klaudyou

@klaudyou (501)

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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if you don't have nothing nice to say... don't say it at all...

zsazshie143 @zsazshie143 (77) • Philippines 29 Mar 10

-- would you rather keep it to yourself? because you don't want someone get hurt. or you don't want to get involve.. or your afraid because your to concern for the people involve.. or maybe you doesn't care at all.... -in other...

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keep it to you nvolve

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klaudyou If in embarrassing situations, saying directly might ruin the whole relationship indeed. But it doesn't mean that you shouldn't have an input, and just pretend you never saw the flaw. There are several tactics. You can be a diplomatic and approach the...

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Don't ever punish your child while you are angry

jobmoone @jobmoone (442) • Philippines 29 Mar 10

wait until your anger is spent, and then confront the child. Ask him, then explain why he should be punished. For his sake you must exercise self-control.

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klaudyou It looks like you made a mistake. This is how your topic sounds. No bad things your child has done deserves punishment unless it's constructive. Punishment must have the purpose to make things better, and should be at the minimum level necessary to achieve...

29 Mar 10

How often do you ask questions?

engrdng06 @engrdng06 (248) • Japan 29 Mar 10

Since I was a child, it has been natural on my part asking and asking lots of questions that crosses my mind. They call me smart since at a very young age I was very curious with so many things around me. And now that I am already...

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klaudyou Asking questions generally is a way to gain knowledge. Very many things are still hidden to us just because we couldn't find the right question to ask. Of course when we are growing up, we ask a lot of questions to other people around, but there comes a...

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Do you think of your dream the time you wake up?

carrine @carrine (2743) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

hmmm, sometimes i have to think of what ive dreamed that night and think also what does it mean. before i used to think hard and try to visualize of that particular dream and thinks a lot of things. but now, no more. because i...

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klaudyou Does a dream have to mean anything necessarily? Why can't they be just pieces of imagination filling our mind when the conscience is asleep? There must be a "trash bag" with all the things that are in our brain and are not useful anymore...I think we throw...

28 Mar 10

Have you ever wanted to change people's perception here?

machivado @machivado (528) • Indonesia 27 Mar 10

MyLot is a great discussion site. And when it comes to discussion, it's a natural thing that we want to match others perceptions with ours. It's not a debate where everyone wants to keep their argumentations, perceptions, and...

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klaudyou Yes, it's tempting to do so, as we are all convinced that our way of thinking about a certain issue is the right one. But it is much more appreciated if you'll just be flexible in your ideas, and accept different angles of view of the same problem. People...

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How do you face the problem?

pratheep87 @pratheep87 (1227) • India 26 Mar 10

Hai friends I have some problem in my life going on every person daily gets a problem. But how do you face the problem with a cry on face or something like confidence in your mind. Tell me how to face the problem and help me...

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klaudyou As you didn't tell us what your problem is or what it's about, you will not find a very specific answer here. But usually the best advice is to try to solve it yourself if you can. Try to detach a little bit and think of a solution that will ensure...

27 Mar 10

do journals have a bad side to it too??

khalida @khalida (1126) • India 27 Mar 10

writing is one of the best things to do for some people. we earn money through article sites etc. but how many of you write journals? do you write whatever happened during that day or simply your thoughts or a very happy event!?...

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klaudyou I kept a journal when I was younger. Probably the bad part when keeping a journal would be that someone inappropriate might find it...and it could be at least embarrassing, if not more. That is why I torn it into pieces and threw it into fire, because...

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seeing aura

jobmoone @jobmoone (442) • Philippines 27 Mar 10

Is it true that animals can see aura that human eye cannot see. Some of my friends told me that a dog could see and know human emotions by looking at someones aura.

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klaudyou Apparently there are senses animals have and we don't... that is known and can be verified. But dogs perceiving aura? I mean, we know they smell and hear better, and sometimes they bite and bark at "bad" people. That's what we think, at least... If human...

27 Mar 10

I am 23 y/o Is it possible to gain more height than weight?

ghieptc @ghieptc (2522) • Philippines 27 Mar 10

I am 23 y/o Is it possible to gain more height than weight?

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klaudyou I don't want to disappoint you but as far as I know women grow in bones until maximum 22. But there are ways to look taller, make a search on the internet and find some solutions to look taller by the way you dress: long dresses, dark colors, vertical...

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Do you like to solve others problem?

pratheep87 @pratheep87 (1227) • India 26 Mar 10

Hai My question is simple Do you like to solve other problem if you have been asked to solve? I like to solve other problem because i wouldn't be tensed in clearing their problem and so i can think without any pressure and help...

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klaudyou When someone asks you to solve his or her problem, especially if it's not mathematics involved, then that person really trusts you and really thinks you have what it takes to help. And solving that problem would bring you two more together and he or she will...

27 Mar 10

what you do when you don't find any suitable discussions in mylot..

anurag3786 @anurag3786 (6267) • India 26 Mar 10

Hey friends.. have you noticed ever.. when you don't find any good and meaningful discussions then we feel some irritation.. ye i feel.. because today i don't find any good discussions before half an hours.. and i get bored.. so i...

discussion

mylot

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klaudyou That's basically the moment when I start a new discussion myself. If I get 2 or 3 answers it just gives me the feeling that I still have some activity on myLot. I also don't bother responding to some older discussions. That's actually how I came back to...

26 Mar 10

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What makes you Write in Mylot?

sunkernjs @sunkernjs (219) • Philippines 26 Mar 10

Can you imagine just how many discussions you created and responded to? I believe that if a person is dedicated to do a work then he is passionate to that field. Then is it passion that triggers you to open a new discussion? I...

mylot

writing

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klaudyou I didn't create many discussions, but there is something that makes me stay on myLot... I guess it's just fun to be part of a community through exchanging thoughts, opinions or just communicate random every day subjects. And it's also fun that geography does...

26 Mar 10

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What Makes A 1 Dollar Bill Worth More Than A 100 Dollar Bill?

gewcew23 @gewcew23 (8007) • United States 26 Mar 10

A 100 dollar bill is said to be worth more than a 1 dollar bill, but why? The denim paper used to make a 100 dollar bill is not worth any more or less that the denim paper used to make a 1 dollar bill.

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klaudyou When money first appeared it had the advantage you can carry your fortune with you, unlike the merchandise which was quite heavy to carry around. Money was initially made of gold, silver and other precious material that reflected its actual value...I mean you...

26 Mar 10

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We'll Meet Again........ Maybe

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 25 Mar 10

I have read that contemplation of an afterlife is a distraction from the here and now. Do you believe that we'll go on somewhere when we die, or is this it. If it's the latter what do you do to make every minute count - if the...

death

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klaudyou Heaven is when the loved ones, the friends, the ones who met you and even the ones who only heard about you, remember you after your death. Good memories, I mean... because usually people don't bad talk or think badly of the dead, they just forget them (thus...

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Dilemma about work

momiecat @momiecat (997) • United States 23 Mar 10

I would like some opinions. I have been working for a company for 5 years no with no raise and probably none in the forseeable future with the way the economy is going. I like the job and I think I do well at it. However, there...

jobs

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klaudyou Well, I was taught by other and by my own experience that if you want a substantial raise, you need to change the company. Just like that... One day you go to an interview and ask for more... who knows, maybe you get lucky; maybe you'll find a job half as...

24 Mar 10

Do you think posting in mylot help you improve writing?

chenxiaoyue_713 @chenxiaoyue_713 (2165) • China 24 Mar 10

Hi, friends. We are all clear about the fact that a large number of mylotters are from non-english speaking countries. Posting quality discussions or responses can be a real challenge to them and even to some native english...

improve

posting

writing

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klaudyou Actually it did improve my writing skills a little bit (English is not my mother tongue). I still have the dictionary open in one of my browser's tab to re-check the underlined words, though... But it's not only that... MyLot gives me the possibility to...

24 Mar 10

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what kind of person you are??

umit_umit @umit_umit (1984) • India 24 Mar 10

friends what kind of overall person you are?are you extrovert or introvert?you are quiet or loudshout,you want silene or you need messy situations all the time?can you speak slow and can make the other person hear your words?or...

kind of person

person

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klaudyou In a practical way of speech, a person must be "socially pleasant". I understood from your topic that your question refers to how a person could be in relation to others. To be desirable is to communicate, to be able to get in touch easily, regardless of...

24 Mar 10

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Limits of Science

headhunter525 @headhunter525 (3548) • India 23 Mar 10

Scientific inquiry in limited in its nature. It does not take into account questions of morality or meaning of life and so on. Scientific methodology is based on explaining reality through natural causes and means. It does not...

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klaudyou Could be. And it's probably what holds us back from reaching the "next step". All the science we know is based on what can be proven by experiment. Science is deductive in its nature, although there are sciences that use induction as a method, like sociology,...

24 Mar 10

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