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xoxo19 @xoxo19 (13) • Philippines 12 Dec 12

It's really hard to forgive someone. Especially if what that person did is very unforgivable. Myself can't even admit that I can forgive someone easily and forget what he did. I keep on trying to forgive him but it seems like...

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grace147 hi xoxo19, to err is human, to forgive is divine and to forget is a saintly deed. Human as we are truly find it difficult to forgive and harder to forget. But one thing we must remember is that inner peace is important in living and vengeance is not the...

16 Jan 13

ckyera @ckyera (17331) • Philippines 16 Jan 13

Hi Mylotters! Do you think it is possible for us to stay in love and can still live with our partners happily even if we don't trust them fully? And in case you are the one whose being mistrusted by your...

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grace147 Hi ckyera, trust is earned and once tarnished it will leave an imprint or a mark, not for us to be condemned or someone to condemned but the mark will tell us to grow and learn from it. Any relationship is worthless without trust for it is the basic element...

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jackiekathyrain @jackiekathyrain (15) • Philippines 19 Dec 12

... Having committed to love someone across the miles means withstanding all the tests of love that distance may lay into the relationship. In the course of distant, if the relationship have bloomed and so has love, that’s when...

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grace147 As for me, Love or "true love", cannot be measured in time and distance neither we can say thats its true love already if we are able to withstand the test of time and distance. For at certain point, love and belongingness with encompass everything and...

15 Jan 13

qianlizhifeng @qianlizhifeng (468) • China 8 Jan 13

Cooking meals was considered as a job for women in the past in my hometown.But as society develops, it is becoming one of the must requirements for men.These days,I had to get up early to cook breakfast for my wife who was busy...

cook

family

first

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grace147 hi qianlizhifeng, i sincerely love cooking but cooking doesnt love me hahaha. But I never gave up trying. In our kitchen, my role is the after-care clean up in charge. How can i forget my first cook for my child for it makes me laugh all the time i remember...

9 Jan 13

GilMegans @GilMegans (241) • Philippines 18 Dec 12

As I carefully observe variety of crimes has been vastly augmented its percentage everyday in different countries. And those culprits are not only limited based on ages and maturity. Many youth has been also recorded in every...

crimes

internet

youth

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grace147 Hi GilMegans, as I read all the opinion from our mylotter friends, all they shared are true indeed - many factors affects the change of our society. Criminal statistics are getting younger - by age. For me, this just show that human values are slowly...

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jackiekathyrain @jackiekathyrain (15) • Philippines 1 Jan 13

... A promise is a commitment by someone to do or not do something. As a noun, promise means a declaration assuring that one will or will not do something. As a verb it means to commit oneself by a promise to do or give. But as...

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grace147 Hi Jackiekathyrain, a "promise" is supposed to be a form of expression of the true feelings from within. Its like mean what you say and say what you mean scenario. A vow, a pledge, a guarantee but indeed no warranty for now a days "to promise" to someone has...

9 Jan 13

young_prince26 @young_prince26 (11) • Philippines 28 Nov 09

I want to know your thoughts about thirdsex people including gays, bisexuals, and lesbians... Do you think they have the right to fall in love? How about those man to man to man relationship meaning there are three of them in the...

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grace147 hi young_prince26, i'd like to share my insights about your topic. As for me, everyone has the equal rights irregardless of who we are or what we are. I know God only created man and woman distinct from each other. Morally, this is what we know. But time...

7 Jan 13

henrybdjr @henrybdjr (58) 17 Dec 12

What if? A very common question that each and everyone encountered, experienced and struggled with in life. This question is probably the inly question that pops up or popped up in anybody's or everybody's mind, sometime or more...

life uncertainties

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grace147 Life indeed is full of uncertainties, and we call them great challenges of learning. It wont be challenging anymore if we are all certain in everything we do. Of all the creation of God, humans are the superior one for we have the gift to decide, to chose the...

18 Dec 12

berting600 @berting600 (3453) • Philippines 28 Feb 10

Yes,it is really better be a victim of a typhoon calamity,than becoming to be a victim of a fire incidence,because when you became a victim of a typhoon tragedy, there are instances that you can get over your things and clean it...

calamity victim

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grace147 In as much as possible we don't want any tragedy that will happen to our life. Choosing between two evils - which one is lesser. With fire, there will be no remains of your belonging when struck by fire. With typhoon, there will be remains of your property but...

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akhaniemar @akhaniemar (122) • Philippines 10 Dec 12

I thought he was the one I'm looking for. It's been a while since I haven't felt what I just feel when I'm with him. I believed every words he said. He promised to be with me always and it made me feel like I'm the luckiest woman...

hurt

love

wrong guy

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grace147 Love is truly complicated and yet amazing to understand. When we love a person is just like taking a risk. When we took the risk it must be coupled with prayers. We risk in trusting and loving a person we barely knew. Even yet we felt we know him or her...

13 Dec 12

PINKYMARI @PINKYMARI (50) 12 Dec 12

They said that life is a warfare between two standards. Good and bad. But do we really have to focus on these standards that exist. we must know that a standard only exist if we believe and it only happen if we believe. Existence...

life

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grace147 Life is not a warfare for me. Its is a never ending challenge for us to grow but it will never be battle between good or bad if we take it in a positive perspective. We must live life to the fullest and the life we maketh is the result of the our choice. We...

12 Dec 12

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 10 Dec 12

Have you ever witnessed a couple fighting on the public for everyone to see? I just cannot think why these couples would not even try to conceal their anger for each other and have the issue be settled in private? I have been in...

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grace147 For me its not an appropriate place for discussions. Addressing personal issues in a public place would only bring more shame and scandal. However, i would say there are certain times too that we cant hold back our emotions and we acted unprofessionally...

11 Dec 12

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imjamie @jamieclavero (187) • Philippines 6 Dec 12

trust are like erasers, it gets smaller and smaller in every mistakes. thus, if someone had hurt you once, i do believe that he will probably do it again.

trust

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grace147 As for me trust is earned and once its tarnished it will ruined everything and cant be returned back to its original state. We may forgive but the hardest is to forget specially if the pain is too much that broken down the pieces of yourself. We may give...

6 Dec 12

choybel @choybel (5042) • Philippines 5 Dec 12

It's exactly 2:05 A.M. here now (according to my laptop time) as I type this and both my brother and sister are now asleep. I was also going to sleep earlier, too, considering that I have an 8 A.M. class later, but I decided to...

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grace147 It is a great blessing to know that you were still awake during the time Of the incident. A blessing in disguise and a lot to thank for.

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Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 2 Dec 12

That is how my head feels right now. I have a headache out of this world. I thought I would get a few comments done at mylot before I lay down. Of course when I have this type of headache we don't have any type of pain medicine....

headache

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grace147 Any pain that originates from any part of the head will truly knock us down to bed. Toothache and migraine are truly an ordeal that ruins our day. These are pains that sometimes wont listen to painkillers. Taking pain killers plus taking hot soup and rest will...

2 Dec 12

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Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 2 Dec 12

That is how my head feels right now. I have a headache out of this world. I thought I would get a few comments done at mylot before I lay down. Of course when I have this type of headache we don't have any type of pain medicine....

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grace147 Any pain that originates from any part of the head will truly knock us down to bed. Toothache and migraine are truly an ordeal that ruins our day. These are pains that sometimes wont listen to painkillers. Taking pain killers plus taking hot soup and rest will...

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GilMegans @GilMegans (241) • Philippines 1 Dec 12

Climate change is the present "buzz word" in all major discussions on environment. Complexity involved has often made the subject controversial and allowed divided opinion by people. Is climate change part of sound SCIENCE? or not...

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grace147 Hi GilMegans, another good topic that you got here that makes me or perhaps our fellow myloters to think and re think before responding. It even prompted me to do some readings for I find it very interesting specially concerning our environment and the future...

2 Dec 12

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tinetine161992 @tinetine161992 (431) • Philippines 27 Sep 12

can you just forgive someone hurt you? Does Forgiveness open for anyone?is that so easy to forgive someone make you cry and hurt you?

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grace147 To forgive and forget is a divine action that entails a lot of courage for human as we are we tend to be close to be someone who hurt us. But our life will be trapped to unhappiness if cant forget the times when we are hurt and we failed to move on in this...

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