newbiehere

@newbiehere (27)

Canada • Age 56

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Private Investment Affiliate (need an extra set of eyes out there?)

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Buy her the ring?

jasonroland @jasonroland (20) • United States 14 Mar 07

Do you buy your woman the diamond ring she wants? Do you pass down the heirloom ring that has been in your family for years? Does it make her money hungry if she picks a ring far out of your salary range? Does it matter to anyone...

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newbiehere The ring should be chosen by you! It is with your love that the ring would symbolize. If you know your womans taste then chose! I think if she wants to buy a ring for herself then she can. If you feel you must allow her to get the diamond she wants set a...

14 Mar 07

your fears...

clarah_cille @clarah_cille (654) • Philippines 14 Mar 07

what are your fears? me, i'm afraid to lose any member of my family, to go to a dentist and of dogs?

fears

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newbiehere I have a cronic runnaway/meth user child I fear that some day she won't make it back, I'm afraid my children won't succeed in life. I'm afraid to die and leave them

14 Mar 07

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crying in stead of saying thank you

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 14 Mar 07

my 3 year old daughter is driving me nuts. we do so much together. i spend all of my spare money doing special activities together. i took her to a magic show today and after it's over she's crying. "oh i didn't get picked, i...

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newbiehere You said it your self, you spend all of your spare money on your child for activities. At that age they don't understand and when she had to leave it was upsetting. Comfort her and talk to her about the activity she just went through EXCITEDLY and ask her...

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Affectiion Displays

webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 14 Mar 07

Okay here's a HUGE pet peeve of mine. I went to my wife’s restaurant early Tuesday night to have some delicious tabular salad. As I sat behind the counter eating a young couple (20s) came & ordered some food to go. They started...

public displays of affection

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newbiehere Gee thats repulsive, were you still hungry? I think that those peop;e had no respect for each other let alone the public. I believe a little kiss, is okay but geez GET A ROOM! I don't blame you for being upset.

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Why are people rude to people with alot of kids? How many is too many?

sivadirehs @sivadirehs (27) • United States 14 Mar 07

I was recently fortunate enough to meet an amazing family with 8 children. I noticed that there were alot of rude things said to the mother and father. Why do people care? I personally think they are amazing to be able to handle 8...

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newbiehere Today society feels that 3 is plenty. I feel theres never enough children to add to a family. I feel if the parent(s) are finANCIALLY STABLE, MATURE, loving... what does it matter? I do get angry when I see huge families and they're not able to support the...

14 Mar 07

Single Mothers

jennie_recca @jennie_recca (26) • Philippines 12 Mar 07

I really admire single mothers who can raise their children well. Before, single mothers were judged by people who cannot understand their situations. But now, single moms should be awarded for being strong and courageous.

mothers

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newbiehere As a single mom of 22 yrs. I AGREE! It takes a huge amount of strength and love to to it on your own. Some struggle so much and I think our kids appreciate things more.

14 Mar 07

Mothers who desert their children..................

ironstruck @ironstruck (2298) • Canada 14 Mar 07

Isn't it shocking when you hear about a mother who has walked out on her husband and children? Why is it so shocking? Why does it seem so much worse when a woman just walks away, yet when a man does it, the perception is so...

family

marriage

mothers

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newbiehere A mother and spouse; as such we tend to put up with an awful lot. We are the rocks, The glue that holds every thing together. So when a woman leaves, the family tends to go through seperation much harder. Lets face it, we cook, clean, garden, Dr. our families,...

14 Mar 07

Can anybody really say that their marriage is perfect? Is there really one?

justinefontaine @justinefontaine (90) • Philippines 3 Mar 07

Marriage is something that we look forward to when we are in a very good relationship. But can anybody really say that you have a perfect married life or how close to perfect? 80%? 90%? Mostly wives are the ones who tried to...

marriage

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newbiehere No such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship! It all takes eaqual work! which includes mutual respect and commitment. All couples disagree. If it can't be solved how about agree to dissagree. PICK UR BATTLES.

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Can you take "No" for an answer?

hcromer @hcromer (2710) • United States 2 Mar 07

I work in a pizza place and make next to nothing, but I have to deal with people on a daily basis who want pizzas delivered to neighboring towns and other random places that we do not deliver to. When I tell people no, 80% of the...

delivery

pizza

rude

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newbiehere State the bussiness policy to the customer and suggest a cab or delivery company, if this does'nt help tell your customer the policy once again and wish them a good evening. HANG UP! don't argue it doesn't change any thing.

3 Mar 07

youth?

doreentduran @doreentduran (212) • Philippines 3 Mar 07

Youth? it's when we do things no ones ever done before. it's when we use up all our energy till we have none. it's when we are in control of our lives so while we are young let us not hesitate to live. let's not hesitate to make...

love

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newbiehere Have fun with in the legal limits! Youth only happens once! being a grown up is so hard and mentally exhasting! enjoy! please don't dissobey your folks for the most part they do luv you and want to teach you about the important stuff in life!

3 Mar 07

God! could I get any more depressed!

destinycole @destinycole (827) 3 Mar 07

First of all its one little thing, I think spring is the most depressing time of the year for me. I really feel like crashing in Spring Time. First off the neighbours are incarnate from the devil himself. Secondly no Nip Tuck,...

depressed

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newbiehere From what I could comprehend from your post- you must work in a hospital? Life is cruel! you must see horrific things! I know how you feel I worked in a retirement home and ended up quiting after my third DNR. It hurts so bad not to have control over life!...

3 Mar 07

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how to deal with a disrespectful boss?

dreamingmyth @dreamingmyth (594) • United States 2 Mar 07

ok so im kind of stuck in a job i never should have accepted! anyways my boss is a friend of our family but he is deffinately taking advantage of me and oversteping boundries big time! this is the deal, i drive a route for him on...

boss

disrespect

snow

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newbiehere You sound just like me! to concerned for every body else! you did the right thing! on the employers side he needs the task fulfilled because he has to answer to some one else if it is'nt fulfilled. I under stand both sides. You need to care for your safety! he...

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i lie to make her happy. have u done this ever?

swesun08 @swesun08 (32) • India 3 Mar 07

we really hate those people who lie to us. but sometime we lie too make our partner happy. sometimes to give her surprises sometimes to make her smile. sometimes to to stop her from crying. sometimes to hide or cover up her...

relationships

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newbiehere Unfortunatly, all the lies in the world will not make your partner happy weather they're right or wrong. Happiness comes from within! if we are unhappy we need to justify it and rectift it. I understand that we some times try to make every thing better in a...

3 Mar 07

I hate my job!!!!

nattie171 @nattie171 (16) • United States 3 Feb 07

I work at Convergys in a town that is 45 minutes away (if the traffic is light.) I have to be there at 6:30 am, do not get off until 4:30 pm, have to drive home in rush hour traffic, then feed my 10 month old and put her to bed. I...

convergys

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newbiehere I worked night shift at Convergys 3-11pm. I hate slip seating but the night hours were great between 930 - 11 pm our systems were up grading. I could relax. The drive home was serene and kids in bed. If you hate your hours concider a change.

3 Mar 07

Child Abuse not to feed a child meat....?

babykay @babykay (2131) • Ireland 2 Mar 07

Recently I was at my family doctor and he checked my 9 month old son and said my son seemed healthy. As part of this, he asked me what I feed him and I gave him a typical day's menu, which includes breastmilk and some solids,...

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newbiehere This is crazy! first get a new pedi. If you suppliment your child with nuts and peanut butter, and a vegi diet the child will grow up just fine! My children ate vegitarian and nuts- peanutbutter, flax etc. They are extremely healthy. Do what you feel is...

3 Mar 07

Will it offend you?

charms88 @charms88 (7538) • Philippines 3 Mar 07

I recently posted a discussion about this ridiculous roller coaster story and was quite surprised by the number of responses it generated. In as much as I like to "add comment" to all those who responded, but I was somewhat at a...

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newbiehere Yes as I feel if you're going to take the effort to reply with your opinion you should have the descency to follow through. However some people like to put thier to cents in and not really follow through, the people that replie are the genuine hearts!

3 Mar 07

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relationship problems

xXmeganxX @xXmeganxX (4420) 3 Mar 07

hello people, ahh well where do i start? hmm, lol! well my partner has been so demanding lately, i must say he is an illegal immigrant in this country, as ive never told anyone this before, i lied to people saying he was nice last...

work permit

relationships

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newbiehere DO NOT GO TO HIS COUNTRY not knowing thier laws or womens rights! if its this bad now it will get worse! seek help now from your police agencies, social services, imigration.

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