pomwango

@pomwango (1353)

Kenya • Age 51

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Do you believe in bad omen/signs?

ayeeesha @ayeeesha (1127) • Philippines 22 Apr 13

My husband and I decided to take some time off and watch a movie, to which I made some reservations. Prior to leaving, my husband decided to take a quick jog around the village. My daughter does not normally cry when my husband...

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signs

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pomwango i think there are things that i can count as a sign of something bad,there is a way cats cry that always ends up with bad news,i believe this because there was a time the cats cried at night so badly only for us to hear my aunt had died, i dont like hearing...

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Why Don't they Divorce?

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 22 Apr 13

I have some friends who over the years, have often wished that they could have divorced their husbands but for many reasons were too scared or afraid to do so. You probably know people like this too. I wished that my parents...

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pomwango i have a friend in an abusive marriage ,the husband actually beats her up, even in public.he is cruel to her and will even embarrass her where there are people or his children,she seems unable to leave him because they have six children and she has no proper...

23 Apr 13

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Life of a single mom!

Firefly @cttolledo (5454) • Legaspi, Philippines 22 Apr 13

Hi mylotters! How many of you here are single mother!? How do you cope up everyday in terms of financial and parenhood with your kid? I come up with this discussion because I had dinner with my friend who is a single mom.. I...

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pomwango i think its a hard job and i respect many single moms,they must make all the choices about their home with no one to assist or consult,you are playing two roles of dad and mum and also the society wonders alot about you ,i think this mums have alot on their...

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Can i get married before my brother's marriage?

Ashokraj @Ashokraj (107) • India 22 Apr 13

I have two brothers. They both didn't get married still now. But i want to marry. Can i get married before my brother?

marriage

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pomwango in the traditional world we are expected to marry or get married in order of birth but with nowadays changing world i think such practises are not easy.we are exposed differently maybe according to work, your social time and such and you cant wait for your...

23 Apr 13

Your wedding ring

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 22 Apr 13

At night time before going to bed do you keep your wedding ring on or do you take it off? Do you keep your ring off all of the time? Why or why not? I personally keep mine on all of the time including my other rings that I...

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pomwango i keep my ringer on permanently and only remove when using harsh chemicals like bleaches and some strong hair oils as advised by the jeweller,i also remove when am kneading a dough,otherwise its always on my finger and when its not i feel my fingers are naked...

23 Apr 13

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How to know your man (or woman) is cheating.

MissPiggy @MissPiggy (1748) • Indonesia 22 Apr 13

I just read it somewhere, that if you want to know whether or not your man is cheating, grab his phone and run to the bathroom (or maybe anywhere else where you can lock the door). If he's running after you and trying to kick the...

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pomwango i agree if your partner is upto no good their phone will be off limits and that would show you.but i think it also good to not do so much to prove our partner is unfaithful but work more on trust to avoid mistrust.

23 Apr 13

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It's really hard to make friends with different gender once you are taken

Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 23 Apr 13

Hi all. recently,i feel very upset,from my experience,it's not that easy to make friends with different gender once you have boyfriend or married. it seems the man approaching you just want to have relationship with you. when i...

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pomwango i don't think they mean bad, its just that there are things they cant tell or talk to you about out of respect for your status and also maybe some had hopes of being more than friends to you and now their hopes are over.if the sincere ones they will keep being...

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Should we leave them alone?.

Always smiling @allknowing (136087) • India 15 Apr 13

If I am upset, I prefer to be alone with my thoughts. But society thinks differently. Take for example if there is a death in the family that get together after the funeral rites is to my mind not called for. These days it is...

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sadness

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pomwango i think it depends on what we are going through,you need people around you especially in tough times like death,there are people who wont even eat and i think if you are made to eat with such a crowd then it really makes it easier on you, plus you get alot of...

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What do you think about politician now a days

anujkumarkumar1 @anujkumarkumar1 (721) 15 Apr 13

Hello friends, Happy My Lotting to all of You, If we talk about politicians now a days then Only one thing comes to my mind and that is that politicians are businessmen and they do not have any interest to do some special for...

what about politicains

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pomwango i totally share your view of politicians.they promise you heaven during the campaigns and then when they get the post you never see or hear from them and if anything they are now avoiding you.i think politics is just a way for them to get rich,get kick backs...

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Starting over again

cvodrey @cvodrey (225) • United States 15 Apr 13

So, yeah...it's a sad day for me. Hubby and I have had issues for years, but all that came to a head yesterday with me laying on the ground and him screaming that he'd kill me if I took his kids -my kids too, btw. Nuts. I had a...

domestic abuse

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pomwango sorry about your situation but there is a point i life we must make a hard tough decision and move on.its bad for kids to see you people fighting and with such threats you never know when he will act on them so to avoid regrets its best to move on and have the...

16 Apr 13

soap opera teaches people to be unrealistically romantic and dramatic

zaga_cleuth @zaga_cleuth (1407) • Philippines 15 Apr 13

Sorry to those who are fanatics of soap operas. We used to see dramas and romance on television. Its like the everyday part of some people's routine. Though many of those fanatics will say, I learn this and that while watching...

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pomwango i know watching soaps is a fantasy world but i also believe they teach us about relationships and also help make us more romantic.its only bad when we decide your ideal lady or man should look that good,thats what i agree creates bad illusions otherwise i love...

15 Apr 13

The moment that you realized the worth of your EX to your life,

Jandie @tech40 (23121) • Philippines 8 Apr 13

Hi guys, I have an ex girlfriend and it's almost 2years ago that we have break up, actually, it's almost 2 years but still I love her, We have both new relationship, she has boyfriend and i have girlfriend, but still sometimes...

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pomwango of course what you dont have anymore looks more valuable but at times after a break up we realise how good the person we had was because maybe our new relations are not working out well.take time to be sure its her as a person you need or she is just better...

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What if FACEBOOK suddenly shutdown?

febrose @febrose (103) 5 Apr 13

possible right? Well just thinking about it makes me sad, disappointed and angry actually its not a first for me to have an account that shutdown, deleting all of the POST, ALBUM PICS, VIDEOS, collections GAME levels and...

facebook

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pomwango if facebook shut down many people would go insane,its wher people vent all they have inside plus catch up.i would miss it greatly since it has made catching up with friends locally and abroad so much easier.

5 Apr 13

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How french stay slim

Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5646) • Philippines 4 Apr 13

Let's admit it, we get jealous of those french women who no matter how they are always surrounded by fatty foods, they still manage to stay slim. How did they do it? Here's the article I just read. It's one of ones that come out...

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pomwango its a very nice article but not as easy to follow from what weight watchers will tell you,but if we can practise just afew of those then we can get somewhere.

5 Apr 13

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Do you have face the problem of water in your area or city?

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 5 Apr 13

My sister is residing in Khamgaon near Shegaon, Maharashtra. She was telling me now water problem is started in her area and the tap came only once in 15 days and all family members are busy to fill the water in big tank, bucket,...

water problem

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pomwango i hate this issue of not having running water,its s hard to wash dishes and flushing toilets.there was a time when we didnt get rains for a while so there was water rationing and it would be closed for about two days and after two days they close it.we...

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Breaking up.... go you always tell the truth?

dagami @dagami (1158) • Rome, Italy 4 Apr 13

Many have us have experienced having to break up a relationship. What reasons did you give your ex? Did you sugar coat your words to lessen the pain you know you're bound to inflict? What were the reasons you gave?

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pomwango i think its good to break up with the truth otherwise your partner may never realise their short comings,its better to just lay out the bare truth,if you are leaving someone and you lie on the reason he may think he has room to make up and you want out say the...

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What does it mean to be a good son/daughter to aging parents?

valentinesdiner @valentinesdiner (1214) • United States 4 Apr 13

Different people and especially different cultures have different ways of what is expected in caring for aging parents. I have such deep respect for people who have their parents move in and care for them in their own homes, but...

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pomwango caring for aging parents is the right thing to do,this means making sure they are comfortable and safe and happy.there is alot we can do for them by getting someone to help them in their house chores,buying them groceries and medicine and ensuring to visit and...

5 Apr 13