Kate324

@Kate324 (46)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Kate324's Responses

Losing hope in love?

bishu_sinha @bishu_sinha (1457) • India 24 Dec 07

I am scare of getting marry cause it might end up in divorce..the divorce rate is so high..and i dont have much hope in finding that one guy that will care for me..seem like most men are jerks

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Kate324 My dear frined,I hope you have had lover now,you cannot doubt marry someone will end up in divorce if your relationship is good enough.Love is pretty good things in our life.It make our life colorful and make your life fullfill. If you face that choice then...

25 Dec 07

What do you think of this idea

TerryZ @TerryZ (22076) • United States 9 Dec 07

This year money is very tough for us and I dont have the money to buy Christmas presents. So I thought about making homemaid cookies and putting them in a pretty Christmas tin. Would you be happy to get that from someone? Thats...

making cookies

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Kate324 I think it is a good idea.Christmas is not only forcus on the cake,cookies,but also the happy mood.Just making homeaid cookies is also very interesting and worthwhile,because you can taste and share with others the things your own,and kids also will be...

9 Dec 07

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Can I know where my friend's relationship and mine stand?

bishu_sinha @bishu_sinha (1457) • India 7 Dec 07

Is it wrong for me to want to know where my friend's relationship and mine stand?..? *Some people will say they don't need to see or speak with their good friends/ BFFs everyday or months to know that everything is OK with them,...

friends

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Kate324 Sometimes I also fell confused and don't know how to do with this relationship.Maybe we can keep touch with each other in regularly time,once or twice per week,no matter what the way is(cellphone or meet with each other if have chance),no matter how far from...

7 Dec 07

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What do you do in your free time?

stdrst @stdrst (471) • Bulgaria 13 May 07

Please, share with me. Do you go to cinema/ Do you go out with your friends somewhere or just sleep? What do you ordinary do in your free time?

life

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Kate324 In my spare time,I would listen to music or read the bood,but sometimes I will go shopping in the night,or go to library.But most of time I will go for a walk with friends.Just walking in the road and seeing the sight..

6 Dec 07

Who are you closest to in your family? Would they say they are closest to you?

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 30 Nov 07

My family is very small but out of my 3 kids I have to say I'm closest to my son even though I don't see him as often as I see my daughter. He lives closest but he works more hours than she does. For some reason, maybe it's...

closest too

family

person

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Kate324 In my family my closest family member is my father,I like him because he always encourage me when I am at school and now in the society.I can talk to him just like best friend.But my monther is different,she always teaches me how to be a good girl,a good...

6 Dec 07

Do u fear of losing the one u love most?

maapav @maapav (729) • India 6 Dec 07

It happens to me always. When I come close to anyone ,something happens and that person goes away from me. So I really fear of coming close to anyone. Does this happen to anyone?

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Kate324 I have no this problem.I dont know why it happens to you?Do you have some discussion problem with your friends,or you are a little shy in the public?Does it always happen?

6 Dec 07

My wife is leaving me!

webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 5 Dec 07

Well this is it. She has finnally did it. She is saying good bye for who knows how long. My wife is leaving me dang it. I am heading to the airport very shortly to drop her off. She is flying to visit her dying brohter before he...

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Kate324 Wow,your wife is leaving for sad news,I am sorry to hear that.Hope it is not awful long time,wish his brother will be well soon,and you can see your wife very short time.

6 Dec 07

imagine your life being a wife.

xenybb @xenybb (168) • Philippines 23 Nov 07

i am 23 yrs old and that i cannot imagine myself to be a wife. Though i know how to cook , i know how to wash plates, i know how to clean the house and even i had a money on my own i cannot imagine my life being a wife. as i...

wife

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Kate324 Well,I have ever imagined that myself to be a wife and a child's monther.I enjoy cooking in the kitchen actually,I thinks I will prepare delicious dinner for my spouse before he back home,and also I would like to adorn my home comfortable prety , but I am a...

6 Dec 07

Do you think a stay at home wife and mom should have to do everything?

TyNSethsMom @TyNSethsMom (136) • United States 5 Dec 07

I have been a stay at home mom for about a month now. When my husband gets home he will not help me at all with dinner, the kids, cleaning, ect. So I wonder if you are a stay at home mom should you have to do everything?

wife

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Kate324 Wife stay at home can do most of housework,but it not means everthing.Hubby goes home from work outside can share something at home,for example,look after the kids,do the dish after finish the meal,throw the rubbish out of door,and so on.That is a ways for...

5 Dec 07

What should I do?Please give me some suggestions

jackie2708 @jackie2708 (8) • China 3 Dec 07

I find that I have fallen in love with one beautiful girl. Shall I let her know? But I am not sure that if she are interest in me.

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Kate324 In my opinion,if that one you love is your closed friend,then pls keep the distance right now and then contact with her more and more.But if that one is not familiar with you,then you should know more about her and make her impressed on you.If you tell her...

5 Dec 07

I just don't want to betray my heart

fangzi @fangzi (69) • China 4 Dec 07

One night ,i gave a call to one of my closest friends,and she told me that it was the birthday of another general friend,who,i don't have much contact with,and suggest me give a call to her. I agreed,but it quite violated my...

birthday

friend

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Kate324 If I were you,I would not call that friend,I will do as my feeling.

5 Dec 07

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Is Good Memory a Boon or a Curse ?

ketybhagat @ketybhagat (4123) • India 4 Dec 07

It set me thinking. With good memory, I can be on the top of my profession and has many many plus points. But then, I will also remember all the hurt and harm done to me, the people who were rude to me or humiliated me etc. etc....

boon

curse

good memory

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Kate324 Good memory we can keep for long time,bad memory also can remain in our mind as long as we live.I hope I can forget worst things,but it is impossible,but maybe we can think from aother side.The bad memory can make us learn more,teach us develop well in...

5 Dec 07

Working for Money or Interests

coffeesong @coffeesong (163) • China 4 Dec 07

In our life, working is a very important thing for us. Somebody works for money which is used for our basic living, somebody works for their interests. During you choose your job, which is the first thing that you are considering,...

working

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Kate324 As you said,work makes us live well and we cannot get rid of it,but many people cannot find the jobs according to their intersts,because interest cannot help to make money.We need to take the basic requirement into consideration at fist,then come up with our...

4 Dec 07

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If you knew a second language would you make more money?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 3 Dec 07

I've always wanted to learn a second language. Most likely it would be Spanish as there's a real need for Spanish speaking customer service representatives in our area. The jobs for bilingual speakers pay much more. That would...

berlitz language

find a job

learn a second language

monstercom

speak a language

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Kate324 Actually,I work for a foreign trade company,we sell the funiture all over the world.Chinese is my mother language,but I would like to use English to do the business and service the customer from Australia,Denmark,USA,Sweden,and so on.But my English is very...

4 Dec 07

are you a hoarder? i am

suehan1 @suehan1 (4344) • Australia 3 Dec 07

i have just started going through my cupboards and have realised just what a lot of junk i have.i have been ruthless and have thrown out about 2 trailers worth of junk that i have kept,like dresses that i will never fit into...

cupboards

handbags

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Kate324 I moved the day before yesterday,and I found I have kept much "junk",such as the tickets of park,cinema.Also I kept many handbags,expecially the carton bags,such as the kitten,lovely dogs and santa claus,and so on.....Always when I come from the supermarket or...

3 Dec 07

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Don't say "wait" anymore.

niushuang @niushuang (265) • China 3 Dec 07

Hi my friend,i want to tell you a story about a family. Once a wife let his husband to invite another woman to go outside for a date.The wife said to her husband:"I love you,but i know there is another woman love you more,she...

never

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Kate324 I have read the story like this many times,but I still want to appreciat ur write here,and let millions of readers know "love".I agree that we say "love" and "thanks" when we have chance to,don't "wait",because the accident happen always and we are unable to...

3 Dec 07

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Family get togethers

biggerb @biggerb (2024) • India 30 Nov 07

Do you like to celebrate festivals with your family alone or would you like to have a family get together? Which do you prefer?Why?

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Kate324 I hope I can stay with my family and celebrate the festivals every year,but always I only have 7 days holidays in Spring festival,for it is too short and it is very difficulty to get a ticket and go home,so I have no chance to achieve this wish.However,I will...

2 Dec 07

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It's not fair

aquajules4 @aquajules4 (583) 29 Nov 07

life is not fair. There is people like me that don't want to be alive, i've tried different ways of killing myself. But each time it did not work apart from shooting myself or stabbingmyself the thought of the pain is not...

depression

suicide

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Kate324 Killing yourself,then what will be going on? Nothing changed,except your family were shocked and sadness.Worst thing everyone must face,but how to come out of that,and how to let ourselves stand up again?Sometimes I will think life is so good,you see,sun is...

30 Nov 07

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