jenzai

@jenzai (388)

Philippines • Age 43

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle...Plato

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jenzai's Responses

My friend wants to depend online for living , Is it fine?

RUBESH @Manasha (2819) • Pondicherry, India 14 Apr 12

One of my friends want to earn money online and he wants to depend fully online without offline job. Shall I say ok or no? My suggestion is to tell him work offline and he can earn online money by part time. I dont thing it is...

on or offline

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jenzai I believe it is fine, as long as your are sure that it is a legitimate sites that really pays. I have a friend that really had a good income with home based job, she is into online transcription job. One friend of mine also had a night job teaching online...

2 May 12

Hearing People Talk to Them Self Out Loud

NailTech @NailTech (6874) • United States 16 Apr 12

Have you ever been around someone who, when they think they're all alone they will talk to themself, out loud not knowing that someone can actually hear them, possibly up or downstairs from them? Will you think they are crazy or...

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jenzai Their is a thine line between sanity and insanity. Self talk is just normal, i also do that unconsciously in any place and time when i burst out my stress and anger. But doing it very often is for me not with in my notion of what is normal. They say that those...

2 May 12

Filipinos as least rude in the world

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 16 Apr 12

This is based on a survey conducted by a leading European travel site. Next to Filipinos as least rude are Brazilians followed by Carribeans. Still according to this survey, the world's rudest nations are as follows, France as...

rude nations

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jenzai I am happy to hear that. I agree it must have been with the traditions and culture of the place and some other reasons. One of which is that, in the Philippines we set high value on our elders and parents this attitude is embedded in each of us, so that when...

2 May 12

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what if you're in love with your friend but you have to keep it to yourself.

krizzy @krizzy (237) • Philippines 22 Apr 12

I have a close friend that is so cute, kind, and so fun to be with..we know each other for almost 4 years now and as time goes by, I feel like I'm slowly falling in love with him..we are always together in school and we also hang...

friend

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jenzai This kind of situation to all of us. In my opinion it is better to tell the person that you like or in love with him/her. In that way you might find out with in yourself after you reveal if the feeling is still there. The moment you feel that way your...

24 Apr 12

Is the Relationships based on money needed???????

Arya @arya007 (306) • Tirupathi, India 19 Feb 12

We know that many of the relationships are based on the money. DO you think that r they needed in our life? How do u feel?

money

relationships

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jenzai Lets face it money is needed in our daily living its part of us the we need to survive in this civilized world. But in my opinion money alone as the basis in any relationship will not prosper, it might end in a divorce or betrayal in marriage. I believe it...

20 Feb 12

Do you think parents plays an important role in the study habits of students?

jethdale @jethdale (156) • Philippines 12 Feb 12

Today, its quite interesting to know that technologies are arising and is utilize by schools today to improve their way of teaching to students. But parents should be more conscious more since this growth of technology also waste...

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jenzai I believe it is the important and primary role of parents. Teachers were only secondary to the educational development of the child. If i will be a parent i will really invest time and a good school for my children. parents should be creative and should impose...

16 Feb 12

Do you think its rude asking people about their past?

cyclopz @cyclopz (251) • Sydney, Australia 12 Feb 12

I think this is quite common especially for those who just met new friends and would like to know more about them not just for the sake of curiosity but also to be aware of who they really are and what their backgound is. I think...

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jenzai It may sound rude if you were not that close or you haven't been known the person for a long time. Human nature would dictate that we don't want to reveal our past to our friends even to our family. So for some it takes lot of trust to share a past experiences...

16 Feb 12

what do you do for a living?

acey76 @acey76 (1276) • Philippines 12 Feb 12

Besides making money here at mylot and other internet earning sites I'm just curious of what do mylotters do for a living a career or profession..HOw do you find time earning online and your career?

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jenzai I am into community development work, sometimes i am on field but most of the time i am in my office wit lots of paper works. I do mylot on my vacant time when i am a bit burn out with my work, i recently de-activated my facebook so i a more on the mylot.

16 Feb 12

Is Facebook Your Diary?

cairalyssa @cairalyssa (1402) • Malaysia 12 Feb 12

How do you use facebook, do you realize most people are using facebook like a electronic diary where they share everything on the wall. Personally, i use facebook to communcicate with my friends and comment on their activities...

your wall post

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jenzai It was designed that it would be like a diary of your life. In my understanding it would somehow be like the book of your life on the virtual world. I believe mine is more like a diary, because of the pictures that was tagged on my account by my friends, even...

16 Feb 12

Delete photos after breaking up with someone?

cyclopz @cyclopz (251) • Sydney, Australia 12 Feb 12

Would you delete all photos after breaking up relationship with someone? I think some people would say it would be better deleting all those pictures so as not to bring back or remind us of all those painful memories. But i think...

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jenzai By experience i deleted pictures of my bf on my phone, and hide all the love letter files in my net notebook. The more i am exposed with all of these stuff the more it is difficult for me to move on. So for months i should have never seen any of it, and it...

16 Feb 12

Basically, how do i start to enjoy this site?

daniel_chang @daniel_chang (75) • Philippines 3 Feb 12

Im kinda new here and im still getting to know the mechanics of this site. I wish to know how did you start your way and got to the top of the discussion so fast. Learning is most absorbed when it is thought by an experienced...

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jenzai Post some discussion on your own interest and and answer some discussion posted on my lot. You can post several discussion of your interest. Making the discussion more lively is really on the kind of question you post, and you response to each posted answer...

4 Feb 12

Are you a morning person?

Robyn @floridachick (603) • United States 3 Feb 12

I'm not really, I don't like waking up early but once i'm up i'm ok. Although I prefer the night better. It seems more calming and relaxing, that's when I can get mostly everything done, my kids are asleep and I can relax, or...

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jenzai I am a night person and same with you i am having difficulty of waking u early in the morning. I sleep late in the night. I really wanted to change that pattern, but then for almost years i am having difficulties.

4 Feb 12

Can someone start hating the one who he/she has been in true love for years?

saurabhreigns @saurabhreigns (175) • India 3 Feb 12

I want you all to respond to this discussion after taking a close and serious look into it.:) A friend of mine was in a relationship with a girl for 2-3 years.In the last year ,he came to acknowledge that the girl was cheating on...

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jenzai Their is a beauty in love and mending a broken heart. In my point of view love has a way of giving both of the extreme of the emotions. In some point of our lives we really that person to much we just don't know why but it is how we feel, even if the other...

4 Feb 12

jakeyangchao @jakeyangchao (124) • China 29 Jan 12

i like reading very much and reading is one of my hobbies. i always read book when i am alone but my reading speed is so slow and the efficiency is also low. i alway read word by word and go back to the previous words or sentences...

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jenzai If you know any speed reading class or workshop try to enroll. During my colleges days I had 3 days workshop for speed reading. It helps, we were told to read by eyes with speed and their was a timer, after which you have to summarize what we read. By time of...

30 Jan 12

Is it weird for a 49 year old to go back to school?

LLWolf @LLWolf (119) • United States 18 Jan 12

While homeschooling my son I realized just how much I had forgotten from my high school days so, I decided to take an online high school course. My problem is when I tell people this they look at me funny and then they start to...

education

high school

homeschool

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jenzai I admire you for your hunger for learning. Those people who treat you differently is just one of the narrow minded that they are too conventional, and they think that your act is not the norm, so they find it funny. Ignoring them is the best way. I hope you...

24 Jan 12

Staying focused on God?

pinkranga7 @pinkranga7 (23) • Australia 24 Jan 12

Sometimes its hard to stay focused on what God wants for us, and living in his word each and every day. We can get distracted by so many different things and often forget to spend time with him but what are some ways which we can?...

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jenzai I believe where i am right now is what God wants for me, I lived each day that every people i deal with my work is a reflection of God need for me, or me to the other person. I believe i don't have to find God its in my daily journey. In my experience i spend...

24 Jan 12

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changes

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 24 Jan 12

if you had the chance to change something you did in the past...what would you change?

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jenzai I guess it would be more mindful with the way i handle my first relationship so i could have avoided an be on guard with a cheating ex boyfriend. Something that i should not trust that much.

24 Jan 12

loses

Taher Abdelaziz Abdelwahab @taheraa (1545) • Giza, Egypt 23 Jan 12

Who loses wealth loses much .. Who loses a friend loses more .. Who loses courage loses everything! Introduce your ideas to reality, if possible

life

loses

people

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jenzai Who loses wealth does not loses much, create more wealth...who loses friend loses not much..ask for for forgiveness and be friend again =)..i agree who losses courage losses everything..its like being living like zombie...courage..comes willingness..and lot...

24 Jan 12

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Facebook and me...

deodavid @deodavid (4150) • Philippines 16 Jan 12

Facebook the ever developing site for people to get in touch with friends, loved ones and acquaintances. Facebook has been something that now most people have to do everyday. It is like something that needs and should be given our...

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jenzai Facebook has been one of the search engine for people of my past that i haven't meet for such a long time. I am also having fun with all the pictures downloaded by my friends. I seem to be happy looking at what had happen to them via pictures posted.

18 Jan 12