laura_lmaxi

@laura_lmaxi (678)

United States • Age 43

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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should a girl really learn how to cook?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 3 Sep 11

Well it is often said in here that when a woman knows how to cook already, then she is ready for marriage... why is that so? should a girl really need to know how to cook? why is it even thought of as a necessity? will it make us,...

cooking

girl

woman

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laura_lmaxi I have a friend, who's mother didn't know how to cook, it was one of those people that would always try a different recipe but it would never turn out descent, and at the same time, she had one of the most solid marriages I have ever seen, they have been...

3 Sep 11

People with TATTOO, how do you find them? Attractive or not?

kccrystalsachi @kccrystalsachi (117) • Philippines 1 Sep 11

There is no wrong or right answers for this particular question. And I also don't have anything against those people who has a tattoo, no matter how huge or small is that. I just would like to know what's each one's say on people...

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laura_lmaxi I think it all depends of the person and the type of design they pick for the tattoo, I personally like them, however I wouldn't get one myself, I don't think I have the proper skin color to make a tattoo look good on my skin, I would get a piercing in my...

1 Sep 11

Is 30 over the hill, or just the beginning? Too old?

itrocksmyworld @itrocksmyworld (22) 31 Aug 11

So - does life begin at 30 - or is it over the hill? I have recently turned 30, and initially before turning I had the dreaded fear of no longer being in my 20's. Is it time to settle down, get a house, have a proper job,...

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laura_lmaxi I am about to turn 30 in a couple of weeks and I have to tell you I don't feel old at all, everything in life is about balance, for example not having a clear career or path in life is not necessary something that happens because you are young it happens...

1 Sep 11

Do husbands prefer thier wives to stay home or to work?

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 30 Aug 11

Money doesn't grow on trees and people usually spend their hard earned money wisely. And nowadays, I have observed that some wives work already. But a long time ago, husband did not let their wives work outside. They just wanted...

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laura_lmaxi I am not a man, but being a female and about to get marry I think i can share my point of view about this, I think husbands can like what ever they want but it is a decision of the woman to decide if that is the right decision for her. These are times when...

1 Sep 11

Do you believe, You had a past lives?

vine88 @vine88 (1031) • India 20 Apr 10

Do you believe in re-incarnation? Your past lives can be known from Hypnosis. Do you believe on them? What do you think about this? It's related to mind. How you can remember your past lives from your mind-body. Where...

past lives

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laura_lmaxi I really don't believe in re-incarnation, i am not religious and I believe that when we die our body get destroy with time, but that is my opinion, I am not a religious person,however there has been a lot of serious research about this subject, nothing has...

20 Apr 10

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Do you believe that there is a solution to every problem?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 19 Apr 10

Many contend that nothing is insolvable, they advice us to avoid the temptation of thinking that what is facing us at the moment is insurmountable. The reason we cannot see the solution they say is because we are convinced that it...

convinced

temptation

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laura_lmaxi I think it is true, I do believe also that there is a solution for any problem, the problem is that we sometimes have tunnel vision, and we can't see sometimes the solution is in front our noses.

20 Apr 10

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Why a person gives more preferences to his wife rather then their parents..?

siliguri @siliguri (4241) • India 25 Mar 10

It hassle me a lot..the parents who give birth to one..spend so much money for the betterment for their life..and lots of sacrifice they do...but eventually after married many of persons forget all the stuff or deed that their...

parents

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laura_lmaxi I think there should be a balance between both, and the parents and the wife in my opinion deserve equal treatment, the parents gives us the life, something extremely important, but our couples are the ones that are with us most of the time, who gave us...

25 Mar 10

Being self employed or paid employment

BYOLA2871 @BYOLA2871 (4371) • South Africa 18 Mar 10

We find that the world we find ourselves now is more into what you have and who you are mostly by means of your possessions and acquisitions ,Thisis the reason many have been drawn into crime and vices . I personally believe in...

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laura_lmaxi I can talk about both things because I work for a big company where my job is stable, well nothing this days is stable, but I think you can get my point. On the other side, my fiance is a freelance programmer, when I meet him his income was not very stable,...

18 Mar 10

Are you doing a STAYcation this year?

Bearballew @Bearballew (1148) • United States 18 Mar 10

Many families are cutting back on where they will be traveling for the Spring Break and the summer. We did a staycation last year in which we stayed in the US and did a camping trip week. It was so amazing and fun. We actualy want...

staycation or vacation

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laura_lmaxi I totally agree with you, there a lot of great things to do very close to you, I live in New York City, and there is always something different to do here. However, whenever I can I go to visit my family which lives out of the country, but these days with the...

18 Mar 10

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My damned English

litian008 @litian008 (58) • China 10 Mar 10

I am a student of a university in China and i had learned english for more than ten years,however,my english is still very disappointing. I took part in an English oral test about this afternoon, i failed.i am sad notwithstanding...

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laura_lmaxi I feel your pain, I am foreign myself and while I studied English in my country of origin, it is not enough what they teach you in school, that is only for survive. but you can't do too much with it, in my opinion, what really helped me a lot was getting...

10 Mar 10

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Should i quit ?

castlehillpeter @castlehillpeter (52) • China 10 Mar 10

er,firstly,let me introduce myself here simplely.I graduated from university last june.You know,unfortunately,it was a hard year.there are a lot of people lose their jobs because of financial crisis.So it took me three monthes to...

quit

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laura_lmaxi I believe that if you don't have another job offer you shouldn't quit, the market is horrible these days, so if you quit you may be unemployed for a while, which it is going to give you more stress eventually, I would tell you to start looking for another job...

10 Mar 10

There are no Jews, Christians or Muslims here...

livewyre @livewyre (2450) 10 Mar 10

There are just people who have adopted a faith or set of beliefs - what I mean is that people should be seen first and foremost as fellow human beings. Two Jews may not think the same, two Christians may have different...

acceptence

religion

religious intolerence

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laura_lmaxi Everybody should be treated as individuals because we are all different, in some cases, different religion means different lifestyle, but as I said before we are all individuals human beings that can have different points of view of everything regardless of...

10 Mar 10

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in mylot, do you have more friends from your own country or from other nations?

ksmita @ksmita (513) • India 9 Mar 10

hi. i think , this is the only place where we can have friends ,without the barriers of nationalities. it feels good to recieve friends request from people of other countries. no one feel left out or ignored here. personally, i...

friend preferances

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laura_lmaxi Well I like also diversity, I am foreign myself living in the US and even in real life all my friends are from all over the world, that is the beauty of New York, it is such a diverse place, same here at mylot, in my case I always enjoy learning from others,...

10 Mar 10

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Cat or Dog person?

wigima5 @wigima5 (904) • United States 9 Mar 10

I'm personally a dog person all the way. I don't even really like cats. I love how dogs are alwayys friendly, and loyal. they truly are man's best friend. They will protect you, and often would even die for you. You can always pet...

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laura_lmaxi Totally a dog person and agree with you, dogs are very loving and expressive animals, while cats are very cold, the advantage of the cats is that it is more easy to train them in order for them to make their necessities not in any place, while dogs you have to...

10 Mar 10

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How often......

MsTickle @MsTickle (25180) • Australia 8 Mar 10

do you put fuel in your car? Do you fill it up once a week? Do you put a dollar (or whatever your money is) amount in..say, $10 or $20? Do you wait till the tank is almost empty? I live a long way from anywhere to...

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laura_lmaxi I put gass on my car once a week, it cost me around $15, because I like to keep at least one quarter of the tank for some emergency. I have a very small car and very fuel efficient so I really don't pay that much, even when I live in NY and the gass here is...

9 Mar 10

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The Pros and Cons Of Shopping Online Vs./ Shopping @ A Store

sherrypeck19822001 @sherrypeck19822001 (228) • United States 8 Mar 10

I personally love to shop online from the comfort of my living room because I don't like crowds and don't currently have a car to go shop hopping to get everything I need. I do the grocery shopping on my bike then all the rest of...

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laura_lmaxi I seriously prefer to buy online, I really hate to go for shopping, I hate spend the whole day in a mall looking for something, make huge lines, have to accommodate myself to the schedules of the mall, when I buy online I can do it at 3pm like at 3am. The only...

9 Mar 10

Boyfriend is poor?how can she do?

huirose @huirose (17) • China 8 Mar 10

my best friend is now in trouble about her boyfriend?They get on well each other and they both consider they belong to each other and they are the best couple in this world.But this man once told her his parents are all teacheres...

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laura_lmaxi well I think we have to define what means being poor for you, if it is the fact that his family is poor, that doesn't mean he has to be poor, he can have a nice profession, I am not rich, I came to this country with nothing, and now I have a very good job, I...

9 Mar 10