ankches

@ankches (26)

Indonesia • Age 49

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Do you believe that self motivating yourself really works?

Andyvil @Andyvil (793) • Philippines 3 Oct 10

I have read some articles about motivating your self and like talking to yourself in the mirror and telling yourself positive things will have a positive effect on you. As of now I really need some good positive vibes to motivate...

motivation

self motivation

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ankches of course, i believe that. the universe will respond on what you thinking. so is your body and soul. but, dont forget that God have the best known on us. no matter what happend, God provide the best for our life. after motivating yourself, why dont you...

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Cheating each other

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 3 Oct 10

I don't understand a couple who are both friends of mine why do they cheat each other. They are married couple by the way. The husband was caught by the wife to be having an extra marital affair with another girl some years...

relationship

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ankches i dont like that... ok, the husband had a mistake, then wife forgive him. but if wife do an affair, wife do some mistake like husband. and worst, she do it with consent. if there no more respect (wife or husband, who cheat = no respect their mate) it...

4 Oct 10

Has Internet made a difference to your lifestyle? Negative, Positive or both ?

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 3 Oct 10

Has the Internet changed your life style or made a difference to your lifestyle? Has it been a Negative impact ( I doubt that ) or a Positive impact or a little of both ... [i]Talking about myself, I can say that the...

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ankches yes i agree with you. internet had both positive and negative side. it depend on ourself to choose. but, as a giant library, i like internet coz can give me many information that i need in my life. and yes it had impact on my life style, but if there...

4 Oct 10

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Should we smile even when we are sad?

getbiswa2000 @getbiswa2000 (5544) • India 3 Oct 10

Hello, Sometimes everything seems so funny and comforting that we become happy at once. But there are times when everything seems to go against us. You really can't be happy all the time. Some people prefer to impose happiness to...

sadness

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ankches hmmm... i thinks we shouldn't stop smile. no matter sad or happy. smile its good thing to do. can bring positive things when u sad. and share happiness, when u happy... c u GBU2

4 Oct 10

would you stop being friends with someone who does not respect you?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 3 Oct 10

so would you choose not to be friends with someone who has shown no respect for your belief, and has even done something out of the ordinary to rub it in your face.. say eat a dog in front of you and you know that she knows you...

friends

friendship

respect

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ankches well, perhaps i wouldn't forgive her, but, i wouldn't stop being her friend. i'm just try not to meet her often. not to try avoid her either. if we have to walk together, i walk. but then, try avoid confrontation with her. i choose to find another friend...

4 Oct 10

Do you still love nature ?

Jagokonte @Jagokonte (123) • Greece 3 Oct 10

Sometimes we feel like we need a walk out in the nature and relax. It seems we have a strong bond with nature and I don't think this bond should be broken. I have met people who say they hate flowers! How about you? Do you still...

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ankches sure, i like nature, they give me a peace moment. after all, we can learn from them. to bad, many nature environtment had been broken by a non reponsibility act of few human. once a week, i visit a park around my neighbourhood...

3 Oct 10

tattoos...WHY?

gjax57 @gjax57 (897) • United States 3 Oct 10

It's not the fact that people get tattoos its why do people put their GF/BF/HUSBANDS names on themselves? I Mean I can understand a neice/nephew/parent/cousn/childs/aunt,uncles name because they will be forever in your life...i've...

tattoos

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ankches i like tatoos. but i dont have any. coz my religion told me not. but if i have it, i wont choose a name, i prefer a picture or something else...

3 Oct 10

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Do you have drunked that much you loose your memory.

ivaylo2009 @ivaylo2009 (973) • Bulgaria 3 Oct 10

Everyone of us is tasted the alcohol.What you think is it necessary about purge out our memories from time to time.Are you feel like a new person after a drunked night.What about your minds in the morning.

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ankches well, lucky for me. i'm dont lika alcohol, i dont drink and i dont drunk. few of my friend ( who like to drink ), give me an advice : "dont start it, if u dont want to be like us !." i see and i saw people drunk. oh man, their awful, bad breath, bad...

3 Oct 10

Do you cut ur hairs by your own or visit barber shop?????????

sauravmillion @sauravmillion (929) • India 3 Oct 10

Yes sometime when I feel that my hairs are a bit long.I use to cut them.Not the whole thing but try to give it a proper shape.I feel its not a offending job to do.I do visit barber shop when they grow very long.But in general most...

barber shop

haircut

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ankches sometime i visit a barber shop. but more often my mother cut my hair...hehehe

3 Oct 10

One biggest mistake when we love

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

..hi fellas.. As I look back to my love story, I realized that one biggest mistake that we usually commit when we love, we try to give all our love to our partner and nothing is left for our self. Then when our partner decides to...

love

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ankches i'm really sorry that you feel that way. but then i wont blame you. through time your heart will cheer up again... according to my story, after divorce, i choose to be alone for a while. but dont lost contact with your friend and family. much better if you...

1 Sep 10

Do you (or did you) sing to your kids?

Just an Ordinary Owl? @owlwings (43910) • Cambridge, England 29 Aug 10

Most of us are embarrassed to sing in public but how many of us sang lullabies to our kids? My mother used to sing to me but it was really the songs my dad sang to me (and he was no singer) which I remember. I passed those on...

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ankches helo owlwings, i dont remember a lullabies that my parent sing it to me. but i did and do sing a lullabies for my son. i know i'm not a good singer, but it came from the heart. ang it could make the kid calm. salam

30 Aug 10

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have you ever imagined winning the lottery?

GemmaR @GemmaR (8517) 29 Aug 10

I buy a ticket for every single draw, and think about what I would be able to do with the money if I won. I would start by donating half of the winnings to charity, and then spend the rest making my dream house in my dream...

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ankches helo GemmaR, if i win lottery ? 1) pay my loan 2) charity 3) try to full fill my parent dream 4) save for my son education&life 5) make my mate dream come true 6) share happiness with friend and family 7) buy another lottery...hehehe

30 Aug 10

What is the reason you aren't rich?

diamania @diamania (7011) • Netherlands 28 Aug 10

Why haven't you earned enough money on the internet to be millionaire or rich? Pretty simple question but I know for sure this will be a discussion in which we can learn a lot from each other. Please share the reason...

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ankches helo there, at money side, i'm not like everybody else ( not rich ) but i'm happy enough for what i got right now. it doesnt matter how much money do you have, if you still not happy with your life, then you not feel rich... salam

30 Aug 10

One biggest mistake when we love

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

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ankches helo there, i think i know how your feeling. i'll been there before. but then i realize that the best for us to divorced. yes, people say, dont love your lover to much, coz he/she could be u'r enemy 1 day. and dont hate u'r enemy to much, coz he/she could be...

30 Aug 10

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Are you an outgoing person or a homebody?

SimpleBB @SimpleBB (1329) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

We are working on weekdays, family day at weekends. Do we need to allot time for ourselves? Of course, I believe that I have the right to spend time for myself. After working hours, my friends still have time to roam aroung for...

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ankches helo there, at teen i like to hangout, but then now not so excited. just sit with a family and friend, could make me happy... ouw, 1 more think. eventhought that we are alone, dont be so lonely, God will always there with us. salam

30 Aug 10

at what age did you started working?

lilmuchang @lilmuchang (261) • France 28 Aug 10

I am feeling very old right now, I am 24 and I have yet started my career. I am still a student, struggling to get my Master, and longing to enroll myself in the adult life. So eager to earn money, and be rich!! Get a house, with...

career

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ankches helo there, i'm 34 now, i'm starting to work at 25, as a salesman...but then my hear ability had damaged. now i' working to control an internet cafe. but i'm not take master degree. its natural that every people had a dreams, but then we should not forget to...

30 Aug 10

Poetry tips

CandyMoon @CandyMoon (26) • United States 26 Aug 10

Hey everyone, I'd like to start writing poetry but I don't really know how. Do you have any tips, books to read, websites to visit or anything? Thank you ;)

poetry

tips

writing

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ankches hmmm, i'm not a masterpiece eather. but i can tell you. poetry have to start from the heart, your deep feeling about some fenomena. than it will show you, who you are... good luck...

26 Aug 10

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ghosts and monsters are coming after me....

bluemoonpavilion @bluemoonpavilion (4658) • Singapore 23 Aug 10

like the scenes in the movie which I have just watched... I tend to feel scared after watching a horror movie to the extent that even a visit to the toilet is scary without someone to accompany me. ...

emotions

horror movies

scary

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ankches sometime i feel like that. but i think its natural. coz, the film tends to stimulate our minds. ( that a very good movie i guest )... and after a while, the feeling will gone. back to reality, meet people, chat with friends. watch another movie ( comedy ) to...

24 Aug 10

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Bedtime Routine?

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 23 Aug 10

Are you a creature of habit like myself? Do you have a specific routine that you follow every night before you go to sleep? I know that I do, when I start to get ready for bed I will take my seroquel and then I will go in the...

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ankches hmmm, my bed time routine... i dont have routine like you. perhaps, only changed the clothes comfortable to wear. then cleaned up (brush teeth and wash my face). after that play some computer games or watching television. but usually does not miss is to...

24 Aug 10

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