bonsia120

@bonsia120 (76)

Philippines • Age 29

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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is it true that listening to music alleviates depressions?

kimte20 @kimte20 (88) • Philippines 27 Apr 13

some say when you are depress all you need to do is to listen music, enjoy it reflect to it. but for me, listening to music can makes me more lonely, it makes me think of those moments that i was hurt and left alone, it makes...

listening to music

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bonsia120 All of us use music in different ways to ease and forget all the pains and sorrows that we felt in the past. Music, for me, helps to ease the pain. When I heard the song has a great beat and good lyrics. I try to understand the lyrics and find its meaning....

19 May 13

What makes life worth living?

TheScupp @TheScupp (102) • Finland 6 May 13

Hi. I'm in a some kind of crisis now, because I don't feel like life is worth living anymore. I don't know what made it worth to live before, but as I get older I feel like it's not worth it. After school and all the things that I...

what makes life worth living

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bonsia120 Life is a worth living because God made a purpose on your life and he doesn't made you just for accident but he created you for you to find your own purpose here on earth. One advise that I could give is that try to read the book: "The Purpose Driven Life". It...

19 May 13

a girl changed so much

richa09pandey @richa09pandey (115) • India 17 Apr 13

i had a classmate(girl) she shifted to another city and so transformed she is now. . .a completely different person, wear cheap cloths, i was going through her fb id and found this in her introduction I TALK TO PEOPLE WHOM I...

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bonsia120 In my own side, people change because of the environment she is living in. She might have friends who were like those in your description. We cannot do anything at all if a person change at all because we are not the ones controlling their lives. Maybe you are...

20 Apr 13

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Life IS Short- Enjoy It

jrjohn @jrjohn (49) • Kazakhstan 11 Apr 13

I know that this discussion has probably been shared quite a few times already, but I just wanted to bring it back up to attention. Today as I sat down and read the Bible, I read in Luke, about how someone stored up earthly...

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bonsia120 The most interesting topic that people wanted to talked about is about life. Our life is the most precious gift that God given to us, for us to live and enjoy. Many people nowadays, they treasures their selves with material possessions. This possessions in...

14 Apr 13

Are you lucky

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 16 Jan 13

Do you consider yourself lucky when it comes to winning prizes. I was never lucky in the past but lately I've won a couple great prizes. I just got my prize of four plane tickets in the mail today. I am very excited. My husband...

lucky contest

winning

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bonsia120 What I could say is that, I am not really lucky on winning prizes especially online prizes, but what I always think that I am lucky as like a prize are the people who made me feel complete all the time. They are my loved ones in life, they are there to help,...

17 Jan 13

Evolution or Creation?

mebuhalog @mebuhalog (110) • Philippines 17 Jan 13

In CREATION...God created heaven and earth followed by Adam and Eve so as plants and animals,meaning all living things around the planet are created by GOD. IN EVOLUTION...science has its own explanation of human evolution that...

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bonsia120 I would chose creation, because GOD can only have the power to make all of this things. Galaxies, stars, skies, planets and all things outside our planet are also made by God. We can see this things in the Bible especially in the part of Genesis. Sometimes...

17 Jan 13

Never allow yourself

moveadlung76 @moveadlung76 (671) • Malaysia 10 Dec 12

Never Allow Yourself To Be So Desperate That You End Up Settling For Far Less That What You Deserve This quote can be use as a great reminder for us like to follow people requirement till us forget our level of...

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bonsia120 For my own opinion, being desperate on something or the thing that you expected the most would not be a good thing, because it would be the reason of our depression and stress in life. Actually, I have experience that kind of situation in my life, being...

11 Dec 12

music

TMac94 @TMac94 (16) • United States 21 Nov 12

I've listened to all the greatest music out there. What other music are there that has made the charts?

new music

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bonsia120 Most of the music that made to the charts like K-POP songs like most people adore are the GIRLS GENERATION, PSY, SUPER JUNIOR and many more... Actually they really have good songs that people would be so attractive. My favorite K-group will be the Girl's...

24 Nov 12

Do u Haapy ?

xdingz @xdingz (2) 22 Nov 12

face to envious jealous and hateful , most of us cant keep our principle .

smile in our life

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bonsia120 We usually come to this situations especially in relationships or even though to your best friends and friends. No one never get jealous, no one ever felt hatred. But one thing we should always remember is that we should think what is the thing that make every...

24 Nov 12

Appreciate is the word...

iMamom @iMamom (321) • Philippines 24 Nov 12

Relationship is compose of many things: LOVE, FAITHFULNESS, HONESTY, RESPECT and many more... However the one I like the most is when both learn to appreciate each other, saying thank you to each other in every simple thing...

relationship

what composes a relationship

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bonsia120 I agree in relationship we should have the values that is stated above, but one thing that we always forget is the HAPPINESS. If you two are both together, what we should always holding on is that we should enjoy every moment. Don't try to put yourself in a...

24 Nov 12

Comment or respond

mrshubert13 @mrshubert13 (200) • United States 22 Nov 12

Why is it that no one is responding to my discussions?are they boring or some because if noone respond how am I gonna comment back and make a juicy topic man yall add me,read and comment all my post I will respond back.i need help...

comment

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bonsia120 It is not that they don't like to respond or comment to your discussions but they might have hard time on thing what should be their respond or comment in the specific topic. For me, I'm not the type of person who just type and type by not reading what should...

22 Nov 12

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What's with "Walang Hanggan"?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 26 Oct 12

I feel so out of my time when all everyone talk about on Facebook is the ending of Walang Hanggan, a local soap. Frankly, I have never watched a single episode of this teleserye or soap so I do not know if it is really good or...

walang hanggan

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bonsia120 Walang Hanggan is a teleserye that is about romance, action and strategy. The characters who fell in love with each other before, had a misunderstanding because the mother of the man doesn't like the woman he will marry. The woman in the story is not that...

11 Nov 12

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Friendships truth.

walking2010 @walking2010 (1009) • United States 10 Nov 12

When the sun of the friendship seems to set behind the mountain, you seem to wonder why you are so close in friendship. If you could see the moments from a distance each moment you wu will enjoy. Everyone has a way of loving their...

friendships

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bonsia120 In my own opinion, it would be better if we try not to keep secrets with our true friends. Sometimes, it's okay to keep it with ourselves but sometimes we also need other people opinion but what should we do or not. We can accept that our friends can also be...

11 Nov 12

be careful in choosing your friends

jmchan1230 @jmchan1230 (35) 26 Oct 12

i thought she's for real she always says that im like her little sister i trusted her and now look what she did she went away and took all my money.. i met her in the office where are team mates in a call center where we used to...

friend

sis

swindler

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bonsia120 That's true, we should be careful to choose our own friends because they can be good or bad influence through your life. In this time, you can hear that their are a lot of people becoming "plastic". True friends should not ask for money or anything for...

27 Oct 12

People who don't know anything giving advice

TrinityDownpour @TrinityDownpour (790) • Liechtenstein 13 Oct 12

There are some people out there who are giving advice to you even though they don't know anything. But if you know something on the particular subject but wanted to seek advice but the person giving advice has zero knowledge on...

advice

giving advice

know nothing

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bonsia120 [b]It depends on the situation if the said advice is possible or not. A friend of mine once told me that I need to pick the best advice that I could possibly do, so I would not regret it the end. It still depends on our own decision on what we chose and what...

13 Oct 12

I am trying to enjoy life, trying to be happy even I still feel the pain.

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 25 Aug 12

A pleasant day Fellow Mylotters, Last week, I just told myself that I want to leave my sad life. Since a lot of unhappy things are happening to me and I always end up in crying. And I have told myself that I don't deserved...

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bonsia120 [b]That's true. Showing a smile even though you feel the pain inside makes you feel more better because I always do that all the time. Even though I feel down sometimes, I try to smile and later I feel better. I can do everything by saying the words : "I can...

25 Aug 12

Attitudes

ANTIQUELADY @ANTIQUELADY (36440) • United States 24 Aug 12

Don't u just hate it when someone cops an attitude w/u & u don't have the slightest idea where it comes from.I sure do. Had the darnest thing just happen on here & i don't understand where this nice little lady is coming...

attitudes

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bonsia120 [b]I would be better if you don't believe on what other people are telling you even though you know it is not true. They are just trying to put you down so they would be higher than you. I mean they wanted to take more attention to other people so they would...

25 Aug 12

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Change takes time

gracie923 @gracie923 (162) • Philippines 13 Aug 12

Have you experienced the feeling of being pressured because someone is expecting you to be the kind of person they want you to be? I do, there are a lot of people who will tell me that you should be like... So what I keep on...

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bonsia120 I agree that change takes time. It does not mean to change as soon as possible which is impossible to do for a day, or week, or month. You needed to know what are the wrong things in you before you change do things to good. But you don't need to follow other...

15 Aug 12

What to do when losing hope?

tetris15 @tetris15 (539) • Philippines 8 Aug 12

I've been wondering what you guys think on this one. What do you usually do when you feel that you are running out of options and think that everything you do is always going against you? Do you just sit in a corner and cry...

hope

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bonsia120 In this case, maybe the good suggestion I could give is to talk with your parents, your siblings or to your friends like trying to open up things that you wanted to have an answer. It would be okay to cry but not often because you will not be relief if you...

8 Aug 12