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Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 21 Feb 07

Can two women live under the same roof without killing eachother? For me the answer is NO!!! My sister in law is staying with us (my husband and I just got back together) and OMG I'm about ready to pull my hair out!!! She's 30...

sharing a house with another woman

two women under the same roof

women relationships

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candyland when my 2nd husband and I first got married my mother in law lived with us. She had her own house right next door but she chose to be here 24 hrs a day. She slept here, ate here, the whole nine yards. The closest she got to her house was the mail box. My...

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Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 21 Feb 07

Can two women live under the same roof without killing eachother? For me the answer is NO!!! My sister in law is staying with us (my husband and I just got back together) and OMG I'm about ready to pull my hair out!!! She's 30...

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candyland when my 2nd husband and I first got married my mother in law lived with us. She had her own house right next door but she chose to be here 24 hrs a day. She slept here, ate here, the whole nine yards. The closest she got to her house was the mail box. My...

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braided @braided (698) • Canada 20 Feb 07

In North America ... we pride ourselves on Diversity and Independence ... Do you do what you want with the rules of respect for one another of course ... or follow status quo ... ? Do you need to fit in or Are you willing to live...

leader or follower

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candyland My mother always told me that a person is judged by the crowd he hangs around with. That is very true. In high school I knew alot of people but hung around with very few. I didnt and still dont care what other people are doing. I do what I know is right for...

21 Feb 07

braided @braided (698) • Canada 20 Feb 07

In North America ... we pride ourselves on Diversity and Independence ... Do you do what you want with the rules of respect for one another of course ... or follow status quo ... ? Do you need to fit in or Are you willing to live...

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candyland My mother always told me that a person is judged by the crowd he hangs around with. That is very true. In high school I knew alot of people but hung around with very few. I didnt and still dont care what other people are doing. I do what I know is right for...

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rocky1011 @rocky1011 (61) • Australia 21 Feb 07

my mother thinks that my 21 year old son and his 18 year old partner are too young to be parents, and that i and my wife are too young to be grand parents i am 50 and my wife is 42. my daughter inlaw is 7 weeks pregnant. do you...

age

parenthood

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candyland My son started his family young also. While they may have been young my grandchildren are my pride and joy. I too am only 42. But I am still young enough to have fun with them. They are the only ones to make the decision of being too young or not.

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lvap0628 @lvap0628 (731) • Philippines 14 Feb 07

How do you get somebody to quit smoking? I've been asking my husband to please stop smoking or at least minimize it, but to no avail. It started as an every after meal thing (to lose that filled-belly feeling, he said), but now he...

health

smoking

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candyland As a smoker I can tell you that smoking is very addictive. It is just like being addicted to drugs. Your husband will not quit until he is ready. I have tried several times to quit because somebody eles wanted me too. Each time I started smoking again because...

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killersmile @killersmile (75) • Philippines 13 Feb 07

Let say, he's in the bathroom or sleeping do you sneak in in his cellphone?

relationships

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candyland In my opinion if you have to check up on them there is something they have done to loose your trust in the first place. I dont look at cell phones, wallets or anything personal. I dont want to spend that kind of negative energy trying to find something bad.

13 Feb 07

beutfulmama6701 @beutfulmama6701 (1718) • United States 12 Feb 07

what would you do if your daughter came home one day and was in a lot of pain, she was complaining of back pain and wanted to go lie down? youd think she wasnt feeling good right? or that certain time of the month. Well what if...

parenting

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candyland The very first thing that I would do is take her to the Dr. for antibiotics. Infection can set in quickly. Not to mention aids, hepatitis and other blood borne diseases. Then I would go to the police to report the person who did this to a minor. Kids will do...

13 Feb 07

vokey9472 @vokey9472 (1486) • United States 11 Feb 07

I have a little boy and he loves to help me. As a stay at home mommy, I cook a lot of foods from scratch, like bake my own bread and stuff. Well, he always wants to help me and I have been teaching him how to do all the things...

clean

cook

little boys

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candyland I think what you are doing is geat! If children (boys included) dont learn these life skills when they are little they never will. Some parents dont realize that their kids wont wake up at 25 knowing how to do all of these things. My husbands mother had 5...

12 Feb 07

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rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 11 Feb 07

Reading through a lot of posts here on MyLot, - one thing really strikes me. There seem to be so many women out there who are unhappy, and in unfulfilling marriages or relationships, and yet they still stay with their spouse. Now...

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candyland Women tend to feel like the other person "needs" them. Or that they can change them. It really is something that looks pretty cut and dry on the outside looking in. Usually abuse doesnt start out as physical, its usually mental. The mental abuse ruins your...

11 Feb 07

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SxyFlGrl315 @SxyFlGrl315 (306) • United States 11 Feb 07

"Two teenage brothers were each sentenced to ten years in prison for torturing a puppy by cooking it in the oven. The two boys, ages 17 and 19 pleaded guilty in January to charges including burglary, criminal damage to...

animal abuse

prelude

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candyland I am horrified. I mean, I know this goes on but oh my God this is awful. Its hard for me to think that anyone above the age of 3 wouldnt know that this is wrong. They deserve alot more that 10 years. If they would do this to an animal what would they do to a...

11 Feb 07

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p3halliwel2005 @p3halliwel2005 (3156) • Philippines 10 Feb 07

I am just wondering why are there people who accepts a man/woman even if they know they are already married and have kids? Why do they interfere with a relationship they can't call their own when the other person is already...

relationship

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candyland It takes 2 people to do this, one of which is the married one. Some people have no morals and dont care who they hurt. They only think of getting what they want. What they dont realize is that the one they are screwing around with isnt worth having because if...

11 Feb 07

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dhigambaram @dhigambaram (1132) • India 9 Feb 07

I have fallen in love do u think i should tell the girl about what i feel? There's another girl who really loves me but i look upto her as a friend. what should i do? The girl i love, she makes me feel good and im comfortable with...

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candyland You should follow your heart. But it is not fair to keep one dangling thinking that maybe she has a chance. The girl that you look up to as a friend needs help. If she slits her wrists she has some emotional issues and maybe you should try talking to her...

10 Feb 07

Lydia1901 @Lydia1901 (16351) • United States 9 Feb 07

On Saturday, my husband told me that he has this emotional connection with this girl he met in class. He claimes that he had this same connection with other two women before. But, one of them didn't want anything to do with him...

marriage

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candyland I felt compelled to write to you. I am 42 years old. At 18 I married my high school sweetheart. I was so in love and very happy. At 20 I found out that he had an "emotional connection" to another woman. They didnt sleep together but they were attracted to each...

9 Feb 07

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