jayniferlovesjames

@jayniferlovesjames (27)

United States • Age 41

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Teaching children RESPECT!!!

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 5 Dec 06

Ever noticed that now-a-days children are SOOOOOOO disrespectful???? And I'm not very old either, but when I was a child if I would of spoke to my mother the way my kids speak to me, I would of gotten a couple teeth knocked...

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jayniferlovesjames strange that i came across this discussion, i was just at the store with my three year old and i was going to let him get a toy on our way to the register he saw a train set- he loves trains- so i told him that he can wait until christmas or put back the...

6 Dec 06

UNLEARNABLE

aggiejoe @aggiejoe (799) • United States 2 Dec 06

My youngest son was diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago. Well hearing the side effects of the treatments I desided against them. The school offered a alternitive learning class for him. well I went to meet with his special ed...

health

kids

school

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jayniferlovesjames i praise you for not putting your child on meds some parents are so quick to drug there over active children. when all they have on there hands is a child that's to smart for there own good. when your mind just moves to fast for you to comprehend. theres...

3 Dec 06

Cancer can be beaten??

lonewolfnan @lonewolfnan (4366) • Canada 2 Dec 06

Can cancer be beaten?We have put billions of dollars into research yet in the last year I have lost 3 members to cancer.

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jayniferlovesjames billions of dollars doesn't mean a thng when it comes to something that can take over any part of your body and most of the cures we put this money into is wasted because we've all seen how these options work. most aren't effective after a certain amount of...

2 Dec 06

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Don't Hate me, Please

missyann73 @missyann73 (1454) • United States 1 Dec 06

My mother is in her final stages of terminal lung cancer, and I am her sole cargiver, and sometimes I get so short, and hateful with her. She has no memory left and doesnt know who I am, due to brain radiation. I live with her,...

hate me

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jayniferlovesjames i don't hate you i respect you i think it's amazing that you can do what you do. Don't get me wrong if my mother were in such a place i would do everything i could for her. i can't imigine what it's like to have to take care of your mom or watch her hurt so...

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When did your baby stand up on their own? Start to walk? Walk on their own?

hannahgracesmom @hannahgracesmom (151) • United States 30 Nov 06

I am curious to know when babies are supposed to walk. I guess there's NO right or wrong answer, but I am curious to know if Hannah is where everyone else is. She cannot stand or walk on her own. However, she can stand and walk...

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jayniferlovesjames they say babies walk at around 12 months Hannah sounds like she well on her way when my son started to hold him self up and scale the couch an table it wasnt long after that he started trying it all on his own. not to mention you said shes been crawling since...

30 Nov 06

Anxiety, harder and harder to deal with.

acuityplague @acuityplague (763) • United States 30 Nov 06

I have horrible anxiety, I take medication's for it but how long am I supposed to depend on chemicals? I really don't want to spend the rest of my life taking lexapro and ativan, there is surely some long term use malady they...

anxiety

ativan

panic disorder

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jayniferlovesjames i feel for you because it can be quite harming to your life and your goals to have an anxiety ... mine was big crowds i couldnt stand walking into my overpopulated school and thinking everyone was looking at me talking about me it was awful. confidence is the...

30 Nov 06

Do you judge parents with tatoos?

milk_shaking @milk_shaking (227) • United States 30 Nov 06

Myself and my husband both have tatoos... not full body tattoos they can be covered to dress respectfully. We are both comfortable with ourselves. but I have noticed when I was out with my daughter (4)and pregnate with my son.. it...

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jayniferlovesjames i do think some people judge parents with tatoos i get ugly looks from people too i have five tatoos and all but two are pretty much covered i cant stand when people look at my tattoos and than look at u as if they've just questioned your parenting. i love my...

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If you found out you had cancer, would you have chemo?

rawpoet @rawpoet (2046) • United States 30 Nov 06

I can't say that I would because I watched many loved ones die faster from chemo, and it scares me, and they were young and old. I know a lot of it depends on your immune system so that's why I brought up the age. I also...

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jayniferlovesjames i agree with you i wouldn't ever had chemo and would never let anyone i loved think that it was the only way because it's not. i would hate to see someone i loved just get worse from some proceedure that was said to make them better. "a time for dancing" this...

30 Nov 06

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OK MYLOT I NEED ADVISE CAN YOU HELP???

sherijmccane @sherijmccane (905) • United States 30 Nov 06

OK, my husband lost his wallet the other day well i should misplaced his wallet he found it on his night stand under his ball cap, well the next morning he calls me from work and starts ranting that someone stole $10 out of his...

abusive husband

advise

help

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jayniferlovesjames i agree with most responses you need to leave there is no reason for you to be treated in such a way by someone who claims to love you . i know it may be hard to leave but what kind of life do you have right now and what kind of life will your children have...

30 Nov 06

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Abuse

jprostang12 @jprostang12 (1) • Jamaica 30 Nov 06

To whom this may concern. I need to know what to do. My girlfriend and her brother are living with her parents. Shes 19 and hes 15. There have been several occasions where there mom and dad physically hit, kick and punch them....

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jayniferlovesjames i agree with everyone else you must report this or at least conveince one of them to tell someone so that something can be done as soon as possible 'vacant' was right if your girlfriend and her brother don't get help soon they may bacome people you don't even...

30 Nov 06

fighting

anna11292 @anna11292 (564) • United States 30 Nov 06

Hello, I am having some trouble here. ALl my kids do is fight and yell and even hit each other. I don't understand it. they are all girls. they say girls are easier to handle then boys.When i grew up my sisters and i always got...

fighting

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jayniferlovesjames i agree with a lot of the responses about girls being easier i beleive you were misled. than again three children of either gender would be hard to take at times. you really do have to stick to your plan i know you said it is hard at times i agree with you...

30 Nov 06

Antidepressants

mummy2jake @mummy2jake (399) • Australia 30 Nov 06

A few months ago, my fiance & i went to my doctors, as i felt like i was losing control & really wasn't coping.He put me on anti depressants, which was going well, but then i started feeling like they weren't working for me, so...

doctors

pnd

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jayniferlovesjames i think toughing it out is a better way to go because docs are too quick to persribe such meds to someone. it was very smart of you to think that your iron was a factor maybe a healthy diet could do you some good to it may help with your rest issue... st johns...

30 Nov 06

Postpartum depression and psychosis

Withoutwings @Withoutwings (6992) • United States 30 Nov 06

Last night in my philosophy class we briefly talked about postpartum depression. The subject was brought up because in the first part of class we discuss the American Aesthetic/Philosophy - current events and things in recent...

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jayniferlovesjames when i had my son three years ago i was warned of ppd but thought nothing of it do to my belifes on strenght of mind....my son is eautiful and when he was so tiny and fragile i sometimes felt as if i wasnt going to be able to make it through this that it wasa...

30 Nov 06

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how u enjoyed ur last birthday...?

srinathmsvit @srinathmsvit (31) • India 6 Feb 09

for each one the birthday is the special to them . every one will use to celebrate their birthday in different ways. i am sure in that. so say how u use to celebrete ur birthday every year ..? in what type u will celebrate..? how...

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jayniferlovesjames for each one the birthday is the special to them . every one will use to celebrate their birthday in different ways. i am sure in that. so say how u use to celebrete ur birthday every year ..? in what type u will celebrate..? how ur list birthday gone...? what...

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I saved him from a bullet

Ritz100 @Ritz100 (1169) • Yecla, Spain 26 Jan 09

A person I know, who lives up in the mountains among hunters, farmers and goat herders has a 15 year old German Shepherd cross. The dog has always had problems with his legs, since he was "accidentely" shot by some hunters when he...

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jayniferlovesjames A person I know, who lives up in the mountains among hunters, farmers and goat herders has a 15 year old German Shepherd cross. The dog has always had problems with his legs, since he was "accidentely" shot by some hunters when he was very young. He now has a...

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I'm a Christian Witch...

Duvessa @Duvessa (913) • United States 5 Sep 06

I'm just curious to know peoples thoughts on this

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jayniferlovesjames oh this is so amazing for me i was sixteen when i converted to wicca and the goddess and the earth filled me with such joy and tranquility. i finally felt that what i beleived was comforting like god and jesus are to others than at 22 after my first child i...

30 Nov 06

What is a company's backbone Marketing or Product or Employees

ssujithkumar @ssujithkumar (364) • India 30 Nov 06

Which you consider the backbone of the company. I feel the 1. product 40% 2.marketing -20% 3.employee-40%

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jayniferlovesjames depending on the company the employees would be the backbone if they weren't there how would any thing get done how would any product made sold distrubed ect. the second thing woul be the product than i suppose i'd go with the marketing... but like i said it...

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God or Evil

reviandi @reviandi (332) • United States 30 Nov 06

Who you are? *_*

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jayniferlovesjames did you mean good or evil? because God or evil really does'nt make alot of sense no one could pick god everyone would have to be evil than which i suppose we all are at times how else would we learn

30 Nov 06

Beach or park? Where do you prefer to unwind?

comrade @comrade (339) • Philippines 30 Nov 06

I want to be in the beach. The waves just takes all my stresses away.

beach

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jayniferlovesjames my mom would easily say the beach but i would love a park. a nice quite park with huge weeping willow trees i'd stay for hours if i could sleep under a tree if i could. just thinking about it makes me feel somewhat releived from the already annoying day i've...

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Do you like to cook? What's your favorite food?

bsg_ina @bsg_ina (32) • Romania 30 Nov 06

i like pizza

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jayniferlovesjames i like to bake i finally got pastry crust down so i've been baking pies like a mad women. i do like to cook lasangna it's pretty easy. my favorite food well thats impossible i dont think i;ve ever had a favorite food...i will tell you what i don't like...

30 Nov 06