bluemars

@bluemars (952)

Australia • Age 45

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What's your best diet secret?

mystarpaper @mystarpaper (15) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

Can you reveal your diet regimen? I would love to know.

diet

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bluemars Yes there is a link to the types of food I eat that is helping me a lot: lillenalite.blogspot.com, the foods change and it has really helped for inspiration.

31 Aug 10

Do you spend money on things you do not need?

velentina @velentina (891) • Mauritius 10 May 10

I have the tendency to buy things which is cheap even if I do not need them. then I noticed that it was a waste of money. Now I have stopped buying useless things. I buy only things I really need. Life is too difficult we must not...

money

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bluemars Most of the time I do look for things that I need but I do sometimes on occasion look for the things that I just desire. It can be hard at times when we are just trying to make ends meet and we have to save and be careful on what we spend our money on. I think...

11 May 10

The price of weddings can be very high. What would you spend on a wedding?

oldchem1 @oldchem1 (8132) 10 May 10

It has been said that the average cost of a UK wedding is £18,000!!! This is the AVERAGE of what is spent here - obviously some are a lot less but others are lots,lots more. What is your opinion of...

cost

weddings

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bluemars Every couple should have a budget in plan and have everything organised to run according with their budget. I know it can be hard at times but I think that we should be careful and shop around even for a wedding because there are places that charge higher and...

11 May 10

Plan for mosque near World Trade Center site moves ahead

whiteheather39 @whiteheather39 (24403) • United States 10 May 10

I personally did not lose any family or friends in the the terrible World Trade Center Terrorist Attack but I find this proposal to be incredibly disrespectful to the memory of those who died by the actions of Islamic...

disrespect

how cruel

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bluemars Yes one could only look at this view and decide to agree with because there are so many people that are just simply angry and are holding onto a lot of hidden emotions that are not necessarily positive. However we do have to keep an open mind and also we need...

11 May 10

Have you kept in touch with your childhood friends?

marguicha @marguicha (222999) • Chile 10 May 10

Today I got a call from my childhood friend. She lives in the US now and lived in Venezuela for a long time. Nevertheless, we not only kept in touch, but we are still best friends. Outside my family, she is probably the person I...

childhood friend

friend

friendship

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bluemars It is really hard to keep in touch with those kind of friends, I guess they have their own lives and people are so busy these days that it is getting harder and harder to make those connections. I would like to be able to invite friends over but the way the...

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Does Your Managers Just Make You Mad.

Payout @payout (3794) • United States 9 May 10

Today I got in a Argument with 2 out of 5-6 managers today. this subject was about my schedule. How they are not going with my availability that I gave them months ago. So I deal with this problem for a week or two. I can't...

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bluemars I hate it when they just don't even try to communicate with you at all. I mean they just go ahead and do things that will directly affect you and not speak to you at all or even let you know. That can make so many people mad. What about when they make you wait...

9 May 10

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What is 'Perfect' really mean to you?

HeadKiller @HeadKiller (11) • Singapore 9 May 10

There are people asking like 'What is a perfect relationship?' , 'What is a perfect life?' or 'Am I Perfect?" . But I do not think that many people ask themselves what does 'Perfect' really mean to you? So , what does 'perfect'...

life

perfect

relationship

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bluemars Perfect I think in that context to me means to be happy and feel at peace and in love I guess and despite the bad times because lets face it things can't always be perfect because things happen sometimes but it is how you get through them that matters the most...

9 May 10

I hate myself for being lazy. Who feels the same way I feel?

keval32 @keval32 (1096) • India 8 May 10

Yeah, I hate myself so much for my laziness. I think laziness is the biggest barrier that keeps me away from progress. I know laziness is bad, but after trying much, actually I can't say much, because there's nothing can be said...

get rid of laziness

laziness

lazy

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bluemars I know how you feel, that can be a hard feeling to have on one's self. I think you just need to try to direct your feelings more positively. That too can be hard but it is very possible and the more you do it the more better you will feel and it will then...

9 May 10

What are the books that you treasure?

allyoftherain @allyoftherain (7208) • United States 8 May 10

Hey readers! What books do you treasure? Are there any rare or valuable books in your collection that you guard closely? Do some of your books have sentimental value to you? Or do you just treasure some of your books because they...

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bluemars Once someone told me that a book is like a friend. So I think all books should be taken cared of. Every book should be treasured I think. I know some people have their favourites but who knows maybe one day a book that is not your favourite could be one day...

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Beyonce as "BB Homemaker"

olisaur @olisaur (1922) • United States 8 May 10

A friend was talking about Beyonce's new video for "Why Don't You Love Me" yesterday so I just looked it up. I am not a Beyonce fan, and really don't care for the song but this music video is GREAT. It's shot in this kind of...

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bluemars There is a lot of that going on right now with other artist too and it seems to be working out for them so I guess that kind of sets the trend for others in the industry to do the same. That is the great thing about working in music you can express yourself in...

9 May 10

hey friends i need help from u..please see and reply for same!!!

vishkris @vishkris (205) • India 8 May 10

hi my lot friends..i have a friend..he is very good person..very soft very very reserved..the problem is he is not speaking jovially..he is too reserved..i don know whether he is maintaining distance with everyone or naturally...

friends

reserved

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bluemars It can be hard but really you can not change someone who does not want to change, best bet is to just try, and make an effort with this person to involve them as much as possible. That is all you can do, just reach out to them in every way. Also to let them...

9 May 10

Why People leave their parents at old people home when they reach to an old age?

achoo123 @achoo123 (53) • Pakistan 8 May 10

hi guys, i am really much confused that why people leave their parents at old people's home when they reach an old age? Why they feel them as burden on them? they give their whole life to us so that we don't become sad. they...

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bluemars It can be hard especially if the partner who is looking after their loved one for example is getting old themselves and is finding it very hard to do so. I mean as you get older you just may not have the same energy and strength but also it requires so much...

9 May 10

2 years of online job...fed up....please help!

jaffna @jaffna (778) • India 9 May 10

Hi mylotters, Hope all are doing well...I've started my mission in online job hunt since 2 years, am sad that still am not successful...The best site was ciao and i felt that it was providing me some good amount till a year...

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bluemars I know how you feel, I think that most of us are stuck on the same boat. It is not really a great feeling to be honest, but sure is a real one. I mean there is so much information out there but sometimes I get so side tracked with it all. I think that...

9 May 10

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Why did you choose to live in the country you live in?

newtalent @newtalent (1112) • United States 6 May 10

We had an open discussion about why we chose to live where we live and why we should either quit whining about it or get up and move. Real simple, if you do like it here, then do something about it. I was tired of hearing about...

choice of life

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bluemars Well in actual fact I did not choose but my parents chose well my father to be exact because his brother already lived there but we had to get out because like so many other people with similar stories there was a war and things were not looking good. There...

7 May 10

why do dogs like to smell other dogs butts?

mario_stevens @mario_stevens (6971) • Malaysia 6 May 10

i accompanied my friend as he was walking his dog one day, and his little dog stopped and smelled each and every butt that he came across throughout his walk. what's wrong with him? reason i'm asking is because i'm jealous....

butt smelling dogs

butts and beyond

smelly butts

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bluemars That is a funny thought but I think it is just generally more acceptable for dogs to do that socially, however it would be a very funny thing to see us humans do that kind of greeting. That is exactly what it is like for the dogs I think just a way of greeting...

7 May 10

Tips for concentrating

whitestarr @whitestarr (63) • New Zealand 2 May 10

As I'm sure most of my fellow students have experienced, it's sometimes incredibly difficult to concentrate on studying - even if there's an assignment due very soon! I get distracted really easily; i surf the net, listen to...

concentrating

study

tips

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bluemars Seriously you just need to shut off the computer and turn off all the various other distractions and just buckle down and start reading and once that happens you will fall into the work and start to really concentrate on it more without the distractions and be...

3 May 10

Wedding Ring Lost

lay826 @lay826 (56) • Philippines 2 May 10

What will you do if your husband lost his wedding ring? I've been mad with my husband because of his wrongdoings recently then one day, he will come home and will tell you that he lost his ring somewhere he's not sure of. I'm so...

relationships

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bluemars Well I think it depends really. I mean if your man works in an office or a clean environment, then perhaps I guess you could be angry because he does not have a good enough excuses to not wear it. Like my hubby actually can not wear a ring to work as he will...

3 May 10

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Have you had problems receiving care from an emergency room?

roxxtime @roxxtime (299) • United States 2 May 10

My husband and I went to the emergency room yesterday and there were about 5 people ahead of us. After about two hours they took him into a room took his temp, pulse, and blood pressure. That took maybe 10 minutes they took our...

emergency room

hospital

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bluemars I can really relate to this, seriously even some other places too, my mother wants to get an operation for her leg and she has been sent the run around. I mean she made an appointment to see her a particular doctor who had treated her in the past, only to be...

3 May 10

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