Spyder27

@Spyder27 (42)

Canada • Age 69

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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what qualities will you look for in your future husband or wife????

kunizzul @kunizzul (1066) • Malaysia 30 Oct 08

i'm still single,but petty soon i will be earning a living and thinking of getting married...most people marry for love but all too often,marriages break up because they have chosen unsuitable partners...so, it is important for me...

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Spyder27 I'm already married. If I was looking for a partner I would want someone that is very optimistic and happy most of the time, someone that cares about themself enough to exercise and eat healthy and someone that cares about what I like, that treats me with...

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I've decided to break up with her...

jaymezroolz @jaymezroolz (231) • Philippines 11 Oct 08

I'm sure this just another breakup story for you guys but I still want to share my sentiments anyway. I'm making my decision right now to brak up with my girlfriend. Why? Believe it or not, she chose a married man over me. Yep,...

hurt

pain

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Spyder27 That's a great attitude! Look - one week gone by already! Just keep yourself occupied. I hope you are enjoying your weekend. :)

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What Do You Do?

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 15 Oct 08

I've reached a point in my life where I feel pretty much like I don't have a life. Have you ever felt that way? If so, what do you do to get a life? What makes you feel better about things?

life

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Spyder27 Yep, been there many times. I am a recovered self-abuser (cutting & burning)with suicidal tendencies. I hated myself for most of my life and now I love, love, love myself and my life. I read a lot of self help books and the turning point for me was reading...

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With or without a watch?

mychattime @mychattime (1013) 13 Oct 08

I have worn a watch for quite a few years now and only take it of when I go swimming. However last week the battery ran out and I have kept forgetting to get it done, it was so so strange without my watch and I felt kind of bare!...

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Spyder27 I read a book many years ago, can't remember which one now, but it said there was really no such thing as time, it is just an illusion, and it makes you adhere to rules that are made by people that have nothing to do with your life. I haven't worn a watch ever...

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What made you laugh today???????

makingpots @makingpots (11915) • United States 13 Oct 08

I laughed over a discussion started by a friend here at myLot. I love knowing I can come here for a daily chuckle. This particular friend is nearly always able to deliver. I haven't had a belly laugh yet. But that is guaranteed...

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Spyder27 I discovered a new feature in my car today. In the very front of the trunk, tucked under the inside curve, is a little handle. This is a very teeny, tiny wee little trunk and it took me a minute to figure out what it meant. On the handle is a picture of an...

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Are bodies just vessels or does the "sprit" hang around after death?

sedel1027 @sedel1027 (17846) • Cupertino, California 3 Oct 08

After reading another discussion abotu wakes, I was reminded of when my grandmother passed away. I am not a fan of dead humans. Well, let me rephrase that. I am not scared of dead bodies. I don't like dead bodies that are made...

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Spyder27 When I was in high school one of my friends was in a car accident and was killed. I was not invited to the funeral and was too naive to know that I could go if I wanted to. For maybe 10 years after that, many times when I was visiting a different city I...

3 Oct 08

I watched my friend die today..... :(

NrgDfenZ @NrgDfenZ (1810) • Belgium 3 Oct 08

Hi all I don't know if you really care, but I just have to talk about this.. It helps me if I can talk about my feelings.. Especially now.. Today a friend of me had an accident with his car.. I was in school when they...

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Spyder27 I am so sorry for you. What a terrible thing to go through. If you believe in the spiritual all-that-is, or source energy, it might help to know that your friend chose his life experience before he was born. He came to learn and grow and expand and maybe...

3 Oct 08

How do I do anything for myself??

sweetpeasmom @sweetpeasmom (1325) • United States 1 Oct 08

Since having my son 2 years ago I cannot seem to do anything that is just for me. I have not had a hair cut in forever and just put it up in a pony tail, I sometimes cannot get a chance to take a bath and I live in sweat pants and...

pony

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Spyder27 Wow! You really need a break! How about swapping with someone else in the same boat? You could look after her kid(s) for a couple of hours or for an afternoon while she spends time doing whatever she wants, and then she does the same for you. You could...

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things to bring?

jcyap888 @jcyap888 (721) • Philippines 30 Sep 08

what things would you bring when you are travelling and things that must not forget and things that you should not bring. things i always bring is a extra plastic bag and a tissue. because if i feel dizzy and time to have a blow...

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Spyder27 If security at your airport is the same as mine, they will take these things from you: bottled water, mouthwash, key to tighten hockey skates, anything on your keychain that has a resemblence to a blade. These are things that could go in your checked luggage,...

30 Sep 08

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do you think actions speak louder then words ?

syankee525 @syankee525 (6261) • United States 30 Sep 08

i am the kind of person that no matter what you say to me, if your actions isn't the same as you speak, your words are worthless to me having family tell me that are proud of me and my wife, they aren't ashame of us. but when it...

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Spyder27 I totally agree with you. Words are cheap and it is so much easier to lie than to get into an uncomfortable situation by telling it the way you feel. That's why so many people agree to go somewhere they don't want to even though they know they are going to...

30 Sep 08

where will animals go after death???

ramangill @ramangill (1479) • India 29 Sep 08

this question is for those believe there is hell and heaven?? so, question is that where will dogs,cats,insects,etc go after death??? will their sins and gud works be calculated??? as far as i feel they dont have any religion...

animals after death

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Spyder27 I wish I could remember more of the story I read a few years ago. It was about how ants are so smart, working their bums off all spring, gathering and preparing for the next winter and then they take the summer off to relax and play. So that's a pretty good...

30 Sep 08

How can I get him to remember ?

pimagro24 @pimagro24 (1046) • Thailand 29 Sep 08

Today is my tree month anniversary with my boyfriend and he does not remember. How can I get him to remember ?

boyfriend

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Spyder27 I don't think 3 months is really a big deal. Not worth starting a fight over! You will prolly have to mention it to him, otherwise he might not know that it is important to you. I wouldn't expect a present or anything. :)

29 Sep 08

Where to put the flyers?

sweetgirl_k1 @sweetgirl_k1 (3972) • United States 26 Sep 08

I quit my job this week because I wasn't happy about some things. It was really a lot of different reasons why I quit. One was they were changing the hours and wouldn't work with me when they knew that I couldn't be there that...

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Spyder27 If you have friends with businesses ask them to leave some flyers where their customers will see them. Places where you do business should be willing to support you - places like your hairdresser and tanning salon, etc. Check with the closest cleaning...

28 Sep 08

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I thought I didnt get enough sleep.

lanlan011 @lanlan011 (701) • United States 28 Sep 08

I recently posted a discussion posted "are you getting enough sleep" or it was "do you get enough sleep" i cant remember the name. Im sorry i couldnt respond to everyone but i read everyone's response. i didnt realize that so many...

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Spyder27 My cats wake me up at least once during the night. I have a funny one that stands on top of me and meows until I wake up, then he lays beside me and every time I poke him he makes a noise. Other than that I go to bed at 10 and get up at 5. Usually wake up...

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If you had one thousand to invest

maria_k @maria_k (925) • United States 28 Sep 08

Enough discussion with bux and ptc. Let's talk about something fun. Suppose I gave 1 thousand and tell you to invest it in any programs listed below. It does not matter to me if you loose it all. It's a play money for you. So,...

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Spyder27 If I had the time, I would invest it in the stock market. I would want to investigate for myself and choose 3 or 4 different stocks to buy. I think this would be the most fun to follow and try to determine when is the best time to pull out and reinvest. With...

28 Sep 08

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If you could have one wish for someone else , what and who would it be ?

samtaylorskykierajen @samtaylorskykierajen (7977) • Canada 27 Sep 08

We have often seen on here what would you want if you could have one wish but what if you were given one wish but you could not use it on yourself . Who would your wish be for and what is it that you would wish for them and why...

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Spyder27 I would wish that my brother's eyesight be restored. It has been impossible for him to meet women to date because he can't just go hang out at the bar and girls don't go to dating sites to find men that aren't their ideal. He does everything for himself,...

27 Sep 08

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Can you find it in your heart to forgive and forget?

sudalunts @sudalunts (5523) • United States 27 Sep 08

I was just going through a drawer I have full of memories, you know that drawer that has old cards, letters photos etc. Well I came across a picture of someone I was involved with many years ago. We had kind of an up and down...

drawer

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Spyder27 Absolutely. And the sooner the better for your own well-being. Time heals everything. I had an ex that turned my stomach every time I thought of him, after we split. Ater a few years my hatred turned to indifference and years after that I bumped into him a...

27 Sep 08

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