oyomesan

@oyomesan (115)

Netherlands • Age 38

Joined myLot 12 years ago

Live, Love & Appreciate Life

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Is TV a stress reliever or stress giver?

aubrey @averygirl72 (37845) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

I guess having TV can be both stress giver and stress reliever but which of the 2 is more pronounce? Lately I have skip watching news at night. Though it is good to know the happenings throughout the day, the news are simply...

peaceful life

stress

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oyomesan For me, tv can be a stress reliever, but of course there should be something good on. The news is indeed one thing that can give stress, but there are shows on tv that are enjoyable and make you able to relax a bit.

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Do you find yourself watching TV programs as much as you used to 10years ago?

blimb @grkelly (1206) • Malta 16 Sep 12

Watching TV was the way I used to rest with mainly. I used to watch several different programmes. But I have not retained this habit that much, and I was just thinking that lately I do not get to spend as much time watching TV...

tv programmes

tv vs internet

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oyomesan I watch very little tv anymore, I watch two soaps and that's just about it. The quality of tv shows were, in my opinion, a lot better ten years ago. This especially goes for the cartoons. I may watch a series now and then, but I definitely don't watch as...

16 Sep 12

Getting rid of big tummy

ranilo70 @ranilo70 (177) 15 Sep 12

I am in search as to how to get rid of big tummy. My friend asked me as to how? I have few advises but wanted to know more. Hope you can share me how.

tummy

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oyomesan Getting rid of the fat on the tummy may just be the hardest thing to do, but of course it's possible. It will require a good diet and regular exercises, though. Your diet will need to be healthy, no additives in your food, lean meat is good and if you eat...

16 Sep 12

Where to find love

Cupesoges001 @Cupesoges001 (25) 11 Sep 12

Love is something that we need as human being. No one denies it.However it cannot be reached for me the one who has a lot of shortage, physically and finance. Help me where to go !

love

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oyomesan Love will come for you, eventually. Love can not be forced, you will have to be patient. :) Also, the good thing is, love can be found anywhere! Even in the local supermarket or from the comfort of your own home (going online, meeting people). I hope you will...

16 Sep 12

long distance

joan_laganzon @joan_laganzon (73) 12 Sep 12

since 2006 my boyfriend then now my husband, has been separated by distance for about 6 years now, we had our shares of up's and down's we split up twice but we always managed to find our way back, just early this year we finally...

long distance

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oyomesan I can imagine how hard it is for you to be separated for a long time from the person you love. I met my boyfriend online, and since he lived in a different country, we started out with a long distance relationship. It was hard, and the times of him going back...

16 Sep 12

Anyone doing online dating? I met my husband on Match.com

kemak28 @kemak28 (724) • United States 13 Sep 12

I still can't believe I met my husband on Match.com but it actually worked. I guess it's more popular now these days and a lot of people are doing it. I dated online for about a year and a half and then I met him. Overall dating...

husband

online dating

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oyomesan I believe online dating can work just fine. The Internet is just another platform where people can meet. It's easy and accessible, convenient, even. It's nice to hear you met your husband online, it's nice to hear a positive story about finding love with the...

16 Sep 12

Not meant to be together!

Toni @toniganzon (72554) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

Some people are meant to fall in love but not meant to be together. It's really sad but it's true. When I was young, I was very idealistic. I believed that there was no reason why people who are in love with each...

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oyomesan There are indeed many factors to consider in a relationship. A relationship can not exist of just love alone. There have to be other connections. But if you both really love each other and you both believe the two of you are meant to be together, I think it's...

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Do we really move on from something/someone completely?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 14 Sep 12

Just another discussion brought about by my own experience, or feelings. I know and i feel that we can move on from something or someone... but to say that we have completely moved on is another thing. Like, a perfect example is...

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oyomesan I think, when you really go for someone/something, you give it your everything. Your heart, your soul, your mind, your emotions, your thoughts... with this in mind, I think it's unlikely to be able to move on from someone or something. Because if you could...

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You Trust Testimonials!!!

swats89 @swats89 (1729) • India 16 Sep 12

Hi. Whenever we visit ptc, gpt or any other money making site, we see testimonials where people say they paid me sort of stuff. So do u believe in those kind of testimonials and join the site? I think testimonials might be fake....

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oyomesan I believe 100% these testimonials are fake, if they are on the website of the ptc/gpt/whatever site. For this reason, I visit many other websites to try and get the best and most honest opinions possible about a website, so I can make up my mind about it.

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Forgiving easily... are you the type?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 15 Sep 12

I am not sure about you, or others... but with me, this is the case. when people do something that offended me, or has hurt my feelings, if they show me or has said sorry to me, i can easily forget the thing/s they did almost...

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oyomesan I think it's very generous if you forgive easily. I suppose I do too, but maybe it's just that I shrug it off and move on. People have hurt me in the past by lying or betraying me, and I just forgot about it and moved on. Usually they didn't even say sorry to...

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" i love you"

mangtony7451 @mangtony7451 (479) 15 Sep 12

When was the last time you say "I LOVE YOU" to your spouse,parents,child or whoever? Does this word/phrase become too old fashioned or obsolete that it need not to be uttered anymore? What do you think?

love

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oyomesan I say it to my boyfriend every single day, not a day goes by we don't say this to each other. We also often say it several times. It never loses its gravity, its meaning. It's very special, and so simple.

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Yard sales are getting popular here in our area.

Resy King @resy21curapika (2131) • Pasay, Philippines 16 Sep 12

In our neighborhood, one of my good neighbors launched a great event in their community where you can sell some of your old stuff. That's somewhat a fair and I called it; "yard sale fair" LOL. The next day; everyone on their own...

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oyomesan That sounds like so much fun, a neighborhood full of yard sales! I'd certainly like that in my neighborhood. :) Sadly, I don't see that too often. There are flee markets and the like where I live, and sometimes randomly people sit outside and sell stuff,...

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My friend borrows money from me and never returns.

rubyroy @rubyroy (824) • India 16 Sep 12

How much ever I point out to my friend,that spending money beyond your limit is a bad habit,he doesn't stop this habit.One day to prove that this is an annoying habit, I borrowed some money from him and never returned it,to make...

extravagant

spend

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oyomesan I had a friend borrowing money from me before, but I trusted her enough that she would pay me back, and she did. As for your friend, I think he's using you for your money, it's no good. He can't borrow money from you unless you give it to him, though, so why...

16 Sep 12

money is very important in the life

zeonstar @zeonstar (54) • India 11 Sep 12

for every one money is very important in the life . many people earn the money from the wrong way, they want to make more and more in their life . for this they adopt the bad wrong way , their child go away from them, so i want to...

zeonstar

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oyomesan Money is necessary in life, therefore it is important. It is too bad money can make people make bad decisions, do bad things. Money is powerful, and we rely on it. Although money can not buy happiness, it is, in a way, essential to our happiness.

11 Sep 12

Do you respond to questions which you dont know the answer too?

Downwindz @Downwindz (2537) • Netherlands 22 Sep 10

Hello my fellow MyLotters... I was thinking do you respond to questions which you dont know the answer too? Do you respond anyway because you want to participate in the discussion and be more active or just to put your five...

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oyomesan I don't respond to questions which I do not have the answer to, simply because I have nothing to say. I feel it would be a waste of time and not make a good contribution to the site/community to just try and say anything for the sake of participating or...

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Do you use public transportation?

favouredmost @favouredmost (256) • Kenya 10 Sep 12

Where I live most average earners use public transportation to work either the bus, train or motorcycle taxis.I use the bus as it is cleaner and less crowded and more convenient. With public transportation comes the challenges of...

car

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oyomesan I live in a pretty small town, with most things that are needed (bakery, supermarket, shops, etc). Everything is bike-able (5 - 10 minutes). So, if anything, I use the bike the most. But I have no car, so for traveling to a different town or city, I use buses,...

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What was your favourite toy when you were a child?

41Combedale @41CombedaleRoad (5955) • Greece 4 Sep 12

I was not a little girl who liked to play with dolls. My favourite toys were stuffed animals, especially my second hand teddy bear. When I went to bed I put them down each side of me and fell asleep between them. I was very...

dolls

teddy bears

toys

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oyomesan My favorite toys were stuffed animals and plastic figurines of dogs. I really liked dogs when I was a kid, and I loved collecting the plastic figurines of "Puppy in My Pocket", and my friend collected them too, so we often played together with them. I've had...

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The dentists' waiting room and other scarey places

41Combedale @41CombedaleRoad (5955) • Greece 10 Sep 12

When you are in a wating room situation, an example might be the dentist's, what do you do while you are waiting, to take your mind off the impending pain? This question is based on the principle that you can only think of one...

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oyomesan I am very happy with my dentist - he is very capable, professional, friendly and understanding. I've been nervous before, but there is really no need to be. Whenever I needed treatment, it went smoothly. Of course it also helps that I'm not really afraid of...

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What can you say about burgers in an advertisement and burgers which they sell?

nhieleiko @nhieleiko (109) • Philippines 10 Sep 12

Many burger stores when they advertise their food, they put excess stuffs, but when we order it, it does not look like the exact burger that they had advertised, do you think that it is worth buying for?

eat food burger advertisement

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oyomesan For most photos of food, they don't use real food. Due to the circumstances necessary in order to take a professional photograph (lighting, angle, time, etc) this would not be ideal to use real food products for. That's why photos of food look so perfect -...

10 Sep 12