imnobodyspecial

@imnobodyspecial (318)

United States • Age 72

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Why nobody response to my discussion?

onewaydream @onewaydream (27) • China 16 Aug 11

I am a new guy in mylot. Nice to meet you, myloters. I start a new discussion one day ago. And the topic is about the new coach of the Chinese football team. But I receive no response. I want to know how to choose the...

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imnobodyspecial It would seem that meta tags would be a help in getting people to notice and respond to your postings...I suggest you look around and see what types of topics get the most responses, gain a few friends and go from there. Gaining a few best responses can't be a...

17 Aug 11

power cut two hours

iamsummer @iamsummer (192) 14 Aug 11

OMG,i could see nothing now,that is my first reaction toward the power cut just now.I really hate the blurry scene appears in my eye.And then i went to the window slowly to see what happened.There is a black scene appearing in...

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imnobodyspecial From early January 2009 to late February 2009 we lived without power. An ice storm took down miles of power lines, pulled the service lines from homes, the cities did not fare so badly, electricity was restored within a few days for most. I, however, live in...

15 Aug 11

Keep feeling negative when I know it's not good for me

jacklintan @jacklintan (1302) • Malaysia 25 Jul 11

I have books telling me, the whole world is in my hands if I want it and I can grab it. Yes, I agreed. I have people looking at me and say, " you can achieved more than what you have now". Yes, I agreed. I do my job and I...

feeling negative

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imnobodyspecial You may be suffering minor depression or situational depression...where life is boring and nothing seems like it's worth the effort. Setting goals is a good way to motivate one's self, achievable goals that is...Start with something you know you can...

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Pray GOD!!!

Sanjeev @sjvg1976 (41281) • Delhi, India 25 Jul 11

Hello MYLOTTERS, I always have a question in my mind why do people pray GOD??? Do you know why we do it??? For me i pray GOD because i get peace of mind when i pray GOD. Secondly HE made us all so we...

god

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imnobodyspecial The best thing about faith is that everyone gets to be right. Some people pray, yet the question remains, what is prayer? I've read where prayer is praise for this being known by many names. I've also read that is showing gratitude, listing the...

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Do you think "outside the box"?

damned_dle @damned_dle (3942) • Philippines 25 Jul 11

Do you think "outside the box"? If you always think outside the box, can you also think "inside the box" at the same time? I think you CAN'T think outside the box if you can't think inside the box first. What's your view about...

thinking outside the box

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imnobodyspecial Actually the poster who questioned the box had the right idea...first it matters 'what box?' Each of us have our fixed concepts, unchangeable and unchanged. Sometimes these fixed concepts agree with other, sometimes they don't. First one must examine...

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how to keep my baby out of kitchen ?

aweins @aweins (4199) • India 25 Jul 11

my baby is just three years and four months and she wanna do all what i do in kitchen. today i was making chapattis for my family and she came in between to make one on her own without my help. she just want me to keep the dough...

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imnobodyspecial You can't. Kids just like to be with Mom or Dad...they like to mimic and it's also how they learn. I'm going to suggest something just a bit different than the others, although they were all good ideas. Instead of allowing her to make the same thing you...

26 Jul 11

have you ever distanced yourself from somebody else, why?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 24 Jul 11

So for whatever reason you may have... did you ever had to keep yourself away from a person? an annoying co worker who is always at your back an ex boyfriend or girlfriend who made you feel like you are the worst person in...

relationships with people

staying away

why

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imnobodyspecial Most people have distanced themselves from someone they were once close to...stating reasons that are only a small portion of the true reason. Usually we do so to protect ourselves from harm, physical, psychological, mental or emotional, or even a...

25 Jul 11

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I want my house always clean

pbbbsra @pbbbsra (1214) • Philippines 24 Jul 11

sometimes people think I am sick because I am very clean with my things. I clean the house almost everyday, I clean the toilet everyday, I want everything in place. sometimes people get uncomfortable when they go to my house...

cleaning

home

house

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imnobodyspecial If you have to ask for validation for your behaviors, then it's not what others think but what you fear that may be the issue. If your cleaning habits irritate your husband and you find that you can not make a compromise on the issue, then perhaps there is...

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I go to washroom 10-15 times a day?

sadafsakhawat @sadafsakhawat (133) • Pakistan 23 Jul 11

I go to wash room about 10-15 times a day is it normal, i want to Doctor for that they told me to do few blood and urine test reports were positive...... Is it normal to go to washroom after 2 hours.... Is it what happens with...

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imnobodyspecial Urinary issues can show up in frequency of urination...yet there are other possibilities that are not the result of illness or disease. A spastic sphincter muscle can result in either frequent urination or even incontinence. While a bladder infection can...

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Loner, is it bad to be a loner?

investor211 @investor211 (474) • Mexico 23 Jul 11

Loner, myself yes, i actually enjoy to have very quiet life, i like to be surrounded by nature my very close familly i have friends but do not interact so much with them, i believe that having privacy of my life have so much...

a loner person

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imnobodyspecial I've heard people described as loners, yet exactly what is a loner? Someone who has a small circle of friends? Someone who isn't as socially active as another? There is a lot of room in the description of loner, because there isn't a one size fits all. I...

24 Jul 11

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up to what point you will support your sister?

janebernal @janebernal (274) • Philippines 21 Jul 11

being single mom for my only daughter would not that too hard for me since i can afford it.however for almost 4 years now my sister and her two kids and her nanny stays with me at first i never ask anything from them coz i know...

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imnobodyspecial You don't say how long the sister has been married or how long they both have lived with you...but I am going to make a presumption that it's been a while. First you need to sit them both down for a talk...yeah, THE TALK. Point out that you have...

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I hate it when this happens!!!

jahernandezrivas @jahernandezrivas (11288) • United States 21 Jul 11

It always seems to happen at the end of the week, running low on food mainly in the meat area, but every time I go to the store I try to get enough for 2 weeks but it does not work so today I am making Lentils the beans but there...

cooking

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imnobodyspecial I have found that menu planning goes a long way toward savings in the grocery department. I have also found that planning meals for hot weather is a lot different than for the colder times. Since 8 oz of meat is considered a serving, and since my family...

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Did you think you have lost the ability to ...

Valentin @wmraul (2552) • Bucharest, Romania 21 Jul 11

We live in this speedy era, with devices being more and more part of our everyday routine. PCs, laptops, iPhones, ... and all require to press buttons to no matter if need to dial a number or write a message. And to many of...

hand writing

typing

writing

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imnobodyspecial We've fallen into the faster is better concept. We can write an email and send it and within moments it arrives at it's destination, a letter by mail...well...that can take up to a week or more...then there is the potential return time via mail vs the return...

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Herman Cain and separation of church and state

gewcew23 @gewcew23 (8007) • United States 19 Jul 11

If there is two things I know about American conservatives, and I should since I use to be one, is that they love black conservatives and hate the concept of the separation of church and state. Why, well for the first supporting a...

conservatives

herman cain

separation of church and state

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imnobodyspecial Gewcew23, you wouldn't happen to be from the Bible Belt would you? I totally understand the statement about the Christian version of the Taliban ruling the USA being a great idea...one has to experience it to believe it. Unless one has experienced the...

20 Jul 11

How do I get motivated?

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 19 Jul 11

I have a novel in my head (who doesn't?). But somehow I can't just make myself sit down and write it. I even have a friend who is going to get published by a major publisher - she said she would be my connection. This gives me an...

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imnobodyspecial Organize, organize, organize...create yourself a schedule! Keep a notebook and pen handy or lacking that, a small recorder so you can keep track of any ideas or story lines that come up while you are doing other things...use your schedule to align all those...

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How do you feel about teenagers marrying?

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 19 Jul 11

Some teens marry quite young - while in high school. Some of these young marriages turn out fine, but many end in divorce. So my question to you is, how do you feel about older kids marrying? What is the good and the bad? Do you...

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imnobodyspecial The problem with the concept of teen marriages being doomed to failure is a mistaken one, there are more than enough failed marriages that occurred at more chronological ages to prove this point. Why some marriages work and others don't is a question that...

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Hows the Weather in you're Place??

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 19 Jul 11

Hello Lotters, You know barely a Month ago we were enjoying the benefits of good o'l rain, storms coming here and there every once or twice a week. we experience good rains that we didn't bother watering plants, and it felt...

hot

weather

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imnobodyspecial I live in the south central part of the US and it's been hot these last days... Over the past few years I've noted that weather seems to be experiencing extremes, flooding, then drought, excessive heat, high humidity... Here where I live we went from...

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Do you also receive fake mails?

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58676) • Delhi, India 19 Jul 11

Hi all! I sometimes receive fake mails from the known senders, when actually they do not send such mails to me. To elaborate my point further – suppose ‘X’ and ‘Y’ are my friends and have my email ID. I would...

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imnobodyspecial I think you are speaking of spam mail being sent to you via people in your address book...basically what has happened is whoever's email address is sending these mails out has been infected with a automailer virus or malware. Sometimes the virus is in the...

20 Jul 11

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