deadlyorchid1029

@deadlyorchid1029 (107)

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Terrible twos at 10 months old!

oil0908 @oil0908 (9) • United States 26 Jul 09

My son is only 10 months oldand is already going through the terrible twos stage. What should i do? Hes already telling me no. and when he gets in trouble he will kick and screem and yell at me. He is even hitting people when he...

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deadlyorchid1029 Well if he has older toddler siblings or say cousins he is going to do what they do. My oldest son did the same thing. He started befor he was even crawling. And now he is 3. He is nuts. But I love both my sons with all my heart and in time your son will learn...

7 Aug 09

Has anyone dated someone who has been in an abusive relationship? What can you

negritabella @negritabella (3) • United States 3 Aug 09

I had the chance to date someone who had previously been in an abusive relationship. Has someone met someone who has been in this situation? Or know someone who has been abused? What are the best things to do as a friend, lover,...

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deadlyorchid1029 When I first met my husband I told him upfront what I had been through a few years before. He asked what he could do to try and make things better for me. My answer was I dont know. I realized everytime he went to kiss me or give me a hug i jumpped from him....

7 Aug 09

Would you rather have long legs or big chest?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15394) • United States 5 Aug 09

My sister just asked me this silly question so obviously we don't have one of them :-p My sister and I both have long legs but we don't have big chest. She asked me about why the big chested women like to show off so much, I...

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deadlyorchid1029 I have a big chest and I would give it up for long legs. I look at all these ladies who get breast implants and ask my self why do they do that. Maybe implants dont weigh as much as the real thing. I am a DDD and sick of it. The back pain is unreal and I dont...

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Coke or Pepsi?

wyrmstomper @wyrmstomper (28) • United States 26 Jul 09

I am a Pepsi drinker and probably always will be. My cousin loves Coke, and we always argue about which is better. Which one do you like or prefer more, Coke or Pepsi?

coke

pepsi

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deadlyorchid1029 I really prefer pepsi but coke does come in handy at times like with asthma. As for taste pepsi all the way.

6 Aug 09

You or your kid?

OpinionatedLady @OpinionatedLady (5965) • United States 5 Aug 09

Say something bad was to happen like an earth quake, war, flood, etc., would you save yourself first and foremost or your kids? I just read an article about a mother whose car went over an embankment and into a lake. She got...

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deadlyorchid1029 OMG I can not believe this has to even be a question. I am sorry if you can see yourself ecsaping and you not trying to get your kids get them to safty and what I mean about that is get them away from yourself. I would do everything in my power to protect and...

6 Aug 09

Terrorizing Toddler!

princess07031980 @princess07031980 (5412) • United States 6 Aug 09

My 23-month-old is all over the place and in the last 5 minutes, drank half of my cup coffee that I abandoned on the kitchen table this morning, dumped his Cheez-It snack all over the couch and the living room floor and continues...

babies

mess

toddlers

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deadlyorchid1029 I have two of them ages 2 and 3 so I am always going. My 2 year old is also in the I want to be naked stage. Thank goodness they do not dump thier food everywhere any more but it wasnt to long ago I was going through that. My 3 year old is horrible at snagging...

6 Aug 09

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If you are a stay at home parent do you ever wish you had a job?

mommaj @mommaj (23112) • United States 6 Aug 09

If you are a stay at home parent do you ever wish you had a job? I've been a stay at home mom for six years. I want a job but then when my husband tells me I will need to get a job next year, it scares the heck out of me! How long...

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deadlyorchid1029 I am a stay at home mom but my oldest son is now 3. I love being a stay at home mom and would not want to give it up for the world. In someways I am lucky because I will never beable to go back to work. I am disables but yes there are many times I wish I could...

6 Aug 09

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being a single parent is it ok? or not ok?

scooby29 @scooby29 (239) • Philippines 15 Jul 09

for me a single parent is ok! because that important thing is that you have been responsible of all the time to your son or daughter. I'm just worrying the side of my daughter because she might feel a little empty of...

oponopn

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deadlyorchid1029 I am a child of a single mom. My father popped in and out of my life. I really messed with me as a child and even now. Both parents are great if the home life is good. Being a single mom is nothing bad hard at times I am sure but the thing your daughter is...

3 Aug 09

Do you take people at their word? How do you check or double check facts?

TheGreatWhiteBuffalo @TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822) • United States 25 Jul 09

This discussion is part three in this series of discussions that I've started. I have some people following via e-mail so I'm going to explain in more detail what has gone on but first here are the two related...

accountability

interaction with the police

part three

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deadlyorchid1029 If she has an officer on her side and you want custody, then your'e probably gonna get screwed. Thats how it always works out. No matter what, its always in the best interest of the child to be with the mother. I think it's crap, but thats the way it is.

25 Jul 09

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do you celebrate couples day?

marketing07 @marketing07 (6266) • South Korea 21 May 09

today is a couples day on my place..i almost forgot about it since its not a public holiday..i just noticed my husband that he was just so kind he drives me to the downtown..thinkin that he has an appointment..on way home i take a...

couples day

husband n wife

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deadlyorchid1029 I have never heard of couples day but that could be because I dont even do valentines day. In my heart and mind I dont need a special day to say I love my husband and the other way around. My husband shows me everyday how special I am. I dont need nor do i...

22 May 09

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Have you ever looked at your kid and thought "Where did the time go?"

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12588) • United States 21 May 09

I have especially today. It is my daughter's last day of kindergarten. It just flew by. Yesterday I brought her home from the hospital. I swear I did. And in August she will be in the 1st grade..sniff

daughter

kindergaten

time

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deadlyorchid1029 I know just how you feel. I am feeling that way right now. My oldest son will be 3 monday and then in July my youngest will be 2. I dont know where the time went. When did they grow up and start doing everything on there own. They now have opinions. When did...

22 May 09

Why should we join a social community like facebook?

migaypelaez @migaypelaez (48) • Philippines 19 Apr 09

Friends are friends because we met them, interacted with them..and there are those that we saw or met online. sometimes we chat using instant messengers, send emails, call, send text messages.. why is there really a need to...

facebook

why join

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deadlyorchid1029 I joined facebook because it is so much easier to send out mass messages updating the family about my boys and how we are doing. All of my family and friends live in many different states and I really dont like talking on the phone that much so for me it is an...

19 Apr 09

Weird things About your KIDS

Raven7317 @Raven7317 (691) • United States 19 Apr 09

I'm just wondering what kinds of really strange, funny, weird, silly things your kids do that kind of drive you crazy... My son has developed an obsession with BAGS! He's in love with gift bags; he loves the different colors...

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deadlyorchid1029 Well my oldest son has a thing for brooms. I dont know why he is this way but he insist on sweeping all the time. I can just get done sweeping the floor and as soon as i turn my back he is doing it. Now he is only turning 3 years old and this has been going on...

19 Apr 09

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Do you like dish washing or do you have a dish washer at home ?

aweins @aweins (4199) • India 19 Apr 09

sometimes when there is a parrty at your place there are too many utensils and some are very oily and greasy. i feel they are difficult to wash also. do you people wash your kitchen utensils on your own, or you have a dishwasher...

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deadlyorchid1029 I am the type who prefers to wash them by hand. I dont like dish washers at all. The only thing I dont like to wash is the silverware. I can not stand it. I do it I just doing like it. I would rather scrub 100 pots and pans that have been sitting over night...

19 Apr 09

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Friends that help you out

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 18 Apr 09

My husband has been not well, he had a stroke and now he has a hard time getting around and my friends, especially my two best friends have been helping me out. Actually I have three best friends. One Helene is the former...

my best friends

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deadlyorchid1029 Yes I do have a best friend that helps out when I need it. I actually have 2 of them. My first best friend is my husband and I know that sounds cheesy but let me explain why. When I met him I was legally blind.( still am) that brought along ALOT of baggage for...

18 Apr 09

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Dreams

greatwolf75 @greatwolf75 (90) • United States 18 Apr 09

What is the most intense dream or worst nightmare you have ever had? The worst ones I have always revolves around a woman. I have never seen her face, but she shows up in my dreams from time to time. I can't do anything to stop...

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deadlyorchid1029 The recurring dreams I have always revolve around my children. Greatwolf and I have two sons ages 1 1/2 and 2 1/2. The dreams always deal with someone trying to take my children from us. They started when I was pregnant with our first child when I would have a...

18 Apr 09

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Charcoal, Gas, or Smoking? Which way would you rather BBQ?

harmonee @harmonee (1228) • United States 18 Apr 09

We just got a new charcoal BBQ that is more cylindrical than anything we've used before. The meat came out so juicy all night long and the taste was great! We still have our gas grill, and that is easy if you just want to throw...

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deadlyorchid1029 I use charcoal grills. I really dont care for the taste of gas. Smoking isnt to bad but I really prefer charcoal.

18 Apr 09