feeding11

@feeding11 (222)

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My inlaws really sucks!!!!!!

ayessa @ayessa (1583) • Philippines 9 May 08

Im now really pissed off with my inlaws. I've been controlling my feelings before but now its beyond the limits. We've been arguing these past few days about taking care of my baby. I am accepting the fact that we do have...

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feeding11 I feel sorry for you and your situation. My husband and I had decided before we even had kids that when I do get pregnant I will stay at home with them and he will work as many jobs as possible to keep it that way for the sake of being there for our kids all...

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Do opposites attract?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 7 May 08

There are two major views in family therapy on this subject. One is that couples attracted to each other because the have have things in common, so that would mean that they are not opposites but are the same. the other point...

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feeding11 Opposites do attract. My Husband and I are like night in day in so many ways, but we do have common ground with our morals, family values and what we want for our kids. We were raised both with parents that never believed in divorce, family is the most...

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My boyfriend confess he still loves another girl, i'm really in love

uhave2knowme @uhave2knowme (4) • Panama 7 May 08

Could any one advise me what can i do?, my boyfriend confessed me the other day that he still have feelings for his prior girlfriend, that he is trying to forget her and he knows i am better than her, but he still cant stop loving...

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feeding11 You have already answered your question if you think about it. Why should you stay with someone first of all who can't love you the way a person should be loved. No matter how much you love that person he is not with you now anyway, he is still with her in his...

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How long does a friend need to be inactive before you delete them?

libertarianfreedom21 @libertarianfreedom21 (3198) • United States 7 May 08

i have so many friends that havent logged in for a few months, but i know that i went a few months without logging in before comming back, so how long would you say would be a perfect time to start deleting people because they...

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feeding11 Don't delete them. Life has kept me away for what about 8 months to a year. My kids have had a busy year and I spent my time doing what was important. Now that things have slowed down I thought I would come back and talk a little. You never know when someone...

7 May 08

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Beware of A Mylot Member whose Aim is to Put People Down!

danzer @danzer (2723) • Philippines 7 May 08

I have a feeling that there's someone here at mylot.com whose aim is to put people down. I hope he/she will realize that this is a free site where we can respond to any post we want and those responses are purely our opinion....

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feeding11 Interesting, but maybe that these are all typed discussions that reading them can be taken out of context and maybe taken more personal. I'm not sure who you are talking about or what experience you've had on my lot, but think about someone that you have...

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Can you often praise your child?

youless @youless (112710) • Guangzhou, China 18 Mar 08

I watched an encouraging TV programs about how to teach your children. And I learned it a lot from it. Actually since my son is still a little kid, so I often praise him even if it's only a little thing. But I wonder whether I...

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feeding11 I hope you don't actually think that wanting to be your childs friend when they get older is what your child needs. No matter how old you get your kids still want their parents to be their parents not their friends. Maybe you are meaning that you can both be...

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a naughty 3 year old

alkhan77 @alkhan77 (21) • New Zealand 7 May 08

i have a 3 year old boy he is hard to control. i have tried everything in the book. i have tried sitting him in a naughty corner. he starts to throw things cry and shout its really annoying at times i feel iam not a good mother....

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feeding11 Get this book or audio, "Talk to kids so kids will listen, and listen so kids will talk" This will help you out and remember that anytime your child acts up and you end up yelling or even looking flustered they know they won! No matter how young they are they...

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What Birth Control Are You On?

ramsey05 @ramsey05 (50) • United States 6 May 08

I am going to be going to my 6 week post pregnancy checkup tomorrow and was wondering what birth control I should ask to be put on. The office pushes Loestrin 24, But I am thinking about Yaz because it is supposed to help with PM...

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feeding11 The important part here is to go along with what your doctor says, which I'm sure they are aware of any conditions that you have and what will work better for your body. The sad part is that you could go through 4 different kinds of pills before there is one...

7 May 08

Birth Control

megybeth831 @megybeth831 (35) • United States 13 Jan 08

I have and I.U.D., birth control place in..well..me for the next 5 years. I was wondering has anyone gotten pregnant with one before. If you know please tell me.

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feeding11 My friend has twins from that. HAHAHAHAHA! She never wanted kids and now they are going on 6 years old and she couldn't be happier. The only safe S-X is yep you guessed it "None at all" sorry if your hopes were up!

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Abortion illegal and birth control

littlesleet @littlesleet (71) • United States 7 May 08

Today I read an old poster and surprised. why so many people exciting about abortion illegal? Most of the time, abortion happend to these who failed to birth control, so it is a pert of birth control. if it is illegal, we...

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feeding11 Point understood, but when you discuss birth control there is another story about it. My daughter is now diagnosed with having endometriosis and has to take Harmone therapy. In other words it's the same thing as birth control. So if that is going to be taken...

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Surrogacy - would you have a baby for someone else?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 12 Feb 07

In the past year, I have had two friends who have been touched by the subject of surrogate babies. One friend (I started a thread about her some while back), is giving birth to a baby for her brother. And another friend of mine,...

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feeding11 I've been blessed with kids and have thought about this before. Pitfalls are of course carrying the baby with all the emotions that go with it. Of course there would be an empty nest afterwards, but if my own sister could not bare a child I wouldn't hesitate...

13 Feb 07

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I hate you!!

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 9 Feb 07

have your young children ever said i hate you when they get mad at you. how do you react and what do you say to them? my friend called me crying once caue her 4 year old said it to her when she was being punished. my friend called...

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feeding11 It hasn't happened to me yet, but I do remember once upon a time when I was little I said it to my mom, but only one time. Here is what she said. "That's OK if you don't like me sometimes, cause sometimes I don't like you. I will always love you no matter what...

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Am I trying to live my life through my kids?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 2 Feb 07

I was chatting to a friend the other day about how I am trying to teach my kids a lot at home in addition to what they learn at school as I want them to do well in life and have a good chance of going to a good secondary school...

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feeding11 Here is an example of living your life through your kids. Say your kid has won an award or a trophy and you take all the credit instead of them being able to take it. More or less your kids accomplishments belong to you. If you see that happening then yes you...

9 Feb 07

Why kids shouldn't have cell phones...

sedel1027 @sedel1027 (17846) • Cupertino, California 9 Feb 07

Another good reason kids shouldn't have a cell phone. A third grader in New York state made 135 prank 911 phone calls over a ten day period with a prepaid cell phone her parents bought for emergencies. (...

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feeding11 Yes monitored for sure. Third grade is young but there is such a thing called a go phone where parents put in 4 numbers and the kid just pushes one button to call the selected person. Wonder why third grader has phone anyway? Unless being used if child is away...

9 Feb 07

Tankless water heaters

blueskies @blueskies (1186) • United States 5 Feb 07

I just learned of this device on http://www.stopglobalwarming.org Apparently, this device is a huge energy saver because it heats water as it is needed, instead of heating a large tank of it to be stored, waiting to be used. I...

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feeding11 I appreciate energy saving things for our home and our environment. Thanks to you my husband now has something else to look forward to me wanting. We have just finished 4 rooms in our house with new insulation and it has made a wonderful difference, but yes...

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where did privacy go? How many people do this?places camera in womens restroom>

eaforeman6 @eaforeman6 (8979) • United States 4 Feb 07

Manager Puts Camera In Waffle House Bathroom How many people do this? The cameras are not detectable. Is it safe to use a bathroom in public anymore? Police say a manager at the Villa Rica Waffle House hid...

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feeding11 I tell you what, if my family visited that Waffle house on a regular basis I would go to the police, my kids are always in the bathroom. I would demand to know if my child was one that was on his sick homemade disk then i would press charges for every child...

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Getting married and got some issues...

vicat506 @vicat506 (132) • United States 3 Feb 07

I am marrying my fiancee on April 21st and I couldn't be happier. I love him so much and know that he is the man I want to be with. Having said that, I have a couple of issues that have come up and need some opinions. My mom and...

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feeding11 I think you got caught up in a moment of what your family goes through to think straight. And in doing this "not inviting" thing you crated a more unwelcoming environment for your family about you. Now if you do invite them do you really think they will...

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Does Anyone Give Their Cat a Bath?

lauriefnp @lauriefnp (5109) • United States 1 Feb 07

My cat is an indoor cat, and he keeps himself clean. I have tried to use the waterless cleaner on him to "freshen him up", but he doesn't go for it. I can't imagine being able to give a cat a real bath. Has anyone had to bathe...

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feeding11 I have 3 indoor cats. But giving them a bath is very easy, keeping them away from water.....well....not so easy. My cats were saved at birth with the mom dying. Sister works for a vet and my mom fostered all three litters and bottle fed all of them every 2...

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Can a course help you become a better parent?

suedarr @suedarr (2382) • Canada 30 Jan 07

Have you ever taken a parenting course? I did when my oldest was a newborn. The skills I learned were helpful, but the social aspect I think was most beneficial to me personally. Do you think classes or courses should be...

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feeding11 I think it would be great. Although I do read a lot of books anyway, I do think you have a great idea. And if there was such a thing you probably wouldn't have as many questions out there about what to do with newborn babies. But keep in mind they do grow...

30 Jan 07

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Do you keep the money you find when doing your family's laundry??

lifeis2good @lifeis2good (1183) • United States 29 Jan 07

I am the only one in our house who does the laundry and yes it seems like it's a never ending task. But I was wondering what you do when you find money while doing the laundry whether it's in a pant's pocket or falls out during...

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feeding11 My mom made a rule when we were kids that whoever finds money keeps the money. Now even as adults when we help our parents out at their house and we do laundry the rule still holds good. Not to long found 100.00 bill and went to give it to my parents, they...

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