fredatedino
@fredatedino (50)
United States • Age 61
Joined myLot 18 years ago
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fieryfrost
@fieryfrost (316)
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
I am married and expecting our first child on May. I am just wondering how a baby changed the lives of the parents out there? I read about all the good things but I would appreciate to hear from real parents, real people. Simple...
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fredatedino You're not going to get much sleep for the next year. You and your husband will learn to appreciate when you get even five minutes together. Unless you live close to family and friends say goodbye to nights out and dinners together. If you're not organized,...
28 Jan 07
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mommy2damm
@mommy2damm (51)
• United States
27 Jan 07
My 5 year old son is very active, he doesn't listen and loves to run and jump all the time. Sometimes I can't settle him down. I really don't know how to discpline him. He has no fear and doesn't care about alot of...
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fredatedino Make sure he has as much physical things to do as possible that you approve of (bicycle, basketball, running, etc) to get some of that energy out. Set up a list of base rules (10 or fewer) that absolutely cannot be broken and discipline consistently and...
27 Jan 07
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mazmoaz
@mazmoaz (248)
• Norway
27 Jan 07
As the title says, who would you want to be for a day, if you could..?
I would like to be Hugh Hefner for a day...
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fredatedino I don't know that they degrade women. They do, however, seem irrelevant and outdated.
27 Jan 07
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somnolence
@somnolence (460)
• United States
27 Jan 07
Has anyone else here had a tubal ligation? I had one two days ago and I am still in a lot of pain. It hasn't gotten worse but it doesn't seem to be getting better either. I didn't expect a tiny little hole to hurt so much. How...
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beautifulceiling
@beautifulceiling (1300)
• United States
27 Jan 07
I think extremists are what cause a lot of the world's problems. But I also think that no one sees themselves as an extremist. Everyone feels that their own point of view is center and when someone is far from that perspective,...
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fredatedino I think that if you leave no room for questioning your point of view, you're likely an extremist. Maybe someone could start a discussion that runs along the line of Jeff Foxworthy's redneck act. Like:
If you're sitting on a bus with explosives strapped to...
27 Jan 07
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scribe1
@scribe1 (1203)
• United States
27 Jan 07
I'll never forget Rodney, a cat who looked like Morris and walked to the shelter cage door to let me pet and kiss him. He was an altered tom, but the sweetest. I had no car available to me, so I had to bring him home on public...
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crystal8577
@crystal8577 (1466)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Have you or will you raise them to be self sufficiant? Do they know how to wash their clothes, cook, vaccum, wash dishes? If not then who do you think will take care of these things for him? Do you expect him to get married & for...
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XxAngelxX
@XxAngelxX (2830)
• Canada
27 Jan 07
Almost a year ago, a friend of mine lost her husband to cancer. He was only 36 with a four year old daughter and a brand new baby. It was very quick, he only survived for five weeks after being admitted to the hospital. My...
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fredatedino Many years ago, doctors thought that cancer had one cause--and so one cure. After much, much research, they've found that many, many things can cause cancer and so many different "cures" for cancer (for example, they've just developed a vaccine against a...
27 Jan 07
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jolanda33
@jolanda33 (720)
• Netherlands
27 Jan 07
she is 8,5 months now,yesterday there was nothing, right now you see 1 mm tooth! oke let the full diapers, and red buts come i am ready!
my first one started with teeth at exactly the same age! that is so funny, it look like i...
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fredatedino You need to clean a baby's teeth as soon as they get them--if not by brushing then by using a soft cloth or by wrapping gauze around your finger and rubbing it. Both my kids' teeth started coming in at 17 weeks. We've cleaned and brushed at least once a day,...
27 Jan 07
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apky12
@apky12 (769)
• United States
27 Jan 07
I'm thinking about going back to work at least part time sooner than later. Just wondering what I'm looking at paying.
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fredatedino You'll need to pay at least minimum wage for your state. Generally, if you want a good sitter, I've found you need to pay above the minimum wage by at least 20%. You also need to make the appropriate Social Security payments are made (usually the employer...
27 Jan 07
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dmillman
@dmillman (2273)
• United States
27 Jan 07
OK, I'm pretty sure that this discussion will open the floodgates, but I'll do it any ways. How do you feel about having children? Do you feel that you have to have children? Do people realize that not everyone has children? Also,...
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fredatedino Having children means committing at least 18 years of your life to raising that child and a lifetime of worrying about that child. It also means that the other person will be in your life forever, regardless of your relationship with them, because they are...
27 Jan 07
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aroraasr
@aroraasr (428)
• India
16 Jan 07
I wanna know why people on this earth die? Please tell me what you feel about death, why God has created death for everyone?
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