kschilling

@kschilling (96)

Canada • Age 36

Joined myLot 14 years ago

Tough times don't last. Tough people do.

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a toddler who wont sleep

cox936 @cox936 (5) 16 Nov 10

how can i get my 2 1/2 yr old to sleep all night. he has never slept all night (unlike his sister who is a brilliant sleeper) i have tried everything i can think of.....he is well fed, has a warm bed time drink, stories, regular...

sleepless nights

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kschilling I am going through the same thing with my 20month old son. He's never been a good sleeper. We had on a good routine once and then it all went away and he wouldn't stick to it anymore. now its a battle just to get him to bed. I imagine he will grow out of this,...

1 Dec 10

Friday the 13th

Bethany1202 @Bethany1202 (3431) • United States 13 Aug 10

Many people are superstitious regarding certain things, and one of them happens to be occurring at this very moment: Friday the 13th! Are you superstitious, have you been paranoid/worried all day? It doesn't really bother me,...

bad luck

friday the 13th

superstitious

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kschilling well my birthday is on the 13th, and both my 16th and 21st birthday both fell on a friday, so naturally i am not superstitious, and my lucky number is 13. lol

13 Aug 10

what if your ex still loves but you don't love him anymore, what would you do?

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 13 Aug 10

My exboyfriends still love me and keeps on calling me and sending me messages. I can't change my number for I have it for years now and some important person might contact me someday. I always tell them that things between us...

lover

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kschilling well i've been in the opposite of this situation, being the one who still loved my ex, and the only thing that helped it pass was giving it time and space. don't give them a choice, make them give you space, at least 6 months, and over that time they will...

13 Aug 10

I'm getting the hang of texting.

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 14 Feb 10

Yes I am and I never thought I would! Sometimes I text rather then call a person! It is like e-mailing someone over the phone!

texting

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kschilling Congratulations, now from here it will only get easier. I personally love texting. I only text with one person, but i find when you are talking to them on the phone the conversation can dry up quickly, but with texting, you can just say some random thing and...

14 Feb 10

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What do you think is the best part of being a mom?

christinawise87 @christinawise87 (856) • United States 14 Feb 10

I lvoe my kids dearly I wouldnt trade being a mom for anything in the world. I love it when they come cuddle with me and say I love you. Also when they dont feel good and they want mommy to be right there because it makes them...

best mom

best part of being a mom

mommy time

what you like about being a mom

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kschilling For me, just knowing that a part of me is in my son, and watching him grow and learn new things is the best part for me. He is just under a year old, and seems like he is learning new things every day. I love watching him eat something for the first time, or...

14 Feb 10

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Does love require time to form?

cowboyofhell @cowboyofhell (3063) • Philippines 13 Feb 10

Is it true or false?

love

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kschilling In my experience yes it does take time. My very dirst love i met while doing a co-op program at a banquet hall. I was introduced to him, and we went on our own ways. I never thought much about it, and nor did he. A month or 2 passed, and we slowly started...

13 Feb 10

Once your child turns 18 when should they move out?

Roxanebailey @Roxanebailey (6) 27 Jan 10

I'm a single mother of 6. I believe once that child turns 18 and displays tendencies to be the adult that they think they are, then its time for them to move out on their own. But what if they keep coming back?

ready to be an adult

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kschilling I dont believe in pushing my son out the door when he turns 18 and forcing him to face the real world, nor am i going to coddle him. If he chooses to pursue college after highschool, he will be more than welcome to stay with us till he is done, and has found...

13 Feb 10

What do you consider as a good mother?

Masmasika @Masmasika (1921) • Philippines 3 Feb 10

A good mother is someone who does not say I love you but shows care and concern to her kids. She is strict and stern but kind to her kids. She doesn't buy her kids expensive toys but she makes sure that her kids are happy and...

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kschilling I think being a good mother is just being there for your child, not just during the good times, but standding by there side through the bad and the ugly. Being there to take care of them when they are sick or hurt, and always making them feel loved, and cared...

13 Feb 10

Birthdays

kymomof3 @kymomof3 (155) • United States 4 Feb 10

My baby boy turned 1 yesterday ! The years are going to fast. I feel so special on my childrens birthdays. The memories come flooding back each year when their birthday comes. I believe those days are special for moms as much as...

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kschilling Well my son will be turning 1 in just under 2 months, and i absolutely cant wait for that milestone to come. It is a big milestone not only for kids but for the parents as well, especially the mother. I know once his first birthday comes then there are so many...

13 Feb 10

Bad Mom Moment

sassy28 @sassy28 (834) • United States 8 Feb 10

I have to go pick my kids up from school in about 40 minutes. I really do not want to, I hate waiting in line for them. I told my mom I fell like I am placing an order, I'll take one Josh and Will please. Then once they get in the...

kids

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kschilling I have yet to have the pleasure of experiencing my boys being in school, as one is only 10 months and the other is due in june, but im sure when the time comes i will probably face similar feelings. I didnt have a lot of good parenting role models in my life...

13 Feb 10

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Who do you Prefer To LOvE?...the one you love OR the one who love you?

krystalheart @krystalheart (842) • Philippines 13 Feb 10

Hi Everyone, I just wonder, and I would like to ask you... if you have only to choose one, who do you prefer to love... the one you love but don't love you OR the one who love you but you don't love?... In my part, I prefer...

heart

love

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kschilling this kinda goes both ways for me. I still very much love one guy, and after everything he is still my bestfriend. He may not love me in return, but i do know he cares about me and that is enough for me. I am with someone who loves me very dearly, and i do...

13 Feb 10

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What causes the addiction of cigarettes?

tdiamond33 @tdiamond33 (330) • Canada 13 Feb 10

We see it everywhere we look now a days. The lighting of the cigarette. I myself have personally tried to smoke cigarettes, but after I have finish it, I feel so uncomfortable,light headed and unsettling inside. After that...

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kschilling A lot of people smoke as a copeing mechanism. Which is one of the resons i smoke. I have had to go through a lot in my past, and when i did try to quit, i ended u having an emotional breakdown. You try so hard not to think about having a cigarette that you...

13 Feb 10

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What causes people fall in love?

nophie @nophie (2336) • Indonesia 13 Feb 10

Hi mylotters, i have a simple question, altough all had experienced falling in love, but sometimes we are still confused to answer question like this. what do you think mylotters?

fall in love

love

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kschilling i dont think there really is an answer to this question. I think it just sort of happens, and that we fall in love with who we fall in love with. Many times there is no ecplanation or reason, it just happens. I believe there are no right or wrong answers when...

13 Feb 10

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what do you think i the major cause for stress??

thunderbala @thunderbala (748) • India 11 Feb 10

hi guys.. nowadays in this busy going world,almost all people childern,students,and also elder people get mental depression and stress.. what do you think is the major cause for this...? is it cuz of the pressure in...

stress

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kschilling i honestly believe that money is the source of most peoples stress, and also causes a lot of tension in relationships which causes even more stress. We all stress out over something, but i would say majority stress over money. I know that i am cinsistantly...

13 Feb 10

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Thinking too much is the reason for depression.Am I right?

avimra @avimra (456) • India 12 Feb 10

I was depressed for a problem before some months. I didn't want to be like that. Because I want my happiness back. I decided not to think about that. But,it was really hard. So in my opinion thinking too much about the problem...

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kschilling I myself do currently suffer from depression, i have a lot of past issues and problems that i am having a really hard time letting go of. Basically how i keep it at bay is keeping myself busy. I do agree the more you think about it, the stronger it is....

13 Feb 10

Do you walk your dog regularly?

bystander @bystander (2292) • Philippines 12 Feb 10

Taking a pet dog for a walk is necessary. A dog that is kept on leash or in cage will develop some kind of illness without a regular walk. Also, the walk keeps the pet owner healthy. Do you walk your dog daily? If not daily, how...

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kschilling unfortunetly, we do not walk our dogs on a regular basis, as we dont really have a lot of spare time. However with there being 3 dogs in our household, and having a pretty large back yard they do go out all together and run arouund the yard, and will...

13 Feb 10

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Do you think passive smoking is harmful??

saanjh @saanjh (784) • India 13 Feb 10

Yes I think because passive smoking make's you a patient of cancer and also harmful to your body in now generation girl's are also addicted to smoking so it's not good what you think??

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kschilling smoking or inhaling smoke in any form is not good for your health. It has been said that breathing in second hand smoke contains twice as many chemicals. Many people who have never smoked a day in their life end up with lung cancer. Now at the same time,...

13 Feb 10

GTA 4 Vs GTA San Andreas

luigi16 @luigi16 (17) • Mexico 27 Dec 09

I hear something about GTA San andreas, some people say that it have game options that GTA 4 doesn't have, it's true that? what do you think about this diference?

gta 4

gta san andreas

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kschilling I enjoyed GTA 4 immensely, i still currently play it and the two expansions for it. However i do believe that San Andreas does offer a bit more variety of gameplay than gta 4. For example in san andreas once you unlock the red dragon casino and finish its main...

13 Feb 10

Dad walked out. I miss him.

Nikiforos @Nikiforos (38) 13 Feb 10

In summer of 2009, my Dad left us. There was another woman involved, and he took our life savings. We are still trying to put our lives back together, but now I find that I miss him. I want to get in touch with him, but I...

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kschilling ok so, i can certainly understand that you miss you dad. I think no matter what happens in our lives, we will always miss our parents. No matter what they do to us. Now with that said, getting in touch with him could be a good idea or it could go really...

13 Feb 10