nanands

@nanands (122)

India • Age 72

Joined myLot 18 years ago

This is me

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are you a morning person?

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 12 Jun 09

im am a definite morning person. i get up at 5 a.m., go to dunkins for my morning wake up. i love to be up early and have my house all cleaned by 9 a.m. i like being alone. around 12 noon take a nap. im in bed by 9 p.m. if im not...

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nanands I too am a morning person. It is six o'clock for me. I am 50+. I find hardly anyone in my family who gets up that early. Most younger people set a great score by how much they sleep. They believe they have to catch up whenever they are forced to wake up...

13 Jun 09

how to know men are not virgin anymore??

oleinoleo @oleinoleo (389) • Malaysia 7 Feb 07

hey, i dont have any idea about this.. for women, of course we know..but if men not virgin anymore...how to trace it??

virgin

virginity

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nanands Why don't you try asking him. I thought the whole point of the love was trust. Also is it necessary to know everything?

7 Feb 07

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The Internet -- Playground for cheaters??

momokoseiya @momokoseiya (453) • United States 31 Jan 07

I have heard that the internet is becoming the new tool for cheaters to carry on hidden relationships. One of my friends recently heard that her boyfriend had a profile on a dating site. She went to the website, did a search, and...

cheating

internet

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nanands What you say is very true. It is always very easy to blame internet, TV, cinema and even books for cheating and the other ills of the society. The fact is that it always the personal choice of people.

1 Feb 07

A question for my female friends...

DanielMarvoloRiddle @DanielMarvoloRiddle (331) • United States 29 Jan 07

I have two females that play a very important role in my life. One is my best friend and business partner, the other is my writing partner and certainly one of my very best friends as well. Now, I see this as being a...

friends of the opposite sex

platonic friendship

relationships

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nanands If there is secretiveness in a husband's relationships then the wife is likely to feel not only jealousy but also something worse. if you are open right from thre begining there are less chances of anything going wrong.

30 Jan 07

Around 2000 posts deleted !!! An alert to the all the Junk Posters !

lifeisbeautiful @lifeisbeautiful (479) • India 28 Jan 07

This is just to inform all of you that i have come across an intresting obeservation. I was in constant touch with the 'all time top users' (posters) list on Mylot, and have came to know that around 2000 posts of one of a user,...

alert

junk

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nanands There are quite a lot of junk discussions and junk responses. I do not wish to be judgemental but the purpose of some of the members seems to be only making money. If you seriouly think about it, if your broadband connection has download limit or time limit,...

30 Jan 07

License to Rape

mansha @mansha (6298) • India 27 Jan 07

I recently heard that a girl from a poor community was raped and then forced by her parents to marry the rapist himself and people supported them because their reason was who else will marry her now. I discussed this with elderly...

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nanands All of us feel shocked by what you have brought up. There are worse alternartives practised by some village communities. The rapist is asked to pay a fine by committee of village elders to the girls's family and the whole thing is forgotten. The girl may marry...

29 Jan 07

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My Father has Another Woman!

nicelyrom @nicelyrom (521) • Philippines 28 Jan 07

My father left my Mom and I last week without telling us "why" and without informing us his whereabouts. Then, I discovered he's living in with another woman - a younger one, as I may say. He did this to us for many times ever...

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nanands You say he has done it number of times and apparently your mother has let him come back. Was it because you were young and she felt it would be better to have a known man around despite his follies. Or is it that she wants to have him around however he...

29 Jan 07

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Are you trying to help or are you just trying to earn a point?

tycoon_007 @tycoon_007 (302) • Sri Lanka 28 Jan 07

I have come across many questions on myLot regarding relationships, etc. When you do respond to them, is your intention to sincerely give them some advice and help them or just give them anything (doesnt matter whether your...

help

people

relationship

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nanands I completely agree with you that even if the originator of the discussion does not bother to return to check out what responses he has received; atleast someone else reading the post could benefit from it. It makes me a litle sad that some of the originators...

29 Jan 07

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How Soon Do You Pack?

sarahbeth1977 @sarahbeth1977 (384) • United States 28 Jan 07

Okay, I have this discussion with a certain someone everytime I we get ready to travel. I tend to wait until the last minute to pack everything because that way I know I won't forget something and leave it out because I used it....

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nanands I travel regularly and have worked out a system whereby I automatically check out things as I pack. I almost have a mental image of what should go where. I have also worked out a sequence of what goes first and what goes next. I travel to various parts of the...

29 Jan 07

Why gilrs have to have their bath so F***** hot?

crosa125 @crosa125 (1483) 26 Jan 07

who give the girls these ideas? let's have a bath together?and why they have to have their bath that hot?is it because they want to cook some balls?

romantic

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nanands In chemistry we say that heat often speeds up the rate of a reaction. This may really be a method on the part of the girls to get you hot and increase your speed of reaction. Now as a way of getting out of this hard-boiling (I am not talking of eggs here!) I...

28 Jan 07

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Why romance on the internet doesn't work?

vijaygame @vijaygame (758) • India 7 Jan 07

When boy meets girl in an other 'normal' circumstances we have the benefit of using our eyes, ears and senses to form a personal opinion and to be able to judge fairly quickly whether the person's character appeals to us. Adults...

dating

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nanands Behaviour in public and at home, facial expressions and body language of a friend make a lot of difference in reaching better conclusions than online chats. But you can use chats for preliminary assessments. The final deal has to be struck face to face. What...

28 Jan 07

my bf frend is htting on me

wyldechylde @wyldechylde (139) • Canada 28 Jan 07

So I have a problem my boyfriend has a friend at school who lives in the same town as me and he asked him to start drving me up on weekends so I can visit him and he dosnt hav to pay for the bus all the time. Mainly I go up for...

guys

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nanands I think you are getting your priorities mixed up here. What is more important: keeping away from a creep or getting to parties at any cost. Tell your boyfriend what is happening. It is possible that this creep may boast off to someone that he is hitting on you...

28 Jan 07

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My Fathers Visits!!!

ronita34 @ronita34 (3922) • Canada 27 Jan 07

My father is now 63 and not as young as he once was. I cherish each and every visit that i recieve from him like it could be my last although i still feel that my daddy has alot of fight left in him! Today he came to bring my 5...

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nanands I am a little younger to your dad and I too have a daughter who loves me a lot. I can understand your feelings and I am sure your dad feels energised when he meets you. But one sentence in your write-up bothers me. You serve him a rich meal despite his...

28 Jan 07

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Girls

simpleatif @simpleatif (2508) • China 26 Jan 07

WHat can I do to make a girl fall in love with me in a matter of a few days?

relationships

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nanands First of all don't be desparate. There is no magical formula for making a girl fall in love with you. The greatest put off for a girl is a guy who thinks he can manipulate her to fall in love with him. You stand a good chance if the girl likes the way you...

28 Jan 07

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Romantic song..

Rashu169 @Rashu169 (4391) • India 26 Jan 07

Well on 14th feb i want to surprise my love by giving him a nice party for two... i want to play some cool good music... Give me your suggestions about the songs that i can play... and plz romantic one...one that i have already...

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nanands That is a wonderful song. You dont have to look for any other. I would only make one request on behalf of your man: When it comes to part "Hold me now, Touch me now", please be available on the spot and do not run into the kitchen to get your cutlery or get...

28 Jan 07

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Would You Marry someone OLDER then You?

abhax123 @abhax123 (1695) • India 27 Jan 07

One of my friend is in love with a girl who is five year older then him. They both love each other too much and have told there family that they are going to get married. The girls family has no objection but my friends family is...

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nanands I too have no objection to marrying a girl older than me. But such a girl will really be a "very old girl". Anyway I can't do it again now. I am already married to someone older to me by three years for the last 33 years! Let me assure you we are none the...

28 Jan 07