realaccess

@realaccess (31)

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What are you grateful for?

Porcospino @Porcospino (31365) • Denmark 27 Nov 10

Some time ago I wrote about the house that my husband and I had been looking at. We are interested in buying it and a few days ago we talked to the bank about the house. We need to borrow the money if we want to buy the house, and...

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realaccess Hi Porcospino, I am so happy that things worked out for you. Me, I am grateful for the God-given talents that I have and the increasing opportunities to use them. I am also grateful to my loving parents who nurtured my talents through early years. And my...

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Do you want your kids to get a job early?

Dezinated @Dezinated (45) • Canada 22 Nov 10

So myLotters, do you think it's a good idea to make your child get a job around the age of 14? I don't think it's a good idea because they have lots of homework and easily get stressed out. A job would put additional stress on...

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realaccess Our oldest of 3 sons turned 16 in April. He now has a job (Saturday and sometimes Sunday) in a local store. He loves it as he has a little financial independence. For me, it's a great experience of life out there and dealing with customers. He wants to be a...

23 Nov 10

Depressed

applejoy @applejoy (145) • Philippines 23 Nov 10

I'm totally depressed at the moment and i know I'm the only person who can help myself aside from other people's advices...how can i go away with such depression..how can i divert my mind..I'm so down, and suddenly just cry...

life

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realaccess Hi applejoy, sharing your current state is a great first step to finding the solution - well done! Only you know what it is that is making you sad. My question is whether you can do something about whatever it is, including talking it through (a problem...

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Why do we need Jesus?

juniorstringbean08 @juniorstringbean08 (455) • Philippines 22 Nov 10

Jesus desires to have a relationship with you and give you a life full of joy and purpose. He can walk into those places of past sin and failure, wipe the slate clean, and give you a new beginning, no questions asked! The Bible...

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realaccess Amen to that! Jesus lives and He is the Only Son of Our God of the Living (Matthew 22: 29-33). Adam represents the parting of ways (or duality) - the ability of Human's (formed in God's likeness) to choose. We have lost so much by pursuing the wrong dream....

22 Nov 10

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A unique topic-Alternate Dimensions

chocaly @chocaly (26) • Singapore 21 Nov 10

I wonder but it is just an assumption,whether an alternate dimension/alternate world exists.As through facts the big bang theory created the Earth we live in. However,is there a possibility that we are not in the only...

alternate dimension universe world possibility

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realaccess hi chocaly, The Laws of the Universe, particularly the Law of Attraction are all founded on the Universe as Energy/ God's creation. It is all about choices ( the essence of the Bilble is that God made humans in His own likeness but gave us the ability to...

21 Nov 10

how do meditation which good and right ?

advokatku @advokatku (4033) • Indonesia 6 Oct 10

did you ever learn to do meditation? Currently, I'm still learning and I don't yet feel maximum benefit from meditation. What I feel, after meditation 5-10 minutes, felt my forehead like throb. dizziness. If you often do...

meditation

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realaccess Hi advokatku, you shouldn't be feeling throbbing and dizziness after meditation. Stilling the mind will feel unnatural if you are feeing stressed out, that is yur mind is trying to cope with too many things. I'm not an expert but you might find the following...

21 Nov 10

Knockbacks

skmak110 @skmak110 (79) 8 Nov 10

How many people learn to thrive on Knockbacks? Can we really face rejection? When I was rejected years ago, that scenerio make me more determined to prove my abilities, it sharpens my competitiveness and it also gives me the zeal...

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realaccess History is full of inventors and entrepreurs who had countless failures before eventual success. Why? Because they treated each knockback as a learning, a need to do things differently next time. Negative emotion is a state of (conscious) mind. Of course we...

19 Nov 10

How often do you help others without expecting anything in return?

hardilaziz @hardilaziz (64) • India 17 Nov 10

Have you ever helped others without expecting anything in return? We tend to believe that if we help others we will be automatically rewarded. Life is not as smooth. I am convinced that bargaining is not for weak people. Beggars...

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realaccess Hi hardilaziz. Me, well all of the time. For me it's not about positions of strength. It is however about belief systems, ie your values and your subconscious. You are what you believe. However, until everyone shifts to a point of helping others, I guess you...

19 Nov 10

Regretting does not solve anything in life....

raviteja_ravi84 @raviteja_ravi84 (2619) • India 18 Nov 10

Do you think regretting something can bring that something back together again? It doesn't right? Then why do people regret most of the times. I see most of them thinking that maybe they should have done that then their life...

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realaccess We live in an abundant world full of infinite possibilities - I too live in the Now. Eghart Tolle's The Power of Now is a recommended read. I have no regrets as I live in the present and don't look back (well, very often). The key for me also lies in THe...

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I am white sheet of paper..

hestylim @hestylim (1209) • Indonesia 17 Nov 10

I can't even word out my own opinion. I am totally blank. I love writing. I do. I had realized it few years ago.. And I always want to publish my own book. But it hasn't happened yet. I have this ambition to a writer. I do...

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realaccess Hi Hesttylim, I know this may sound crazy but nothing is impossible. Your mind is attracting blank because that's what it's focussing on. My tip, take a break, still your mind, say for 15 mins. If thoughts come into your head, observe them (don't get involved...

17 Nov 10

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how i can become rich?

shuklaankit93 @shuklaankit93 (205) • India 15 Nov 10

friends please tell me how i can become rich in short time?

rich

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realaccess You aint gonna get rich quick unless you get very lucky. Take a look at a couple of Books that might help - "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne on the Law of Attraction or Napoleon Hill's "Think and Grow Rich". Good luck. -D

16 Nov 10

What made you love football?

rappeter13 @rappeter13 (8608) • Romania 16 Nov 10

I know that I haven't loved football from the beginning. As a matter of fact I have hated it, but because my brother was so fanatical about it, he made me to play football with him and I began loving it and now I am more fanatical...

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realaccess I seem always to have been involved in football; playing, as a fan and then as a coach. I did try rugby but broke my collar bone just a few games in so gave that up. I guess I love football for the passion, the need to get behind your team and it's a great...

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being a good listener can proof many problem!

ontenjuliantini @ontenjuliantini (36) • Indonesia 16 Nov 10

I am a student from an university which not really very well known in around the world. but, sometimes in every university or each university, particularly in the campus, we have a lot of same problems that we get from the...

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realaccess Hi Ontenjuliantini,You do have to be a good listener but remember that we all have dfferent learning preferences - some people by hearing, others by reading, some by practical work and most probably we all use a combination. And be aware your understanding is...

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