nraisor

@nraisor (59)

United States • Age 39

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your children

strawberrybaby39 @strawberrybaby39 (2086) • United States 2 Jul 09

If your children mistreated you like fighting with you and swinging on you what would you do? In some states if you correct your child you will go to jail. My sisters daughters cuss at her and call her all kinds of names hit her...

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nraisor If my child did any of those things, I would stand back and watch the storm. My husband is very big on respect so that wouldn't fly for long. The 15 year old would probably regret the day she ever thought she was big enough to talk to an adult like that. If I...

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Do you lie to your friends?

VampireChick5 @VampireChick5 (114) • United States 1 Jul 09

I've lied to my friends before to spare their feelings but I usually don't lie to them because I'm a pretty honest person. I only lie if it will keep someone from getting hurt. Do you lie to your friends?

friends

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nraisor I don't lie to my friends about anything. From huge things to even the little things like whether they look good in a certain color or whatever. Its not that I am mean about it or anything, I show candor. But I would hate it if they did it to me.

2 Jul 09

was told fighting my daughter battle because i went and got her what you think ?

syankee525 @syankee525 (6261) • United States 30 Jun 09

the story is, my daughter went to the ocean with her cousin, both are 24. plans was made and broken. my daughter got upset since my neice broke her promise. but my neice left my daughter locked out the room for an hour and...

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nraisor Some people will never learn manners, common courtesy, or common sense for that matter. I would have gone and picked up my child. Regardless of fault, your child was in trouble and needed help, so you did what any good parent would do. Now don't get me wrong,...

30 Jun 09

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Are you agree with same gender relationship?

myx_03 @myx_03 (540) • Philippines 25 Jun 09

I just want to hear your opinion about this. But for me, I'm not agree. Because I know it's not good and it's also a sin. As you can see, there are so many gays and lesbians nowadays. So I want to hear your words. Happy...

same gender

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nraisor I too believe that relationships should consist of one man and one woman. But I also think who I am to judge how other people live their lives. My beliefs aren't the law. There are a lot of things in this world that I don't think should be done but I am not...

25 Jun 09

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Is this child abuse?

MysticTomatoes @MysticTomatoes (1053) • United States 23 Jun 09

My husband loves the website failblog.org. He found this video on Fail blog's YouTube channel. I watched it and thought it was funny. But some of the comments left under the video are berating the parents for filming their child...

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nraisor That's not child abuse, that's just life right there. I don't see how it is any different than America's Funniest Home Videos from back in the day. They showed stuff like that all the time and worse. No one ever accused them of child abuse. Too many people are...

23 Jun 09

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Can anyone explain??????

JRoberson @JRoberson (82) • United States 21 Jun 09

Me and my husband had comunication problems that we have worked through and it is 100% better now. I have noticed another issue, we both have difficluty expressing how we feel to each other. I noticed that I can express myself...

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nraisor I went through the same situation with my husband and for the longest time, the only way that I could do it, was to sit him down and just blurt it out as fast as I could before I got all flustered and nervous. Sometimes it would get a little confusing and he...

21 Jun 09

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what do you do when you feel so jealous and had ur hear broken??

mar25declaro @mar25declaro (8) • Philippines 21 Jun 09

Well, its obvious that im into that kind of situation right now!!! What about you guys, what do you do when u had ur heart broken?? Pls help me and give me some advices................

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nraisor I usually try to surround myself with people and things that make me feel better. I think at some point you have that day where you just want to be alone. Embrace it. Its part of the healing, but just remember that everything happens for a reason, even if you...

21 Jun 09

Do You Know Why We Have a Dent Right Under Our Nose?

saw2207 @saw2207 (1359) • United States 21 Jun 09

We have eyes to see with eyelashes to protect, a nose with hair inside to keep stuff from blocking it passages . . so why then is there a dent under most peoples noses? This dent is called the "Philtrum" and it runs from under...

dent above upper lip

dent under nose

philtrum

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nraisor I have never heard that before, that is a cute story, I'll have to tell my kids that. Though it makes me wonder what the actual purpose of the thing is.

21 Jun 09

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Transformers 2, Exciting?

fracsx @fracsx (34) • Philippines 20 Jun 09

Definitely yes. I can't wait to see Maegan Fox lol. It would be one of the box office movie of the year. Anyone is going to watch the premiere of this movie?

fox

transoformers

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nraisor I am so excited for this movie to come out. My whole family loves the first one and I plan on being there Friday night when it opens to see it. It looks amazing all around!

20 Jun 09

i feel lazy

saki13 @saki13 (95) • Philippines 20 Jun 09

lately i have been feeling that i am never happy with what i have been doing and it makes me feel very lazy. do you sometimes feel this?

lazy

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nraisor I go through stages like that. Its usually during those "times of turmoil" when it seems like everything that can go wrong is. Then I just wanna lay in bed all day watching my favorite shows and sleep. But as long as these feelings go away and they don't...

20 Jun 09

Do you accept cultural forbidding the discussion of Politics & Religion?

SteveSlaton @SteveSlaton (552) • United States 18 Jun 09

If you are truly free, then the answer should be "no." If your answer is "yes," what are you afraid of?

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nraisor I don't believe that any topic should be forbidden. Not only does it signify that we are not free but it also leaves no room for change. These two subjects are rarely discussed without the situation spiraling out of control for one reason and one reason only....

20 Jun 09

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After the lovers part,can they become good friends?

wzsj0501 @wzsj0501 (157) • China 20 Jun 09

I always think of this problem when I watch TV and movies.the actors in the movie who has part always keep in touch with each other.I baffle,can they be good friends in true life?what do you think?

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nraisor I think that a lot of it depends upon the situation. What kind of people they are, how mature they are, etc. Plus I think it depends on why the relationship ended. If it ended because of issues over faithfulness or issues with honesty, probably not. But a lot...

20 Jun 09

Whats your biggest achievement in life so far?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 20 Jun 09

What do you think is your biggest achievement in life. Is it you accomplished something great and marvelous for yourself or family. I think that getting a Postgraduate and then teaching have been my biggest achievement in life...

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nraisor My biggest achievement in life so far is having my kids. I know that sounds corny but going through pregnancy, labor, and then the day to day life of being a mother is a lot to take on. But its the most rewarding thing that I have ever done.

20 Jun 09

Whats your biggest enemy?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 20 Jun 09

Do you have any short comings, well every one has, and so do me. Whats your short coming or say biggest enemy. for me I get annoyed very easily, at the simplest tease or say get angry for little things! Whats yours biggest enemy?

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nraisor I think that I would have to say that procrastination is my biggest enemy. Once i motivated to do something there is no stopping me but actually getting the motivation is very difficult for me. I don't know why, I've been that way for as long as I can...

20 Jun 09

things that would make you happy

junngee @junngee (9) • Philippines 20 Jun 09

what are the things that would make you happy is it always money....or the fact that you are living a simple normal life would?

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nraisor Money doesn't make me happy, although having it makes me worry less. I am happiest when my children are happy and safe and my husband is happy and safe. Call me corny but there it is.

20 Jun 09

Which is your favorite 'Quote'?

Wismay @Wismay (2037) • India 20 Jun 09

Hi Friends!! There are many quotes from every field of life. Some quotes always linger on mind and inspire a lot. Some other quotes make us laugh out loud and make us feel lighter. There are many quotes that I like but here...

favorite quote

quote

quotes

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nraisor I have to favorite quotes actually. The first is by Benjamin Franklin, he said "Those who would trade freedom for security deserve neither", and the other one I have no idea who said it, but it goes " To smile your way through cloudy days is much the wisest...

20 Jun 09

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Should my 18 yr old keep her baby?

marlena18042 @marlena18042 (636) • United States 20 Jun 09

I have an 18 yr old daughter who jus found out sher is pregnant.The father of the baby wants her to get an abortion,my mother and step father want her to get an abortion and I am theonly one against it.I want her to have this baby...

pregnancy

teen pregnancy

teenager

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nraisor I think that you should talk to your daughter about all of her options. Abortion or keeping the baby aren't the only options. If you are that against abortion, explain to your daughter why you are. Then let her know that even if she is not ready to be a...

20 Jun 09

Do you like playing online games?

ryaeneolver @ryaeneolver (87) • Philippines 20 Jun 09

I wonder what are the best online games now. Actually I hate online games before until i met my husband, he influenced me in playing online games, he loves it so much. The first online game i played was flyff, I really love this...

online games

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nraisor I play all kinds of online games. I started with little ones like Zuma and Text Twist. But then my husband got me hooked on MMORPG's. It started with World of Warcraft. Which I use to think was the dumbest game ever but my husband talked me into playing saying...

20 Jun 09

Obama Swats A Fly

CraftyCorner @CraftyCorner (5600) • United States 20 Jun 09

When President Obama swatted a housefly on National TV, he created a minor sensation. * I can't find much empathy for that housefly swatted by our Commander n' Chief! House flies, or blow flies as they are commonly known, are...

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nraisor I don't really understand the big deal, its a fly. I think that PETA is making way to big of a deal about it. For all the positive things that they do to protect animals, I think there might be, just a slim chance, that they are making a big deal out of...

20 Jun 09

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