chabawel

@chabawel (329)

Philippines • Age 47

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how do you get your mind off of unpleasant things?

thatgirl13 @thatgirl13 (7294) • South Korea 28 Nov 11

Hello everyone, Life has been so overwhelming.. I swear 2011 has proved to be one of the worst times of my life. There have been some good things but the bad things WOW~!! I am just so tired of everything.. I'm going through one...

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chabawel hmm, I might say, at this point of your life, this is where you know who your friends are. Try to be with a crowd who will cheer you and take you as you are not look at your faults or the bad life you went through. Be as positive person as you can be....

29 Nov 11

A child like you

lafavorito @lafavorito (2959) • Philippines 24 Nov 11

Would you want your child to be exactly like you? As for me... I'd pass. I was way too broody, depressed, insecure and a bit suicidal back then before my hubby found me in the edge of self-destruction. I would rather...

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chabawel Being a parent, I want what's best for my children. I have 3 of them. But, I can't make my children who I want them to be. They have so many unique and special traits and so far even they are still very young, they have manage growing up so well. I just...

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How to help a child

rebeka @rebeka (364) • Romania 29 Nov 11

Hi. I'm working as an au pair and I have to look after a 4 year old boy. His parents are separated, his dad don't come to visit and his mum works all day long. Fortunately he goes to school now but still has some strops when he...

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chabawel How far will you go to help this 4 year old boy? Just be careful. Your intentions maybe good, but it might be interpreted wrongly. I think the child needs more understanding and love. Being so young and has already experienced a breakup of his parents,...

29 Nov 11

how to over come dilemma about my love ?

rahul2u @rahul2u (200) • India 21 Nov 11

one of my friend is in dilemma about his love.he is having two girl friends.one is his childhood friend another is college mate.actually they both are good friends to him.the childhood friend will know well about him and even she...

friendhip

love

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chabawel hi rahul2u. Thanks for sharing about your friend's love dilemma. If I were your friend, I will start to be honest with myself and realize that there will be two hearts I will hurt if I continue to love both of them. To love is to be truthful about...

21 Nov 11

people do change a lot and sometimes too fast

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 20 Nov 11

it is just disappointing when you have gained or established friendship but after some time that relationship is not as good as it was. though you still remain friends and talk to each other, but you know something has changed...

change

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chabawel Unfortunately, change is the constant thing in life. The way your friendship turned out, you can turn things around depending if you want to commit yourself to still be friends. Maybe you also changed because you no longer trust this friend of...

20 Nov 11

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do you wish sometimes you are in somebody else place or shoe

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 20 Nov 11

i do often wish that i am the one or like other people that can just spend their night away anywhere they want to. overnight at the beach. one week vacation in some place. or just playing online games all night till the wee hour...

wish

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chabawel Your situation is faced by many. Challenged by responsibility over having fun. Its a matter of time management. If you have kids, you can ask someone to look after them just for a night. If you want to hang out with friends, you can ask them to come...

20 Nov 11

Long Distance relationships ?

kerrina @kerrina (104) • Canada 19 Nov 11

My boyfriend and I have been together for approximately 3.5 years. We lived together with his son for about 3 years in total. Due to financial reasons, we both had to move back in with our parents in completely separate areas. We...

long distance relationships worth fighting for

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chabawel Being away from your boyfriend, has it made you a better, more mature person? What makes it difficult in your relationship right now? Is it that you don't trust being away from your boyfriend or is it that you are not sure if after you have finished your...

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What makes YOU different from everyone else?????????

lijoos @lijoos (346) • India 19 Nov 11

"You don't run with the crowd You go your own way You don't play after dark Got your own kind of style,That sets you apart And this world doesn't know what you have within" thesr are the lyrics of back street boys...

difference

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chabawel Each one of us is unique and therefore, we are different in a lot of ways. I am different in a way that I have my own set of opinions and I have lived and run my life pretty much on my own. I am the director, the actor, the screenwriter, the copywriter, and...

20 Nov 11

What if one day your boyfriend or girlfriend ask this?

angelgie05 @angelgie05 (118) • Philippines 6 Nov 11

What if your bf/gf ask you this. "What if I leave you now? what will you do?" You didn't answer instead tear drops fell, and he hugs you and said "God knows how much I tried, sorry I failed! I already love her/him...

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chabawel The question is, why is your bf say such thing? Is he tired of the relationship? Is there a third party involved? What made him decide for your bf to end your relationship? IS there a problem that needs to be address as individuals? You need to...

6 Nov 11

Why do people who have undergone a lot of pains and difficulties are admirable?

mayrah @mayrah (1144) • United States 6 Nov 11

I have been undergoing training in call center when I met this person. She was very admirable for her ideas and principles in life. She is also a christian like me. I enjoy exchanging conversations with her. She is very open and...

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chabawel In my opinion, what makes a person admirable is how open-minded and opinionated a person is. All of us have been to a life experience to another, and it depends on the person who he/she empower himself/herself with the ability to move on and learn from...

6 Nov 11

"You don't have to go to church to be a Christian"

dnavarro89 @dnavarro89 (15) • United States 1 May 10

I stopped going to church for awhile, and just recently started going back. I meet a lot of people who say " You don't have to go to church to be a Christian." TO me it is a loaded statement, that provokes a lot of thought for me....

going to church

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chabawel The "Church" signifies fellowship of believers in Christ not really the building where we go to worship. From this, I agree what others said that you can worship God anywhere. I believe that, in order for your faith to grow more, you need to have fellowship...

2 May 10

do you encounter opppositions in your relationship?

jenny08 @jenny08 (136) • Philippines 29 Apr 10

please give me some advise...i love my boyfriend so much and i know He loves me too..but my problem is, Hes family don't like me at all...i always cry when it comes to that problem...i don't know what should i do...

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chabawel I happened to be in the same situation as you. I used to have a relationship with this guy and unfortunately, he doesn't love me that much to fight for me. In your case, I really have no idea how your boyfriend gives you assurance that he'll make things...

1 May 10

What do you think of those people who don't act proper in churches?

egonzales921 @egonzales921 (172) • Philippines 21 Apr 10

To be honest, I am so sick and tired of the people that go to churches who do not even know how to dress properly. I mean the Lord accepts everyone who enter to His temple but these people should start realizing that they are...

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chabawel Hi there....I agree with what you say about proper decorum while attending a mass or service. But, unfortunately, not everyone is dressed properly and accordingly to where they are. But if I know an elder in the church,I will ask the elder to talk to...

21 Apr 10

You can't stop him/her from cheating... ?

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 18 Apr 10

For the last several months I have been struggling with trust issues with my boyfriend. I've been with him for almost 4 1/2 years now and I love him and I am incredibly happy with him but I have this constant fear that he'll...

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chabawel In any given relationship, commitment and trust is the key to make it work. But. if you let fear gets in the way, no amount of love can really overcome the pain and the hurt of being doubted all the time. If both of you committed to each other, there...

18 Apr 10

what do you do when you feel rejected?

abitcurious @abitcurious (1422) • Philippines 15 Mar 10

Today I tried to sign in at Helium. I was able to join yesterday and I figured I had the whole day to create articles. Because it's my first time to submit an article, writing one took me forever. But when I went to helium and...

earn on line

rejection

writing

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chabawel hi abitcurious. I can only try to lift you up. It's up to you whether to take my advise or ignore me...so here goes. If you believe in yourself and you know you can write well and about so many things, then don't give up. Life is filled with rejections...

15 Mar 10

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long distance relationship

mohondang @mohondang (46) • India 15 Mar 10

Just some months back i was in luv with this beautiful girl....but she broke up with me saying that we r distance apart n we dint have time to spent together!!! but wht i was thinking is that is distance really the need in luv!!!...

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chabawel It's hard for two people in love to stay in love together while being far apart. Because, your trust and faith for each other will be tested over and over again. And for a girl, you need to understand, to endure the emotional and mental torture of staying in...

15 Mar 10

Are you realistic or optimistic?

fanficgirl28 @fanficgirl28 (54) • Philippines 13 Mar 10

I honestly am a realistic person. I would believe on bitter truths instead of hanging onto something unimaginable. How do you describe your perspective as a person? Are you realistic or optimistic? Why?

perspective

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chabawel I am a person that hopes things will get better but already faced the reality of life. Because life is unpredictable, things can go the way we don't expect. And that gives me room to hope.

13 Mar 10

Life is customizable.. Spirituality is true.

gogierm4ge @gogierm4ge (398) • United States 12 Mar 10

Your spirit creates the mind and body. You can create things. Your spirit may not pass away but your mind will pass away, your mind manifests thoughts to things. You cannot create things other then yourself with your spirit,...

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chabawel I like your analogy. But for me, to make it simple...our spirit is actually the one that makes up our conscience...telling us in our guts that what we're doing is wrong or right. Because we are created to make our own judgment, our spirit guides us to...

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