hearts_melodies

@hearts_melodies (78)

Philippines • Age 48

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someone you love

clandestinef @clandestinef (88) • Philippines 18 Apr 08

As the saying goes, "staying with someone you really love even if you know that it is better letting go is like standing under the rain, it do feel good but you know it will make you sick". Do you believe in this saying? Would...

letting go

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hearts_melodies At the moment I am feeling that, I know that we will be better if we will live a separate lives. Letting go is the best solution but how will I do it when letting go of him brings so much hurt....

22 Apr 08

loving someone you cant have

amandathreatt @amandathreatt (48) • United States 29 Oct 07

Has anyone here ever loved someone that you couldnt have? I did at one point and its so funny because now I have him. I just let life take its course and now I couldnt be happier. I hope that is a ray of light for some of you out...

love

loving someone you cant have

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hearts_melodies I hope what happened to you will also happen to me. I want this man whom I loved to be mine alone but I don't know if will going to happen. Honestly I'm losing hope.....

1 Nov 07

have you ever been in love?

gudjhong @gudjhong (111) • Philippines 25 Aug 07

have you ever been in love? how doe it feel?

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hearts_melodies being in love is one thing I always wanted to do because it is just a great feeling no one can explained. Even there are times I get hurt because of being in love, it doesn't matter as long as I experienced to be in love!

25 Aug 07

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men are simply polygamous in nature, arent they?

xenna1986 @xenna1986 (228) • Philippines 24 Jul 07

MEn are polygamous in nature. When yoiu happen to see an ever-faithful lover, he is considered rare & extinct... Even these men have accepted the fact of their being. this world is full of treachery. One person cheats, while...

are men polygamous

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hearts_melodies You are right, men are said to be polygamous in nature. They will just said that you are the only one in their life but you never know they still have 2nd, 3rd, 4th..... I meet only my bf in the net. I often wonder why he usually slow to reply, then i think...

29 Jul 07

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Does God answer all prayers?

sr0415 @sr0415 (1140) • Philippines 28 Jul 07

QUESTION: Does God answer ALL prayers? Who said YES? Raise your hands! LOL... *I'm waiting* tik-tak-tik-tak! hehehe... =] And who said NO? Hmmm... Nobody? Ows..??? Does anyone said No? How about those who didn't answer...

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does god answer all prayers

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hearts_melodies I thought when I pray God will usually answer in my favor and I always blame God if it will not turn in my favor but just this morning I celebrated the mass. I heard clearly what is the cermon of the father. It is about asking and answering our prayer. I...

28 Jul 07

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do you fall in love that easy?

xenna1986 @xenna1986 (228) • Philippines 26 Jul 07

who falls in love easy? women or men? who gives more than whom?

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hearts_melodies It always depend on the person. I' admitting i easily fall in love that's why I always get hurt because I tend to love someone that I not know much better.

28 Jul 07

Faith Of Your Lover........

viollet_ry @viollet_ry (968) • Indonesia 27 Jul 07

Have you ever found out if your honey is faithful to you? How do you tested him/her? I never tested my hubby before, coz I do trust him. And I know he wont cheat on me. Besides he doesnt have time to meet girls...

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hearts_melodies I don't know if I can trust my hubby that much. You know we meet only in the net and we came from the opposite side of the world. If u trust ur hubby that much, good for you. I wish I can be like you too.

28 Jul 07

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Have you fell in love with the wrong person?

myeganda11 @myeganda11 (141) • Philippines 27 Jul 07

Love strikes anywhere to anyone..Have you fallen for the wrong person? tell me!!

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person

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hearts_melodies Me? yes so many times that why I have been hurt so many times too. But I'm not giving up, I know one day I will find the right one for me.

28 Jul 07

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SHould ANYONE be allowed to BREAK A HEART....?

abhax123 @abhax123 (1695) • India 28 Jul 07

I have a question and i want a honest answere should any1 be allowed to break anyone's heart... no matter how beautiful she is should she has the right to do so and break that other person heart into million pieces?

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hearts_melodies For me I will always depend on the intention of the one who wants to break the heart of someone. if his intention is good then why not like telling your present lover that you don't love her anymore then maybe it just right than to pretend you still love...

28 Jul 07

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Pain of Love failure; Is it momentary or permanent?

I_LUV_U @I_LUV_U (2519) • India 19 Jul 07

There are very few people on this earth who have never experienced love-failure in their life. When you love someone as badly as our life, spend most of your time and energy thinking about that person, ready to take any risk...

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hearts_melodies I have had hurt so many times. While typing this response I want to cry because I am that hurt but I have learn to cope with pain in time. I just learn to move on and have it as one of my experience. One that will help to become a better person and maybe...

28 Jul 07

what do you usually do when your hurting?

babysunget @babysunget (218) • Philippines 25 Jul 07

im a cry baby so i cry alot when im hurt or when someone caused me pain. But sometimes i listen to music or i keep myself busy. Singing helps alot too, you know..

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hearts_melodies When I'm hurt like you I cry a lot and if only I can I want to shout out all the pain that I feel. After a few days of crying, I'm back to myself again, ready to face the world and the challenges it brings.

28 Jul 07

What will you do if your bestfriend having an affair to your boyfriend?

ciades @ciades (1623) • Philippines 28 Jul 07

oh my!! i cant imagine. what if? what will i do? how will i react to my bestfriend? will i get mad at her? will i kick his face off? joke! i am not that bad. i think i will ask her first and then try to analyze the situation and...

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hearts_melodies Me I will just confront the two of them. I will try to talk to them sincerely. If my bf loves my best friend more than he loves me then maybe its right for them to be together. I will accept it even if it hurt much!

28 Jul 07

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puzzled with my current lover.

delfinangula @delfinangula (2) • Kenya 24 Jul 07

few months ago i was dating a girl, after quiet a long time of good shared love at school. we had to say goodbye to each other because we had to depart to different home places. after a month she informed me that she is...

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hearts_melodies You have to tell him no matter what of how you fear that she will leave you. It is nice to share with her your secret! Remember there is no secret that cannot be reveal in time. It may hurt her more if she will know it from other people. Lets just hope that...

26 Jul 07

mysteries of love

mkcallejo @mkcallejo (318) • Philippines 26 Jul 07

At first love is pure bliss. Everything about love is happy but as you grow, you learn to realize that love is imperfect. It is not the ideal term to denote nirvana. What do you think?

love

relationships

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hearts_melodies Your right! Love does not mean only happiness, it is also a combination of a bitter-sweet taste. Now your happy and a little later your not but still it is so nice to experience how to love and be love inspite of its imperfection.

26 Jul 07

what shall i do?

mayinghe @mayinghe (26) • China 19 Jun 07

i have fell in love with a guy three years ago. unfortunately it was just one-way love. at the beginning, he didn't know this. and we just hung out like a friend. but a few times later, i couldn't put up with the rear feeling...

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hearts_melodies I salute you for being so brave in telling to the man you love about your true feeling for him. I am just sad that your love had not begot love but still for me it is just right that you tell him without thinking of the consequence. Just learn to accept...

26 Jul 07

love ,hard to preserve

queen666 @queen666 (54) • China 25 May 07

my boyfrind,which meant to be my Mr right,come to my place by four hours driving.we just cannot feel love,or can say any sign of love.we seemed to be common friends!seven years passed,love gone like wind.it seems we are at the...

mr right

passed

seven years

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hearts_melodies Ya maybe love is hard to preserve but I think it can be preserve. Maybe you should put a little excitement in your relationship not that its become a routinary activity in your life only.

26 Jul 07

How do you know if he is Mr Right?

wilynn @wilynn (751) • Singapore 6 Jul 07

Some people just tell me... you just know it... or that he is someone you'll never imagine... I really don't know who is Mr Right and I've known a man that I think is Mr Right but I did not want to marry him. He's definitely Mr...

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hearts_melodies Same here. I never know too how to know it he is already my MR. RIGHT because if I do I will end up always hurt but maybe its hearts will tell us if he is already. Good luck to both of us.May we find MR. Right soon...

26 Jul 07

find the right man!

594479417 @594479417 (2) 26 Jul 07

I have found my MR RIGHT, and i am GETTING MARRIED in under 2 WEEKS.

mr right

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hearts_melodies I thought I already was but I wrong! I hope someday like you, I will find MR. RIGHT too. Congrats! And may the two of you will stay in love forever. Best wishes!

26 Jul 07

close friend can be a lover???

artisweety @artisweety (411) • India 3 Feb 07

i had a close friend who proposed me.even i like him ,i luv him.i think falling in luv wid best friends is better than falling in luv wid people who luv blindly.

wht r ur views

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hearts_melodies There is always a big possibility that best friends will becomes lovers. There is no wrong in it. For me its great for they have known each other to well!

26 Jul 07