JinBinLai

@JinBinLai (52)

China • Age 36

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Do you work well with pressure or not?

thatsjvl @jvincent_129 (4994) • Philippines 5 Nov 12

Some people work excellently with pressure because they use it as motivation to be at their best. But some people get intimidated with pressure because it makes them afraid to fail and makes them feel nervous. How about you...

person

pressure

work

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JinBinLai Proper level of pressure is good and motivative, but pressure of too high can lead you to bad state. Pressure is also the result of one's feeling of the world, the same situation may appeare very different from two person, one feels very easy, the other feels...

5 Nov 12

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How do you enjoy your life?

seliokas @seliokas (346) • Lithuania 27 Oct 12

Hello mylotters, How do you enjoy your life? Having fun with friends? Keen into Hobby? Taking care of your children? Enjoying time with loving Girlfriend/wife? I want to know how you enjoy life, give certain examples :) ,...

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JinBinLai I always set some goals for my life and keep toward forward to realize them, in that way, I have gotten the sence of achievements, I also enjoy life by traveling different places and meeting some different persons.

27 Oct 12

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My friend's husband told his girl friend (as in gal pal ) that she's ugly

Raine38 @Raine38 (12391) • United States 27 Oct 12

Well, not really outright "ugly" but here's the thing. My friend was browsing her husband's phone. I didn't ask why, but she came across one text message from this certain girl that's a friend of her husband from work. It says,...

cellphone message of husband

husband

wife

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JinBinLai If the couple sincerely loves each other, they are both the most beatiful in each one's eyes. There may be someone who is prettier than your lover, but compare to others, your lover is the most special for you.

27 Oct 12

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I hate waiting in long queue

Belle_of_the_Ball @Belle_of_the_Ball (896) • Philippines 24 Oct 12

Going to the bank,especially at BDO, really pisses me off. I also have to stand in a long queue every time I have a transaction. Do you also experience this? It takes too much of my precious time.What's worse is,some bank tellers...

bank

bank teller

rude bank tellers

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JinBinLai It was really a problem to waste time in waiting in a long queue. So I avoided waiting as long as I can, like withdrawling money on an ATM, book the train tickets on internet.

24 Oct 12

Do you greet people you don't personally know when it's their birthday?

sharksfin @sharksfin (1091) • Philippines 24 Oct 12

In this age of technology and cyber world, we get to be linked to people we don't really know. They could be friends of friends, someone who just invited you to be connected ...lotsa possible ways to know more people. Like, I have...

birthday

greeting

people

social networking site

stranger

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JinBinLai I don't greet strangers for their birthdays, I actually haven't much time to remember these and I even forgot some good friends' birthdays.

24 Oct 12

How many

lologirl2021 (Holly) @lologirl2021 (5542) • United States 23 Oct 12

responses do you respond to in one day? How many discussions do you start? I would like to know this because i know there are so many people here that can get more than one dollar a day. I work a full time job and right now im...

discussions

mylot

responses

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JinBinLai OK, for my situation, I'm here to learn some real English as I'm not a native English speaker. So I don't quite mind how much money I'v got, and I spend as much time as I can here to learn to using English. I guess you should do dozens of responds per day so...

23 Oct 12

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1 person

how to forget someone you love?

girlthing62989 @girlthing62989 (103) • Philippines 22 Oct 12

My boyfriend told me that he needs space. He needs time for himself, family and friends and i told him that it is okay. but the truth is, it isnt okay. I am really hurt I dont know how to move on, how to continue life without him,...

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JinBinLai Maybe it's real that he doesn't love you, it's the fact,and love can't rexist reluctanly.So just consider it like that: you let slip a guy who doesn't love you, and the guy pass up a lady who devote passion to him, I would say how pityful for him, and you are...

23 Oct 12

what do you do when the cooking goes wrong

41Combedale @41CombedaleRoad (5952) • Greece 22 Oct 12

I recently went to a party where people had made all sorts of things for people to eat while they were there. I had made something too, with great care, although it was an anonymous dish as were all the others. Someone passed...

bad cooks

cooking

party food

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JinBinLai Well, if the friend make the food is acquainted with me, and he/she is my good friend, maybe I will make jokes with the friend about the unsavoury foods and his/her bad cooking skills. If it's not my very good friend making the foods, I will politly make some...

23 Oct 12

I can't inspire people

tedifa @tedifa (1232) • Indonesia 21 Oct 12

I have a dream that someday i become successful person,then i will inspire people to follow my successful and give some motivations for them.My question,right now i'm still in process to become successful and still working.How can...

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JinBinLai Act like a winner, and you will be a winner, this motto tell me success is not the end but the process, what you do in process is quite more improtant than what you finally get. So it is always the process inspire people not the sucess result. How to inspire...

22 Oct 12

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Little tips to stay healthy?

GemmaR @GemmaR (8517) 20 Oct 12

As we know, there are a lot of people who are struggling to stay healthy at the moment. One of the things that I think is bad about health is the fact that more people than ever are choosing to sit at their laptop for hours each...

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JinBinLai I think moderate sports, regular diet and sleeping, good mental state all these factors lead to healthy life. In some ways, health is just some good habits, and it actually is.

21 Oct 12

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Why Every Woman Should Be Financially Independent? Even the Married one...

aliahnicole69 @aliahnicole69 (231) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

Money causes a lot of arguments between couples,only because it's a topic we're not usually comfortable discussing,make sure he is mature enough to understand that equality in income is not the standard for a happy marriage,that...

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JinBinLai If someone want to be independent in personality he/she first must be independant in finance, whether someone is he or she. On the other hands, taking a job means you taking part in social activities more or less, these will make your mental and physical...

21 Oct 12

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What do you prefer? To go by bike to work OR you cram into a bus ?

puiuioandaniel @puiuioandaniel (182) • Romania 19 Oct 12

I'm sorry I have not included the people who have car and use them but this topic is created for my pure curiosity. What people choose? To make some sports while you go to work or to smell many odors of the people on the bus?...

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JinBinLai I usually went to work by subway or bus and seldom by bike. In our city here, the air is bad on the road, the bike lanes are not complite and are quite shabby, plus my work place is a bit far away from my house, so I have chosen to take bus or subway to work...

20 Oct 12

i had never been in any kind of competition

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 19 Oct 12

i know a lot of competition had experienced being in some kind of competition. either in school or any kind of small programs in their school classed. i think i have been in some not so serious competition. but i can't call that...

competition

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JinBinLai I would like to say that it's quite good for you to have this chance of competition. The results of this competition may not be so important for you and some other members, it's more important to learn from and enjoy the process of competition. You will learn...

20 Oct 12

My brother in law is very introvert by nature..

subhojit10 @subhojit10 (7375) • India 19 Oct 12

Hey guys, the day my sister got married i knew she would have a tough time at her in laws house as my brother in law was very introvert by nature. This is because my sister is very much talkative and friendly. He hardly speaks any...

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JinBinLai It's really unacceptalbe for me to get such a very introvert man as my relatives. But the one marry and get along to this man is the sister, if she have chosen the guy she love,I would accept the introvert brother in laws then. If they are happy together, I...

20 Oct 12

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A lot of spam emails

aritahime @aritahime (221) • Indonesia 18 Oct 12

It's driving me crazy! I've got more than 700 spam emails this months. Most of them contains links, and some of them promising a huge amount of money. But, there was one weird email that I got. On the email written that I could...

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JinBinLai I have received spam emails because nowadays emailbox has the functions of shielding the junk mails. It's better to keep alert when receiving junk emails.

19 Oct 12

Sharing secrete with friends is fine?

sriroshan @sriroshan (2585) • India 17 Oct 12

Do you share everything that has happen in your daily life with your friends? It is said sharing the good and bad incidence that takes place in our life with friends are good since it relaxed our tension. But how far it is true or...

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JinBinLai If you do really want to make sth a secret, never tell anyone including your closest friends and family. A secret disappered when it's told out. In other words, you ough to take it easy when you make a decision to share the secrets.

17 Oct 12

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UN DAY: Have you made a Flag Before?

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 16 Oct 12

Hello Lotters, Last Night my Mom told me to make two kinds of flags. one is for South Korea and one is Bangladesh. It reminds that that United Nations day is nearing, that my elder nephew and niece are going to...

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JinBinLai I have made a flag of PRC when I was in kindergarten. That demanded my drawing skill and manual skill. All we get first was a piece of pure white cloth and a little wood pole, it was quite interesting while I recall the scene of a kid drawing and pasting.

17 Oct 12

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what will you do when you are alone

paopaotang @paopaotang (54) • China 17 Oct 12

This week I'll be alone again as my friends all went to the tourism. What I can do is just stay at the room because of my injured foot, it's so bad for me. Usually I will watch TV, listen to some music or chat with my friends on...

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JinBinLai When I was along, I always spend a lot of time on the internet. I could get in touch with friends, get informations of all kinds which I was intersted in, I also could play games on the net. Everyone has his/her own interests, it's hobbies that take people...

17 Oct 12

I'm Sick of this Job. What Should I do????

Muhammad Shafique @simplealvi (148) • Pakistan 15 Oct 12

Well problem is that my Boss hired me as an accountant and this is what i'm doing. My job is to stop any kind of fraud which any one tries to do. We are total of five person in office. Now i try my level best to prevent any kind...

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JinBinLai I think you'd better to figure out what you want from a job and what your responsibilities with this job. If you just want to get paid well, never mind any unpleasure now that this job paid highly, if you really persue your career and you have your career...

15 Oct 12