AmateurHuman

@amateurhuman (60)

Joined myLot 7 years ago

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Tree prefer calm while wind not subside; Son choose filial while parents died.

Lynn Guo @Guolinlin2017 (30) • China 15 Feb 17

After a long winter holiday, I became more reluctant to be away from home. Seeing my old parents with their hair turning gray, I feel so sorry but I can do nothing. I remember when I was a little girl, I wished to grow up so...

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AmateurHuman I can completely relate to what you are saying, As a child we never thought our parents also will grow old one day. After a certain age , there is a complete role reversal and we need to start parenting our parents. Time is the only thing we can give.

16 Feb 17

The mind Power

Prince Caleb @princecaleb (5) 15 Feb 17

Those who impact change are not too smart. They only believe they can and they always win.

motivational quotes

entrepreneurial skills

inspiration

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AmateurHuman We must convince ourselves before we convince others.

16 Feb 17

How do feel when your posts are deleted by mylot?

Purity @pureme (1526) 16 Feb 17

Yesterday I put up a discussion about my health, today I couldn't find it on mylot. The post was about my health, I didn't plagiarized, I don't know why that post was deleted.

delete

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discussion

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AmateurHuman You can try reposting it.

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~Unexpected But So Grateful!~

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 15 Feb 17

So my husband and I don't celebrate Valentine's Day-we either don't usually have a sitter or we don't have the extra money. Not a big deal, we have been married for 12 years and know how much we love each other. =) Instead I...

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AmateurHuman wow, its a good reason to celebrate then.

16 Feb 17

HALF HER AGE

Kandase @Kandae11 (54986) 15 Feb 17

Would you date or marry a man who is -say - fifteen, twenty or thirty years younger than yourself? .Some women, from forty-five years up say it is difficult to find a suitable man in their age group. Most are already married or...

couples

age difference

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AmateurHuman As long as it keeps you happy nothing else matters. We might get the perfect guy and we are still not happy so better not go with a mindset

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BEHIND CLOSED DOORS.

Kandase @Kandae11 (54986) 16 Feb 17

After two months of physical and mental abuse I managed to get away from my husband and return to the safe arms of my loving parent. I felt sad , disappointed and regretful - regretful of the big mistake I had made in getting...

marriage

abuse

walking away

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AmateurHuman I am sorry you had this trauma but am more glad you are out of it. Your doubt makes me confess something which I normally don't. I have been in a physically and verbally abusive relationship for almost an year. Once it has started it just keeps on getting...

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Nokia 3310 is coming back!

MysD @mysdianait (66009) • Italy 14 Feb 17

Old is gold! First it was vinyl and now it is old phones! Youngsters will probably have no idea of what this phone was but to some of us, me included, it was our very first mobile phone Hours and hours...

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AmateurHuman Reminder of good old simpler days

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~Life & A New Routine~

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 14 Feb 17

Hey everyone! I just wanted to stop in for a little bit to say everything is okay and I'm not ignoring y'all. I have been busy, and my husband has been home so things have been different. Today my husband went back to work and I...

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AmateurHuman Take care and enjoy your time with your little baby

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~Update On Everything~

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 11 Feb 17

So I know me going into labor was totally unexpected this early. It was for us too! I ate an amazing dinner my husband cooked for us on Thursday evening-it was eggs & bacon. After dinner we watched a movie and I started...

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AmateurHuman Congrats and lots of love to both of you. I hope you are back home in no time

12 Feb 17

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Would you have sex while your child is in the same room as you?

****DANIELLE**** @VivaLaDani13 (60794) • Perth, Australia 11 Feb 17

I know. Weird question. I'm in a venting / annoyed type of mood and you will see why when you read this. I've been seeing a psychologist and some memories have been popping into my mind that I haven't really forgotten but just...

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AmateurHuman Very brave of you to share such a personal thing. That tells us you trust us. Sometimes it happens that you cannot even decide whether what you are feeling is justified or should you be feeling some other way. I think when we have had a good relationship with...

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Is your favourite tv show friends??

Manvendra Singh @maan20 (257) 11 Feb 17

Years have passed but my love for this tv show 'Friends' grows each day. I think Chandler's sarcasm, Monica's OCD, Rachel's vogue, Phoebe's weirdness, Baby kangroo tribiani's love, and Ross' care has made my life so... easy....

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AmateurHuman Oh yes ! Def favourite. They are not TV characters but i love it so much that they become real friends. No matter how hard the day is , the series still puts a smile on my face even when I have watched every episode so many times

12 Feb 17

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Why did he delete me?

Belle Gray @bellepluto (13) 11 Feb 17

Why did he delete me? Okay, this question isn't as petty as it sounds, it has depth. Besides this is my blog! and this is what's on my mind today. About two years ago, I saw on Facebook that one of my friends commented on a...

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AmateurHuman Belle I think you are very pretty and the fact that you care so much for a person whom you haven't even met tells me you are also very sensitive as well. A human being so good dsnt need to worry trying to solve the mysteries of a man. And by experience, men...

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The Divorce Rate Is High In Both Communities

Anne Marie Guyer @LeaPea2417 (37350) • Toccoa, Georgia 10 Feb 17

I have noticed something about marriage and divorce. I am betting that the statistics between heterosexual and homosexual unions are about the same. From all I read and listen to in the news, the divorce rate is not just high in...

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AmateurHuman I am yet to be married and i wonder what is the hardest thing I will have to endure . Or maybe it's my husband who will have to endure more ??. But I get what you are saying, fairytale gets over soon and you have to really work on your marriage and basically...

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Did You Know Some Of You Are Counselors And Didn't Even Know It?

celticeagle @celticeagle (166672) • Boise, Idaho 9 Feb 17

I sometimes wonder what some of my fellow Mylotters must think of me. I tell it like it is and share a lot of my personal life on here. That may be something others on here may either not agree with or might find rather pathetic....

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AmateurHuman I agree, Mylot is filled with good listeners world is lacking.

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A Beautiful Expense

DianneN @DianneN (247186) • United States 8 Feb 17

Our older son is entering the poor house, little by little, with all the activities his children do. The latest one is guitar lessons for our six year old grandson. After going to the theater, he became fascinated by the...

music

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AmateurHuman He looks like a little star already

9 Feb 17

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I just heard on the radio that today is National Pizza Day!!

Laurel (L_B) @Happy2BeMe (99380) • Canada 9 Feb 17

So who is going to have pizza today in honor of such a special day? Most people I know like pizza because they can add whatever toppings they like to suit their taste. I enjoy making homemade pizza and adding lots of toppings. We...

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AmateurHuman Yumm

9 Feb 17

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Sick of waiting on call backs from doctors when my son is suffering

ShannyBananny @shaggin (72110) • United States 7 Feb 17

I pulled my son out of public school in mid October. He is doing cyber schooling at home. I have been trying since then to get him in to see a psychologist. His pediatrician called a hospital to set up an appointment for him to...

depression

sad little boy

depressed

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AmateurHuman I am really sorry to hear about your son. Have you heard about Ayurveda? It's an ancient Indian healing system. Every disease including depression happens because of disbalance in Vata, Pitta and/or Kapha which are doshas or imbalances. You need to use herbs...

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Are you happy with your life?

Alfredo Rossi @amadeo (111938) • United States 7 Feb 17

Are you happy with your life? Some people like their life because it's going to plan, some feel like they've had a raw deal, while others accept whatever fate throws at them How do you handle this.I had to think about this.Am I...

personal

happy

life

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AmateurHuman Happiness can also be a state of mind , happy people end up being happy even with problems and those prone to worrying, worry anyhow. Sadly I am the second lot??. But I am very much aware of it and constantly try to be more thankful for for what I have and...

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man can only survive with a good relationship with others.

Purity @pureme (1526) 8 Feb 17

you just have to relate, you can not be on your own, it is not possible since one is not an outcast. how can make our relationships work? let's talk of our colleagues at work, those we are always at a long heads with. how can...

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AmateurHuman You need to try your best to maintain healthy relationship at work but you also need to know where to draw the line. Some people just do not understand the language of love and you need to learn the other languages like silence at times. I have often had tough...

8 Feb 17

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