popocan

@popocan (222)

Hong Kong • Age 50

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Bad things make you stronger...

Marie2473 @Marie2473 (8512) • Sweden 7 May 08

That is a saying that I have always belived and put faith in. I belive that when you go through tough times and get out of them you come out a stronger person - atleast I do. Last late summer I thought more or less that life was...

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popocan Definitely! It's part of a growing up lesson. I had those bad times too - everything went wrong and felt helpless, anyways, I treasure what I have now. Yes, life is great and let's be happy :)

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What kind of laugh to you have?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 7 May 08

have you ever noticed there are really so many kinds of laughs that it is hard to list them all. we all know the adults that giggle like a baby, we have heard some laughter when people laugh so hard that they chortle like a...

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popocan Mine is just ordinary. I think it's pretty much the same as yours, but sometimes I would also bend my knees and hold my belly if I find things extremely funny. I've heard an unusual laugh in our local telly from time to time, it's a female TV star who laugh...

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My boyfriend confess he still loves another girl, i'm really in love

uhave2knowme @uhave2knowme (4) • Panama 7 May 08

Could any one advise me what can i do?, my boyfriend confessed me the other day that he still have feelings for his prior girlfriend, that he is trying to forget her and he knows i am better than her, but he still cant stop loving...

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popocan I think you should just let it go if your boy friend has feeling for his ex. Don't waste your time on a person who has feelings for others, not worth it at all! He is a bad guy, he told you you're not enough for him to forget his ex, what a childish excuse!...

8 May 08

will you fall in love with a boy who is younger than you

xiaowen187 @xiaowen187 (426) • China 8 May 08

one of my classmate finished her love story with a sorphomore in our college, the boy is about 3 years younger than her. it can not be concluded definitly the reason was the age gap, but i believe, women should better fall in love...

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popocan I agree with you! All my ex are younger than me and I'm so sick of it cos I'm always the one to take care of everything. They all seemed to be matured when I first went out with, but gradually I felt like a mother or an older sister again and again rather than...

8 May 08

Give it up or wait for another chance?

icyoghurt @icyoghurt (48) • China 8 May 08

I have been working in a company for almost one year. But I feel more and more distresed in recent days. I don't like this job and feel scared to get up in the morning. But if i quit it i have no idea what i can do. I would like...

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popocan Don't quit until you find yourself a new job, the best way for you is to look for new job soonest possible whilst working. If you wanna be a teacher, just go ahead with it. You never know how far you can go if you don't try :)

8 May 08

No toilet paper what would you do?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 7 May 08

You are in a public bathroom and there is no toilet paper in the stall, you didn't realize it when you sat down, but now you are stuck, are you too shy to ask the person in the next stall to get you some? Do you rummage in your...

out of toilet paper

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popocan You're very brave, I don't think I'll risk any of those. I would rather phone up my family or friends for help as I always have a cell phone in my pocket. This is not a efficient way but it's better than asking strangers for help or else :)

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how many kind of languages do you speak every day

sophialin @sophialin (2677) • China 27 Apr 08

at home and at work? i speak chinese at home and english at work,coz i'm an english teacher of youth in a school. i hear that someone here can speak 3 to four languages as she was born in a multinational family.that's very...

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popocan I speak English at work cos many clients are foreigners in my work place. I speak both Cantonese and Malay at home cos my dad is Chinese and my mum is Malay. I also speak Mandarin if I go to Shenzhen for massage, but my Mandarin is limited :)

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Do you still eat together as a family?

ruthinian @ruthinian (2309) • United States 7 May 08

With the busy life we have now, I know meal time is always sacrificed if not, neglected. Everybody are in a hurry to leave home for work or school so breakfast is not a good meal to sit together as a family. Lunch, everyone is...

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popocan Same here, I never eat supper on my own! I always wait for my partner to get home and have supper together. And on every Saturday afternoon, my partner and I would join other members of the family for chinese tea. We all enjoy it very much, this is one of my...

8 May 08

Do you eat with your Stomach or with your Eyes?

LightninStrike @LightninStrike (5915) • Saint Vincent And The Grenadines 7 May 08

I obviously feel hungry now and then as any other person, so when i feel like that i eat if it's possible. But there are times in which i feel compelled to eat something just because it looks so great that my brain knows it has to...

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popocan It really depends, I would try to eat with my stomach because I don't wanna put on weight plus I don't wanna feel sick by eating too much if I have a meal or something before hand. It's better to listen to your stomach and I'm quite good at it :)

7 May 08

Would You Let Me Laugh At You?

minnie_98214 @minnie_98214 (10557) • United States 6 May 08

Okay I started a discussion about a painting mishap and asked for embarassing monents painting and well it was so much fun I want more. So whos gonna share their embarrassing moments with me? Mine well im gonna have to think of...

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popocan haha..this also happened to me in a few occassions, it's really quite embarassing :)

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That Moment In Your Life?

minnie_98214 @minnie_98214 (10557) • United States 26 Apr 08

So that moment in your life when............this is an open discussion what I want is what was the most memorable moment in your life? We see so much negativity on Mylot lately I want the happy side of things. Mine was of...

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popocan It was the day I got myself a decent job when I was still at Uni, I felt great cos I could manage to study and work both at the same time. My life just changed completely after I moved back to Hong Kong in 1997 - it was the time of Asian financial crises. I...

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Do you drink water before breakfast?

LucyZhang @LucyZhang (313) • China 14 Apr 08

Hi friends! Drink a glass of water before breakfast is good for our health. Water is absorbed quickly and stimulates drainage and clease the system. Do you always drink a glass of water before breakfast?

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popocan No, I don't I'm afraid cos I don't like the taste of water. I'm a tea and coffee drinker, I always make myself a cup of tea before going to work :)

7 May 08

Would You Let Me Laugh At You?

minnie_98214 @minnie_98214 (10557) • United States 6 May 08

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popocan One time I saw an old friend of mine on the street, I was about to say hello with my smiling face as I saw her smiling back at me, but then she walked passed me and talked to someone who she knows behind me... I waited there for seconds and she still didn't...

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How important is money for marriage?

headhunter525 @headhunter525 (3548) • India 6 May 08

The last time I broke up with my girlfriend was because I did not have enough money to make her happy. Since then I have been wondering how important is money for marriage. Ladies, do you think you can marry someone who cannot buy...

money

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popocan From my point of view, money is so important to me! It's very important for marriage as well as many other things in life. I always think that if couples don't have sufficient money to build a family, they then shouldn't get marry. I don't mean buying a house...

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Here I Go Being Cheap Again.

minnie_98214 @minnie_98214 (10557) • United States 30 Apr 08

I want to get some ideas from the wonderful people of Mylot. I know there are some great cooks out there so what are some good cheap and easy meal ideas. And just so you know im a lousy cook so nithing real fancy please as ill...

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popocan Do you eat rice? It's easy to make and good value for money. One of my favourite is fried eggs and sausages with boiled rice. I also add a bit of soya sauce on top for extra flavouring. Hope you like it :)

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Im Cheap Is That So Wrong?

minnie_98214 @minnie_98214 (10557) • United States 30 Apr 08

Some people seem to think that with a new baby on the way I should have all the best and I dont see the need. Im not broke but Im not rich either. Things are getting tighter for all of us. I plan to go generic for baby stuff and...

baby

cheap

green

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popocan It's not easy to raise a child, I think you're just being sensible, nothing cheap at all. Those green products are not only designed for good but also for your "money", so don't worry too much just do whatever you think is right for your family :)

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can you be friends with your EX who treated you so bad?

mkchaves @mkchaves (530) • Canada 1 May 08

i have this belief that when lovers broke up, you wont/cant be friends anymore. me and my bestfriend would argue about it because she wanted to be friends with her EX and i told her that she cant be friends with her EX after all...

friendship

love

relationship

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popocan I agree with you, your friend shouldn't stay friends with her ex, but love is blind. I guess your friend still has feeling for him. You've done you part as a friend, giving her the truthful advice. There's nothing you can do if she doesn't listen.

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