anneish

@anneish (117)

Philippines • Age 38

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Wedding vows, do they mean anything anymore?

oreo11 @oreo11 (18) • Guam 31 Aug 11

Hi mylotters. I have an older sister that has been having marital problems for 4 years now, or so she claims. She's on her 2nd marriage and its still the same things with her, that she doesn't get any emotional support, she is...

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anneish yes!it really means a lot... even though we are in time that everything change from the old age,marriage is very much important.,if there still option to get your marriage fix from the trouble your marriage facing well then try that option... in your...

1 Sep 11

I don't get jealous!

Toni @toniganzon (72533) • Philippines 28 Aug 11

My mother was a very jealous woman and she would nag my dad all the time. I swore I'm never gonna be like her as I don't want jealousy to be the reason of a fight between me and my husband. And in fact I'm really not a jealous...

jealousy

love

relationship

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anneish jealousy is normal i think...especially in a relationship, we must know our limitation about this matter, because there are people that take this very seriously to the point that even their relationship were affected and the worst of it, is that some...

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Do you have a special place to go and think?

163Mandolingirl @163Mandolingirl (1052) 23 Aug 11

I am very fortunate to live by the sea on the south coast. (Well, at least in the Summer!) The town itself is a little bit run down now because of the economic climate in the UK, but the area is gorgeous and well worth exploring,...

my special place

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anneish i really love to stay in front of the sea, it gives me peace of mind and the relaxation i want to feel, by looking at the waves itself i feel so unwind and free...from all the stressed i earned in my everyday life, all the problems, all the depression,...

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Ending the friendship

Toni @toniganzon (72533) • Philippines 4 Apr 11

I have met a lot of men online who flirted with me even though they know the fact that i'm married. I just laughed at them but never gave them any false hopes. I told them from the very start that i am married and yes i do flirt...

flirting

friendship

online

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anneish NO...there's no sense of ending the friendship that you built with each other..in the first place you said that he knew that you are already married...so what the used of ending it, he knew where he stand and you also know your limit in this matter and he's...

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Marriage proposal from Younger boyfriend but not ready to get married

lovebugjess @lovebugjess (262) • Philippines 4 Apr 11

My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, I am 24 and he is 19 and i am afraid that he will leave me very soon for another woman. I am doing the best i can so we could be good in our relationship. Every time he tells me that i am...

love

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anneish i think that your boyfriend is not yet ready as you too...because his age i know is very much young and must enjoy his life first before settling down..like what you've said you are not ready about getting married and his to young, and you for me at your age...

4 Apr 11

Is it fun to loose than to pretend?

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 4 Apr 11

That's a line from Nirvana's song Smells like Teen Spirit. Well, is it really fun to loose than to pretend? Yeah, I guess so. I am always true to my self and others that sometimes there would be a feeling of...

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anneish well....after trying harder of fixing to make your relationship still work...loosing is worth it i think.

4 Apr 11

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Would you destroy a friendship?

sender621 @sender621 (14893) • United States 4 Apr 11

We go through so many relationships in our lives. many of them turn out to be strong friendships we need to see us through. We would do anything for a friend. It is often confusing when we begin to develop...

friendships

relationships

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anneish no...it's not worth it at all! first...the one you like is already taken,have a wife and will build there own family and for sure they truly love each other. second...both of them are your friends, and i know that you will not be happy to destroy someones...

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Saying "I'm sorry"...

oasis_9 @oasis_9 (831) • Philippines 4 Apr 11

Why is it so hard for some people to say those words whenever they made mistake or made some minor error to someone else's. One example my friends yesterday went at a mall and eat a little snack at one of the fast food chain...

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anneish That girl is such a bad girl!... sorry, but she is! it is a simple accident and it is not really a hard situation to say sorry to someone,...and in the first place it was an accident she did not mean it to happen why so hard to say sorry...right? How would i...

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Do I have to Lie?

Toni @toniganzon (72533) • Philippines 4 Apr 11

Ok, so here's the thing. A friend of mine would constantly talk to me on the phone, chatting and he never sleeps though he lives half way around the globe and it means his time zone is the exact opposite of mine. He would talk to...

white lie

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anneish NO... you don't have to lie to someone just to make her/him feel better. what you did is perfectly right,! maybe just explain to him further about your point in telling the truth,...cause everything can be done in a good and sincere conversation.

4 Apr 11

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Do you watch cartoons along with your children or just leave them on their own?

frenzylady @frenzylady (518) • Philippines 16 Nov 10

Watching cartoons are the stuffs kids love, we all do when we were kids as well. Right now, with my 2 kids, if I have nothing to do, I watch cartoons with them. It might sound ridiculous sometimes because we watch the cartoons all...

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anneish if ever i would have my own children...i would do the same thing as you do with your children. because by means of that stuff you can get along with them and at the same time it can help you also to be close to your children,and watching cartoons is a good...

30 Nov 10

perfect age to get marry

shibham @shibham (16977) • India 16 Aug 10

hi everyone..... i am in a dilemma. so need your help, please.... now, i am 31 and well established so my parents are searching a bride for me as i have no girl friend from past. they are thinking to arrange my marriage in next...

age

marry

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anneish hi there! base on your story,i think,you're not yet ready to have a family of your own... because all you think about having a family is all negative and you seems worried about marrying... if you were going to ask me about the right age to get...

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are you happy with your current job?

switlyf @switlyf (649) • Philippines 24 Nov 10

im working as a technical support/ customer support representative for a VOIP or a voice over internet protocol company. the job is easy but i dont know why im not that happy working here. This is the third job I had since i...

job

work

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anneish nope!...but i don't have a choice,if there is...well i have many things to consider before deciding to do what i want... sad!but...that's life...i'm just hoping that soon i can decide so that i can feel the happiness i'm longing for so long...x_x

25 Nov 10

Do you believe that jokes are half meant?

mayrah @mayrah (1144) • United States 24 Nov 10

Do you know that people who jokes a lot usually used to joke to cover up what they really feel inside. They are the people who have emptiness inside. My friend once tell me that jokes are half meant. Well she have a point, If you...

life

people

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anneish true!it is... because even i, do this strategy...because sometimes there are things that are complicated to tell especially in a serious way, that's why i make it a joke to the person i am talking to.,

25 Nov 10

MOTHER **Story of Appreciation**

maygodblessu44 @maygodblessu44 (7336) • India 23 Nov 10

Hello everyonehere Ji, I recieved following mail from my friend and I thought to share with you allto learn another step of mother's efforts to bring up children as well as to appriciate others. This is how it goes...

appriciation

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anneish touching! appreciation and love is the greatest gift that children can give to their parents,thank you for the story it really touched me...

24 Nov 10

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what your take on living in together?

geonelynn @geonelynn (369) • Philippines 21 Nov 10

please share your thoughts on couples living in together before marriage. i have a friend whose boyfriend keeps on asking her that they should be together and since both of their parents are conservative, he suggested to...

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anneish if they are already in the right age i think the opinion of their parents would just be a second priority... what important is their decision about that matters,.and as you said that they love each other, well then there's nothing to worry about,and i think...

22 Nov 10

Would you wake people up?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17385) • Canada 18 Nov 10

I just raised a discussion about attending a classroom lecture where people’s minds check out. Some people in the audience/class even took it a step further by actually dozing off while the lecture was going on. Now, if you...

sleeping

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anneish if needed...yes i would.

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I want to Marry at the age of 30!!!

abish1987 @abish1987 (188) • Philippines 14 Oct 10

My ideal marriage age is 30, how about you? I'm 23 right now and I wanted to enjoy life before getting married.

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anneish that it also my target age... i can see myself ready dealing for big responsibilities in that age,and i know that i can manage to build my life, with someone i want to share the rest of my life.

12 Nov 10

Absence makes heart Fonder ?

Karunvig @Karunvig (714) • India 9 Nov 10

Absence or long distance relationships are very rare for success and they make heart fonder... As per my experience they hardly works, what all u say guyz ?

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anneish as long as communication is open in both,it will possibly work!...

10 Nov 10

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Asking for marriage ?

Karunvig @Karunvig (714) • India 10 Nov 10

Do you think one should be bold and couregous enough to ask the partner for marriage, as in many relations couple love each other and at the end of the day they are so weak to say to get married... ? What u say what is the best...

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anneish well... 1st of all, it is depend upon the couple involve they were the one that can decide in this matter, that includes also the financial matter,2nd the family of the two parties there opinion about this matter., and if that all settled maybe this is...

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