bebe_bonsai

@bebe_bonsai (112)

Philippines • Age 47

Joined myLot 18 years ago

woman in distress

Responses (24)

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Don't you feel good when you help other people?

kyleuy @kyleuy (270) 26 Mar 10

Don't you feel good when you help other people especially less fortunate ones? I remembered, I had this project on my religion subject two years ago where you need to help people. the more people you help the more points you gain...

helping

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bebe_bonsai It always feels good to help other people only when you are not asked or forced to do it or the favor wasn't thrown at you. Helping people should be out of your own free will.

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do you agreee that we controlled our life or it is god.

homeshoppers @homeshoppers (6166) • Philippines 1 Mar 10

people always blame god once they failed with their life and if they have big problem. as if it was god who made it for them. god give us mind to think and heart to feel so i guess we are the one who control our life, whatever...

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bebe_bonsai Even before we were born, God has already planned the events in our lives, but He also gave us the free will to decide which path to take. So, whether or not we succeed in life, it's not all God's doing.

2 Mar 10

Do you eat your pizza using fork or by using your hands?

dragonangel @dragonangel (551) 26 Feb 10

It's nice when we eat the food we have according to what is comfortable for us. I was eating pizza today and as always, I use the fork and knife.This is the way I'm comfortable with.And then, on the other table I saw some people...

eating preference

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bebe_bonsai Pizzas are eaten better with bare hands. All the grease and sauce in my hands make it more enjoyable for me.

27 Feb 10

Will you change your religion if your lover ask this to you?

marianna45 @marianna45 (1399) • Romania 24 Feb 10

You change your religion that you have from your parents, because of love for your future husband or wife? If your hus/wife ask you this, will you be agree? Do you think you can keep your religion , and future spouse can...

questions and answer

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bebe_bonsai First, religion is such a sensitive topic among friends or partners. My first boyfriend was a Baptist. I entertained his invitations to attend their services and even allowed myself to be introduced to his religious circle. It was fun at first because having a...

25 Feb 10

Do you also talk to yourself outloud? Or am i just balmy?

pandaeyes @pandaeyes (2065) 24 Feb 10

I often talk to myself. When I was little I would chatter away all by myself in the garden. Even now as a grown up I talk out loud if I am by myself. I talk myself through things if I am mending something or just when I am...

self talk

solitary

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bebe_bonsai I talk to myself all the time, but not when others can hear me. I do this especially when I need to come up with a good idea or a wiser decision. Like yo I do this to evaluate the scenario or situation. I believe it helps me more in a good way.

24 Feb 10

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Separation of husband and wife?Will it affect the child emotionally?

cloud31 @cloud31 (5809) 23 Feb 10

Does it affect the child innocents or would it affect young children's emotions when couples got separated and children will not be able to have a happy family?What do you think about separation? will it lead confusion to young...

innocents

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bebe_bonsai Separation, annulment, or divorce definitely affects a child. We all think that children are children and they are incapable of feeling what adults feel, but that's not true. Sometimes a kid feels more depressed than his or her parents. I've seen many kids go...

24 Feb 10

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How many cell phone numbers do you have?

k sridharprasad @yugasini (12893) • Secunderabad, India 18 Feb 10

hi mylot friends, I am utilising the opportunity of the cell phone service providers offers,now a days these companies are offering double talk time,tripple talk time,paise per second talk time,second call @29...

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bebe_bonsai I actually have two numbers but I tend to use the other one more often because I keep the other one for official use.

19 Feb 10

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Do you want to become rich???

kyvin147 @kyvin147 (78) 18 Feb 10

For me Yes I want to be rich..... I want to be rich not for only for my personal intention but I want also to help other people who needs to be help not only financial but also in spiritually and emotionally. Now a days I found...

rich

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bebe_bonsai Who doesn't? I'd always say that if I won the lottery I'd invest in several real estate and profitable businesses, go on a shopping spree with my loved ones, and donate to charity. But, the thing is I don't even gamble much less spend money on a lottery...

19 Feb 10

What was the first thing that came to your mind when you woke up this morning ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 19 Feb 10

ahhhhh......................................................exactly my mind was blank then I thought where was I ,what was I doing here and then I looked at my watch and realised shooks I am late .So the Next fifteen minutes...

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bebe_bonsai That I gotta check if my husband's online and gotta ask him to come home early from work.

19 Feb 10

TIPS on getting over an EX-BOYFRIEND...

dee @yresh12 (3212) • Philippines 17 Feb 10

I Always read discussions about our fellow myLotters getting advises on how to get over an EX... Here are some that I know of... 1. Cry it all out Just cry it out. Cry all the regrets, the memories and everything you feel...

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bebe_bonsai A lot of good advice had been said but nothing matters most than acceptance. Don't deny the hurt and most especially don't deny the lessons that you learned after the relationship has ended. Besides, it made you a better person... hopefully.

18 Feb 10

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real friends

homeshoppers @homeshoppers (6166) • Philippines 17 Feb 10

i just realize now that you can only tell whose your real friends are during the time when your very down. i used to have lots of friends before while i still have job and earning a lot, we used to go out, dine out, go to party...

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bebe_bonsai Shame on all your so-called friends and kudos to the one that stuck by your side. Real friends are hard to find and they are like diamonds in a mine. Since you have probably found a true friend now despite your predicament, show her the same care and support....

17 Feb 10

do you sing out loud or only in secret?

pandaeyes @pandaeyes (2065) 17 Feb 10

I like to sing. Sometimes I will sing to myself while I am cooking and even in the garden although in the garden I will sing softly so the other neighbours don't hear. When I was at work,one or two people would sing just for fun...

sing

spontaneity

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bebe_bonsai I also like to sing since both of my parents are into music, but not professionally though. I rarely sing in the bathroom or in any secret place, but when the mood hits me, I sing without care if the neighbors can hear me or not. I search youtube for some...

17 Feb 10

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Do you have any plan for making money online in year 2010?

Lee Ka @kaka135 (14931) • Malaysia 6 Jan 10

I am trying to work harder in making money online, so that I can work from home and take care of my baby. These are the things I plan to do: 1. Set up my blogs for earning money via advertisement and review. 2. Learn to bid...

make money online

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bebe_bonsai I have just started re-activating my account here in mylot and sign up with other online jobs. Yup, I plan to earn a lot by doing the things you listed, although some of it are quite new to me. I will be unemployed come March and plan to just work from home....

17 Feb 10

What do u prefer A bussiness OR A job??

smartcooldude1386 @smartcooldude1386 (286) • India 17 Feb 07

I am a 21 years graduate i m of a double mind that should i start up with a new Bussiness as i have no problem with fund Or should i do a job for which i will have to study more to attain a degree. I feel bussiness as good bcos we...

bussiness

job

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bebe_bonsai you are lucky not only to have finished a degree, but to have capital to start out your own business. a lot of people like would have either. the good thing about going to college and finishing a degree that you prefer is that if you so decide to go out to...

18 Feb 07

Politics in the Philippines

sweetvenus @sweetvenus (95) • Philippines 14 Feb 07

Do you think there is till hope for the Philippine Government? Do you think the present administration is a very corrupt government? What can you say about the up coming election? What side are you in? Adminstration or...

corruption

government

politics

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bebe_bonsai there's nothing we can do with our government anymore. we could only hope that the next generation won't give the people headaches as what we are getting now. we can only hope that showbiz personalities might wanna think twice before running and that manny...

16 Feb 07

Do you HAVE to buy name brands??

happymommy3 @happymommy3 (2012) • United States 15 Feb 07

Are you one that has to buy name brand clothes, name brand products? Does it really matter to you what brand it is? Do you buy even when you don't really have the money too? Do you even care what brand it is? I'm one who doesn't...

money

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bebe_bonsai when i was younger and most of my friends were into brand names or branded product, i would envy them and ask my mom to purchase me stuff that carry the same. there were times that she would give in to my incessant pleadings but most of the time she would just...

16 Feb 07

Is there anything wrong about being a GAY???

ireneortiz @ireneortiz (272) • Philippines 14 Feb 07

I have friends who are gay and I find them a person full of talents - they are artistic, creative and a lot more that a normal guy cant do. Are you aware that there's a lot of gay in the advertising world and fashion ?- that...

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bebe_bonsai I love gays. I have a handful of gayfriends who contribute a lot to my well-being. their insights about life, love, and relationships help me through in many ways. i admire their zest in life and even when other people see them differently, they still manage...

15 Feb 07

Is it natural for a man to give his wife flowers on Valentine's Day?

juls2me2 @juls2me2 (2150) • United States 12 Feb 07

To me, I feel it should be natural for a man to give his wife/gf/special someone flowers of some kind on Valentine's Day. My husband can sure find the money to get himself toys and computer stuff, but conveniently forgets to do...

valentines day

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bebe_bonsai the problem with us, women, is that we expect that men should be the ones giving us flowers, chocolates, or jewelries. the problem with men is that they expect us to do our wifely duties to them like washing their clothes or preparing for their dinner. the...

13 Feb 07

Pregnant! Married! Allowed back in schoo. what do you think?

Rosy001 @Rosy001 (363) • South Africa 13 Feb 07

what kind of message do you think this will send fellow students? young girl, falls pregnant, gets married and then insists on attending school to complete her grade. i feel she shouldnt. i feel it sends out the wrong message and...

married

pregnant

teenager

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bebe_bonsai Well, I have three things to point out and my intent may not be to convince or change your mind but to agree to those who has the same opinion as I do. First, falling pregnant is NEVER a crime... it's actually a beautiful BLESSING. Imagine a lot of couples are...

13 Feb 07

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private diary!. keep it Private!.

Mylot member @patrice7 (1191) • United States 13 Feb 07

privatE and i mean private!. not to be viewed by anyone else but me!. that is my diary.. my diary is a very private thing to me and i would hate it if someone read it.. anyway i was so shocked when i learned that my hubby has read...

life

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bebe_bonsai i had a similar experience but this time it was my mom, worst, when she read my diary, it was not accidental at all. i was in high school then and being much younger at that time i kept a journal of my treasured moments especially if these were with my...

13 Feb 07

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