fireblaze

@fireblaze (52)

Philippines • Age 41

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Harassment!

christine888 @christine888 (303) • Philippines 30 Apr 11

Every time we have a fight between my bf and me he always throw something hard at me, banging the door and slap me. I'm so tired, I've been extending my patience but I can't hold on anymore. He is the one, though I love him much...

boyfriend

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fireblaze the best thing to do is to end your relationship with him. i don't think your bf truly loves you when he's been harassing you physically whenever you have a fight. nobody deserves to be treated the way your bf treats you.everyone deserves to be respected. you...

30 Apr 11

Have you ever snapped on your friend?

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 23 Apr 11

Last week, for no apparent reason other than being really stressed out, I've shouted angrily at my friend-slash-workmate. I didn't know what has gotten over me and I didn't even apologize immediately. After a few hours, my friend...

friend

snapped

stress

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fireblaze many times.it may happen everyday in different people and different circumstances as individuals commit mistake. when people are not in good mood, they have the possibility to do it against other person without realizing that they hurt someone. but the good...

23 Apr 11

what confuses you about life?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 23 Apr 11

Do You know what makes your life confusing? Do you always have that idea about what life maybe if you are always in control and knows every thing you need know about life? Well maybe you know what adds us to the confusion? I...

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fireblaze the only thing that confuses me right now is when to have a baby. i am married for years now and still trying hard to be pregnant. we had work-up in ob-gyn and until now we are still having the said work-up. i personally had prayed and still praying a lot but...

23 Apr 11

why is it soo hard to lose weight?!

ofabiania @ofabiania (421) • Philippines 20 Apr 11

i used to be really thin when i was in my grade school and highschool days.. no matter how many calories i take each day and have no exercise at all, i still remained thin.. i even considered myself blessed during those days.....

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fireblaze many individuals find it too hard to lose weight. during younger days, no matter how much one eats,no increase to body's volume is noticeable. but as one gets older, his metabolism slows that is why he seems to gain weight in spite of choosing what to...

20 Apr 11

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my night mare

akashpathak2311 @akashpathak2311 (31) • India 15 Apr 11

hey guyz i want to share with you my secret that i m very much scared of night mare... whenever i saw i night mare i wake up and sometimes i even start shouting.. i know some of you might have the same problem... do any one knows...

night mare

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fireblaze change your sleeping position. maybe you lie straight when you sleep, avoid that position. don't eat too much at night as you may experience difficulty in breathing. pray before going to bed as your faith in God is the best weapon against nightmares.

15 Apr 11

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Can a step father give a complete love and care to his step children?

johnpillai @johnpillai (2082) • Germany 15 Apr 11

Now a days throwing the spouse away from the family and seeking a new partner is very normal every where. It is easily accepted in western countries than eastern countries.Other than cultural basic or religion believes I always...

broken family

step father

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fireblaze hi, john!seldom you can find step-father who has genuine care for his wife's children. i had a friend who had her mother remarried after his biological father's death. i used to visit their house atleast 3 times a week. i called his stepdad, "uncle". i had so...

15 Apr 11

is this puppy love?infatuation?.....

bhabycatch013 @bhabycatch013 (9150) • Philippines 15 Apr 11

Hello Mylotters, Uuuhhmmm…I don’t know how to start this discussion but since someone convince me to share it here let me share it. Yesterday I was surprised when I saw a photo comment from my friend’s son he is my “[b]SO...

relationship

young love

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fireblaze hello, bhabycatch013!!!!i couldn't help to smile while reading your story, heheh...it is so cute!!!!maybe, a puppy love can best describe what a 12-year old kid is feeling for you...bit confusing for the both of you. perhaps, you can spend time away with him...

15 Apr 11

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I was so scared!

millefeuille @millefeuille (369) • Argentina 14 Apr 11

Early this morning, one of my dogs ran away when my mom left to go to work. Then, she woke me up saying that one of them had escaped and she couldn't go to looking for it because was too late. So I went with my younger sister to...

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fireblaze hello, millefeuille!!!!i hate to hear stories about cruelty to animals. as someone who has big heart for animals, it hurts me whenever i learn stories like yours. so sad that there are people who have no heart for animals.these people are evil-doers and i...

14 Apr 11

I hate to be involved in co - workers conflict

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 14 Apr 11

Today, the HR office lady from the headquarter interview me over the incident about one of the co - workers from my department having conflict with our supervisor and team leader. I wasn't know what was going on beforehand, and...

conflict

workers

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fireblaze yup, nobody wants to be involved in others' conflict. maybe, what your superior intended you to do was to act as merely witness of the incident that involved your co-workers, nothing more, nothing less. since you were the only person who happened to witness...

14 Apr 11

he wants me back,what should I do?

zaga_cleuth @zaga_cleuth (1407) • Philippines 14 Apr 11

The guy who had just fooled and cheated me is asking if I'll still accept him as my boyfriend after what he did to me, I don't know what to say, though I still love him, I have the feeling that he will hurt me again. He told me...

love

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fireblaze just ignore him. he already hurt you in the past and there is no assurance that he will make it up to you this time. you don't deserve someone like him, girl. don't accept him once again. there are more fishes in the sea. would you still choose a fish that is...

14 Apr 11

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what do you think of gossipers?

crazydaisy @crazydaisy (3896) • Canada 14 Apr 11

I my sell can't stand them they always seem to say things to hurt other people with out even knowing it which isn't right,I will not let any body into house if they are saying bad things....I got a rule.it goes like this 1.No bad...

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fireblaze hi, crazydaisy! gossip is bad for everyone because it encourages troubles. i have neighbors who always make gossip. at first, i showed them with kindness but i moved away from them after learning that they were saying bad things about me in spite of the good...

14 Apr 11

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Meddling with other people's affair

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 14 Apr 11

We just recently find out about my fathers extra marital affairs and it created conflicts betwen him and my mom and we also found out about his other children, who are alike the same as as my son and daughter, 4 and 7...

affairs

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fireblaze hi, jazel!yes, you are right, meddling in others' affair, most of the time, makes the situation more complicated. but,i understand your initial actions. i mean, i think, most people might do the same thing like what you did. i know that, you did that sort...

14 Apr 11

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my husband is not happy of my success in my work

ola_barakat @ola_barakat (4) • Egypt 14 Apr 11

i was a house wive for many years my husband got used to feel having the upper hand in the house but this changed a few years ago when i had my chance to work in a career that i love and every time i success in this career his...

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fireblaze hi, ola!i think you and your husband should have a heart-to-heart talk.in this way, both of you have the chance to express everything that need to be learned by both parties.perhaps, your husband is still adjusting to the new routine since he was used to the...

14 Apr 11

it's hard to move on..

anjiel052707 @anjiel052707 (410) • Philippines 14 Apr 11

the problem when give your everything for love is "moving on"! especially when you gave it to the wrong person. you loved someone and thought that he/she is gonna be the one but sadly, is not! how will you move on if he/she still...

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fireblaze moving on is a long-time process, it doesn't end in a day. moving on means letting go, and letting go depends on the degree of pain acquired from loving and trusting. based from your story, i can tell that you still love him since the thoughts of him still...

14 Apr 11

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