chatoang

@chatoang (61)

Philippines • Age 63

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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How is your relationship with your in-laws?

arystine @arystine (1273) • Philippines 7 Dec 12

At the moment, my relationship with my mother-in-law is not good. My husband and my mother-in-law had a big misunderstanding early this year and they are not on speaking terms until now. So my mother-in-law is also not speaking to...

relationship

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chatoang The "in laws" is one of the many problems in married life. Since You are already a member of your husbands family, you may like it or not, you have to accept it, right? I can relate to this kind of situation. What I did was, I constantly talked to my mother in...

8 Dec 12

Spicy spaghetti

nytrisco @nytrisco (567) • Philippines 7 Dec 12

My officemate brought her homemade spicy spaghetti. It is good, she used (siling labuyo)chilis and tuna with tomato sauce and melted cheese. And I am also looking for an alternative for pork and beef meat, I might gonna use this...

pasta

spaghetti

tuna

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chatoang Spaghetti with tuna is very delicious. Try cooking it like your officemate did but cook it with a twist. Instead of the traditional cheese toppings, try melting the cheese with evaporated milk, in a low heat until it thickens. then spread it on top of any...

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My one and half year old daughter is now talking to me with a broken language.

soha07 @soha07 (12) • India 7 Dec 12

My daughter, one and half year old, is now talking to me with her broken language. Its just amazing. Its a great feeling as a mother. I enjoy it very much. Do you have any such experience. If yes, you may share with me.

baby

child

family

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chatoang It's nice to hear our babies first few words. It's music to our ears right? My advice is To talk to her like an adult, do not baby talk so that your baby will learn to talk in a right way. It is hard to correct baby talks when the baby is adopted to it. Have a...

7 Dec 12

Typhoon Pablo

manayonboy @manayonboy (511) • Philippines 5 Dec 12

Despite of the government giving early warning about the devastating affect of typhoon Pablo. Still heard a sad news how many poeple lost their life . Even though they went in safe evacuation but still they hit by a flash flood....

typhoon

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chatoang Very true manayonboy. Our government had a hard time solving this illegal logging issue. It is so annoying already, every time there's typhoon, flood follows.... Can we now addressed our plea to the illegal loggers? Please... have a conscience!

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Perfect age for marriage

shalloo @shalloo (65) • United Arab Emirates 30 Nov 12

Well,i being 24 now,most of my friends are getting married,what do you think?whats the perfect age for it?I think its the name of responsibility and we need to become self dependent first,income,perfect place and lots of other...

marriage 24 dependent perfect age

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chatoang Hi shalloo ! There is no perfect age for marriage. In fact success in marriage can not be measured to on what age you marry. In my opinion, it is on how you are ready or prepared for the next chapter of your life. Married life has plenty of complications,...

30 Nov 12

fearless when it comes to tasting the food!

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 30 Nov 12

Hahaha yes we were all fearless. When we booked at the hotel for the party we said we do not want the usual food during parties. We are so glad that the hotel do offer new ones in the menu. It is one of the best hotels here in my...

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chatoang yes i am... i love food very much especially if its new to my palate. i also love eating in a buffet where i can taste and eat almost all of the food served. Can you imagine that? lol.

30 Nov 12

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make the most of P100.00 for a day's budget good for a family of 5

nicanorr @nicanorr (1789) • Philippines 30 Nov 12

With the current prevailing prices of goods in your community, plan a healthful and delicious food for 3 square meals costing P100.00 (one hundred pesos) for a family of 5. You can do it. Can you?

3 square meals

good for 5 persons

healthful budget of p100

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chatoang Is this amount includes rice? please answer back

30 Nov 12

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Cool hairstyle!

AkamaruKei @AkamaruKei (5219) • Malaysia 29 Nov 12

I want to make a hairstyle like in this picture but the barber here look like dont know to cut hairstyle like this. This hairstyle a girl also can try and the boy also can try. What do you think about this hairstyle?

visual kei hairstyle

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chatoang It's nice for girls, but since everyone's having their own style specially asians , you can have it to. Here in the Philippines we call it Bob cut. It is really very nice, in fact I have tried it before. Looking forward to see your profile picture with the new...

29 Nov 12

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What would you do if someone ordered something and still hasn't paid?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 29 Nov 12

It has been five days since someone ordered something from me online. This person still hasn't paid. I have contacted her twice to see if she is still going to make a payment. There hasn't been any response. I think that I will...

non payment

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chatoang Hi Dominique! Since you have contacted the person twice already and got no reply, you now have the right to re post the item for sale. It's quite understood that the person is no longer interested on the product he/she reserved. Go ,go, go... re list the item....

29 Nov 12

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Bullying, good or bad?

TomDawg24 @TomDawg24 (79) • Philippines 28 Nov 12

People do experience this so called "bullying". Growing up in a community where people do notice a lot of things about you. Even the tiniest dirt, the smallest bad thing you said or do. But do their actions such as scolding you,...

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chatoang Bullying is BAD. I pity kids or persons that are being bullied. I can imagine if a bullied kid can't overcome the pressure and the trauma , what will happen to them? Some will experience insecurities, inferiority complex and the worst of them all is the reason...

29 Nov 12

copying in an exam is right?

namusoke1 @namusoke1 (83) • Uganda 28 Nov 12

i have a friend who is really not serious about studies. we are now in exams but today he sat near me and while in exams he asked for my paper to copy a certain number which he never read, and i refused because if you are caught...

copying exams

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chatoang You did the right thing my dear. It is not your fault anymore if he will fail in that exam. The fact that he did not study, he is accountable of his doings. If and when he will ignore you and consider not his friend anymore, it's not your loss but his. You are...

29 Nov 12

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Garden On A Mountain Top

jdalaqui @jdalaqui (1073) • Philippines 25 Nov 12

There is a place in Benguet province called Talinguroy Wangal where I grew up. It is a mountainous place but you can find there small plantations all over. What I like most are the garden on mountain tops, they are refreshing and...

benguet

garden

garden on the mountain

mountain top

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chatoang All I can say about gardens on a mountain top is AMAZING! Yes, not only for the garden but for the people working and making that garden. You see, it's hard climbing on a mountain with nothing in hand, how much more carrying something for your garden. The...

28 Nov 12

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Durian season

AkamaruKei @AkamaruKei (5219) • Malaysia 28 Nov 12

For someone who dont know about what is durian look like you can look at the picture. I think this month is durian season at my place. A lot of fruit stall sell durian with good price. My father always buy durian fruit in this...

fruit

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chatoang Durian is the most yummmmyyyyy fruit. People who tasted Durian can say " It smells like hell but tastes like Heaven" . Won't you agree?

28 Nov 12

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Are you the favorite or the least favorite child?

klystron635 @klystron635 (1519) • Philippines 28 Nov 12

Hi! I grew up in a family of four. For 11 years, my father worked overseas. Sad to say, I have few childhood memories about him. My mother, on the other hand, was a stay-at-home mom. Though, she started working when my brother and...

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chatoang What a nice topic you shared to us fellow my lotters. I can relate to your sentiments because I am also the eldest of the family of 7. I can't say I was the favorite even if I always has the first hand of everything. Of course (in my mind) because I am the...

28 Nov 12

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A FRIEND, most are pretenders and few is real!

jackiekathyrain @jackiekathyrain (15) • Philippines 28 Nov 12

Being a friend is an easy act but it has a deep task to play. An act of pretending to be a friend and a task of being a real friend to someone. A pretender friend or commonly known as “fake friends” they are visible in your...

friendship

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chatoang Very true. Nowadays you can count by your fingers you can say your true friends. Some are just pretending to be one. It is up to us to discover who these people are, they are visible you know. you can easily pinpoint them. sometimes a test for their true...

28 Nov 12

mean firend

namusoke1 @namusoke1 (83) • Uganda 26 Nov 12

i have a friend whom i sacrificed my pocket that i had saved for some good time, i went to town and bought her some good shoes and sent then to her. to my disappointment i waited for a thank you message but all in vain. when i...

mean friend

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chatoang Have you tried talking or reaching her out? Just a simple hello maybe? Because if she's really a friend she won't allow you empty handed for such silly shoes. This could be a lesson to be learned on your end, so that the next you'll be asked buying things you...

27 Nov 12

In life we all have our ups & downs, but do you ever feel life is just unfair?

RescueLady @bizness (866) • United States 26 Nov 12

Unfair? Well I guess it just depends. Yes I have felt this way, on a few occasions. I just feel that I work hard and try to do the right thing, be a good friend, and things still don't work out, so yes, sometimes I feel that way....

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chatoang yes i felt the same too. But, if i ponder that people are sometimes indifferent and insensitive to our feelings I am relieve . I realized that no one is perfect anyway so why not disregard the feeling.

26 Nov 12

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how you feel when you step near the old age?

RUBESH @Manasha (2754) • Pondicherry, India 26 Nov 12

Old age is a big issue when a person reaches it. Lots of mental and physical worries start climbing on our back. I am in the late thirties, however ,I started feeling a lot due to the future of my life. I have to save a lot of...

old age problem

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chatoang I am 51 years old but i dont worry about old age. i suggest live worry less everyday, it makes you happy. Prayers do also.

26 Nov 12

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I just decided to keep quiet to avoid a conflict.

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 26 Nov 12

Good day Fellow Mylotters, I was talking to the phone a while ago when one of my friend corrected me for some words that I used during the phone conversation. Honestly I was surprised because she suddenly laughed while I...

conflict

keep quiet

phone conversation

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chatoang You are doing the right thing my dear. Keeping yourself cool gives peace because if not trouble will rise ahead. Besides a friends comment on us will make us realize if we have done something good or bad. Being annoyed is just temporary especially if we will...

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vintage/ secondhand clothes are awesome!

mauie08 @mauie08 (53) • Philippines 26 Nov 12

Undoubtedly, women are hook up with fashion nowadys. However, the better quality of clothes ,the more expensive they are and it cannot be denied that not everyone ca.n afford good quality clothes. Therefore, other people prefer to...

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chatoang exactly. we're on the same boat my dear... i also love going to vintage shops. Especially now a days that flower prints is in. Oh my, I'm dying to wear my new selections, they are beautiful, fashionable and of good quality. I saved a lot!

26 Nov 12

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