baileyq

@baileyq (67)

Philippines • Age 50

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Do you think that making people feel good gives you a lift as well?

Resy King @resy21curapika (2131) • Pasay, Philippines 24 Apr 09

My Team Leader at my recent work in an outbound sales told me before that if you give someone a smile; you're making them feel good. And if you make others feel good about themselves; it also reflects back to you. I don't think...

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baileyq I believe that you get what you give, eventually. If people put you down, try to not let it ruin your day. There's karma. Just keep your head up and things will turn around.

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What will you do with opportunist relative?

celestial052506 @celestial052506 (2914) • Philippines 24 Apr 09

It drives me crazy when our relatives are only good to us when they can get something from us. When we are the ones who need help, they don;t care.. as if they are not affected. What you usually do to your relatives who are like...

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baileyq I try to avoid them as much as possible. It's no use fighting especially if they think they're always right. You're just wasting time and energy on negative people and it's exhausting.

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Do girls feel that they are being CHEATED by their partners?

rsanders26 @rsanders26 (329) • Philippines 22 Apr 09

Is it true that girls has strong instinct that they will know if their partner is cheating them?:)

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baileyq I wouldn't really call it instinct, but there are clues. Sometimes. If your partner's really good at what he does, you won't even have a clue. There are some women who don't even realize why their partners are acting so sweet and being so thoughtful all of a...

22 Apr 09

Do u hae to clean house alone for evey one

denisedora @denisedora (190) • United States 21 Apr 09

ok i am reall fursterated about always having to clean house by myself. I am engaged and I have two children a 7 yr daughter and 11 yr old son. I am soo soo mad about always having to do dishes clean up the living room clean up...

helo out round the house

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baileyq I know how you feel. I have three kids, all of whom are slobs. But my eight year old has been really good lately, picking up after his little sister and cleaning up a bit. I taught them early on how to bring their plates to the sink when they're done eating,...

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Fastest way to learn cooking!

med889 @med889 (5941) 22 Apr 09

Can someone help me out? I got many recipes books but I just can't come up with a delicious food. Maybe because I don't like cooking and I am learning just for the sake of learning so can someone tell me how can i start loving...

cooking

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baileyq Hi med889! Are you following the directions? I used to not know how to even boil an egg, but when our cook left, I was forced to cook for my family. All I did was pick a recipe from the cook book, followed it, and everyone loved it! I figured from then on that...

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where do you usually hangout with your friends?

jcbelle @jcbelle (152) • Philippines 20 Apr 09

I and my kaberks (friends) used to hangout in the house. We cook something for snacks or even for meal. And also, do movie marathon. We seldom go to malls just to shop. We also prefer to hangout in a beach. We all love nature.

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baileyq We usually hang out at my house or someone else's. It's cheap, it's fun, and we can all just let our hair down. It doesn't matter what day of the week it is, as long as everyone's game. We have a friend who has the best karaoke system, so when we're in the...

22 Apr 09

Men who COOK for you!! Aren't they sexy??

asianwind @asianwind (365) • Philippines 17 Apr 09

Hi guys!! I'm sneaking again LOL... Ok... one of my secret fantasy is to have a man who cooks special meal for me...The way men move in the kitchen is so hot. Forget about the food, pretend its good even it is bad just think...

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baileyq As long as he's not dripping sweat into the food, I guess. Seriously, though, anything that a man is willing to do to please his wife/girlfriend...is a huge turn on. It lets you know he loves you, that he's thoughtful, and that he appreciates you. Personally,...

19 Apr 09

Who do you talk to after a fight with your partner?

cortypants @cortypants (604) • United States 11 Apr 09

Do you keep it to yourself? Call your mom? Best friend? Personally, I usually talk to my best guy friend. He calms me down by explaining what's going on in my boyfriend's head, playing devil's advocate a little. For some reason,...

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baileyq I usually tell my mom because she doesn't always agree with me or tell me what I want to hear. When my dad was alive, though, I usually told him my problems. But I find that the best person to talk to is the one you had a fight/argument with. Just talk it over...

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How crucial is that? I can't believe I forgot

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 4 Apr 09

the babies bottle. We went out and I had everything binky, diapers, change of clothing,lotion, etc all in the baby bag. And we left the house. Low and behold an hour later he starts to fuss and that is when I realize what I didn't...

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baileyq I can relate to this. I think bottles are the most crucial because you can't just buy it from the store and let your baby use it without getting it sanitized first. It's so difficult because moms like us are always in charge of these things -- getting baby...

12 Apr 09

Child abuse, why is it happening and what to do to prevent them?

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 4 Apr 09

I a medical transcriptionist and we have to transcribe the patient's reports of different countries and send them back through internet. One time I had been doing a child specialist and most of the cases where child abuses. I was...

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baileyq It's very hard to prevent it, but we certainly can save a child from further abuse. I once berated a mother inside a restaurant's comfort room because she slapped her hard on the face. All because the little kid couldn't hold it, waiting in line for her turn...

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baby

rocketsky @rocketsky (1013) • China 12 Apr 09

how I hope to have a baby of myself :) when i see other mothers hanging out there with their babies ,I admire them a lot . baby is mother'hope ,future of society ,hope of parents ,they can always make you smile . I made a...

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baileyq Hi rocketsky! Good luck on trying to have a baby. A baby does help lift you up when you're down. Everything melts away when you look at your baby and it does give you a sense of pride and accomplishment when you see what a beautiful thing it is you have...

12 Apr 09

what do you feel when someone say "you are so fat"

Tinna_He @Tinna_He (300) • China 26 Mar 09

Because i am fat,i always heard someone said to me "you are so fat and you should lose your weight".Maybe they are making a joke.But i always feel hurt.i will be fat even i only drink water.so it is difficult for me to lose...

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baileyq It depends on my mood at that moment. If I got up on the wrong side of the bed, I'll probably say, "Fat is temporary, dumb is forever." But I don't usually come across anyone that insensitive or rude. I choose who I hang out with, and I don't like to be around...

28 Mar 09

Is it right to lend friends money?

sltoni @sltoni (3) • United States 15 Nov 08

My oldest friend in the world is going threw a rough patch, she is married to a looser who doesn't work, ruined her credit, had her car reposessed, home forclosed on and has no money, no insurance, and has had to move in with her...

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baileyq You might want to talk to her outside of work and tell her how you feel about the situation about the job. She is lucky to have a friend like you, and you did the right thing as a friend by giving her a job. But if this goes on, and she doesn't pull her own...

16 Nov 08

Does it seem strange for a married man to not wear his wedding band anymore?

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 15 Nov 08

If a married man used to wear his wedding band, but does not anymore, is that a bit odd. He says that the ring does not make the marriage. But, the woman still wears hers. When he goes to work, he takes it off because of the job...

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baileyq My husband and I stopped wearing our rings because we both gained weight. When I look at my wedding ring I can't even imagine how my finger fit through it in the first place! But if it were for another reason I would definitely be suspicious. Although some...

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I have lost all faith in humanity

sweetdesign @sweetdesign (5142) • United States 15 Nov 08

I just don't believe in the charity of man anymore. I don't believe that anyone cares about thier fellow human beings anymore. I think everyone is out for number one. It hurts my heart to feel this way but I just don't see any...

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baileyq I agree with you somewhat. If you watch the news, read the papers, it's all there. It's gotten so that I don't even read the papers anymore except for the funnies and the entertainment section. But once in a while, I find articles that are about people who've...

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Do You Talk To Your Mother Often?

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 14 Nov 08

How often do you talk to your mother?.. My mother passed when I was 12 years old. so I don't have a mother. I have 2 living children, and I don't get a chance to talk to them much doing the week. We work different hours. I do talk...

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baileyq Hello, Chevee! I talk to my mom often, sometimes three times a day. Ever since my father passed away I've always felt that she is a bit lonely so I try to make an effort. I sympathize with you because I know how you feel. I would hate to have my three children...

14 Nov 08

Will You Commit Suicide If You Failed to Fulfill Your Promise?

zhaychel @zhaychel (610) • United Arab Emirates 13 Nov 08

Just last week, my sister told me that a schoolmate of hers in college committed suicide. And the reason behind was he was too ashamed to tell his parents know that he'll not be able to graduate because he failed his subject....

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baileyq I've failed in the past, and I must admit, it did cross my mind. When you're looking for an easy way out, you can't help it. But I'm glad I didn't. If I had, my family would've been devastated, I wouldn't be where I am now (heck, I wouldn't be anywhere), and I...

13 Nov 08

Friends with Benefits, will you do welcome that idea or not..why?

cecelgay @cecelgay (563) • Philippines 12 Nov 08

Friends with benefits, a relationship with no string attach or making love ou of nothing, will you practice it? On the place where i am right now there are alot of persons doing it, they say one of the reasons is because they long...

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baileyq I wouldn't welcome it. It wouldn't do much for my self-esteem, knowing that someone only wanted me for that purpose and nothing more. Besides, I value myself too much to allow myself to be used that way. I also value and respect other people not to do that to...

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