kefkaix

@kefkaix (33)

United States • Age 44

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do you have faith/trust in your lover/partner ?

Nglentasha @Nglentasha (532) 7 Jan 07

hi everyone do you have faith in your partner do you trust them and believe they will not hurt you, or is it hard for you to trust. me and my partner have a very trusting relationship and thats whats kept us strong it was hard to...

lover

partner

relationships

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kefkaix I personally find it very hard to trust people, I feel that everyone really has a motive, but the thing is that I trust my girlfriend more than anyone else. I also really think very negatively of it too, my heart and mind struggle very frequently with this...

8 Jan 07

Ever have a one way Friendship??

rick615 @rick615 (413) • United States 8 Jan 07

I'm talking about the kind where one person is much more invested than the other. I have this one guy who is always calling me, asking me to do things. I go out on rare occasion and really don't mind his company; but he is...

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kefkaix Its just those kind of obsessive people that I dislike, though you may be just paranoid. Though I know a few people like that, kind of gets upsetting after a while, though its hard to be rude right to someone's face, so get someone else to do it for you :D

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I gaVE my EX a 2nd cHanCE OnLy because He cAnt GO ON w/o mE.

katskie @katskie (128) • Philippines 8 Jan 07

Yes, were back to each other now because I know he cant go on without me. Im not totally healed yet. All the words said and done but Id like to give it a try again. Am i doing the right thing? I am only back because he has been...

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kefkaix Well honestly it would have to depend on what he did, you really don't clarify that too much, I could assume he cheated on you, but that would be getting ahead of things. If you really love him and you are really sure he really loves you then let him come back...

8 Jan 07

Do you think Black People Should Stop Calling The N word to Each other.

davidbugs @davidbugs (120) • United States 7 Jan 07

Im not trying to be Racist? Do you think it time for all black community should stop Calling each other The N word. I know if you use The N word the black community will be outgerous. Do you remember Michael Richard Racist...

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politicial correctness

racist issue problem in american

vs white

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kefkaix I think it all has to do with intent, I don't understand why you wouldn't just sware at the person in general though, that'd probably get a lot more accomplish (insert sarcasm), anyways it would probably help if people didn't support stereotypical racist...

8 Jan 07

Can a man and woman really be friends?

amish111 @amish111 (20) • United States 8 Jan 07

The hollywood movie 'When Harry met Sally' is a verbalization of the fact that there is no such thing a platonic realtion between a man and a woman. Dictionary explains platonic love as an affectionate, non-physical realtionship...

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kefkaix Its perfectly realistical to have friends who are female if you are a guy and have them be nothing more than friends. I have a bunch of friends who are girls who I could care less about "getting in thier pants" as someone put it. It all just depends on your...

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Which is your favorite mythological character?

Dissposition @Dissposition (469) • Canada 8 Jan 07

Could be anything from an animal, a god, a muse, anyone, anything from any myth? For me it's Pan, the little flute playin half human. His beliefs, woes,purpose and hopes are all shared very close with myself... and for such a...

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kefkaix I would have to say Loki, the norwegian god of chaos. Though there are a lot of cool gods out there, especially in Norwegian tradition, read up on it if you want ftw :P

8 Jan 07

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homophobia?

4ftfingers @4ftfingers (1310) 7 Jan 07

i heard in the news that public guest houses and hotels could be fined for refusing to let gay couples stay. i started talking to my freind about this. we arn't gay but we have a few gay friends because his sister is gay. from his...

homophobia

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kefkaix Speaking in terms of legality, it wouldn't make sense, Hotels are still owned by buissnesses unless you are talking about B&Bs. I also don't believe that you if you are staying at that hotel and see zed couple can do anything about it, but thats just like...

8 Jan 07

Chatspeak - How It Influences Peoples Opinions

misskatonic @misskatonic (3723) • United States 7 Jan 07

Do you find it difficult to take someone seriously when they type predominantly or consistently in chatspeak? Do you find it influences your opinion of them? I'll admit it. I have difficult taking someone seriously if they...

chatting

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kefkaix Yes, it is harder to take people seriously, but if you are playing an online game or such its mostly there to conserve time. Or if you are talking to multiple people at once it is also conserving of time, but if you are talking on a forum or some such place,...

8 Jan 07

Life Changed After 5 Years, My Adventure

aggregated @aggregated (97) • Philippines 25 Jan 17

Hello MyLotters; I used to post on myLot 5 years ago, and reading my past experiences has actually made me feel somewhat nostalgic, so I decided to post this discussion. Back then I was a college student with no direction in...

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kefkaix Hello MyLotters; I used to post on myLot 5 years ago, and reading my past experiences has actually made me feel somewhat nostalgic, so I decided to post this discussion. Back then I was a college student with no direction in life. Most of my posts are about...

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Global Warming - Is it Happening?

JellyBeans @JellyBeans (639) • Canada 7 Jan 07

People are saying that global warming is but a theory. I don't believe it. It is happening! I live here in Canada, Usualy durring winter, You'll see snow and a good bit of it.(Those who think we live in igloos all year, it's not...

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kefkaix Actually the truth about global warming is that, there is also global dimming, not very many people hear about that, but it also is happening which means that there is less light coming in and less light = less heat. But this year in particular has been rather...

7 Jan 07

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The good news is, atleast I'll be able to make payout this month.

AmberLynn @ScribbledAdNauseum (104628) • United States 27 Nov 16

My work schedule runs from Wednesday to the following Tuesday. It gets posted per week, and usually either on Friday or Saturday. With the new manager, it seems as if it's mostly Saturday that it gets posted. I worked last night...

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kefkaix My work schedule runs from Wednesday to the following Tuesday. It gets posted per week, and usually either on Friday or Saturday. With the new manager, it seems as if it's mostly Saturday that it gets posted. I worked last night and so was able to see what he...

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Do We Attract Certain People?

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 7 Jan 07

I've often wondered if we seem to 'attract' certain people. For example throughout my life I seem to 'attract' bullies and people who manipulate and control me? Am I sending out messages to people that I'm a soft touch? I'm far...

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kefkaix I think its all about personality, the more outgoing you are the more people will want to be around you. As long as you aren't too outgoing. Though there are certain ways that you can talk that might attract certain people, I've noticed that I really tend to...

7 Jan 07

confused! plz help

aswaniexpress @aswaniexpress (1454) • India 5 Jan 07

iam in a huge confusion! I was in luv with one of my college friend.. but due to some problem he is no more in my life. i had to face lot of problems.becoz he messed up everythin.Then i understood wat life is n came to a...

love

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kefkaix As much as not following the arranged marriage might dishonor your family, you should follow your heart, don't care what other people think of you, if its true love then let your heart follow. It may be disrespectful to say, but don't care it sounds selfish...

6 Jan 07

If you use your real picture, are you afraid...?

knowitallgurl @knowitallgurl (923) • United States 5 Jan 07

sometimes i wonder if I should change my picture and put a generic one because im afraid that somebody that knows me might see me on this site and confront me about my answers here or my topics. Im pretty open on some of my...

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kefkaix As long as you don't say anything too negative and you allow the person to remain anonymous, I think its fine to make refrences to them, and if they do find out, just explain that to them, plus its the internet who else is really going to hold it against you.

6 Jan 07

What's the point? Is it just me.

IlijaMarkovski @IlijaMarkovski (1056) • Australia 6 Sep 16

What is the meaning of life? Over the last 2 years all i have been doing is going to work and sleeping, that's it. I am sick of this type of life but unfortunately i don't know how to change it. You get into a relationship,fight...

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kefkaix What is the meaning of life? Over the last 2 years all i have been doing is going to work and sleeping, that's it. I am sick of this type of life but unfortunately i don't know how to change it. You get into a relationship,fight as couples do, later you'll get...

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Really Disappointed My Son Did Not Show Up

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163773) • Garden Grove, California 5 Sep 16

Now I have a half hour to mylot and he never comes this late.I'm sure I guess he has a good reason but darn I'm his mom don't I matter too? Well I cannot do anything about it this late but I was so sure he would come now I...

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kefkaix Now I have a half hour to mylot and he never comes this late.I'm sure I guess he has a good reason but darn I'm his mom don't I matter too? Well I cannot do anything about it this late but I was so sure he would come now I feel hurt. Too the house...

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Cheating and Marriage

LadyWhiteheart @LadyWhiteheart (111) • United States 5 Jan 07

I noticed this is a very common topic of discussion. I myself am in a situation where I am married but seperated due to circumstances I had no control over. My husband has been seeing a girl he works with and has asked him to...

marriage and cheating

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kefkaix Well, there isn't too much you can do, if your husband really loves someone else, the only way to get him back is to make him realize how much he really loves you. Go to him, tell him you love him, if that doesn't work then maybe its just better to move on, it...

6 Jan 07

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Men with feminine traits makes better husbands?

knights_of_honour @knights_of_honour (348) • India 5 Jan 07

Its found in a new study which can be an encouraging news for those men who are not that "Icredible Hunk" type. For it says that a girl would date these "Incredible Hunk" but would look for feminine traits in the man she chooses...

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kefkaix It really isn't too hard to be both masculine and understand your partner, you just don't have to compete with others, I mean I excercise regularly and work out and such, but I'm not trying to compete or anything. The other thing is it could also be...

6 Jan 07

What causes people to over-analyze situations and how many people do it?

sarahbeth1977 @sarahbeth1977 (384) • United States 5 Jan 07

I'm an over-analyzer. It never fails that I am constantly thinking over situations, trying to figure out the possible outcomes. I have often speculated that it's because I don't want to get hurt, or I want to make sure I'm...

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kefkaix Its natural to over analyze things, I myself just avoid thinking to stop it though, do an activity that is involving, anything to get your mind off of things, though the things I tend to over analyze are mainly related to my girlfriend. But the best thing to...

6 Jan 07