lovelemonlee

@lovelemonlee (235)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 16 years ago

a long way to go

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MONEY or LOVE?

xien2xien @xien2xien (1382) • Philippines 12 Apr 11

Today, i was so upset and depress but not for myself, but for someone that has been special to me once upon a time. This guy named Daniel was my first crush when i was still in highschool, we're so close then i fall in love with...

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lovelemonlee Are you sure that Daniel's wife left him for another businessman just because he's poor, There's no other problems between them? But i have to admit that economic conditions sometimes cause conflicts between couples, as a old saying that "everything goes wrong...

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Chemotherapy - Take it or not?

rhan04 @rhan04 (307) • Philippines 23 Oct 09

Chemotherapy is a mixture of different drugs use for Cancer treatment. Its action is to kill rapidly growing cells which is a characteristic of cancer cells. Unfortunately, there are also good cells who has the same...

cancer

chemotherapy

health

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lovelemonlee I will encourage them take chemotherapy. In China we have a saying that "Bad living is better than good death". If you are alive you can do a lot of thins. Maybe soon there will be a cure method for this disease and there will be new hope.

18 Mar 11

I will be starting chemo on Monday!

daeckardt @daeckardt (6237) • United States 16 Mar 11

Finally!!! I got the call about an hour ago. I was assigned to the group getting all three drugs. I need to get there at 8:30 that morning for labs then I see the doctor at 9:30. I just hope that I can get there easily that...

chemo

starting

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lovelemonlee I'm a doctor and i know that Chemotherapy is very suffering. Be strong.Wish you good luck!

18 Mar 11

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Friends or Boyfriend?

piscesgirl_1983 @piscesgirl_1983 (45) • Philippines 24 Mar 10

It is really hard to choose in two but it really depend on the situation..

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lovelemonlee I don't know what you mean by "choose"? Do you mean that if you choose this one you have to give up the other? In my opinion, if he/she is a good boyfriend/girlfriend, he/she won't let you be in a difficulty between your friend and he/she. So that's up to you....

18 Mar 11

My daughter is sick

kheydia @kheydia (882) • Philippines 18 Mar 11

Our baby daughter has a common colds, we stay up late last night, i think she cannot sleep with her colds, i've got headaches and i feel so tired because of lack of sleep. How do you manage if your baby got sick?

parents

sick

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lovelemonlee I don't know how to do because i haven't get married and of course don't have a child. But i can't totally understand your anxiety, i still remember my mother's anxious when i got sick in my childhood. So i wish your daughter could recover quickly. But take...

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You are in trouble for buying a house?

hapangel @hapangel (9) • China 11 Feb 11

I am from China,graduated from college 2 years ago.I am away from home and away from family for a big city,now,need urgently a house,but,the house price is getting higher and higher,no ability to buy a house.House prices go up...

buying a house

china

trouble

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lovelemonlee I'm a Chinese girl who is now working and living in a metropolis--Shanghai . Well, what you said is right, here in china, most people still hold the thought that if you don't own a house(or an apartment, more practically), you are not living a stable life. But...

16 Mar 11

A time when you unintentionally caused trouble for someone else.

adnileb @adnileb (5276) • Philippines 15 Mar 11

Friends are friends. When they're in trouble, you're there to help them no matter what happens. But what if you caused the trouble for them? When I was in college, me and my friends are fond of hanging out after classes. We used...

friends will be always friends

trouble maker

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lovelemonlee You were so lucky that nothing bad happened to you. But don't be worry, a sincere friend won't blame you for that. they will face any diffculties with you. As a saying goes, A friend in need is a friend indeed.

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I want to move on!

geonelynn @geonelynn (369) • Philippines 15 Mar 11

it is hard for me to end a 3-year relationship especially when suddenly i just found myself in this situation. we never had that "getting cold" stuff in our relationship and all i can remember is that we were okay and getting...

breakup

broken relationship

heartache

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lovelemonlee Hi, geonelynn, I'm sorry to learn that you broke up with your boyfriend. I guess we are in the same situation, I've just broke up with my boyfriend with whom i had been in a relationship for more than six years. We are still love each other, but we are forced...

16 Mar 11

a story about sisters--a message to all women

daeckardt @daeckardt (6237) • United States 16 Mar 11

A friend shared this little story with me and I would like to share it with all my sisters out there. I don't THINK this violates any of the rules I just read. A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced...

sisters

women

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lovelemonlee The mother in the story is very wise. Yes, husband and children are very important to a woman in a family, but she also need "sisters", whom she can turn up to when she is in trouble or when her husband and children cannot understand her.Women needs her own...

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love or security?

Sheeny @Sheeny (173) • Philippines 14 Mar 11

I have know some friends to have foreigner boyfriends. I also known many who got married a Caucasian for security. Is this the trend now? Obviously it is. I can't imagine myself have a family with a different race. I prefer to...

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lovelemonlee For a long time i thought that i will marry a man only because i love him. But after you have devoted yourself in a relationship for more than 6 years and then broke up with him , i begin to realize that there is nothing like eternal love in this world. Life...

14 Mar 11

Why is life so unfair

tessa9 @tessa9 (1085) • Philippines 12 Mar 11

Good things happen to bad people while bad things happen to good people. I went to the market today and saw an old man who is carrying a sack of vegetables in his shoulder. I passed him a couple of times. He is carrying one...

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lovelemonlee There is no absolute fair in this world. We always say that God is seeing what we people on the earth are doing. So accept the truth, and fight for yourself.

13 Mar 11

Why do you love your boyfriend/girlfriend?

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 23 Sep 10

I love my boyfriend because I see that he's very optimistic and general. He always believe in life. I think that he's a strong man who can teach my children are become the strong persons. How about you?

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lovelemonlee He will cook for me no matter how tired he is after work if i say i miss the dishes he cooked for me; He will wash my clothes and letting me sitting there playing computer games. He will go out to buy something i suddenly want to eat even at midnight....

11 Mar 11

Your husband/wife love child...can/will you accept the innocent child?

Jane @jaiho2009 (39141) • Philippines 11 Mar 11

For WIVES : You know your husband is cheating on you and promised to leave the other woman You loved your husband that much that you are prepared to forgive him, back into each other arms once again. Your husband is...

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lovelemonlee I’d say i won't have the bearing to forgive him. When we got married, we both sweared that we would be faithful to each other as wives and husbands. He cheats on me means that he doesn't cherish the marriage any more, so why should i forgive him? and i also...

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My enemy... I love them

alexigne @alexigne (903) • Philippines 24 Mar 08

They are my enemy.. They because she and he... I love them??? Yes i do.. Why??? Because even though they criticize me... even though they hurt me... even though they fool me, play with me, tease me ... I will still love them,...

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lovelemonlee You are such a great person , i'm sure few people can do the same things as you. People always hate their enemy, because of the bad things they had done to them. I have heard a famous saying" keep your friends close, and your enemies closer", because by doing...

24 Mar 08

Do you belive in destiny?

nice030481 @nice030481 (1109) • Philippines 24 Mar 08

When i was young, i tell to myself that when i got a boyfriend, he will be my first and last, he will the one to marry and to be with for the rest of my life, i got a boyfried when i was 17 yrs old but after 3 1/2 yrs of...

destiny

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lovelemonlee No, i don't believe in destiny. I think one can make his life through one's hard work. Yes, you may be born in a poor family, but it doesn't mean that you will be poor in your whole life, you may become rich if you work hard.And many stories of successful...

24 Mar 08

What do you EAT for breakfast?

whyaskq @whyaskq (7523) • Singapore 23 Mar 08

I start taking breakfast after I read that breakfast is the most important meal of the day. Bread, fruits and a cup of hot drink are what I usually eat for breakfast, occasionally buns and noodles. Recently, I read that most...

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lovelemonlee I eat breakfast everyday, since i have known it a long time ago that not eating breakfast is bad for your health. My breakfast is a cup of milk and some bread; sometimes it's milk& oatmeal, it's delicious and at the same time healthy, i don't usually eat...

24 Mar 08

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Qualities of a man for ladies

titaniumsoul @titaniumsoul (1191) • Singapore 24 Mar 08

What qualities do you look for when you are about to get into a relationship with a man that ask for your heart?

qualities of a man for ladies

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lovelemonlee An gentleman who is good-looking (at least not ugly), having a good temper and a strong body, ambitious and deligent and having a nice job, having no bad habits(such as smoking, alcohol abuse and ga mbling), be filial to parents,not being a playboy, and will...

24 Mar 08

online relationship

alexigne @alexigne (903) • Philippines 23 Mar 08

What do you think of this love affair... you meet thru internet and fall in love then go out for a date... love each other... go for good or let it go...

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lovelemonlee Well, i just don't believe in online friendship, especially the two ones are not in the same city ,even not in the same country. But if the two person are near to each other, and after getting to know each other on line, they can date in real life, maybe they...

23 Mar 08

what do you do to get rid of bad emotion?

sophialin @sophialin (2677) • China 28 Feb 08

when i run into some negative emotion,such as angry,sad or disappointed. my way to get rid of it is taking exercise. when i was in university, i used to keep running slowly along the river for more than one hour. such mechanical...

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lovelemonlee I guess your way to get rid of bad emotion is more healthier than mine. When i run into bad emotion, i usually go to sleep( i just like sleep), and when i wake up, i will forget all unhappy things and be happy like before.

23 Mar 08

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When is your birthday date?

youless @youless (112496) • Guangzhou, China 28 Apr 07

My birthday is coming. It's on May 19. Actually it's also a festival in Turkey. I hope I will have a good time:)

birthday

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lovelemonlee My birthday is on April 4th this year, and it's coming soon. Wish myself a happy birthday in advance!

23 Mar 08

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