@pmccarthy1 on myLot

staria @staria (2780) • Philippines 14 Feb 11

Why does it seem to be easier to give out advices? But let's face the fact that when we are in the same situation or when we have problems, we find it hard to apply those advices that we give to other people. True?

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pmccarthy1 Easier said than done, I believe the saying goes. Very true, when looking in from the outside it's always easier to tell someone how to handle a situation because we don't have to do it.

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staria @staria (2780) • Philippines 17 Feb 11

I used to think sometimes that my life is miserable. Everyday, you have to think about the bills, the rent, buying milk and diapers for the baby and how to earn extra money. But sometimes when I watch the TV and see other...

life

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pmccarthy1 Everyday I worry about how we're going to pay the bills. I worry if my husband will ever find another job that he can physically do. I worry how long my husband will be able to walk. I worry that because my financial situation is so foul that I'm passing this...

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pmccarthy1 @pmccarthy1 (32) • United States 20 Feb 11

I have a few different post on here and on a few other websites. I post things about my kids, my ridiculus headaches I've had for 10 days now, my job, my husband, Jersey Shore and my phone. Some topics get good response and others...

life

thinker

tv

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pmccarthy1 Thank you for your suggestion. I'm not shy, but I don't like confrontation or to upset anyone. In forums it's easy to misinterpret as you don't get the tone and inflection of the other person. So many things get lost in translation and I never want to offend...

20 Feb 11

pmccarthy1 @pmccarthy1 (32) • United States 20 Feb 11

I have a few different post on here and on a few other websites. I post things about my kids, my ridiculus headaches I've had for 10 days now, my job, my husband, Jersey Shore and my phone. Some topics get good response and others...

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pmccarthy1 @pmccarthy1 (32) • United States 17 Feb 11

I just signed up on MyLot but of course one of my goals is earnings. I was wondering if anyone would be willing to give me any info on potential earnings. I have responded to posts and started discussions and thus far have earned...

earnings potential

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pmccarthy1 I'd be lying if I said I wasn't looking to make some kind of money. I can say I have done that...I'm now up to 30 cents in my little account and I'm crazy excited about it. I think my husband thinks I'm crazy but I've never made anything online. Looking...

20 Feb 11

pmccarthy1 @pmccarthy1 (32) • United States 18 Feb 11

Some people say it's alright to lie to avoid an argument. As long as it's not harmful they say it just keeps the peace. My opinion: I feel this is detrimental to the overall trust in the relationship. You can never hide a lie,...

honesty

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pmccarthy1 I believe if you don't tell everything it's still ultimately a lie, but that's just my opinion based on my own experience. When you choose to share your life with someone then your partner has the right to absolutely everything as everything directly effects...

20 Feb 11

lizardgod @lizardgod (443) • United States 18 Feb 11

So I was at this nice eatery last night and our meal was almost seventy bucks for just me and my girlfriend. She is a server herself at another place so we tend to tip our waitresses a little high but we ended up leaving her...

foode

money

tips

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pmccarthy1 I used to be a server and I believe you have to work for your money. If the service is poor and my experience is foul because of it, the tip will reflect that. However, regardless of what service I get or how bad it is, there is no way I would leave nothing....

18 Feb 11

dreamsharmin @dreamsharmin (2281) • China 18 Feb 11

I am a medical student and my father afford my all cost. But i want to afford some of my cost. I want to earn some money.I couldn't find any good part time job. That's why i want to work online and want to earn $400 a month. Now i...

afford

cost

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pmccarthy1 I would love to earn more than $400 a month online. I have some info on my blog that I'm working right now. Let me know if you're interested.

18 Feb 11

ricextreme @ricextreme (964) • Ecuador 18 Feb 11

Hello everyone... I want to talk something that happens here in the forum. It's sad that some users don't read the "discussion details" where the creator of the discussion describes the topic that the discussion is...

discussions

mylot

people

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pmccarthy1 I am very new to this, but have been reading the entire discussion. My topics don't give much insight to the full discussion. I guess this could be why I'm not getting a lot of responses.

18 Feb 11

mark98 @mark98 (567) • China 17 Feb 11

Its in some rare cases that a person has changed so what they have done in the past they are doing now. I judge them based on that. Sometimes the things done in the past were habits that just eat a person in the present whispering...

judge

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pmccarthy1 I try not to judge people but I am human and do it anyway. I am a first impression kind of person which is the worst way to be. I tend to try to make the best impression possible when I first meet someone for that purpose. I tend to make a judgement based on a...

18 Feb 11

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15394) • United States 18 Feb 11

I have never done parallel parking since I have got my driving license... Parallel parking is one of the requirement in the driving test. That was easy because it gives you plenty of space to park in the...

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pmccarthy1 Fortunately for me I didn't have to parallel park for my drivers' test. I've tried and tried and I just can't do it. After going forward and backward 12 times I'm still a mile from the curb and have an audience. If there isn't a spot I can slide right into...

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kindas @kindas (44) • China 18 Feb 11

People always say that if you want to do good things you should never do it for your own benefit. I always try to be good (i.e. Helping other people, doing favors, giving up my seat, etc.), just because i feel the need to be good...

benifit own being good

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pmccarthy1 Whether you do things for appearances, because it makes you feel good, because it's the right thing to do doesn't matter. You helped someone and made their day a little better.

18 Feb 11

mobhomeir @mobhomeir (7558) • Philippines 17 Feb 11

Hello guys I am proud to tell everyone that my mama-in-law is a generous one BUTTTTT!!!!!!!When a(little)family trouble comes,even just a little family arguments all what were my mother-in-law given were all taken back by...

arguments

troubles

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pmccarthy1 You say mother-in-law and everyone has a story! Depending on the things I'd be losing I would choose my battles. Of course, like you said, just not taking anything would definitely take away her ammunition. I guess we are all pretty much on the same...

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pmccarthy1 @pmccarthy1 (32) • United States 18 Feb 11

Some people say it's alright to lie to avoid an argument. As long as it's not harmful they say it just keeps the peace. My opinion: I feel this is detrimental to the overall trust in the relationship. You can never hide a lie,...

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LadyMarissa @LadyMarissa (12148) • United States 17 Feb 11

http://justjared.buzznet.com/2009/09/21/suri-cruise-high-heels Tom Cruise & Katie Holmes are allowing their little 3 year old daughter, Suri, to wear heels. Doctors are saying that for a child that young, this will be REALLY...

is 30 years old too young

is it child abuse

suri cruise

suri cruise wearing heels

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pmccarthy1 I wouldn't say it's child abuse, but definitely not the smartest thing a parent can do. My daughter is 6 and she has been begging for a pair of heels for 2 years. She said the other girls at school are wearing these shoes and she's the ONLY one that doesn't...

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dollar3235 @dollar3235 (2062) • India 18 Feb 11

For me, it seems to be the toughest thing to do in your life because, if you get a "No" from someone whom you love so much, it can really screw the happiness. My question here is, what are the do's and dont's while proposing...

life

love

proposal

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pmccarthy1 A proposal is not usually something you should do until you and your partner have had the discussion about life and marriage. There are no factors really. Just that you are both on the same page in your goals for your life. If you're afraid of getting a no...

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pmccarthy1 @pmccarthy1 (32) • United States 17 Feb 11

I work with a woman who seems to have no compassion at all. She is my supervisor which makes everything harder. She is the person in the office that seems to enjoy other's pain. She will say nasty, hurtful,reputation damaging...

unbelievable working environment

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pmccarthy1 I've wondered the same thing. What does this woman have on them that they aren't willing to do anything? I sometimes think they just don't want to go through replacing her and training someone new. Laziness on the part of the office manager.

18 Feb 11

staria @staria (2780) • Philippines 17 Feb 11

Have you experienced calling another customer and asked her for assistance? So how do you deal with it? :) I sometimes do, due to the reasons that sometimes their clothes match the store assistant's uniform, or because they...

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pmccarthy1 LOL! I have done that so many times. The worst part is it has happened to me more than I've done it. I just laugh. Most times I can't stop laughing because of how ridiculus I feel either way. One time I asked someone for help that didn't work there and we both...

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pmccarthy1 @pmccarthy1 (32) • United States 17 Feb 11

Am I the only person that noticed that once we elected our first black president the US is divided into two catagories... not Democrat or Republican but supporter or racist? Am I the only one disturbed by the fact that our...

political

VisonTech @VisonTech (258) • United States 17 Feb 11

So I spent the whole morning yesterday wondering how to make some quick money and then at the end of the day I was informed on how much my tax return would be. So now I'm happy and having a pleasant day. I hope everyone is...

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pmccarthy1 I have received my refund already. I was quite happy with what I got back. I would have much rather had that money all year, but because I didn't make much money last year I got the big refund. I filed my taxes and was soo happy to get them, but then found...

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