besoftandsweet

@besoftandsweet (53)

United States • Age 64

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Sore tail bone - what could be causing this?

maddysmommy @maddysmommy (16230) • United States 9 Apr 08

My husband's tail bone has been causing him a lot of pain over the last few weeks and it seems to be getting worse. I've advised him to get it checked but as usual, he thinks the pain will subside. He emailed me again today saying...

aches

painful tail bone

sore tail bone

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besoftandsweet Does it bother him after he has been standing for a while or is it painful to bend is it easily agitated by any of this if so I would suggest seeing a specialist. I started having back problem in the lower area all the way doown to the tailbone I thought I was...

10 Apr 08

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what will you do if you really won $10 million dollar?

marketing07 @marketing07 (6266) • South Korea 5 Apr 08

last night,,i heard them telling i won..$10 million dollars and i have to get the award..while i was waiting for my name to be called ..i was thingking how im gonna do with the $10 million dollars..but suddenly my baby cried for...

lottery winner

money

winning

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besoftandsweet Most people say money changes people I wouldn't be changed if I won alot of money. What would I do? Pay off my home and vehicles. Pay off my in-laws home and vehicles do some home improvements give all my adult children a substantial amount of money to help...

6 Apr 08

Would you allow your child to open a MySpace account?

virtual44 @virtual44 (26) • United States 5 Apr 08

My son wants to open a MySpace account. He is 13 and I feel that is too young. My husband thinks I am being overprotective. I know I can monitor him while he is online but I still worry. Would you let your child open a MySpace...

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besoftandsweet I have a 15 year old son at 14 he wanted a my space account we have 3 pcs all connected and he does have parental controls on his. I let him have a my space account reluctantly but I talked to him beforehand we are very close and very open with each other....

6 Apr 08

How do you maintain your emotional well being when you are ill?

kbourgerie @kbourgerie (8780) • United States 18 Mar 08

I've come to realize since being on this site that many members are homebound due to illness, disabilities and other health issues. I hate going to the doctor and avoided going sometimes at all costs. Recently, I've found myself...

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besoftandsweet Thats a veru good question I don't have an answer to it like you I wonder how I get through I know I cry alot more then I ever did. I was always very active and I feel like I am still a young woman but I got struck down. I have been to the hospital so much I...

4 Apr 08

Being Alone

iamcruellodevyll @iamcruellodevyll (62) • Philippines 3 Feb 08

No one to talk to It's like you are inside a very dark room without hearing any sound in it. When you have problems, no one is there to comfort you. No one to share with when you are happy. It's like you are sleeping without...

alone

being alone

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besoftandsweet You can be surrounded by people and still be very much alone I am but I choose this by lack of trust. I don't turn to people to vent my feelings I cry when I'm alone. My emotions are dealt with on paper in posts or in poetry. I have never quite fit in anywhere...

3 Feb 08

My teenage daughter is pregnant

madasp @madasp (563) • United States 23 Jan 08

to be quite honest i'm sick of people judging me when I talk about it in a positive light. Don't get me wrong, this is the last thing I wanted for my daughter, but it happened, baby's on the way (in april) and there is nothing I...

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besoftandsweet No one wants their daughters to be mothers as teens but it happens alot in this day and age and so many teens end up on the streets or the wrong track because parents can't accept it. There is nothing wrong with looking forward to being a grandparent and...

24 Jan 08

My Water Broke!!!

tamararacine @tamararacine (268) • United States 23 Jan 08

Well according to the doctor it is leaking....I have 3 boys and I never heard of this..doesn't the baby survive in that fluid??? My doctor told me it is very little and to rest and take it easy and now I am being seen every week....

having a baby

pregnancy

water broke

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besoftandsweet With my 2nd child at 8 months i had this problem I wasn't allowed to do stairs no lifting just take it easy she was born 2 weeks early with no complications I was only in labor for 3 hours so she came fast. there wasn't alot of water to break but eveerthing...

24 Jan 08

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I won't tolerate this!

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 23 Jan 08

what is that one thing you will not accept from your friend? when we have friends we tolerate a lot from them and they do for us, we all have our faults, but what is the one thing that you will not tolerate, for me is...

people

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besoftandsweet To hurt me thru my kids is what I cannot accept. It does happen probably not as much as the backstabbing your referring too. however, if a friend is talking behind your back they aren't really a friend at all being able to say anything to each other is a...

24 Jan 08

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If you are face to face with GOD this very minute, what would you tell HIM?

want2bmommy @want2bmommy (20) • Philippines 30 Sep 07

Do you believe in God? I do. Have you ever wonder what if He come to you and ask what is it that you're longing to tell Him? I do. And with a lot of things in my mind, I came to realize one thing... although God already knew...

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besoftandsweet I beleive in god I always have but I don't go to church regularly I beleive worship is in the heart not in a manmade building. What would I tell god if I were face to face ? Nothing but I certainly would have a lot of questions to ask him about the world,...

30 Sep 07

I hav done somethining really very wrong?????????

GAUrox @GAUrox (203) 30 Sep 07

yesterday night a very good frnd of mine proposed me...........at the starting i was saying no but then she added that if i say no then she is goin to die but cutting veins .......................just for the sake of her life i...

love

mistake

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besoftandsweet If someone has to threaten you to get you to marry them in my opinion you should say no they have some very deep issues. As for saying I love you when you don't no one should ever use those 3 words if they don't mean them if you do your misleading the other...

30 Sep 07

Being Jobless Means Having a Lot of Free Time?

wondericequeen @wondericequeen (7876) • Hong Kong 29 Sep 07

I was talking to a friend and she whined about how much free time and how lazy I would get because I am out of the job market for awhile. But wait, I still have a long list of things in my mind I need to finish. Like I need to...

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besoftandsweet I disagree that because you don't have a job means you have a lot of free time or that you will get lazy. I had a long term job and was injured at work I haven't been able to return and may never be able to but I stay very busy with my home my husband and son...

30 Sep 07

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Do you have insomnia?

spiderlizard22 @spiderlizard22 (3444) • United States 30 Sep 07

Is it hard for you to fall asleep? What do you do to get some sleep? Do you go to the doctor to treat your sleep disorder?

insomnia

rest

sleep

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besoftandsweet I have had problems sleeping from childhood. At 13 I was put on sleeping pills because it was interfering with school. I didn't take them long I am not being seen for a sleeping disorder but my husband has threatened to send me to a sleep clinic several times...

30 Sep 07

Is 16yrs girl matured enough for marriage?

12051976 @12051976 (231) • Ghana 28 Aug 07

The way i see marriage, am surprise when i see people rushing into it. Currently, in my country people are saying the law should allow the age 16 for girls to marry if they so wish. But i asked, is the age 16 conducive for...

marriage

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besoftandsweet 16 is young but it is also only a number. Marriage is a big step and yes 16 is normally too young to get married. However, some young ladies are very mature some many years ahead of themselves. I say if they are going to allow 16 year olds to get married they...

6 Sep 07

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If you found a large sum of money would you hand it in or keep it?

nikkiwith @nikkiwith (1074) • Australia 6 Sep 07

I know that if you find a large sum of money and you hand it in, after a certain amount of time if no one comes forward to claim it then you get to keep it, but can't the police officer just organize for one of his friends or...

money

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besoftandsweet For myself I would still turn it in if it is obtained by someone else dishonestly I know I will still sleep at night knowing I did the right thing regardless of the outcome. My husband says I'm too honest. I say that's not possible.

6 Sep 07

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The WOMAN you really love so much

eir000 @eir000 (30) • Philippines 6 Sep 07

I have an X girlfriend,whom until now, i love her so much. After we broke up, i court another girls and had many girlfriends just to forget her. Its been 3 years from now,many girlfriends pass by,but still can't forget her. She's...

greatest love

only her

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besoftandsweet If she was your first true love you will never forget her. There are some people in the world who can be very much in love but cannot live together. If your still friends you haven't lost your girlfriend you have gained a good friend which in some cases is a...

6 Sep 07

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Do you always give advice?

Mirita @Mirita (2668) • United States 6 Sep 07

Sometimes, I see some of my family members making bad decisions ,and is hard for me not to give my point of view. I know that most people take advice for granted ,but is hard for me not to warn my love ones of some of the dangers...

relationship with others

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besoftandsweet I also have a tendency to say whats on my mind my oldest daughter and I have had alot of hurt feelings over it she doesn't like it when I tell her what I think. However, all was said with her best interest in mind. She has been very immature and irresponsible...

6 Sep 07

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Jobs on line

Raqcrafl @Raqcrafl (12) • Philippines 10 Jul 07

So they say there are tons of online full-time/part-time jobs. Yeah I've seen a lot but the thing is there are ...some wrote...I have to be a US resident,..I need to pay a one time membership fee,..I need to have a credit card,.....

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logos

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besoftandsweet I know the feeling I have been scammed more then once with these type at home and get paid scams in my opinion most all of them are scams mylot pays you to post responses and stuff but it seems to take a long time to build up any substancial amount of cash and...

10 Jul 07

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