life throws at you. A true friend accepts you for you, no questions asked. I have a true friend and am thankful everyday she is in my life.

14 May 09

House Share

chillpill90 @chillpill90 (1936) 14 May 09

I currently live in a university house with 3 people who i had never met before. One of them moved in the same day as me and everything was ok at first then he got all clingy and basically stalked me phoned me all the time and...

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Cathy1263 WOW, sounds like it time to pack and run as fast as you can. Make sure to get all your things and never have to go back. I am sure you can find better living arrangements than that. GOod Luck!!

14 May 09

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What to do with a long term boyfriend....

nrn2003 @nrn2003 (661) • United States 22 Apr 09

So I have been with my boyfriend about eight years. we were high school sweethearts and still love one another now...He ist he only guy i have ever been with and the only guy i want to be with. I did alot of drinking partying in...

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Cathy1263 I spent 10 years with a man that would never change for me. He also had his addictions that were way more important than I was. He also cheated. I struggled and struggled with being unhappy and finally got the courage to leave him. I was scared, but relieved...

12 May 09

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i hate what he does but still im with him and cant leave him!

christian1 @christian1 (134) • Greece 6 May 09

'understanding your partner' maybe the thing i must to learn.because i hate the things he does like the way he talks to others,the way he throw his shoes on the cupboard,and my ears are tired from being asked "where is my key,my...

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Cathy1263 You have to look out for yourself, because it sounds like no one else is. A partnership should be equal, but most times it is not. Believe me when I say you probably won't ever change him unless he wants to change. You either accept your partner as they are or...

12 May 09

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