jaclyng

@jaclyng (19)

United States • Age 45

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Have you ever made Penpal Friends?

Grandmaof2 @Grandmaof2 (7579) • Canada 17 Nov 08

When I went to school we were encouraged to improve our penmanship and one of the ways we were encouaged is we were given address from real people from far away countries. I was one of the ones that did write letters. I wrote...

good penmanship

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jaclyng I had a penpal when I was about 12 or so, my mom actually become penpals with this girl's aunt though some kind of penpal service and then when they discovered that her niece and I were the same age, we started to exchange letters as well. She was from...

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I like bunn coffee pots, What`s your favorite?

miracleman2008 @miracleman2008 (173) • United States 16 Apr 08

I like my bunn because you put coffee in the basket,get your water, lift the lid,add the water,put the pot inplace,close the lid,go to the restroom to get rid of some coffee from the night before.grab your cup,and pour, becauce...

bunn

coffee pots

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jaclyng I have a Kuerig coffee makes...the kind that has the indiviual k-cups of coffee grinds and I absolutely love it! It may well be the best thing my husband has ever bought me! It broke during our move and I had to wait to recieve a new one and was miserable...

8 May 08

Your National Anthem..... Inspiring? Or do you just go through the motions?

James72 @James72 (26790) • Australia 6 Feb 08

Given that the Olympics are coming up again, it means that we will hear pretty much every National Anthem from around the world. It makes me think of the National Anthem of my country; which is "Advance Australia Fair". To be...

inspiration

national anthem

pride

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jaclyng I am American as well and wanted to add that my eyes do mist up with pride everytime I hear it sung. There's nothing more American in my mind then hearing the National Anthem followed by "let's play ball!" which always happens at our baseball games here in the...

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The city, town or village? Big or small?

meiteoh @meiteoh (416) • Switzerland 8 May 08

If you had to choose, where would you stay - the city, town or village? Would you want to live in a huge metropolitan area or would you prefer a small quiet town/village? Just wondering about your choice and why you made your...

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jaclyng The town we are in has 2,440 people in it...the town we lived in before which wasn't actually in Nashville but extremely close had closer to 45,000. A 1400 sq. ft. home there ran about 120,000-130,000 USD whereas in our new town 45-50,000USD will buy around...

8 May 08

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What's so great about where you live?

CanadaGal @CanadaGal (4304) • Canada 5 Apr 08

Do you live in a city? A small town? In the country? Do you have a public transit system? Do you have to drive everywhere? Do you have government offices in town? Do you live walking distance to grocery shops? Do you live within...

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jaclyng I live in a small town in Kansas we just moved hee in Dec...we are about 1 1/2 hours from Wichita, 15 minutes from the Kansas/Okla border, 2 1/2 hours from Tulsa and 5 hours from Kansas City. It's a bit of a drive into Wichita for my husband to work each day...

8 May 08

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The city, town or village? Big or small?

meiteoh @meiteoh (416) • Switzerland 8 May 08

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jaclyng We actually just made this choice a few months ago, I'm from Nashville and while I love it there(it is an AMAZING city), we opted to move toKansas where my husband is from to a small town roughly 1.5 miles square so my son who is 6 could live in a safe place...

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My boyfriend confess he still loves another girl, i'm really in love

uhave2knowme @uhave2knowme (4) • Panama 7 May 08

Could any one advise me what can i do?, my boyfriend confessed me the other day that he still have feelings for his prior girlfriend, that he is trying to forget her and he knows i am better than her, but he still cant stop loving...

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jaclyng Not my most useful comment...but I am so totally in agreeance with this coment...seriously.....get the heck out of there! No one who truely loves you would ever tell you they were *also* in love with someone else!

8 May 08

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why we fall in love

rahuldhiman @rahuldhiman (130) • India 8 May 08

this is a very comman question when love becom hard ; my girl friend is not with me becaus my inconm is less i love alot but she is not with me what i do,i can not foget herwhat is my mistake

love

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jaclyng Just because you love, doesn't mean you should be with her. Marriage is hard, and if you were to end up marrying that girl- what happens when you get liad off or hurt...someone who is that concerned about money may not stay with you and then where are...

8 May 08

Rude And Hateful Kids...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 8 May 08

The other day I was at Walmarts and there was a woman in her early 20’s who spoke in such a way that you could tell that she was somewhat mentally retarded. There were also 2 girls about 11 that were making fun of her. The one...

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jaclyng I tend to speak up in situations like that...I have that nothing stuns and shuts a person up more than just simply telling them that "you are being very rude". They don't generally have a comeback for that. 1.) They can't deny it and 2.) People are usually...

8 May 08

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Do you get mad at friends that do not agree with you?

raydene @raydene (9871) • United States 7 May 08

I have one friend that believes that gays are sinners and if they had faith they wouldn't be gay. I believe that gays are gay because a gene made them that way and since it's part of God's design it can not be...

friends

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jaclyng I have one friend who is devout christian and I am an atheist....when we were in college neither of us really discussed our beliefs as they weren't as important before we had families, so our relationship was formed off of similar personalites and likes. Now...

7 May 08

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Boston lady robbed what does she want back? Her dog! Reward offered!

luvstochat @luvstochat (6907) • United States 7 May 08

BOSTON -- An East Boston woman whose apartment was burglarized recently says she's not sure what the thieves wanted more: her television and laptop or her pet pug Frankie. What she does know, however, is that she wants her...

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jaclyng dogs getting stolen isn't that rare believe it or not.....when i was a kid our neighbors house got robbed and they took all the elctronics and their siberian husky, well, the theives must have figured out quickly that the dog was high maitence and they dropped...

7 May 08

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How do you deal with the relationship with your mother-in-law or daughter-in-law

zlesing @zlesing (487) • China 22 Mar 08

Yestoday, I joined in a hot discussion in other forum,it was about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. And the cold war between them is common in their daily life, at least in China. Someone can get...

deal with

endurance

relationship

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jaclyng I think the man in between them makes all the difference. I saw my parents relationship almost torn apart for years because of how badly my father's family treated my mother and the only thingthat saved them was my dad finally telling them he couldn't deal...

6 May 08

He is not respecting me at all!!

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 3 May 08

My father-in-law really gets on my nerves. When he comes to my house, he will just make himself at home. Once he spent the night without even asking me. I am sure that he did not even ask his son. I really dislike when he does...

respect

tools

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jaclyng I think rather then you talking to him (cause I would guess you've already done that a number of times) DH needs to talk to him. He needs to very sternly explain to him that he backs you up 100 percent and doesn't appreciate him disrespecting you and that if...

6 May 08

im a mom i deserve respect not to be talked about

isis1212354 @isis1212354 (36) • United States 4 May 08

im a new mom and im sick and tired of people thinking they can tell me what to do with my child, sorry you messed your kid up, but leave mine alone, i dont get the respect of being a good mom,im home all day with this kid, i have...

moms

respect

venting

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jaclyng I hate to agree with the other poster but it's true, this is a major part of motherhood. I'll straight up tell you my mom was a horrible mother and thanks to that I am so different from her and think I'm a pretty darn great mom, but don't you know she tries to...

6 May 08

I miss my mom

Denanna @Denanna (47) • United States 6 May 08

I miss my mom everyday but on mothers day more so she died 12 years ago on May 17th I day before my daughters birthday and right after mothers day, I was 30 when she died. My kids like to make mothers day special and I enjoy it...

miss

mom

mothers day

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jaclyng I'm really sorry for your loss. Myabe a great way to honor her memory on Mother's Day anf still feel close to her would be to spend mother's day sharing her favorite things or stories about her with your own children so they can get to know her though you.

6 May 08

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Does your partner have a say in your dress, or the way you wear your hair?

property @property (453) • United States 6 May 08

My significant other has forbade me to cut my hair. I wear my hair quite long and don't really want to cut it anyway, but I wonder if other woman "conform" to what their partner likes or if they do what they want with thier dress...

clothes

hair

partner

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jaclyng I take my husband's opinion in to consideration, i mean obviously I want to look go for him, but I would never not do something I wanted to do simply because he said so. In fact, I think after 7 years of marriage that it's better not to say anything,...

6 May 08

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