kltejeda

@kltejeda (101)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 18 years ago

"You don't know love until you learn to love yourself."

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Life, society, human kind, would have ben better off without religion

soadnot @soadnot (1606) • Canada 6 Feb 07

if there was no religion, our civilization would have been 10 times more advanced. ever since the crusades it has slowed down scientific discovery. it scared people into believing the world was square and at the center of the...

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kltejeda Interesting how one of your hobbies is religion...according to mylot at least....I think you make it too complicated. Perhaps by "religious individuals" you mean the extremists, because I'm an religious individual...and my IQ is pretty high. However, the way I...

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What would you say to Your Parents????

AskAlly @AskAlly (3625) • Canada 6 Feb 07

Whether your parents have passed away or not. If you had the opportunity to tell them exactly what you thought of them.....What Would You Say? Is there anger and resentment? If so why? OR would you praise you parents for all the...

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kltejeda As a fatherless child...I would obviously complimetn my dad for reaching the highest level of dad failure possible. My mom was OK, but she screwed up with my step dad, so I'll go ahead and give her a 5 as a mom. She's a bit better now. I don't have much of a...

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Did you give having children a lot of thought?

Tesa @xphile777 (427) • United States 6 Feb 07

It seems to me most people don't put much thought into have children. They grow up just assuming they'll have children because it's what's expected of them. But do they really sit down and consider whether they ready...

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kltejeda I have given it a lot of thought. It's the reason why I haven't had a child yet. I plan on being stable with my life before I go ahead and have children...even though sometimes I envy people younger than me who have already had children. Sometimes I think I'd...

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Feel like I am dipping into depression mode. Read and Help?

michele609 @michele609 (1687) • United States 4 Feb 07

I am a 23 year old female that has many goals that i was to achieve in life. Thats the good part. Well anyway I have 2 wonderful children which are 6 years old. As you may figure once you seen my age and their age that I was a...

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kltejeda Have you ever heard of University of Phoenix? You can get a Bachelor's in 3 1/2 years. They have a RN Bachelor's Program. You should give it a try. Very often you'll find that no one can help you...oddly enough, it's your own family who's reluctant to offer...

5 Feb 07

What would you do in this situtation?

angel102083 @angel102083 (640) • United States 3 Feb 07

My husband and I have been maried for almost 4 years and together 6 years...well my husbands best friend and his wife had set us up on a blind date.. well my husband had told me when we first got together he had told me that he...

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kltejeda You're well in your right to be upset. First off she's lying, and it's quite obvious that she's saying these things to hurt you. On a positive note; it's also obvious that she's actually jealous of you! She most definitely sees the happiness and stability of...

3 Feb 07

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need help getting over girlfriends past

lookinforhelp @lookinforhelp (1) • United States 29 Jan 07

i don't even know where to begin... my girlfriend has had 1 serious relationship before me. i cant seem to deal with her past. i know who her ex-boyfriend is and he is a complete jerk. i cant seem to get her past out of my...

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kltejeda being that no one else responded, I'll take the liberty. unfortunately there is very little you can do. Here's a short list: 1. Seek psychological help Don't take it offensively..it's not any kind of insult. The reason why yo can't get over it is...

2 Feb 07

What is your most dreaded cleaning chore???

chaygylmommy @chaygylmommy (2470) • United States 2 Feb 07

What chore around your house do you DREAD doing and put off the longest? Mine would be folding laundry. I HATE IT! I don't mind washing the laundry and I don't even mind the ironing, but those clothes that need to be folded...

chores

cleaning

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kltejeda How's this for a change. My most dreaded chore is cleaning my e-mail bins. I have to deal with all of the chores in my houses...but I hate even thinking about deleting all the spam and junk mail that accumalates. I do laundry very often...cleaning up my...

2 Feb 07

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i just want to let it out!.

Mylot member @patrice7 (1191) • United States 1 Feb 07

well i just want to let it out and tell the world or anyone who comes across this post that i am very disappointed in mylot!. i cant understand the system in which they pay us.. they say that quality posts have greater earnings...

disappontment

let it out

rants

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kltejeda Well...this morning I had the number 8 next to my number. I don't know anything about mylot...but I know that it increases sometimes when I post. I must have replied to about 8 posts and created about 6 or 7 discussions since I started mylot like 4 days ago....

2 Feb 07

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When exactly is the "final straw" in a relationship?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 1 Feb 07

My friend just had a major fight with her boyfriend recently. They have been going out for 4 months now and there seems to be one problem that they constantly argue and fight about. My friend feels that she is not being...

attention

relationship

time

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kltejeda Not for nothing...but it's been said that you never get to fully "know" somebody. 4 months could be a long time to adjust for you but for others way too short. I've been down in Tampa FL for 2 years now and still have not adjusted. I lived in NYC for 19 years...

2 Feb 07

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affair

aprilsue00 @aprilsue00 (1991) • United States 1 Feb 07

recently i had an affair with a married man who happens to be my husbands cousin. i felt guilty about this so i confessed everything to my husband. he confronted his cousin who denied everything. now my husband thinks that i am...

affairs

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kltejeda Truth is the number one way to go. I could imagine that it's going to hurt the both of you very much so, and it will probably also destroy his cousin's (whom I will refer to as "C" from now on) marriage, but the truth is the best way to go. You can't live a...

2 Feb 07

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What do YOU do when your car won't start?

cassidy22 @cassidy22 (2974) • United States 2 Feb 07

For environmental reasons, my husband and I share a car. He drives me to work, because it's on the way. He's been home sick this week, so i've had the car. Well, the TEMP outside is SOOOO cold this morning the car wouldn't...

car

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kltejeda Wow. You have some seriously willing co-workers. I guess you're quite lucky you live in a place where everyone has a car. I lived in NY for 19 years. If you couldn't get to work because of your car, you went on bus or train. Otherwise...you stood home. I live...

2 Feb 07

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Teen pregnancy

deniseee @deniseee (41) • Croatia (Hrvatska) 31 Jan 07

I heard one thing today,that made me start this dicussion,a girl,13 years old got pregnant with a kid one year older than her,and the parents of both of them do not approve for her to do an abortion,so she tried to hang...

pregnancy

teen

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kltejeda I don't approve abortion, and obviously don't approve suicide! I say let the girl do it. The abortion that is! You see, the little girl isn't the only one that's going to have a hard time. The child is going to have a hard time too; if not even harder than...

31 Jan 07

Is it hard to say "Sorry"?

peachtabernilla @peachtabernilla (305) • Philippines 30 Jan 07

honestly I only say "sorry" when I think at is my fault...but I don't say it when I think it is not my fault and I have nothing to do with it...Saying "sorry" is like admitting that it is your fault and ready to face your...

sorry

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kltejeda My wife doesn't like to say sorry for ANYTHING. Even when it's her fault. Sometimes though...she does. I use to think it was a little screwed up for her not to but I analyzed it and now I understand why she doesn't. You see...I say sorry for EVERYTHING. I...

31 Jan 07

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