Ray_Cai

@Ray_Cai (22)

China • Age 34

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Hello Everyone.

Sonya @madira (6) 21 Nov 13

Hello Friends, I am a newbie who has just joined the site. I wish I would get the right guidance here from all senior members and experienced experts on this site. I joined here with an intention to make some extra bucks and make...

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Ray_Cai People come myLot always for making money and this is what myLot attract people. In order to get satisfied money, we will do the responding work. Besides I think we can make friends when respond or create discussion.

23 Nov 13

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new year problems :(

shion13 @shion13 (85) • Indonesia 29 Dec 12

i hate having problems but they seem to love me. i've had these friends problems and i just don't know who to talk to and who to be asked for advices, so i post it in here since i'm already at my limit. i joined in a community in...

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Ray_Cai Well,sounds a little complicated. The relationship between boy and girl is so open that close friends may do things beyond the border of friends. If I were you, I would ask the local friends about this issue or just ask the right now boyfriend. Since you...

30 Dec 12

Can we marry 2 or more wives?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140102) • Philippines 18 Dec 12

In a certain state, being bigamy is an unlawful actions. It is not allowed to get married twice or more. In my country, they will have corresponding criminal case against them. Is it morally accepted to be married of more than...

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Ray_Cai Well, the concept of marriage is created by human being. In nature, animals only have the copulate actions. They have no idea of a complete family. As for our people, we constitute the society and want to keep it stable and order. If it is legal to married of...

19 Dec 12

Childhood

mhaiiii13 @mhaiiii13 (17) • Philippines 15 Dec 12

I missed playing in the rain with my friends. When I was a child,I always play with my friends under the rain. Like we run and run until we got tired. I really miss those times even though my parents wouldn't allow me to play...

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Ray_Cai That sounds really amazing! Actually, I also adore the enjoyment with my friends or my lover. We just feel the freedom and happiness under the rain. Without many worries, we can play so crazy that even though our shirts get dirty. Haha, since people have been...

15 Dec 12

Individual work..

subhojit10 @subhojit10 (7375) • India 15 Dec 12

hey guys, i have always believed in the concept of individual work and efforts. I had faced many situation where i had to suffer heavily due to team work. For instance, i had taken a team of four to a group debate competition...

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Ray_Cai Well, if a team or group is not well-organized, I would say that the team members lack the sense of team spirit. In some cases, people just want to get without any labor or paid. I really hate that kind of people. Why is so common people in the view of team...

15 Dec 12

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Lakers losing a lot in 2013 season

thatsjvl @jvincent_129 (4994) • Philippines 15 Dec 12

What is wrong with the Lakers? They have Kobe, Pau and Howard yet they still lose to teams like washington and cleveland. Don't they need to trade Kobe too? hehehe

basketball

lakers

mylot

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Ray_Cai Well, basketball match needs a well-organized team work. But now, Kobe does not trust his teammates most of the time and just hold the ball for himself. Maybe many people like Kobe for his aggressive and perfect technique. However, I think Kobe must rethink of...

15 Dec 12

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How to improve leadership qualities

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 20 Oct 12

What are the thing that are required to improve leadership qualities.apart from knowledge and confidence what are the most required things that can improve your leadership

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Ray_Cai well, a good leader must have a characteristic to attract others such as genuine trait. Besides, underling or cooperative companion prefer the kind of people, who can make a determination and insist on doing efficient measures. There also a lots required...

15 Dec 12

A thinker with less confident

kearkear @kearkear (963) • Davao, Philippines 19 Nov 12

My friend always tells me to be confident and don't see other as doing better than you. Beat your own records daily because success is a fight between you and yourself. It is indeed true. Maybe in some point in our lives we come...

confident

thinker

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Ray_Cai I searched this word " condifence" on mylot, and then I was captured by your title. Still, I am confused about the title. But I am in favor of what you wrote down. It inspire me a lot when I go astray towards what I do. Yeah, do what you really love and dont...

13 Dec 12

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Start by looking back

girl_thinking @girl_thinking (1959) • Philippines 11 Dec 12

2012 is almost over. Looking back, I could say that I did not make the best out of this year. 1. I changed job 2. I was given an award at the office 3. I got sick - MPS (which still hurts from time to time) 4. I made new...

look back

new things

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Ray_Cai Every year, I live under others motivation, while I just dream of being something odd or strange. 2012, the last year of my university, I gave my best shot to won the scholarship, but I failed. And then I have part-time job in a lubricant company, where I...

12 Dec 12

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Board Games vs Video Games

crissy92 @crissy92 (91) • United States 11 Dec 12

Christmas is around the corner, as everyone knows, and I'm wondering how many children will receive board games and how many will receive video games. In a time where video games are the "thing to do" for children, why not empower...

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Ray_Cai Yeah, the board game can be a stimulating way to develop children's mental and psychological well-being. Many various board game foster youth to think independently and to coopearte with other kids. But in my country, adolescent always have no opportunities to...

12 Dec 12

Among the 365 days in a year, I am wondering why they choose 21 of December.

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 11 Dec 12

Good day Fellow Mylotters, I am just thinking why and what can be found during the 21st of December. Hence, it is always tag as the end of the world. As in many people from other countries as well, always claimed that this...

21 of december

dooms day

end of the world

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Ray_Cai Hmm,21st December is also considered as the winter solstice, when the night is longest. Mainly due to the solar system, the daylight changes all the time. In my country, winter solstice is kind of a festive to celebrate, for the hard works finished by people....

12 Dec 12

Botux: To Lessen the Facial Expressions

Shavkat @Shavkat (140102) • Philippines 11 Dec 12

Nowadays, there are a lot of people undergo botux injected to their facial muscles. It is simple to diminish the wrinkles marked on their faces. There are only two things in here, you wanted to be beautiful or to keep the beauty....

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Ray_Cai Some people would prefer to remain their beautiful appearance by injecting the botux. People love to be attractive and energic. But in my view, I consider that the maturity is more significant than the appearance. As the years go by, we can avoid to have...

11 Dec 12