Nightshade13

@Nightshade13 (74)

Philippines • Age 38

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Not happy with the job

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 21 Feb 13

If you start feeling being unhappy and not satisfied with your work, I believe that it is high time to ask yourself whether to quit or to continue working. It can be tough to decide for you have to consider many factors. If you...

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Nightshade13 Hi dorisday1971, for me, being happy with your job is a big factor to consider in deciding whether to stay in the company or not, however, another factor to consider is your "responsibility" with your family/yourself because we need money to survive in this...

21 Feb 13

Keep on listening

nita04 @nita04 (268) • Philippines 14 Feb 13

I am totally amazed that people would turn to you and share their problems, and you are there just listening and in the end of their story, they will tell you, thank you for listening, I just needed somebody to talk to. What a...

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Nightshade13 Hi nita04, Usually, most of my friends would call me or meet me just to talk about something good that happened to them and most of the times to talk about their problems that they currently have, even though i don't usually get a lot of "thank you" from...

15 Feb 13

Do you think Job is better than Business...???

Tushavi @Tushavi (2077) • Karachi, Pakistan 5 Jan 13

hi to all well, we are Business peoples & I'm the one also, Now a Days I'm confused what to do??? My father have small business but needs very hard work to rise & shine this business in other hand I also have some job offer???...

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Nightshade13 Hi Tushavi, The good thing about going into business is that you are the boss of your own company, you don't need to obey someone else's rules and "time" is in your hands to control. however, venturing into business is a risk that if you're going to take it...

9 Jan 13

Book smart/ Street smart

STOUTjodee @STOUTjodee (3573) • United States 31 Oct 12

Some people have a lot of education and are very smart "book" wise, but when they have a simple problem, they have no idea how to solve it because they never learned it in some book. Now there are people who don't have a college...

difference in education

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Nightshade13 I don't consider myself to be a very "book smart". For me, balance is the key, because if you only excel to being a book smart and only have those theories that you read from the book as your weapon, then you will have a hard time dealing with the outside...

1 Nov 12

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How will you hide your tears?

ofzhernandez @ofzhernandez (278) • Philippines 22 Oct 12

I am a person with shallow tears. I easily cry. Coz I am too sensitive. So every time I want to cry and I don't want everyone would see the tears falling into my eyes I usually bit my lips to stop the emotions that causing me to...

crying in the rain

hide your tear

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Nightshade13 Hi ofzhernandez, i am an emotional type of person as well, however, i managed to hide my tears to everyone. what i do is when i'm about to cry, i immediately think of something positive or funny, i changed the subject to switch from the negative feelings...

24 Oct 12

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Help... It's so hard to forgive!

aubrey @averygirl72 (37845) • Philippines 22 Oct 12

Right now, I seem to see that one of my greatest issue now is forgiveness. I am very careful not to offend others but I still unintentionally can offend others every now and then. My problem is that there are people who I guess...

challenge of forgiveness

forgiveness

forgiving

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Nightshade13 Hello averygirl72, i too had an issue about forgiveness, i'm having the same question if i really have to forgive someone who's done something irrevocable to my life. forgiveness, for me, depends on the weight of the sin that they have caused you, simple...

22 Oct 12

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Some people are USERs!!

chubbychubchub @chubbychubchub (90) • Philippines 21 Oct 12

I hate it when people only remember me whenever they need something from me. and worst they act very demanding giving me deadlines even though they're not paying me. they will never stop nagging me whenever i don't priorities...

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Nightshade13 Hi chubbychubchub, i guess the mere fact that some of your so called "Friends" remember you only when they needed you is enough for you to realize that those are not your true friends. As far as i believed that true friends are there for you even in your...

21 Oct 12

How do you control yourself from vices?

leateagee @leateagee (3667) • China 20 Oct 12

Being greedy to what we love and make us comfortable and happy. Who cares? It's my life. "It is my life, but the problem is I am indulge with bad practices that affects my career, relationships, health and the whole...

control

control yourself

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Nightshade13 Hello Leateagee, true, vices are all over, but it is a matter of choice wether to give in or not, i mean it's up to you if you're going to control yourself for all those vices or not, you are the only person that can say "no" to them. if you say that its...

20 Oct 12

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Signs of Cheating

ChinthyD @ChinthyD (18) 26 Sep 12

Don’t you ever wonder how couples hit that cold hard wall of complacency you often find them in, the silent car rides, the not so pleasant dinners? Most young new couples who can’t keep their eyes (and hands)off of each other...

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Nightshade13 Hi ChintyD, i agree that one of the "reason's used by people" in cheating is the "Faded Love" but personally, i don't think that is enough reason for a guy/girl to cheat especially when your married and have kids. Those things might be an excuse or a...

27 Sep 12

hey guys... need your opinion on this...

prue_haliwell @prue_haliwell (22) • Philippines 3 Feb 12

opinion please.... if a girl wanted to get back together with you, what do you think is the best way for her to do so you would notice her again, want her back again or is there something you wanted the girl to do for you so...

loving

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Nightshade13 Hi pure_haliwell, i think you should think first if you still love the girl or not. because if the feeling is already gone and if you chose to be with her and giving another try with her then you're just wasting time... and it might hurt both of you in the...

4 Feb 12

Breaking Up With Your Partner.

redgutz @redgutz (57) • Philippines 25 Jan 12

I'm 24 year's old, and have my first serious relationship with my partner right now. were already 2 years and six months in our , that two years long is not that solid. I love this girl and i never ever try to cheat on her, she's...

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Nightshade13 Hello Redgutz, Good day! first of all, i admire you for staying and keeping your relationship with her eventhough you know to yourself that she's done a mistake, a grave mistake. i have that experience as well and i know that once trust has been broken it...

25 Jan 12

A Voice of An Upset Individual

rberon1985 @rberon1985 (5359) • Philippines 7 Dec 11

I'm glad that I am part of this site. This is a site where I can express all my emotions, feelings, and point of views in the different discussions posted here. Today, I am so upset. I'm really sorry but I can control myself to...

disappoinmeny

upset

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Nightshade13 Hi rberon, i know and feel what you are going through, and i felt sad as well. i experienced a lot of frustration because of expectation. But you got a lot of friends and your MyLot family is here to help you and ease the frustration you are feeling...

7 Dec 11

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Dilemma on eating out

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 5 Dec 11

Whenever I go out with my mom to a restaurant, she would advise me to order something healthier. I love seafood, especially those scallop, deep fried, or make with black pepper. My mom would definitely against it, and giving the...

healthy

scallop

seafood

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Nightshade13 My Mom is almost the same as yours, eat this eat that, don't eat this because it's not healthy, etc. i personally do not follow the healthy eating guidelines, sometimes i am going beyond what should be the limit, i am weak against sweets and i ended up eating...

6 Dec 11

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