anna728

@anna728 (1499)

United States • Age 34

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3 things to do before you die

taraelocin @taraelocin (1138) 26 Oct 09

I'm just curious - there are some people who say there are a number of things they really need or want to do before they die. I don't have such a list and couldn't tell you that I really want to do this or that before I am old....

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anna728 Hmm like you, most of the things I want are more general (love, happiness, success). I want to travel, to probaly marry, to have at least one kid, to finish college, to study abroad, to visit Scandinavia, to maybe get a master's degree... I guess a lot of the...

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Dream Wedding...what is your's...?

Jane @jaiho2009 (39141) • Philippines 26 Oct 09

Hello friends and dear mylotters, I guess everyone has it's own dream wedding. Maybe,other even achieve their dream wedding either,some may not. If you were to describe your dream wedding what it would be like? I had a...

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anna728 Hmmm so much to think about! Well, in theory I would like an outdoor wedding but I know that bad weather could ruin that, so maybe not. Maybe have a venue where I could go outside, or could be inside. But I hope the place is beautiful. I want lots and...

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Have you ever had a deja-vu?

taraelocin @taraelocin (1138) 26 Oct 09

Have you ever had a deja-vu? One of those situations when you just know that you experienced the exact same thing before? You've been there, you've done that? You know what's going to happen? I know that the general view is...

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anna728 I have definitely experienced deja-vu many times. It's so hard to describe the feeling but I definitely know it when I have it. I guess it must just be caused by some glitch in the brain, the way it stores memory or something. I don't really know. I also...

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Baby shower ideas, please?

mattier @mattier (111) • United States 26 Oct 09

My older brother just found out he's going to be a father. This will be his first kid. not due until June but we are planning the baby shower for May. we want it to be special, so if you have any ideas for games or anything please...

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anna728 My best friend is having her first baby in March so while I am home from school for winter I am supposed to help plan a baby shower for her. I don't know anything about doing it! I think it will be pretty small though- her only family is her parents, and she...

26 Oct 09

what is your phobia?

dracoserpintenes @dracoserpintenes (614) • United States 26 Oct 09

i was walking by the radio a sort wile ago and herd the dj talking about his fear of spiders and that it is the number two phobia in the US under snakes. what i was wondering because i have never feared anyhting like a true phobia...

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anna728 I'm very scared of bugs, like spider, centipedes, beetles, moths, etc. Some more than others. It's not cause I am afraid of them actually biting or stinging me (I'm not scared of bees or stuff like that anyway). I just get panicked and scared if they are near...

26 Oct 09

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What is your comfortable hair style at home?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 12 Oct 09

I usually go for bun hair style at home. I don't leave it as free hair since I have long hair. Free hair will get stuck and it is a...

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anna728 I suppose usually just a ponytail. And sometimes clip back the shorter layers around my face if they are bothering me.

13 Oct 09

How important is age to you in a relationship?

JessicaSearcy @JessicaSearcy (117) • United States 12 Oct 09

Some people say age is only a number, while others disagree completely. What are the do's and dont's of dating older/

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anna728 My last boyfriend was two years older than me, and we are both in college so I think that's fine. I do think there's definitely a point where it isn't ok anymore. But even then I suppose there are exceptions. I don't think there is a magic number that divides...

13 Oct 09

Which part of your body

JohnJeff @JohnJeff (720) • Malaysia 13 Oct 09

Which part of your body that you most proud of?

part of your body

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anna728 I like my waist. In proportion to the rest of my body it is narrow.

13 Oct 09

Are equal opportunity employer and affirmative action mutually exclusive?

Taskr36 @Taskr36 (13963) • United States 13 Oct 09

I've been applying for a lot of jobs in New Jersey lately, and I've noticed this at the bottom of every job...

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anna728 It's such a sticky sort of situation. I pretty much agree with you, though. I think the most qualified applicant should get the job. I feel like preferring women, minorities, or whatever, is like doing the wrong thing for the right reason. Of course the...

13 Oct 09

Is my degree worthless? Is yours?

LittleMrsSunshine @LittleMrsSunshine (201) 9 Oct 09

I graduated over 9 years ago, I ma one of the class of 2000 and i got a good result (2:1) but i have never used my degree apart from talking to friends on line and ordering food on holiday. My degree is in Spanish, with cultural...

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anna728 Well, I think that even if your actual major isn't the same as the field you end up, there is still value to having a college degree at all. Even if the degree is in an unrelated area, employers will still like to see that a job candidate went to college. And...

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What did you do on your first date?

roncat @roncat (276) • Philippines 29 Sep 09

I still remember my first date when me and my girlfriend watched a basketball game. We then went to eat at a fast food restaurant and went strolling inside a mall for hours. What did you do on your first date?

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anna728 Hmm well my first OFFICIAL date was with my first boyfriend. We lived pretty close to each other so we walked together to a little bar & grill in the neighborhood. I think we got burgers or something like that. We basically just hung out and talked. It was a...

29 Sep 09

Have you ever found someone's voice simply too annoying to handle?

breepeace @breepeace (3014) • Canada 29 Sep 09

When I was back in high school, there were 2 girls in particular that I knew but didn't have much to do with. I'm sure they were both perfectly fine in their own ways, but I found their voices so grating that I knew I wouldn't be...

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anna728 There are definitely some people whose voices are really just unpleasant. Fran Dresher (however it's spelled)comes to mind. But also in real life. There is a girl who I have friends in common with so has a very shrill voice. And not only that, but she loudly...

29 Sep 09

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Why is he pushing this issue?

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 28 Sep 09

Some of you may remember I recently started a discussion which said that an ex girlfriend of my hubby's has recently sent him a friend request on Facebook. My husband of course denies the request. Well at first he didn't even...

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anna728 Huh that is very odd of his friend... I don't really know what to make of it. I don't know him so I can't say, but maybe he is just curious? I guess if the ex-girlfriend said something about it, either she may be trying to use him to get info, or he is just...

28 Sep 09

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Family vs. Boyfriend

kadosa @kadosa (16) • Philippines 28 Sep 09

My mother dont like my boyfriend because he is 12 years older and she thinks he's bad for me. We've been hiding our relationship for 5 years now. We were caught by my mom because someone told her about us and the sad thing was the...

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anna728 Well, I know this is frustrating, but if you look at it from her perspective you can see why she would disapprove. That is an awfully big age difference (although I don't know how old you are). With that age difference it would be easy to be suspicious of his...

28 Sep 09

I Like Her, But She's Never Available

grumpybear @ShortyAkbar (384) • United States 26 Sep 09

There's this girl that I've had a crush on since middle school. We didn't really start talking to each other since high school. I always wanted to ask her out, but she's never available. I'll talk to her and she'll be dating...

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anna728 I don't think I would waste much time if I were you. Go ahead and date other people, if they catch your attention. Just do whatever is right at the moment. Either you will find someone else who is really better for you, or you will have enjoyed yourself until...

28 Sep 09

Have your partner asked you this question before?

leoling @leoling (173) • Singapore 28 Sep 09

If me and your mum or dad drop into the sea, and you can save only one which one will you save? Assuming that both leg cramp or both don't know how to swim. I find this question really irritating, especially when your partner...

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anna728 Hmm, no, no one has ever asked me this. It would be easier to answer for me since I have a terrible relationship with one parent (not even speaking), but of course for most people that is a difficult thing to think about. I can see how you would feel irritated...

28 Sep 09

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What do I do?

angelface23 @angelface23 (2494) • United States 28 Sep 09

Okay so I was in bed last night thinking about mu life and my situation. Still love my ex but he is gone now. Married to a guy who I have 2 kids with. He's okay but dont love him like I loved ex. Probably wont ever love anyone...

marriage

not in love

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anna728 Aww well first off, I am sorry you are in this hard situation! Well, given that you can't be with your ex, and that your husband is a good father for your children, I would think that you probably shouldn't leave him, at least for now, if for no other...

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Why do you like going to the beach?

richiemogwai @richiemogwai (36) • Canada 28 Sep 09

Yeah, tell me, in your own words, why do you like going to the beach? What's with the ocean, sand, and the coconut trees which keep you coming summer vacation after summer vacation?Why would you spend so much money to fly to Italy...

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anna728 Well I live in the middle of the continent, so I cannot swim in the ocean, but we have tons and tons of lakes in the area. In the summertime my friends and I often go there. I like it because it is just such a summery thing to do. The cool water also feels...

28 Sep 09

Which is easier, to discipline your self or others?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 28 Sep 09

Some people said it is easier to discipline our self than to discipline others. While other people thought that it is easier to discipline others, since you only have give them commands, and teach them the right things to do. What...

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anna728 I think it is much easier to discipline others. I am very bad at forcing myself to do things. I am much more pro-active if someone else is actually counting on me or going to get mad if I do not do it. So I guess not only is it easier for me to discipline...

28 Sep 09