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ryanong @ryanong (9665) • Vietnam 16 May 12

When i share with my boyfriend that i go to meet my friend for coffee, he always asks me man or woman, how many people? When I said he is man, and 1 only. He is my classmate and my closed friend also. But my boyfriend is angry and...

dating

friend meeting

life

meeting

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jbrooks0127 From your words I can tell you tell the truth. It is sad that he does not trust you because I think he has someone he loves bus somehow is not sure of. For some men, they care too much and they perhaps can't believe they could be so lucky and as a result the...

17 May 12

tyleika @tyleika (232) • United States 15 May 12

I been with this man for five long years of my life and now we are fighting more with our words than ever. Yes I said words cause he has never put his hands on me. It never really hit me til last night that I really think he don't...

relationships

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jbrooks0127 What I would take that to mean is that you do not agree with him, and he not with you. If you, or he, or both, are controlling, even in the slightest way, then it is not good for a long term relationship. If he must always have his way or if you feel that...

17 May 12

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 15 May 12

Hi lotters and friends I was told by a close offline friend that I am shameless when I ask for my chocos or some unwanted favor from him... And that made me realize - Yes, I do keep asking for my set of cofee,...

shamless

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jbrooks0127 Well it is true that real friends will not expect gratitude. They will do the favor because they are friends. My point is if a person continues to ask for favors, never says thank you or offers to return the favor, even the best friend may begin to feel used....

17 May 12

Charlene Sally C. @PointlessQuestions (15397) • United States 7 Sep 11

I've got an infection of the breast. I've been sore, but didn't know why... then today I noticed pus coming from my breast from the milk duct. It is painful right to the core. The pus is thick and is trapped but can be expressed...

breast

breast infection

infection

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jbrooks0127 Have you checked into the free clinic idea? I have read more of your reply's to other people and I can tell you this does not sound minor. There are some things that hoping just will not help. Sorry but this may indeed be one of them. If your doctor is...

17 Sep 11

Charlene Sally C. @PointlessQuestions (15397) • United States 7 Sep 11

I've got an infection of the breast. I've been sore, but didn't know why... then today I noticed pus coming from my breast from the milk duct. It is painful right to the core. The pus is thick and is trapped but can be expressed...

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jbrooks0127 You may want to look locally for help on this. Your doctor may be a great source of information about where to look and what you can do to make this happen. Give the web site spike recommended a try but don't stop there. There are many organizations that may...

8 Sep 11

mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 21 Apr 11

Since we're from all over, I'd like to see how much everybody ELSE is paying and the comparisons. Right now the cheapest I can find here is around $4.08 a gallon - I'm in California. How much is your gas where you live? If the...

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jbrooks0127 Well believe it or not we actually have refineries in the mid-west that convert oil to gasoline. We also have many oil fields but not sure how much oil is really being brought up but it seems like it should be quite a bit. While I have no direct knowledge...

29 Apr 11

mansha @mansha (6298) • India 22 Apr 11

I had worked so hard for tow years but then a new boss came, and not him but his wife came up to me and told me she thinks I just tell everyone how hard I work and don't actually do anything, I work at an NGO and my aim has always...

unemployed

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jbrooks0127 Thank you very much for best response. I know that you will be much happier in a new place. No one needs someone to make their lives difficult while they work. We all need to be valued and when we are we do our best work. I wish you the very best in what ever...

27 Apr 11

guypersona @guypersona (57) • Philippines 22 Apr 11

So... i'm going out with my own bestfriend for almost 3 years now. We've been through a lot. we're happy. sure, but whenever i think of the problems we've had, it makes me doubt myself and my love for him. i mean, i've been...

had enough

love

troubled lover

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jbrooks0127 Please believe me I do understand your fear. I spent 37 years and came close to retirement with a woman that I should have left long before. I somehow kept thinking that it would be alright. The past was the past and things were okay most of the time. I fooled...

23 Apr 11

epicure35 @epicure35 (2814) • United States 22 Apr 11

Mmmmm.....Both of them? Why, yes, 2 out of 2 = 100%. In 1993, Michelle Obama surrendered her law license, after only four years of "practice". Details, of course, UNAVAILABLE, as with all things Obama, shrouded under cover of...

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jbrooks0127 As I said we all have our mistaken certainties. Because they are democratic automatically makes you believe they are covering for Obama. Of course the fact they provide the sources of their information counts for little right? The fact it is Snopes no doubt...

22 Apr 11

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epicure35 @epicure35 (2814) • United States 22 Apr 11

Mmmmm.....Both of them? Why, yes, 2 out of 2 = 100%. In 1993, Michelle Obama surrendered her law license, after only four years of "practice". Details, of course, UNAVAILABLE, as with all things Obama, shrouded under cover of...

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jbrooks0127 And the thing that bothers me the most is this can and often does influence people in the way they vote. I can't think of anything that is worse for a democracy than to have people vote based upon complete lies and mis-representation. It happened this last...

22 Apr 11

guypersona @guypersona (57) • Philippines 22 Apr 11

So... i'm going out with my own bestfriend for almost 3 years now. We've been through a lot. we're happy. sure, but whenever i think of the problems we've had, it makes me doubt myself and my love for him. i mean, i've been...

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jbrooks0127 Thank you and may God bless you! I want to add one thing if I may. I don't care how sweet or loving a person can be when the are not angry there is never...EVER....an excuse for physical and mental abuse when they are angry. If after this length of time that...

22 Apr 11

birdie816 @birdie816 (1276) • United States 18 Apr 11

lately anything i say to my husband results in him cowering in fear of me. apparently i am very harsh in my tone. also i think i may be harsh in my choice of words. i think that he takes alot of things i say as insults and he...

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jbrooks0127 Times are difficult for everyone now and that goes for you too. If you have a very rough day on your job of course you need to vent and who better to do it with than someone you trust. What I would ask you to do is to make sure he understands what portion...

21 Apr 11

thereza @thereza (314) • Philippines 8 Apr 11

Last week My ex boyfriend invited me to attend His despedida party on their house. And I attended that party without a permission of my husband because Im very sure that he wont allow me. He is a very very very jealous person and...

ex

party

permission

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jbrooks0127 Thank you very much thereza. I do hope that you are able to make the changes you need to do to make your future a happy one. It is not easy. Divorcing my first wife after 37 years of marriage was not at all easy but it was clear to me, finally, that I had to...

15 Apr 11

thereza @thereza (314) • Philippines 8 Apr 11

Last week My ex boyfriend invited me to attend His despedida party on their house. And I attended that party without a permission of my husband because Im very sure that he wont allow me. He is a very very very jealous person and...

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jbrooks0127 Ahhh Thereza I think I do understand much better now. Thank you for your explanation and it does help me know where you are now. It would seem from your explanation that you have a very controlling husband. That is not at all a good thing for you. My...

11 Apr 11

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 13 Mar 11

Many people feel that the next two or three years are going to bring great changes in the lives of almost everyone on the planet. Natural disasters will occur at a rate never before known in recorded history. Such uprisings as...

fear mongering

great changes

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jbrooks0127 Thank you very much for the best response. To be honest that is a surprise but very much appreciated. What you had to say here was very good. It put into words what so many people see but have not been willing to voice it. I think the world is clearly at a...

21 Mar 11

gfeef01 @gfeef01 (537) 2 Mar 11

anybody do proofreading and can tell me how much to charge? i've been asked to do some proofreading, it will be about 20 pages and i'll have 5 days to compete the task. i've done it before but i was working for the organisation...

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jbrooks0127 Well as I said I am not at all familiar with this type of work but it seems to me you are talking about taking on free-lance work. Basically working for yourself. If that is the case I would think you will need proof of what you have done and references. I...

3 Mar 11

singlemommy @singlemommy (2955) • United States 25 Feb 11

Is it meant to be? Last year on 10/10/10, I jokingly went around and asked my friends and family what they were doing on 11/11/11. When they asked me, "Why?", I responded, "Because I'm getting married on that day. Will you be able...

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jbrooks0127 It is funny how our perspective changes as we grow older. When I was young it seemed that if only you could find that one special someone you could live your life out with that one true love, for life. Some are fortunate to make that happen but, anymore, it is...

26 Feb 11

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