bellis716

@bellis716 (4799)

United States • Age 90

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Adoption Is The Best

kittenclaus @kittenclaus (1393) • United States 26 Apr 13

I recently went to the humane society, It was just to look and I had no intentions of adopting that day. But I walked into the cat room and in the very back staring out at me was a golden purebred Persian. he's 7 years old and has...

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bellis716 Our last 2 cats came from our local animal shelter. Before that, our cats came from friends or neighbors. One was thrust upon us at a very inconvenient time. For some reason, a co-worker asked us to take care of his female cat. Within a very short time,...

27 Apr 13

Why do you think most people started using human names for their pets?

tinym8 @tinym8 (420) • United States 26 Apr 13

In the past, we were familiar with having pets named after such things as their disposition or their fur color. For example, dogs were called such names as Smokey or Mischief or Happy and cats might be Fluffy or Princess. Now...

cat names

dog names

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bellis716 Since humans are having fewer children, our pets have taken the place of children. Our last cat was "Sleepy". The one before that was "Johnny Cat", after a brand of cat litter.

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Ignored again

Kmz059 @Kmz059 (652) • Philippines 26 Apr 13

I posted my discussions the last time that my friend borrowed from me last month, but until now she haven't paid or even talk to me. But last day I chatted her and asked her when she will pay me, and she ignored my...

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bellis716 I hope you learned your lesson to not loan anthing of value to anyone. If your friends friendship, you should consider the money a gift, but don't loan her anything else. She is not trustworthy.

27 Apr 13

I Don't Understand This...

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 26 Apr 13

I was just talking with some of my friends and the guy is going through some health issues and he told his wife that he will be really mad if he dies and she decides to be with someone else... He said he would haunt her forever if...

death

love

unfair

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bellis716 That guy is carrying jealousy to the limit. I don't call that love. It's about control. Of course, he'll actually have no control over his wife after he's dead. On second thought, if he has money, he could control that via his will. Still think he's a...

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Needy Maintenance Men

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4606) • United States 25 Apr 13

the guys that i have come over to cut my lawn is getting on my nerves. first of all, i hate when people ask to use your bathroom. i HATE people in my bathroom unless you live in my house. another thing, is that they ask for...

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bellis716 What you said about youself, that you are not the most hospitable person, is true. I always offer an¥ workman cold water to drink and have to qualms about letting them relieve themselves in my bathroom. Since I have a problem holding my urine, I can be...

26 Apr 13

Have you ever given your cat a bath?

ctryhnny @ctryhnny (3460) • United States 24 Apr 13

I realize cats do a good job at cleaning themselves but I think they should also get a real bath in soap and water. I haven't tried it yet but am considering it. My cats look clean enough and have very shiny coats. I was in the...

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cat

good idea

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bellis716 There are a few breeds of cats that like water, but most dislike it. Probably one could train a cat to submit to be bathed with soap and water, but one would have to start when they are small kittens.

26 Apr 13

I just cant believe she left her kids with her parents.....

mariaperalta @mariaperalta (19073) • Mexico 24 Apr 13

I told you about my friend awhile back. The one with 4 kids. Whos new man doesnt like or even want kids. She came into my cafe sunday for coffee. I was surprised she didnt have her little girl with her. She told...

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bellis716 What is she going to do after the 2 - 3 months has lapsed? Does she think that her boyfriend will change his mind and welcome the 4 children into his home? Not going to happen. Maybe she thinks that her parents will just take on the responsibility of...

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The guests who are not time punctual.

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4859) • Pune, India 24 Apr 13

Hi, Yesterday, one family came to visit us. They had make a call and told us that we will come at night. So we made preparations for some snacks to welcome them. But they came very late at 10 p,m. My wife waited for them and...

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bellis716 Any guests who came to our house at 10pm would find us already in bed.

26 Apr 13

What Gentleman means for you?

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 25 Apr 13

Well, for me Gentleman is the one who is really polite and sophisticated.. I love sophisticated, soft spoken and handsome guys! Men in my home country are really Gentle, they would never pass the door if a lady is there, they...

gentleman

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bellis716 The gentleman you described sounds like what we in the USA would call a true southern gentleman. At one time, boys were trained, usually by their mothers, to treat all females too treat all females with courtesy and respect. Then came women's lib. Young...

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Give Thanks to God!

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 23 Apr 13

It is good to not forget God and to give him thanks for everything, for each day that we open our eyes and for each second that we breath .. well, giving thanks to God is the way of opening doors of brightness, happiness and...

thanks

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bellis716 I agree that we should always give thanks. So many of us just pray for just our needs but forget to give thanks, especially for answered prayera.

23 Apr 13

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Friends, its over. I am back, at last.

veejay19 @veejay19 (3589) • India 22 Apr 13

Hello friends, hope you all are keeping well. I have been away from Mylot for around 6 months now. Of course i have been responding to a couple of posts here and there just to keep my account running. So what was i up to? Some...

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bellis716 Congratulations on a job well done.

22 Apr 13

My left hand has pins and needles during my sleep, how to get rid of it?

emily7339 @emily7339 (1337) • Malaysia 20 Apr 13

I notice there is a soft lump near outer part of my left elbow sometime ago . It is about 1.5cm but I am not very sure. I could see and feel the lump. I did consulted a doctor and he told me it could possibly a Tennis...

tennis elbow

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bellis716 When I said that I have simliar symptome, I forgot to say that I do not have the lump, only the tingling, pain and lack of strength.

21 Apr 13

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My left hand has pins and needles during my sleep, how to get rid of it?

emily7339 @emily7339 (1337) • Malaysia 20 Apr 13

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bellis716 My best advice would would be to go back to the doctor and make sure you tell him all the symptoms, when they occur, when they first occured and how long they last. It would probably be wise to make a list prior to to the appointment. I have...

21 Apr 13

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“Sorry! I can’t give you” I had no regrets saying so!

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 20 Apr 13

We had guests this week and I was the one who took extra trouble to get their phone number, invite them over for lunch and had asked them to spend the day with us. This is a cousin of my husband’s. There were three of them, one...

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bellis716 I probably would not have had any problem lending the book, but my attitude regarding books is different from yours. In your case, I believe that announcing up front that you do not lend books is the best policy.

21 Apr 13

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if you see a 13 yr old girl kissing an guy in his 30s, would you tell the dad?

dagami @dagami (1158) • Rome, Italy 20 Apr 13

mu hubby painted the gate of my landlord's house last sunday. my landlord and his wife were there when he arrived but they left after an hour. when it was his time to go, my husband went to the other side of the house to store the...

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bellis716 Am 13 year old is a child in a woman's body. The parents need to be alerted about what you saw. Even if the man is a family member, the father needs to know what is happening while he is away. Ask your husband how he would feel if it were his...

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Would you buy Something Broken?

GreenMoo @GreenMoo (11834) 20 Apr 13

We've been looking for a professional sized wood chipper for a long time, but they're hard to find and very expensive. We have just taken the opportunity to buy one at a knock down price, BUT it's broken. The clutch is broken and...

broken

risk

wood chipper

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bellis716 Since I'm not mechanically inclined, I would not but a piece of broken machinery. However, I have bought clothing that needed repairs or alterations, if I were sure that I could fix the problem.

21 Apr 13

Dominating partner.

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4859) • Pune, India 17 Apr 13

Hi, My sister is very dominating. She always think that she is always right and everyone in the family should listen to her. In my family no one is dominating. We take decisions together by discussing and understanding each...

dominating partner

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bellis716 Both in my childhood family and in my marriage, the male was always the dominate one. Now that my husband is older and frequently needs my help, our roles are beginning to change somewhat.

19 Apr 13

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Do you have time to enjoy the sunshine in the morning?

qianlizhifeng @qianlizhifeng (468) • China 17 Apr 13

It is such a small question to ask you that most of us have ignored the question in our daily life.When you get up quickly,have a quick breakfast and rush to the bus stop,you may forget to enjoy the beautifully warm sunshine. It...

busy

morning

work

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bellis716 Her only choice would have been to get up even earlier that 6 o'clock. However, that might not have been practical either. Did you ever think about preparing HER breakfast?

19 Apr 13

white lies... do you feel guilty afterwards?

dagami @dagami (1158) • Rome, Italy 18 Apr 13

there's going to be a 24 hr transport strike tomorrow. as per the rules, there are two guaranteed breaks - one the morning and the other in the early evening. this is done in order that the working population will be able to go to...

transport strikes

white lies

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bellis716 What would have happened had you told your landlord the truth? I always try to tell the truth. It might occasionally make someone unhappy, but it's easier than trying to keep half truths or downright lies straight. You should feel guilty.

19 Apr 13

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