nut_nut

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My friend passed away yesterday

Katlady2 @Katlady2 (9904) • United States 6 Mar 09

I just wanted to thank everyone that replied to my post about my dear friend that had lung cancer. I'm sorry I haven't replied to you all. But it's been a really tough week so I haven't been all that "with it" lately. My friend,...

lung cancer

passing of a friend

rest in peace

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nut_nut i lost my auntie in november to cancer. in her heart and lungs from asbestos she lasted less then a year. although my mum just stopped taking her cancer meds after 5 years she has the all clear. which is partly a reason im running race for life in july to...

8 Mar 09

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do you have good friends more than 5 years?

cindyhxf @cindyhxf (1446) • China 26 Feb 09

i had some good friends when i was student.we really had fun together at that time.But after graduating,most of them are seem busy we seldome kept contact each other.sometime i wanted to call,i missed our friendship ,but i didn't...

friendship

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nut_nut i have friends i was at lil school with since i was 5 lol 16 years later we stil friends. in fact im doing rce for life with one to raise money for ppl with cancer. we go to the gay prides etc lol best friend also known years.

8 Mar 09

Have you ever had an unwanted admirer?

jesssp @jesssp (2712) • Canada 26 Feb 09

Have you ever been the object of someone's affection when you really didn't want to be? Have you ever had to deal with a secret or not secret admirer? I have one at work (of the not secret variety) and while I think I dealt...

admirer

affection

secret admirer

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nut_nut oh yeah plenty lol its pretty exhausting. i have one right now but hes not getting tht hes the wrong ssex lol. hoping he will move on soon as i have no desire in hurting his feelings

8 Mar 09

Do you kiss with your eyes closed ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 27 Feb 09

I am no expert on this subject but isn’t that how do you know that the person is really “feeling” the kiss. Then again you might want to keep your eyes open when you are kissing some of these women as you might be scared when you...

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nut_nut ya know, i think it depends on the situation. i mean if its a lovey dovey kiss then closed eyes is the one but sometimes in the bedroom when things are really steamy iv had my eyes open...eyes are the windows to the soul after all :) lol alot is said in the...

8 Mar 09

is it always best to be honest?

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 27 Feb 09

ok i always thought that it was best to be honest with your other no matter what it was but someone brought it up today that it might not always be best to be honest with the other, because he said that his girlfriend was getting...

always

best

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nut_nut some people wnt the truth but cant handle it really. either way its the only thing you will get from me :) which is why my relationship with my best friend is so amazing...we can say anythin and not get offended :) just respect the opinion. i love that about...

8 Mar 09

Whats the nicest thing anyone has ever done fo you?

smurfuk76 @smurfuk76 (360) 27 Feb 09

I have been with my GF for just over 6months. Things are going well (i think - but then i am a man so i could be totally wrong lol ). Today i received a card through the post, nothing flash just a white card with a black outline...

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nut_nut so true, the things you are not expecting effect you the most. mean more than any you expect :) the nicest thing anybody ever did for me.......loved me....not a lover but my best friend :) she arranged my whole birthday the day i planned to go home lol got us...

8 Mar 09

Just friends!! Do you feel so?

Daffodil20 @Daffodil20 (1754) • India 1 Mar 09

Do you feel a good friend of opposite gender can remain so lifelong? Just plain true friends? Do you have one? Since how long? What is your friend's ratio? More girls or boys?

friends

just plain true friends

lifelong

opposite gender

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nut_nut sure i can lol im lez. my best friend is a woman and we have an amazing connection. thas all tho. i have as many guy friends as girls i think but alot of gay or bi friends to lol. i think most people have but ppl dont talk about that unless u say actually im...

8 Mar 09

Are you negative enough to ruin yourself? you can be positive then

Archie0 @Archie0 (5652) 1 Mar 09

Well people who think they are loosers and can do nothing in life, one who are just negative thinkers and think they are the only one who are on this earth with a bad luck but let me tell you friends you are the best among anyone...

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nut_nut i love u lol. i love life i love me...lol im soooo positive, i do great things...like race for life for cancer is current so im training hard for this... http://www.raceforlifesponsorme.org/angebayliss feel free to do somethin else good :p i dont like to be...

8 Mar 09

how would you if your partner is cheating on you

eabaterina @eabaterina (501) • Philippines 2 Mar 09

my friend broke up with her boyfriend of three years because she found out that the guy is seeing another girl for about a year already. she never noticed the guy was cheating on her. so how would you know if your partner is...

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nut_nut people act subconciously different.

8 Mar 09

Have you ever taken in someone you've history with?

xParanoiax @xParanoiax (6987) • United States 3 Mar 09

That is...given them a place to stay until they find their feet? Especially when you've had INTENSE past history with them. That's pretty much what I've done. My ex. The boy I had one of the most significant relationships of my...

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nut_nut i havnt personally but i probably would although not sure how long it would last. although my best friend took in her ex girlfriend a while back now. but you can just tell theres the spark there :) best friend obviously tells me all and she still feels stuff...

8 Mar 09

What if you find your spouse found you are no longer attractive to him/her...

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15394) • United States 3 Mar 09

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nut_nut plain and simple...move on. dont waste precious life trying to make somethin work that just wont. life is way to short your not even gauranteed 2moro in fact. make the most of it. be hppy

8 Mar 09

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dance with another guy...

manya_pearl @manya_pearl (1901) • Singapore 3 Mar 09

Last night i joined the party from a friend of mine. It was her birthday and she really wanted me to go there, and i said ok, let see. But i dont have gown at that time so i dont think i could come. Hmm... i asked her again, does...

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nut_nut dancing is a very social thing i loveeeee dancing with everybody lol even if i hav to be taught a certain dance, all part of the fun. completely natural to feel good :)) heres to many dancing experiences to you *raises a sunday afternoon glass of wine*...

8 Mar 09

Can you accept your husband look n a k e d girls on the internet?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15394) • United States 3 Mar 09

Can you accept it? Do you think it is right? Why do they want to look, they have their wife!?? I don't understand it. What do you feel about that? Please give me your views all wives and husbands, thank you very much!

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nut_nut id like it less if it was without me lol with me it might be quite hot :p

8 Mar 09

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How would you react, if ur best friend is having a relationship with your bf/gf?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 4 Mar 09

Maybe if it will happen to me, it wont be very easy to accept the situation, especially they are both special people in my life. The first question that will be in my mind is how could they do this to me, after believing them...

bestfriend

boyfriend

girlfriend

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nut_nut wow thas a biggy. im so close to my best friend if that ever happened it would be desroying. not sure if id be her friend after that or not. i mean its a tough one.

8 Mar 09

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Would you do this for ur love??

keep_onwatch @keep_onwatch (2680) • India 4 Mar 09

Hi to all, I have been thinking about this for quiet some time, and wanted to know the opinion of you guys. I recently met my old friend, who was very close to me. I asked her how she was doing (though I was shocked to see her...

life

love

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nut_nut i think that he should find the person who hes trying to make her into. compromising is absolutely fine and sometimes needed but to change an entire part of you like that. no i wouldnt. im willing to chance bits that aint so great bout me but not the bits i...

8 Mar 09

Love is blind

nilouette @nilouette (632) • Philippines 4 Mar 09

What do you think of blind couples?

blin couples

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nut_nut as in blinded by love couples or actual blind couples? lol either r great :) whatever makes u happy

8 Mar 09

When is a relationship considered a long term relationship?

lologirl2021 (Holly) @lologirl2021 (5542) • United States 4 Mar 09

I never really thought about this, i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half so do you consider that to be a long term relationship? Or a relationship maybe 5 or 10 years into the relationship? I was wondering as i have...

relationship

years

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nut_nut i think its the definition between seeing somebody occasionally not to into them to seeing somebody all the time being really into them perhaps...havin plans for life together however small lol. ok im just guessing now hahaha

8 Mar 09

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How to keep a good friendship?

hj8128559 @hj8128559 (20) • China 4 Mar 09

After I graduated from my college,I often feel lonely.Since now I have only several good friends,I remember I can have many good friends who can share with me everything. But maybe I don't know how to keep this relation,most of...

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nut_nut lol some u win some u lose :) its the friends you connect with that matter. dont try and keep ties with ppl that you cant connect with. friends are important of course but dont hold onto ppl because of that saying, it goes without saying if a friend is that...

8 Mar 09

what can make me feel better after end a relationship?

lynngirl1 @lynngirl1 (4) • China 5 Mar 09

i just broke up with my boyfriend which is the last thing i want to do in my life. but i have to do that because we are 10000km away from each other and cannot see each other for a few years. actually during our one year...

relationship

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nut_nut same happened to me. it was an experience il never forget was amazing. i still talk and cam with her, neither of us really moved on lol. do whatever is going to make u happy not destroy you. its hard i kno. put yr mind into other things. like im running race...

8 Mar 09