gotetet

@gotetet (197)

Philippines • Age 60

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Who should handle the relationship?

rosie14 @rosie14 (80) • Philippines 30 Aug 11

I often heard that women should be the one that control a romantic relationship. If a woman can't control her man, the relationship may fail. But other people said that the man should be the one in control. But I don't believe any...

commitment

love

relationship

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gotetet hello, well, i don't believe there is superior in dealing with romantic relationship, be it a man or the woman, as long as one respect one's opinion and decisions. respect maybe the greatest aspect to have in a relationship, if one don't have it, i...

30 Aug 11

love problem

doris227 @doris227 (16) • China 7 Aug 11

hello everyone : me and my bf are living in different city , yes , we are in long distance relationship , so it is a little hard to see each other very often. now we are both in summer vocation , and i wanna he comes in my side ,...

love

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gotetet Well, you should know by now, figure it out if what's really the score, think a lot of times, if that long distance love affair of yours will come to a happy ending or whatever be. I myself experienced that, we almost separated our ways, the only thing...

8 Aug 11

why things don't work out,the way it should be?

flowerfest08 @flowerfest08 (1677) 2 Aug 11

I have a friend and she has a boyfriend for 2 years, they promised many things to each other and planning to get married when they graduated and both got a job, the guy is already welcome to her family and the same also with her...

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gotetet Well its not the end of the world, just that they used to be together for a couple of years and made memories, yes, i believe they are not meant for each other, but remember , the world is still moving, up and down, it goes back and forth, maybe...

3 Aug 11

Would you marry someone who is attractive but lacking in intelligence?

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 2 Aug 11

Let us say there is a girl or a guy you find extremely attractive - this person is a ten on your scale. You have been dating them for awhile and you know that their light bulb is not the brightest. They are the kind of person who...

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gotetet hi Awinds, We really are attracted to extremely beautiful and handsome personalities, its because of the looks, but incapacitated, well, i think, i should not marry the guy unless i am very much ready to carry his in capabilities thru life... since i...

3 Aug 11

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Mismatched socks

sender621 @sender621 (14894) • United States 12 Apr 11

Fashion trends come and go. What is popular now may not be so popular tomorrow. What we discarded long ago seems to make a comback as something new. Years ago if you wore a pair of mismatched socks, there would be...

fashion

socks

trends

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gotetet hello Sender, As we all knew, fashions may come and go, and come a time 10 or 20 or 30 yrs later, it will just come with another name. I remembered when we're at 6 or 7 years old that was in early 70's, we're wearing a fish net stockings with my sister,...

12 Apr 11

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Whom you go shopping like to with?Spouse?Friends?or just lonely?

candy811123 @candy811123 (334) • China 17 Mar 09

Do you like go shopping?When you go shopping,whom you like to with?Spouse?your friends?or just go shopping by yourself? I like to go shopping lonely.Because I needn't take care of others and just look what I like and buy what I...

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gotetet hello candy, I always love to go shopping with my hubby, but it will end us up quarreling, its funny but its true, he likes to buy all that i pick especially garments, you know women doesn't buy what they just pick but my nature is to fit it and fit it,...

10 Apr 11

I Miss Mylot.com

meticulo @meticulo (1286) • United States 28 Feb 11

Wooohh...it's been years??? We'll I feel like I've been separated from mylot for so long. Anything new here? Any new rules and regulation? Any new and exciting rewards? But above all I just miss you all...

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gotetet i only have a few contributions to this site but i missed it too, there's so much fun in here, but wait, yes is there something new in here, i had been absent for quite a time. yes, you're worth missing....missed you too friend, and welcome back to both of...

10 Apr 11

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Do you listen music before going to sleep?

codris @codris (781) • Italy 27 Mar 10

Hi there people, i like to listen to music with my mp3 before going to sleep, i love music so i listen it every time i can, and i like to stay in my bed with music in my ears. I like to listen to classic music because i think that...

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gotetet yes, my night will never be perfect without music, it really is my sister and twin.

28 Mar 10

Would you stay with this man?

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 16 May 09

I work with a woman at work who is married to a guy she shouldn't stay with! The husband has done this more then once! He'll work at a job and he doesn't like the job anymore he gets fired or quits! Then his wife supports him...

dead beat

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gotetet well, its so sad to know about this man, i'm sorry to say that this man is stubborn, who doesn't like to work to make ends meet, i think he doesn't have the courage to do the thing for his family, is he too dependent to his parents before he was married? so to...

17 May 09

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People getting to the top by wrong means, whats you say????

John4Christ @John4Christ (1597) • India 16 May 09

Well I am sure you might have come across people who who reach to the top in no time........they might join as your juniors, and you are where you are but they are your seniors in no time.......if they did it with hard work well...

cheats

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gotetet YES that will be so discouraging, but i think people doing such will surely never reap good things that last, for i believe if you sow a good seeds then it will have an abundant harvest, just as the saying goes " do not do unto others what you do not want to...

17 May 09

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When dressing up do you focused on your clothing or accessories?

pal7604 @pal7604 (98) • Sweden 21 Apr 09

I am sitting at a busy airport right now watching people running/walking to their respective gate to board. I have noticed that many don't care so much on how they match the colors on their outfit. Right now a lady passed by...

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gotetet yes i do, i am more conscious about matching the color of my attire, i don't wear much with the accessories because i am so allergic to any of it.

22 Apr 09

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Where are you when I needed you?

HelScream @HelScream (2822) • Philippines 10 Apr 09

I think all of us had experienced this situation when we needed our friends at our times of sorrow but you have no one to talk to or even share your problems. Just to listen just to be there when you needed them.. You asked...

friends

need

sad

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gotetet i have experienced that just recently when my father had a heart attack, i felt so so much disappointed to my neighbors when they just look at my relatives and one neighbor who helped my father brought to an ambulance to transport him to the hospital, how sad...

10 Apr 09

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do you apply make-up before sleeping at night??

lingzi @lingzi (567) • China 10 Apr 09

i really don't know if i should apply make-up before my sleeping at night. i have read some article said"we should not apply make -up before sleeping,the skin needs breath well without any make-up" but there are also someone...

make up time

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gotetet for me, not wearing any make up at night helps relax the pores in the face, that's why we women usually has to wash it with plain water, others with like warm water, to make the skin relax, but you know, my sister likes to wear lipstick before going to bed...

10 Apr 09

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2 people

What would you do........

CRIVAS @CRIVAS (1815) • Canada 10 Apr 09

What would you do if you were in a relationship with someone and you really wanted something but they refused you without even having a discussion? I have been in that situation before. We had the opportunity to buy something for...

decisions

discussions

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gotetet Hi, i think you need to talk it over again, lay the advantages and disadvantages to the thing you wanted to purchase, for me i think he may have some important reasons why he refused to, asking him the reasons would make you comfortable why he doesn't, well...

10 Apr 09

Are you a day-person or a night-person?

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 31 Mar 09

Do you thrive on the dark? Living shrouded in the shadows, like an owl or a mouse. Is the night sky the setting for what you consider as your life? Or do you live in the light? Basking in the glow of the sun above you. Living each...

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gotetet i'm a day person, i don't go out at night. i usually hang out with my family in our house by night. we have a lot of things to discuss with, a lot of plans with kids, we do play scrabble, watch tv with them, teasing one another in the bed, hehehe, we have so...

31 Mar 09

Do I look fat? ( pics included )

Smcgowan33 @Smcgowan33 (3) • United States 31 Mar 09

So ive posted a couple of comments about my friend and I and now i really need to know if i look fat. Be brutal and honest, I mean this swimsuit used to fit, so I know i've gained some, but how bad is it? Is it bad for...

health

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gotetet so so bad, just like me, bulging belly, gosh it really look discouraging, but this time, i try to be a bit choosy in my meals, i started it religiously already, i hope i can be as sexy as you are before.

31 Mar 09

what do you feel when someone say "you are so fat"

Tinna_He @Tinna_He (300) • China 26 Mar 09

Because i am fat,i always heard someone said to me "you are so fat and you should lose your weight".Maybe they are making a joke.But i always feel hurt.i will be fat even i only drink water.so it is difficult for me to lose...

fat

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gotetet well, chubby is the term now, right? for me, i know, your body system brought you that way , never mind them as long as you are happy with your life now, i am also fat and stout, at least we have taken care of God's blessing to us which is LIFE . in our...

28 Mar 09

Where do you go this summer?

meticulo @meticulo (1286) • United States 27 Mar 09

Summer is here. It's vacation time. It's one of the best season for students to celebrate. So where do you bring your children and the whole family this summer? Are you going to Boracay or do you have any other nice spots to...

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gotetet yes, its summer once again, we don't have nice spots in mind, because of financial hardups but i think a visit to the olds in the province can be an exciting one for the kids with their cousins, just now, they text each other to when are they going to go and...

27 Mar 09

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