Chubsko

@Chubsko (51)

Philippines • Age 50

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Which one more loved, child of adopted or biological child?

advokatku @advokatku (4033) • Indonesia 24 Aug 10

I know a lot of reasons to raise a child and also I know about reason why there parents who adopt a child but I do not know exactly why there are parents who already have a biological child but is still also adopt a child....

adopted child

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Chubsko I think it should be the same because in the first place you already adopted so meaning he/she is already part of the family so we should give them the same love.

29 Aug 10

Spank or not to spank (not abusive spanking)?

NappyRooted @NappyRooted (18) • United States 25 Aug 10

Back in the day when the principal or teacher was allowed to spank, was there so much juvenile delinquency? During this era it was common for parents to spank their children as a form of discipline. Did it seem like children had...

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Chubsko I think it's a matter of disciplining your kids. Spank them yes, but not abusive. then, explain to them why you spank them so that they will understand and not do it again.

29 Aug 10

How much time did u spend with your family daily?

sangeethveena @sangeethveena (61) • India 29 Aug 10

Hi, I think many of the person not spending much more time with their family. if they spend the atleast a hour with their family members they will be very happy?

family

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Chubsko I"m a wife,mom and a career woman but i see to it that i can manage my time to with family every after office hours. I see to it that i can at least spend quality time with them.

29 Aug 10

Why do you think your life is important?

GemmaR @GemmaR (8517) 29 Aug 10

Everyone has a life, so surely some people have a more important role in the world than others? What do you think about your own role? Do you think that you were put on the planet for a particular reason? Myself- I think that...

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Chubsko Life is important because God gave this to us. What we can do is to use this in God's Glory.

29 Aug 10

Promises can hurt us more than a Lie does...

deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 29 Aug 10

Did it ever came to you that promises are worst than lies? I believe that promises can break my heart more than a lie could.. Because with promises.., you just don't make a someone believe, you also make them hope... Hope for...

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Chubsko I think both of this can hurt you more because if you promise and you don't keep it you're a liar as well.

29 Aug 10

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Should I advice my colleague?

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 28 Aug 10

My colleagues (boy) had wife. But his wife is quite ugly. Now he like accountant in my company. Maybe she loves him, too. I feel poor his wife. I want to advice him stop. How do you think?

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Chubsko What you can do is you can tell him that he must not do that because h is already married but you must also pray for him, ad that you just want to warn him if he will not listen then, stop dont mind him at all

29 Aug 10

One biggest mistake when we love

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

..hi fellas.. As I look back to my love story, I realized that one biggest mistake that we usually commit when we love, we try to give all our love to our partner and nothing is left for our self. Then when our partner decides to...

love

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Chubsko For me one biggest mistake when we love is we became jealous. We sometimes ask ourselves not to, but we cannot help it and it's not right because jealousy is a sin. What we can do when we love is that we must put God in the center of our relationship and...

29 Aug 10

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What is the story of your first love?

mzbunnylove05 @mzbunnylove05 (223) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

I don't know if it is appropriate to share to you the story of my first love. But I really wanna share it with you guys. I am attracted to this guy since my childhood days. I am only 11 years old then. Yeah, I was too young but I...

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Chubsko The Story of my first love is so memorable, i was speaking to him about my crush and saying everything about life. i treated him as my best friend we talk like hours. but this friend of mine always say that my crush is not right guy for me and not a good man...

29 Aug 10

How would you manage anger in the middle of conversation or aguement.

lil_32072 @lil_32072 (114) • Philippines 29 Aug 10

Scenario goes like this, i was having an argue conversation with our doer when instantly my husband entered and defend the person i argued with. It was about the job entered into our business that our doer hasn't able to made,...

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Chubsko What i usually do when things like this happens is i stop and pray that i cannot say anything that will hurt others because i don't want to regret. Then, the Lord will just keep me calm and he will take my anger away.

29 Aug 10

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Do you believe in Karma?

mai200725 @mai200725 (77) • Philippines 11 Aug 10

I believe in Karma, because one of my principles in life is "Don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto you." I think life isn't really that complicated it is just us who complicates life. If we could just live by...

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Chubsko Yes i do, that if you have done something good to others in it will come back in hundred folds and also if you have done bad things to others it will come back to you in hundred folds as well.

17 Aug 10

think before you speak

akn1961 @akn1961 (1034) • India 12 Aug 10

i think before speak ,is it necessary ,what will be result of worlds ,then we speak ,it reduces unwanted discussion ,it help in improving communication ,u may try this ,it should work good ,what is yr openion ?

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Chubsko This is so true because most of the time we do not notice that we hurt other by merely saying things that is not right. i believe in the song that " If you can't find something good to say , say NOTHING at ALL.

17 Aug 10

God & ability

pkushwaha @pkushwaha (223) • India 13 Aug 10

God does not ask about our ability , but our avalilabilty . Please gives your thoughts.

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Chubsko God and ability should go hand in hand, because the Lord will help us if we also do something and not to wait only for the Lord to act. We should do our thing while asking god to help us....

17 Aug 10

if you give happiness u will get happiness

akn1961 @akn1961 (1034) • India 15 Aug 10

i always like happy people and respect their sentiments ,max people are doing the same ,but few people enjoy hurting others ,they are basically disstisfied people ,they will never be happy ,pl share yr view

grief

happy

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Chubsko Yes i believed that because the golden rule says "do unto others what you want others to do unto you". so in that way if you give happiness you will also reap happiness...

17 Aug 10

Music, as a way to relieve stress

JudgeIronFist @JudgeIronFist (2472) • Singapore 17 Aug 10

Music, as we all know, is an art by itself. I know of many people who listen to music all the time when doing work or maybe just sitting down on the chair and listening alone. To some people, music may just be some nice sounding...

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Chubsko I believe that music is really a good outlet of stress because when you listen to your favorite music you tend to sing and unknowingly you are already relieved. But i might suggest to listen to music that is relaxing ...

17 Aug 10

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My friend struggle hard to put his children through good education

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 9 Aug 10

A friend of mine has two children, one is 6, another one is about 8 1/2. He has put up $30,000 at least per year to put both of his children to good school, especially private school. There is nothing wrong with a parent who...

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Chubsko I have a friend who struggle to put her children through good education because she has 6 children and she's a single mom she can't afford it. so what she did is to just enroll her kids on a public school. i said there's no problem as long as her kids are...

17 Aug 10

Does keeping your virginity unlost before your marriage is necessary??

DeepakCool @DeepakCool (434) • India 10 Aug 10

Virginty one of those things which decides our character.SOme people loose virginty at very early ages,some do not.... My opinion is to keep out virginity unlost till your marriage..... Is this really necessary??

virginity unlost

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Chubsko Eventhough we're now on the 2010 years i must suggest that women should keep their virginity unlost before marriage, because that is so precious for the man, maybe others may say that it is not really necessary. It is really a great honor for a man to marry a...

17 Aug 10

You carefully say things.

sjaswon @sjaswon (635) • Jamaica 9 Aug 10

My friend is a young woman. I remembered When she, her daughter and I walked on the street after completed our work. She talked with me. She said "My man and I were together about 8 years." They and I still walked. I said...

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Chubsko Yes you must carefully say things for children to hear so that they can understand it and also you must not say things that is inappropriate for their age. In that way you are guiding them the right way.

17 Aug 10

love at first sight?

phat_navy @phat_navy (58) • Philippines 17 Aug 10

I have nothing against people who thinks that love at first sight is really true. Our experiences are totally different from one another. I have reached my age and up to this time i have not been convinced of the idea that this is...

love

people

relationships

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Chubsko Yes i believe so because i have my husband right now with me, whom i had a love at first sight. BUT it is still depends if both of you will seriously love one another and and that love will grow each day not just for a one night stand. The first time i saw my...

17 Aug 10

Before You Sleep...

mlhervas @mlhervas (482) • Philippines 17 Aug 10

What is your daily habit before going to sleep? That is aside from brushing your teeth of course. I always make it to a point to say a little prayer before going to sleep. I feel that I should always thank God for even the little...

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Chubsko Daily habit will be to pray before going to sleep ..thank the Lord for all the blessings and trials that came my way. pray for my family and friends and pray that i will still see tomorrow.

17 Aug 10

Which is much easier..being married or stay single??

Allyssa_Marie77 @Allyssa_Marie77 (19) • Philippines 15 Aug 10

I am at my early 30's and I wonder which is much better. To be married or stay single. You may wonder why I asked? The thought of being tied up with this one person in your life, committing yourself to be together in every details...

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Chubsko For me i think it is easier to be married than to be a single but it still depends on the person that you will be with. The advantage of being married is that you have someone to share with even if t is a trial or blessing unlike if you are a single you will...

15 Aug 10