kathylabayan

@kathylabayan (106)

Philippines • Age 34

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Should I be Happy OR Cry?

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 28 Feb 13

I go back to my country with my kid and husband after a long time, It is first visit for my husband, I do not know I should be happy or cry as I lost my father more than a week and he did not see my husband and I also could not...

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father

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kathylabayan First, well, haven't you contacted your father for all those years of stay abroad? AHm Do I sense family misunderstanding here? Well, I feel you, it's really tormenting to see your Dad in that situation. I could only hope for the best. Just accept the fact the...

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Who is your best friend?

Chinmoy1991 @Chinmoy1991 (1) 28 Feb 13

all of you have lots of friend but can you tell who is your best friend? weather the friend who makes you cry is the best friend or the friend who always be with you is your best friend? please give your openion.

who is your best friend

your best friend

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kathylabayan Well it's a mixture of both, I have like 6 bestfriends and they make my cry at times, but they make me happy most of the time. You don't classify friends by that. For me, when your friend is there through good times and bad times. I'm just happy that I have...

28 Feb 13

Where the rich invests?

kenshin2143 @kenshin2143 (1880) • Philippines 27 Feb 13

I recently read another book by robert kiyosaki saying that the rich invests wherein they will make a profit if it succeeds as well as still make a profit if it will crash. What do you think?

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kathylabayan Well I would have to say if you've got enough capital , best investment to make is real estate... It's the only thing I think that doesn't depreciates in value.. LOT that is.. Land's price always appreciates as the popuplation grows rapidly. The great the...

28 Feb 13

The Way We See Things Depends on The Way We Look At It.

jearl02 @jearl02 (211) • Philippines 27 Feb 13

We behave and we react depending on how we feel. What we feel depends on how we interpret a certain situation. Therefore, our interpretation affects greatly on how we behave, react, decide, and live our life. Given a certain...

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kathylabayan Youre right, it's all in the mind, take things lightly and always bare in mind that no matter how dense the situation you're in take positive rather than negative, you'll be able to have positive/ good reasons to overcome it. But when you drown yourself with...

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Film shooting- Have you seen the shoot of any film?

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 27 Feb 13

When I was young I had three opportunities to see film shoots. Once was during an excursion to Mysore. The other two were in two hill stations, Ooty and Kodaikanal.I was so excited; it was during our summer vacation in school and...

film shooting

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kathylabayan Good for you , i'd love to witness and personally see famous artists too on taping, not that crazy to see them though, but still. I have had the opportunity to watch a taping once, and it never happened again. But I wouldn't do extra effort to go to places...

28 Feb 13

Must be nice to have no responsibilities

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 27 Feb 13

I need to vent. I work for a living and my husband stays home. I worked today, I'm still sore from my kidney stones, I did not want a puppy, he did. So I get home from work, he's in a bad mood and when he starts an argument he...

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kathylabayan Wait , you work for the family, cooks dinner when you get home and nurse a puppy thAT your husband adopt? I mean you do of it by yourself? What about your husband? he just stays home? and have the guts to get a puppy and toss the responsibility on you. he is I...

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Why is friendship so difficult?

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 27 Feb 13

I have had many friendships over the years and I must admit that 90% of them were HORRENDOUS! I'm not blaming it on them only. I definitely have my moments. I never ask anyone to help me without being able to do something for...

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kathylabayan Oh im sorry for you. You know I have 6 best best friends in the truest meaning of it. REAlly, weve been bestfriends for like 4-5 years back in college. They always out me in the mood. Whenever we're together, either we hear each other's sentiments about family...

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i want to bring back the past

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 26 Feb 13

And live in the past once again. There's this thought in my mind that i wish I'm back on my younger age and live life more peacefully. And do this thing i have not done before. Maybe i I'm just getting sentimental again and just...

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kathylabayan Great. I think everybody wants to go back to the past to redo or undo what's already done. BUT really, you're NOT what you are NOW if it weren't because of your past unless youre unhappy and / dissatisfied that you wanted to alter things that didn't go your...

27 Feb 13

How many hours required for a good sleep a day?

sri @gamyam (530) • Hyderabad, India 26 Feb 13

I am feeling very unhappy because of a little bit of sleep. I am not getting to increase my sleeping time a day. Some days i get only few hours to go for sleep. Every day i mean every night i am not feeling a perfect sleep at...

hours required for a good sleep

insomnia problem

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kathylabayan Well. that's a good topic to exchange words to. Since late last year, i was having a hard time sleeping until a month ago. But when I start eating fruits everyday and refrain myself from too much thinking, I eventually had my good night of sleep back. Ive...

27 Feb 13

i want to give away books

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 27 Feb 13

I don't know how can i dispose books i have. It's college books like medicine books, engineering books and nursing books and etc. So maybe i cash give them away online or maybe sell it. But I don't know if anyone would be...

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kathylabayan Well, sorry but I love reading and don't even try to sell my schools books. First, because when I forget something related in work, at least I have resources to turn to and look for in. Plus it's your investments also, youve spent a fortune on them years back....

27 Feb 13

Can not get motivated to excercise

TriciaW @TriciaW (2441) • United States 27 Feb 13

I am trying to eat healthy and I know I need to excercise but I just can't get motivated. It is sad to say when I know what I need to do but I need that motivation. I don't have the money to go to a gym but my apartment complex...

excercise

health

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kathylabayan I procrastinate exercising, too. But I compensate that by eating healthy food. I watch what I eat and on weekend since Im free from work, I try to exercise for thirty minutes and I just console myself by thinking that I already exercise when I do the household...

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OScar Winner 2013 - ARGO?

rafiholmes @rafiholmes (2896) • Malaysia 25 Feb 13

Life of PI got 4 oscars this year..more than any movie nominated... but ARGO only won 2 so far just the time..before they annoucing the BEst Picture" category... if Life of PI wins..that makes 5 awards of the nite.. and if Argo...

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kathylabayan Or maybe it was just a consolation for ARGO since oscars snub ARGO for other entries of nominees. I like Life of PI much as I like Argo. So I really don't mind. What bothers me is Anne hathaway. I think she's good in les mesirables but not enough for oscar's...

25 Feb 13

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Have you ever dreamed of your dead relatives?

qianlizhifeng @qianlizhifeng (468) • China 25 Feb 13

My father died about one year ago,but every one in our family couldn't forget him,especially my mother,who was alone at home.Sometimes she would ask me whether I had dreamed of my father,and I told her yes. Yesterday...

death

dreams

family

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kathylabayan Yes, I have it creeps me out every time. I hate dreaming or just simply thinking about dead people specially whom I have interacted with before the died. Thoughts about them were haunting me. And then I refrain myself from thinking too much, so what if I...

25 Feb 13

i was unfriend by my brother at facebook so i blocked him.

wendylb @wendylb (203) • Philippines 24 Feb 13

My brother and I have a little personal dispute. He was asking me to pay my debt since it was over five months ago. I was not minding it already for i thought that he understand why I have not paid him. I gave the money as a help...

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kathylabayan I feel you, I mean you have every right to feel bad because you are right in your own point of view. He is your brother, nonetheless, yet he treats you like other just because of the money. BUT why don't you put yourself in you brother's shoes, how would you...

25 Feb 13

I'm jealous!!!!!!!!!!!

fatlex06 @fatlex06 (895) • Philippines 25 Feb 13

What should I do? My boyfriend will be having a ballroom dance with the girl that I am so jealous with. What should I do? I am a jealous person. I know that for him that event is nothing, but for me, it really kills me to death. I...

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kathylabayan Don't be jealous Lex, you have him, that's one thing. Second is, Discuss it with your bf that might help lessen your jealousy when you hear his securing words to you, you need it. Who's NOT jealous? We all are..It maybe part of the relationship to spice things...

25 Feb 13

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worth reading...

MHernandez @MHernandez (218) • South Korea 24 Feb 13

...I have read some part of this book,,, and I found it interesting... i think this really can help opposite to understand the differences between a man and a woman... This could help why do man/woman behaves that...

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kathylabayan Do you have book on hand? Or you just read it on e-book. Can you lend me that book hahaha I would be grateful. I love reading interesting books. The title sounds interesting plus you did justice by confirming it. Have you read all? Or do you have any available...

25 Feb 13

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a SUPER HAPPY WEEKEND

AR Dianon @dianon_ice14 (461) • Philippines 24 Feb 13

Me and my college friends were reunited last SATURDAY. I must say it was one of my greatest moments in my life. We spend the night in my place. We had some vidoeke until 3pm got tipsy and spend the rest of the night talking non...

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kathylabayan Same here Pril, well it's not really new to us because we do hang out often times, like ALMOST every weekend. But we don't bore each other no matter how frequent we meet. Being with them is my favorite, it's fun talking nonsense things with, similar topics...

25 Feb 13

my favorite teacher

shimaya~ @shimaya (141) • Philippines 25 Feb 13

Last Saturday, I attended a very big gathering in our church. Lots of people from the different side of the Metro went there. I went there with my siblings and to my surprise we saw our cousin whom we did not see for a long time....

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kathylabayan I feel nostalgic reading your post Gem. Yes, it's nice to reminisce the past let alone memories about school. Mind you, I remember all my elementary teacher's complete names! yet can't recall any of my university professors names, their surnames at least. I...

25 Feb 13

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My father passed away and thy lied to me!

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 25 Feb 13

As my previous discussion and recieving call from my mom regarding health of my father, right an hour ago I heared from my sister that my father few days ago has been passed away and still my mother and aunt says to me he is in...

father

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kathylabayan Wow that really is a serious matter that I don;t even know if I can add something here that eases your pain. First is, I don't see the point as why did your mom lie to you since you have the same right as them to know about anything that has to do with your...

25 Feb 13

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